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writes:Twisted r/ship - I broke up with the father of my son an he got married, recently I got a new bf who has a galfriend, we visit each other but on the other side my former bf came back, not for good but he pays rent and fees, claiming that he will one day come back for good! I am mixed up and I want to look for another guy and leave the others. Please advise coz I am tired.
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reader, Waiting for an angel  +, writes (22 June 2010):
I think you should focus on your son rather than other man.
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reader, Little tiny girl +, writes (22 June 2010):
 Well tell the guy (the one that is the father of ur child) that u don't love him anymore n u only want him around ur kid n to help pay rent n the other guy (who has a girlfriend already) tell him that u just want to move on and if u still have feelings for the man that is the father of ur child try to work it out with him but if u don't have feelings for him just move on and take care of ur kid and hopefully u will find someone better.
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reader, Tashie08  +, writes (22 June 2010):
Your poor son,if you're feeling mixed up imagine how he must feel!! regardless of whether he pays the bills, you are sleeping with 2 blokes who both have psrtners, and what kind of role is that setting for your son? Star standing on your own two feet, and leave them, it sounds like you have already made your mind up that that's what you want to do, and start leading a life that both you and your son can be proud of. no one else in the world matters.
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reader, Lola1  +, writes (22 June 2010):
 Hmmm.... Have you tried leaving the others and looking to either find a new boyfriend or having none at all for a while? Or, in other words, what is keeping you from doing that?
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