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writes: Background: I just finished my senior year in high school dating this guy David for like six months now and it's been great. I'm not always an easy person to deal with owing to my bi-polar adhd-ness but he's been the only one to make me happy. But I can't stop thinking about my ex Conner. I dated Conn for 3 months he dumped me but we kept on hooking up for the rest of the year (my junior year)and he eventually lost his virginity to me. over the summer he ignored me and even when i got a false positive on a pregnancy test he still ignored me. Senior year I started dating David. Conn and i were friends but nothing serious. He's moved on - (aka been a total jerk to me, laughing at me, telling me to f*** off when ever i sit near him) But when school ended David and i went to see a movie, but he was late. Conn was just leaving there and we had sex while i waited for David. I told David and he wasn't mad at me he was mad at Conn for being a jerk.Question: was Conn just using me for my body, since he knows i'm not over him yet? Does he actually want to get back with me? What do I do, since David, Conn and I happen to be going to the same college next year?
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reader, *brea//babbby.  +, writes (22 June 2010):
 You shouldn't want to be involved with a man that is that rude to you. Maybe you just can't get over him because you put out and do not want to feel used when you really weren't so much used as you were taken. You should not cheat on your boyfriend, tell your boyfriend you are still inlove with the jerk guy.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (22 June 2010):
You were used. And in cheating, you have proved yourself unworthy at this time to be in a relationship. Bi-polar is an illness, but it's no excuse to cheat. Right now, you should be single and focusing on your own life.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI'm that kind of all over the place girl, and recents tests say that my chemicals are back in balance but there isn't anything I can do. Thank ya for your response though
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reader, fishy fish +, writes (22 June 2010):
Yes i think he's using u, no man in love disrespects his girl telling her to f... off , u should open a new chapter with david now that he forgave ur infidelity , it seems he's a nice guy and into u. Plz forget about this conner guy, he's bad news, and if i were u i would completely cut touch with him. Respect is what matters , whether in a relationship or friendship! Good luck
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