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writes:Hola cupidsI have been with my boyfriend for about a year and well i had this best friend in school, a guy mate. And anyhooo i fell in love with him and at the time he had a girlfriend so i didnt interupt them. But they broke up after about four years. I told him how i felt and he said he only saw me as a friend and so i moved on (succesfuly) and im now in lov with my boyfriend. We talked after we got together and my best friend said that i didn't love him (meaning my boyfriend) as this was about like six months into the relationship, i told him of how i love my boyfriend and he asked me to stop so idid. recently my best friend contacted me because we hadn't spoken in like months and he said he had some major problems going on at th moment. I said we should meet up and talk and we were both like goign to my friends party so we decided to meet up there, i took my bf and i ended up not leaving his side i didnt get to talk to my best freiend and he asked me why i hand t moved from my boyfriend like all night, i said because he doesn't know anyone. My girl friends have all said that they always thought he fancied me and that maybe now i dont want him anymore he likes me. He was kinda upset that we didn't get to talk, we used to like always go to each other when we were in school and had problems. I just dont understand why he's so adament he has to talk to me and why did he tell me to stop when i told him i love my boyfriend and the reasons.
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reader, Lostaslight islostinlight +, writes (23 June 2010):
He still may not like you. He just may not like you with some othe guy more. He wants to benefit from your advice, wisdom, etc., etc., but he needs to understand that you can only completely devote yourself to 1 person, and it only makes sense for that to be the person you're with. Maybe he is a little jellin' right now, but I wouldn't read too much into it. Guys know how to get what they want, and you already gave him his opportunity, and he let it pass him by.
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