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writes:Hi everyone, alright so I've liked this guy for two years already, and I'm in high school... last year he was in one of my classes second semester. He used to walk me out of class, and always turn around and say my name and smile at me (etc.) So, I was beginning to like him, and one day I was working in a group with my friends and his name came up in the conversation, and they had said that they heard from a source (a.k.a his good friend)that he liked me, and thought I was really cool. (Thing is, I never really found out if he had a crush on me, or just wanted to be friends.) So I started noticing the little things he would do, and it became more clear to me that he liked me, and I started to really like him back. Then exams came, and we just completely stopped talking. I had no idea why; we didn't get in a fight or whatever...(we were never that close, but we had a great friendship in class.) Then grade 10 came along, and it got completely awkward between us, I had zero classes with him, and the only contact we had, was when we both stared at each other in the halls. Long story short, near the end of the year, he kind of started talking to me again at little random occasions at school, and one of his friends had told my best friend that he was incredibly shy (in a random conversation they had.) So my question is, should I just forget about him over the summer, I still really like him, and I use to think he liked me, but now I have absolutely no idea, and I don't know what to do. My sister said that he probably wants to just be friends, but that was really brutal, and I felt terrible after she told me that, but she was just trying to be truthful. Please help! P.s. I'm so sorry that this was obnoxiously long.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2010): Hey girlie! Boys are definitely hard cases to crack! Sometimes a guy will act this way when he likes you.. and sometimes he'll act this way because he's not sure if he likes you as a friend or something more. You're young.. have fun this summer and enjoy yourself/friends/relaxing! If you feel like being brave, invite him out when a group of your guy and girl friends are going to dinner or just hanging out at the pool. Give him opportunities outside of class to talk to you so he can get to know the real you in a casual, non-committal way. My advice would be to not "forget" about him over the summer but just have fun and let what happens, happen! I wish you the best of luck honey! :)
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reader, janniepeg +, writes (22 June 2010):
 You are wasting a lot of time wondering if he likes you or not. Reading your post made me hate school (that was more than 10 years ago). Once you get out of school, you'll notice how easy it is to get into a relationship and that you can still pick and choose.
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