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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:i started getting along really well with this guy who i never thought i would. time passes and we got closer and closer and we started to develop feelings for each other. he told me about his feelings and i told him that i felt the same way so we organised to go out for a drink. when we were out we both got a bit drunk and i started talking about past relationships, he got really offended by this and now he wont even talk to me, i really need help because the more he doesnt talk to me the more my feelings grow.thanks x
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (22 June 2010):
 I say, better now then later. If he doesn't like the fact that you have a past he's not for you. Let him go.
Also, dragging up the past is not the best conversations, honestly.
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reader, Lola1  +, writes (22 June 2010):
 It's possible your past history changed the idea of you he'd formed in his head. I would tend to think that it is more about talking about past relationships on a first date is bad form, as is getting drunk and talking about your past and its related baggage, be it relating to past relationships or not.
Ignoring you out-right and not allowing you to apologize is also bad form.
Chalk this up to experience, learn from it and move forward. I agree with big ron when he suggested this boy is insecure and overly sensitive. He'd be high maintenance.
Good luck.
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