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writes: ok so i am like at a wall and this wall is very tall.....metaphore as in i want to start a new life i just want to move to the oddest place and get you know just a regular ol job just decent. i want to just do things i never thought i would ever do. i wanna be important. i swear i have the most energy,intelligence,life,strength,and happiness that could ever be in a human body. i know that i am doing the total oppisite of what i should be doing. somebody or something needs me. i promise i could take anything you can throw at me. i want to be something "incredible". i just need help anything at all. i just dont know what to do. you could say that its just a dream but i dont really beilieve in dreams i believe in real life, i dont under stand how humans "all" have made the world the way it is, it is outragous i honestly dont see how we have came as far as we have. i just dont know how life wants me to treat it. well thanks for reading i want you yourself to reply to my add and tell me what you think, please. Reply to this Question
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reader, odeer123  +, writes (9 June 2010):
 Anthony Robbins. Maybe you already know him, but he's great.In any case, dreaming of things won't get you far... you need to be in your state of enthusiasm, energy and happiness when life throws the worst at you. You must be able to condition yourself when the time arises for you to be what you need to be.You must be able to access that energy whatever you're doing and feeling and where ever you are. It takes hard work. I suggest working on your mental attitude is the first step you must take. If you can remould how you think then you can do anything. Trust me.Since you've been unspecific about where you want your life to lead, what I've said is kind of the only advice I can give you.Life is a wonderful thing, you are right to want to take advantage of it! Extreme sports is an excellent an exciting way to experience so many of the worlds marvels. Take a look at 'proximity flying' and you'll see what I mean.Be pro-active!! The benefits of doing this are extremely UNDER-RATED! In addition to this never, ever procrastinate. You said yourself you want to be incredible and experience the incredible- well this is the way to go about it. Find a carreer path you want to follow and then follow it with all your might! Find a girl who you love and love her with all your migtht! Do all the things you want to do, but it is essential that you keep a balance of productive and non-productive actions. You can definitely have too much of either.I wish you all the best for the future. The world needs more people like you - be sure not to lose your way.
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (9 June 2010):
 I'm confused... you want a regular ol job, but you want to be incredible at it? Try doing an online career test maybe and see if that points you in a direction worthy of your awesomeness.
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reader, k_c100  +, writes (9 June 2010):
 Well what are you good at? What do you enjoy doing?
There is no point in dreaming about being "incredible" if you have no idea what you could be "incredible" at!
It is good to be ambitious and determined, and to have a strong idea of what you want from life. But the next step is to figure out what it is that you want to do. We dont know you personally so we cannot suggest what you should be doing, all we can say is to follow your dreams and do whatever you can to achieve everything you want in life.
And that you must be prepared to be knocked back on occasions, be prepared for things not to always run smoothly and to be ready sometimes to do boring, dull things in order to get where you want to be in the end. Nothing is handed to you on a plate so you need to take your life into your own hands and make things happen.
You really need to elaborate a bit more if you want some detailed help here - you dont say what you are doing at the moment, you dont say if you have a girlfriend or anything, you dont say if you are in education or have finished school/college, you dont really say anything about yourself apart from this idea of being "incredible". Maybe if you could give a bit more detail I might be able to help you more.
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