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Is she just using me for childcare, or is she going to have me back?

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Question - (22 June 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 23 June 2010)
A male United Kingdom age 41-50, *hriskerman writes:

i have been with my partner for 12 years and have 3 kids she started seeing somone behind my back when i found out she kicked me out and moved him in. i want her back and she said she thinks she wants me back and asks me to come round every day when he is at work to help with the kids but she is still sleeping with him and i have been waiting for 2 months now. should i keep waiting to see if she will have me back or is she just useing me and stoping me from moveing on?

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A female reader, Gabrielle Stoker United States +, writes (23 June 2010):

Gabrielle Stoker agony auntIf there is a more obvious case of a person using another, i've yet to see it.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (23 June 2010):

You're being used if I ever saw it. Sorry, but you need to stop being this woman's doormat. Screw her and take her to court and just get her out of your life.

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A female reader, Spades Canada +, writes (23 June 2010):

Spades agony auntSounds like shes got in made right now. Boyfriend and free day care.

Stop waiting on her to make up her mind. Make up yours. I think it's time to move on. Keep in contact with your children, but don't keep making yourself out to be a doormat.

I hope that helped. Good luck.

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