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writes:Ok so just recently I have really noticed my best friends sister hanging out alot and being very flirty towards me but just last night we spent a considerable amount of time together and she told me she "kinda likes me". I have actually liked her for some time, but i dont want to ruin my friendship. please take into consideration that I am really attracted to her for her personality and i don't want to just "get with her" She is 18, my best friend is 19 and I'm 20.Is there any way i can pursue this? I'm very interested in her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2010): I think theres a very good possibility that this could work out. If you like her as much as you say you do, then I dont think your friend would mind, especially if he is your best friend.
What you shouldnt do, however, is try to go behind his back because that would be the worst thing you could ever do to him, and the fastest way to end the friendship.
You should talk to him first, and tell him that your not trying to hurt anyone and that you just really like her. Like I said, if he is your best friend then he should understand.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2010): If you two like each other, then you will need to essentially put aside loyalty to the brother for now.
You must let it be known to him that you are both serious about this, and whilst you value his friendship immensely, you are not backing down from this.
If he is any friend at all he will be a little annoyed but will step back and let the relationship go ahead without problems.
Its if you break up that real trouble may arise.
Flynn 24
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