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*onfusedlover10
writes:[MODERATOR NOTE: PLEASE BE A LITTLE MORE SPECIFIC. WHAT IS AN EXAMPLE OF 'GIVING HIM YOUR HEART'? WHAT DOES HE THINK HE IS MISSING WITHOUT 'HAVING YOU LOVE HIM/HAVING YOUR HEART'?]well, the problem is that i have a bf and we've been dating for almost 2mths now. he wants me to give my heart to him but im just not ready for that and i've told him this numerous times but he just doesn't wanna take no for an answer and try to understand my reason for saying no. he wants me to give him my heart by trusting him 100% and to love him with all of my heart. i do trust him but i just don't love him as much as he loves me. the reason why i don't wanna give my heart to him is b/c i've done it before and i ended up getting hurt all of those times and i dont want another repeat of those situations. but its like he wants everything to go his way and its like he doesn't care about my feelings at all or what i have to say. i dont know what he thinks he is missing but im guessing its the fact that i cnt return the love that gives to me. what should i do? im on the verge of breaking up with him b/c i think this is best but he still doesnt wanna hear what i have to say. i've tried my hardest to love him but i just cant. no matter what i tell him, he doesn't wanna except what im telling im i just cant take it anymore. should i leave? and if so what do i tell him, since he doesnt wanna listen to what i say? Reply to this Question
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reader, Elydiese  +, writes (23 June 2010):
You say you've only been dating 2 months so its natural not to be so madly in love with him right now. Try talking to him again telling hi that it is still the early stage of the relationship and that if he stops pestering you then maybe one day you will feel the same as he does, i think its wrong he is pushing this on you, if you dont feel this way about him yet he should wait just go with the flow you know let it come naturally if he cant accept that i think your right to break up with him
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (23 June 2010):
 You can't force love, so why be with him if you know you can't love him the way he wants?
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