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male
age
30-35,
*7andconfused
writes:Hello, My quesion today is very important to me! The situation im involved in consist of these events. I met a 17 year old girl at a Party on Friday night, and we just conversed among ourselfs for about an hour. and I mentioned remembering her comments on one of my Mypsace Pictures that had said, "your so hot". her and I had never hung out together before, but she attended the same high school as me before I graduated, and I had seen her and have some of the same friens. After some time she left the party with her best friend and we exchanged numbers. The next day(Saturday)She texted me bright and early asking how my night was and general talk. Her and I didn't end up hanging out the entire day. On Sunday we texted eachother all day. At about One O'Clock A.M. she called me saying she was with her best friend and one of my male acquaintances from school. She said she wanted to come over, so her and her friends came over. When they came over we all started drinking and hanging out as a quad in my room. Eventually we ended up on my bed. The two girls laid on their stomachs while my acquaintance and i massaged their backs. While i was massaing her she was rubbing my legs and really enjoying herself. The other two in the bed, besides the girl and I started kissing and went out into the living room. The girl and i started Kissing, and alot of things with our clothes on and she wouldnt let me do much more. We did this from 3 O'clock until 5 o'clock in the morning. We fell asleep afterwards and woke up together. We hung out in the morning and everthing was good, she was and always is really flirty towards and me giving me signs. Then tonight (Monday) her and I hung out form 6 O'clock until Midnight and had a blast we went out to eat with her friends. In front of her friends she looked at me and said,"im in a sexual frustration". Her Best friend was with, and her best friend knows what happend, because she told her. So here s the Catch. She has a boyfriend, and yes i did know this from the get go and i know her boyfriend. They have been dating a few weeks and he was at the lake all weekend. Now my question is. How can i increase the chance of dating her.
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reader, savixx  +, writes (22 June 2010):
Thinking only of you, not of her here:
You seriously don't want to get involved with a girl who keeps you as her 'spare'.
If she thinks she can get away with having fun with you on the side, then you are not being taken seriously.
Tell her outright that you need her to be perfectly straight with everyone- with you and the boyfriend.
Explain that you don't want to be her 'thing on the side' and that you don't think that either you or she is worth that. Make sure she knows that oyu want something more, not less!!
Give her time to think about what she really wants- but if she's keeping you hanging longer that a week then thats not fair on you. Tell her she can come back to you.
Don't carry on anything with her unless she breaks up with boyfriend first, otherwise she is using both of you.
She obviously isn't sure what to do, but she definately wants you in some way or another, hence her word ''frustration''!
You don't want to play any games, so keep it honest all the time!
You wanna increase your chances? Be totally comfortable with yourself, don't compare your self to current b/f, and that way you'll know whether she is worth your efforts!
Good Luck!
xx
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female
reader, baybee-x-sparkii  +, writes (22 June 2010):
 Hey love :)
Loooks a bit messy from where I'm sitting, but if your going to try and win her over, just be yourself and let her do the leg work- she's got the boyfriend after all. If she wants you as badly as it seems then SHE needs to dump her boyfriend and tell her how she feels. Your the one with the feelings already so let her do the work. If she knows about your feelings already then she just has to dump him if she wants you.
You both obviously like each other- just go with the flow of it. And try not to overthink the boyfriend, who knows you might not know the full story
Good luck :)
SB :) x
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