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writes:hi everyone l'm 22yrs lam in a relationship with my bfd 4 2yrs nowl need some advice me and my bfd we stayed for 2mnts without seeing each other but communicating over the phone.last week he came to my place then we went to his place.everything was ok.he was watching soccer l went upstairs to sleep l sow a courtbed,a dish and a towel for a newborn child.l asked if he is seeing someone else he said no then l asked if he have a newborn child.he said how can he have a newborn child while l dodn't want to give him one,then he said why am l asking him that l told him that l sow a courtbed,dish and a towel for a newborn child in his bedroom,first he said so if their is the things for a newborn child does that mean it's his child secondly he said he just bought those thing may be one day l will be pregnant.he said what if when l get pregnant he wont have the money to buy those things.l dont know if he is telling the truth but if he is why he didn't put those things in one of the spare bedroms.Since l have been refusing to get pregnant for him does that mean he is cheating on me.l dont know what to do l love him so much l don't wanna loose him l do wanna be pregnant for him but l want him to marry me first but him he want me to be pregnant first.What must l do
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reader, Waiting for an angel  +, writes (22 June 2010):
Dont have a child jst bcuz he wants one. And its weird he bought those things jst in case one day he has a child , men dont do those things unless you're already expecting a baby and even then ... Becareful its something to be worried about. And also dont force him to marry you, for what? So later in your marriage he'll cheat on you bcuz he didnt want to commit. Dont force things if its meant to be it will be but only time will tell.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2010): Well, to be totally honest it I find it hard to believe he bought those newborn child things just in case he one day has a baby.
If you really love him tell him you are ready to be pregnant for him as long as he marries you.
If he really loves you, and wants to have a child with you, he will marry you.
Don't worry about if he has another baby or not, just don't get pregnant with him until he marries you. And if he does decide to marry you before you actually do it, make sure he is totally honest with you about everything.
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