A
female
age
30-35,
*endra0589
writes:I met this guy a few months ago and he seems okay. We lost contact for about a month but recently we've been talking and things seemed to be going okay for a while since we've been talking the entire month and a half. Recently whenever I text him it takes him two hours to text back or he doesn't text back period. He is usually at work when I text but since he works outside on houses he can text freely. For some reason he never texts me when he gets home but he claims he's tired even though he works 6 days a week. He is going through a divorce that will be final in August he says nbut who knows. I really like him but he kinda ignores me he never texts or call unless I do. I text him everyday and I started to feel like I was clingy so I told him I would cool out a while and give him space. He told me "No" he didn't want space if he did he would ask for it and that if I waited days to call or text then there was no need to contact him again. What is a girl to do since when I do text him he never responds like he should or pick up the phone! So I got fed up and exploded on him and told him how I felt about the way he acts in a text. I have done this more than a few times and he told me that I complain and bi*ch too much. As usual I apologized and when I texted him again today he didn't text. My friend told me to just not text or call for a few days and let him miss me. I'm 21 years old and I'm not into those silly games. I've had my heart broken too much and I refuse to let it happen again that's why I'm always so fussy and maybe even bi*chy. I work alot too but it never stops me from picking up the phone. I always feel deperate when I text him and I normally don't act this way. I've tected him 3 times and no response so I'm done this is crazy. I got this weird feeling he's not interested in me anymore because I'm not a dumb as he probably thinks. What should I do. Thanks.
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reader, JulietCumberland  +, writes (23 June 2010):
If its gonna happen it would have happened already, don't you think? I mean he may like you, and you're not into all those games, but he is, obviously. You shouldn't be the one chasing him, if he is even worth having as a bf he should care about you and want you. Give him time to go through this divorce, leave him, let him be the one to contact you first. I bet if you stopped texting him he would text you, for once. Give that a try and remember you young and free, don't go wasting your time on people who don't want you 3 Best of luckJuliet xoxox
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