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writes:hey, im getin fed up ov being alone. when i go out dont get me wrong i do "pull" bt it never leads to a realtionship. all my friends have no problems in getin one but i havent had a serious boyfriend since i was 15. i feel alone and feel as i am goin 2 be like this forever. i know it sounds silly bit its making me feel so down and to make it worse my friends seem to be to busy with there boyfriends to both with me what should i do ?? Reply to this Question
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reader, person12345  +, writes (23 June 2010):
 You're incredibly young, so stop worrying. I'm 22 and I've only ever had one serious relationship, and it's not because I'm not pretty or smart or whatever. My one relationship is still going and is great, because I was very picky. My friends who had lots of serious relationships before their 20s ALL ended up with broken hearts and lots of regrets multiple times. We've all been there, the only single girl in a group of coupled friends. It's rough, but getting into a relationship with the wrong guy is much worse. Don't worry about it. If you're nearing retirement and still haven't found someone, it may be time to try a dating service. But you're still very young and will find someone. Don't date the wrong guys just to avoid being alone. That's much worse than being alone. Relax and have fun. Enjoy your youth.
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reader, Spades  +, writes (23 June 2010):
 I've seen this a lot, so I'm going to say to you what I said to them.
You are not alone.
People are attracted to us when we are happy and doing fun, intertesting things. Do things for yourself. Things that make you happy. Live you life, be youself and you'll meet someone along the way.
Best of luck. Hope that helped.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (23 June 2010):
Stop worrying. That's the first thing. Good guys can sense a woman who is worried, or a woman who is seemingly desperate and it scares us. You're still a young woman, and you have plenty of time to search for the right guy, rather than just any guy. Just relax, meet different people and take your time. Otherwise you'll either not find the right guy, or you'll find the wrong guy.
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