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*nickx
writes:Just really quick. Im 17, girl in question is 16.I met this girl and her friends maybe a month ago at a graduation party, about a week before my 7 month relationship ended. Since we broke up, we only hung out once (were supposed to hang out another time, but i felt it was too close to the break up and i didnt want the wrong message sent to anyone). This weekend we went midnight bowling and i think it went pretty well. She specifically asked me to go as her date (it was me her and 4 of her friends). We both had fun, by the end of the night we held hands, cuddled, and when i had to go for the night, (just getting out of a relationship, and forgetting i wasnt with my ex) instinctively/accidentally kissed her on the top of her head while i was hugging her goodbye. Im not really sure how she reacted cuz i paniced and got in my car. But i dont think it was bad cuz she texted me at 1am when she got home. i know her and one of her friends were talking about me everytime i left her to bowl because as soon as i got back the topic would switch, and 2 of her friends that were dating were making out and knowing that it made me slightly uncomfortable (only because i had 2 people i just met basically dry humping in the seat next to us) and they were doing it all night so towards the end of the night she jumped in my lap and started jokingly imitating them, and pretended to kiss my neck and everything and told them to stop because how did they like it.Also, multiple times throughout the night her friends would make comments whenever i would do something for her like "wow you have him trained already", so it seems to me like they think we started dating, or atleast that she likes me.but then things throw me off like sometimes she wont text me back (and its not like im pushy about it, ill text her hey one day and if she doesnt answer ill wait 2 or 3 days before texting her again, and she'll answer) altho she did tell me when she first gave me her number to not take it personally if she doesnt answer, she usually never checks her phone, but still if she was into me, why wouldnt she initiate it once and a while.Or when we were bowling, i came back to a conversation where she was talking about how someone (didnt catch who it was) stopped talking to her because she was talking to a chris. Now i know what they say about assuming, but talking here seems likes its used in the sense of trying to date. idk.Im fairly sure she has pretty sound moral values tho cuz one of the first days she ever texted me was the day before i broke up with my ex, and i knew i was going to end it, and suggested something along the lines of a relationship, and she pretty much made known that she hated cheaters so im fairly sure she wouldnt cheat. And also went as far as walking me out to my car when i had to go after i insisted it wasnt neccissary, but she didnt want to be rude.I mean she's flirty, outgoing, and i really cant figure her out. She's doing a really good job at keeping me guessing. But im not sure if since she's flirty shes just treating me as a friend (ive seen her with single guy friends and its not the same, but maybe?) id normally ask one of her friends but the only one of her friends that gave me her number i know likes me, and i a) dont want to hurt her or b) dont want her to go behind anyones back and mess anything up.And i also dont want to keep bothering her texting if she doesnt want me to bother her. Anyone had any experience with girls like this? Please and thanksxnickx
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reader, xnickx +, writes (23 June 2010):
xnickx is verified as being by the original poster of the question Yeah i dont text her that much maybe ten times a day maybe 3 days a week, and usually only to set up plans for the week or to see whats up. I text her friends more to see if they'll let anything slip about her liking me lol.
We're hopefully catching a movie sometime next week cuz shes away this weekend. Oh well.
THanks
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reader, baybee-x-sparkii  +, writes (22 June 2010):
 Hey love :)
Try for another day out, that way you can either keep her guessing or work her out for yourself, the signs are looking good however I wouldn't want to assume too quickly, and if you like her as well your setting yourself up for a good equation, Cut down the texting and see if she's initiating after this- however texting is not all its cracked up to be! The change of conversation could also be the fact that your new in her life and feels a little uncomfortable- give her time she'll open up :)
Good luck :)
SB :) x
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