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writes: I'm 20 I've been dating this guy 'Jake' for 3 year now and about 2 months ago he proposed. I said yes. later that day though I had sex with his brother 'Cody'. Jake and I have NOT had sex. Point is that I'm pregnant and the only person I've had sex with is Cody. How do i tell my fiance I'm pregnant from his brother? Should I avoid the whole thing and get an abortion? How do I tell Cody?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2010): Lol...
Is this a joke? I guess we will be seeing this unfold this week on Jerry Springer. Can I ask how and why you decided to do this if this is real?
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reader, Gabrielle Stoker  +, writes (22 June 2010):
 'Later that day', eh? Poor old Jake. So you've dated him for 3 years and never put out...and you slept with his brother day he proposed to you?
Do Jake a huge favor, would you? Break the engagement.
You should probably also tell him everything. He deserves to know that he can't trust his own flesh and blood any more than he can trust the woman he's wasted 3 years of his life on.
As for an abortion - that's your call.
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reader, ManAfterChrist +, writes (22 June 2010):
 Later that day?? Dang... Well, I think you need to face this head on. Tell your fiancée and his brother of the pregnancy. Your fiancée will feel betrayed by two very close people in his life, but both you and his brother will be forced to face the truth and not cover it up. Honesty and trust make the foundation for a relationship, so if your fiancée can overcome this betrayal, you may grow to have a beautiful marriage. Best of luck to you in this horrible situation.
And if he can't get over it, and kicks you to the curb... well... you made your decision.
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