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female
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anonymous
writes:I know this seems really elementary but I like this guy who just recently graduated. He's sweet, he's liked by everyone, and he's a wrestler. Only problem is he has a girlfriend who he doesn't speak of to his closest friends, and when I talked to him last, we brought up a mutual friend who likes me (possibly obsessed.. I've seen his car drive by my house). But he refrained from putting a good word in (he's nice etc etc). The conversation automatically turned to me and what kind of guy I'm looking for. He even said he'll "look out for one for me"I've had a feeling he liked me before, but I'm just not sure anymore. Even worse I feel horrible for liking another girl's boyfriend. So should I give up on the guy or wait for a breakthrough (or break up) ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionNo it's not, but I understand it. I should never waste my time waiting on a wanted man :). I guess I'll just let things happen as they come.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2010): I wouldn't wait around for him. He is taken. Yes he may like you or be interested in you, but you shouldn't make a move, have any sort of expectations or even wait for him. Go live life, meet other guys. If he wants something, he's the one who should make a move since he's the one who's taken. If he does the right thing, he will break up with his gf and ask you out.
If he doesn't, don't wait around, you don't want to be the other woman and you don't want to be the source of tension between him and his girlfriend.
Sorry, probably not what you want to hear....
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