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writes: Okay well, I just broke up with this amazing guy. We were only dating for a month, but he made me feel special, he made me feel like I was worth something. Anyways, I broke up with him because he was talking to his ex and he started talking to me less and not wanting to hang out as much. I know he still had strong feelings for her even though she cheated on him, but they've been broken up for over 6months and she has a boyfriend that she is totally in love with, so I thought I didn't have to worry about her. I guess I was wrong... I asked him if he had been talking to her, he said yeah she texted him saying she missed him and stuff, he said he still liked her. So I told him I can't be in a relationship with someone when I know they want someone else. He loves her, how could he ever love me, I just can't compete. He said it's hard to have a girlfriend when you love someone else. So we decided its best we aren't together. I miss him so much, we use to always talk and text but we haven't talked since the minute we broke up which was almost a week ago, it hurts... I want to talk to him again, I just don't know if I should, would it be bad if I did? Did I do the right thing by breaking up with him, even though he won't be able to get her back anyway...
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you soo much for taking the time to answer this. It really means a lot to me. I wanted to talk to him last night, but than I read this and it made me realize I shouldn't. Thanks again, I appreciat it :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2010): I don't think you should contact him. Especially since he said that it's hard to have a girlfriend when you love someone else. I mean it looks like he made a decision. I think you need to try to move on and forget about getting back with him and try not to have expectations of anything happening again. As hard as it is, you just need time. You've done yourself a very good thing here by realizing and understanding the situation and getting out as early as you can. You seem very mature for your age. And you are still so young, you'll definitely meet other people and find someone who loves YOU and wants to be with you :)
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