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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My boyfriend says we're only friends!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5273 days ago

13 July 2010 (F)

age - for the first time in my life I am so seriously discouraged, I wonder what I can do to cheer myself up. They say publish or perish, but while you try to publish, your relationship perishes. Men run away from women struggling to make it in the Arts. Now my bf says we're only fri... (78 words)

Need to spice up our sex life after 16years, how??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5275 days ago

13 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Please help, how can I spice up my sex life with my fiance of 16 years?... (16 words)

Does he hate me or does he like me?

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13 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I was staying with my cousin but he would totally ignore me. The only time he didn't ignore me was when I was next to him or when we were alone. It seemed like he liked me but it also seemed like we were cousins. He would drink from my pop so would my other cousin so nothing ... (239 words)

I still love my ex-boyfriend, and my current boyfriend keeps pressuring me for sex!

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13 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so i really dont know what to do and i really need help. I had a bf before whose my ex taht i really still care for kinda care for and im kinda guy crazy. my ex is extremely sweet. not sex crazy like the guys now a days.hes respectful of my body because of a time that we ... (182 words)

I think my sister saw me!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

13 July 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey, well here's the deal. When I was in my room with the door closed, I was watching some porn.. with my penis showing and in erection. I wasn't masturbating but my sis pushed the door, she didn't look directly and walked off. I'm traumatized that she may have saw me. How do I ... (107 words)

Why do I keep bleeding after sexual intercourse ?

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13 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hello , imm 15 years old and i had sexual intercourse with my boyfriend for the first timee , my boyfriend fingered me couple times and everything was alright , thann about 2 weeks ago he fingered me again and i started bleeding , we thought it was my period .. thann we tried ... (84 words)

Because of his ex, he mistrusts me and brings those issues to our relationship, how do we solve this??

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13 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am madly in love with my boyfriend, but we recently had a terrible disagreement. You see him and I have been seeing one another for going on 2 years. We have never had a verbal fight, neither he nor I have raised our voices nor cursed at one another. You see if there is ... (304 words)

Not happy with my weight

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13 July 2010 (?) age 30-35 - I am a tiny 4' 10.5". When I was in middle-high school, I weighed about 82-89 lbs. As an adult (almost 22) I've weighed around 92-95. Which wasn't bad, I didn't think. I've got very large breasts and wide hips and a good sized butt. I've always warn 0-00 petite or XSmall. ... (191 words)

When can a girl squirt?

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13 July 2010 (?) age 41-50 - Can a girl only squirt when she is having an orgasm? My bf fingered me the other day and I squirted for the first time but I didn't have an orgasm and I'm 100% sure that it wasn't pee?... (39 words)

Should I tell my ex that I miss him?

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13 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Should i tell my ex i miss him? Him and I dated for 1 yr and 1/2 it was a very intense relationship, he dedicated everything to me wanted to marry me wrote sayings about me was just head over heals for me well for a lot of reasons we ended up splitting up. He got a girlfr... (425 words)

Ex promised to go 1/2 on baby supplies but now he doesn't want to pay!

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13 July 2010 (F)

- Me and my ex are having a row about money and maintainence payments four our 4 month old son. Basically, we split when I was pregnant but he told me he would help me raise our child and pay his way. We agreed to go splits on baby stuff and he would pay me £250 per month ... (306 words)

I think about him constantly, and him about me..but he is with someone else!!

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13 July 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My ex and I have been broken up since End of Nov. 2009. He immediately started dating someone and after 6 months of no contact shows up to my work and says he still cares for me and that he can't stop thinking of me. Well he is still with the same girl and i was confused as ... (95 words)

Should I come clean about cheating or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5275 days ago

13 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i am teddy and i have made a big mistake .... i have cheated on my bf who i have been with for ages its love ... shall i come clean and tell him .... xxxxx help me ... (39 words)

Boyfriend has a girl friend that causes problems

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13 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My Bf used to flat with two girls when we started going out. One was very clingy and flirty. she was always all over him, and would write on his facebook how much she loved him. She would call him baby and intimate things, and many thought she was his gf, not me. I fell ... (270 words)

Am I doing MYSELF a disservice being with a wonderful man, who I love and who loves me but has no apparent time for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5275 days ago

13 July 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Ok, here's the deal. My boyfriend and I have been together for several months now. We just got over a fight which kept us apart for about 2 weeks, but we seem to slowly be returning back to normal. The problem is, that back to normal still isn't good enough. We are only seei... (221 words)

Scared that if I break up with him I'll regret it later

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5271 days ago

13 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - heyy..okay so the problem is i dont really know if i actually still love my boyfriend... i dont think about him THAT much anymore i like spending time with other guys more than him i try to avoid seeing guys i know when i'm with him so they don't know he's actually my boyfrie... (89 words)

Unhappy wife, lonely wife

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5269 days ago

13 July 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been married for 6 years. My husband goes out every night. He takes care of home and me, and believes that this is his sole responsibility as a husband and what is most important. I work and have recently started my own party planning business. In the beginning we did ... (762 words)

Should I still be friends with him, or call our friendship officially over and move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5275 days ago

13 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So i dated this guy for six months, and i thought our relationship was the best thing that had ever happened to me. He seemed like the perfect guy. Unfortunately, we broke up, but we were still best friends. However, a week ago a found out that he cheated on me while we were ... (121 words)

Exhausted at being Mrs. Transportation

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5275 days ago

13 July 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - my boyfriend lost his vehicle over 8 months ago so ive been taking him back and forth to work when he is schedule he works 10 minutes away from where we live and writes his own schedule for work when i have to be at work at 10am and my job is near his he schedule himself to be ... (100 words)

Is is possible to get married after my boyfriend is done basic training for the army, & could I live with him on base housing when hes done?

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13 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - so i been with this guy joe, im very happy. he's in bootcamp right now for the army, and were getting pretty serious. Im 16 years old, young yes, but very mature. Im turning 17 in december anywho. I really wanted to know if its possible to get married after he is done basic ... (143 words)

Taking the pill while pregnant?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5275 days ago

13 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - if i'm pregnant, and i dont know, and i keeep taking my birth control regularly, when it comes time for my period, will i get it? or spot? or not bleeed at all? please help mee.... (36 words)

Coping with being gay at 13

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5273 days ago

13 July 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - I'm gay and I'm going crazy I have no one to talk to and I don't even know a gay person for advice I can't even go to a therapist my mind keeps on fantasising thinking about men's six packs and privates i thought it was a good thing when I admitted to myself I was gay but it's ... (187 words)

Should I get back with him because every aspect of our relationship is great? Should I learn to cope with his enjoyment of porn?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5265 days ago

13 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for two years. When we got together I knew he watched porn, I didn't mind at first until I realised how much he did it. I asked him to stop and he agreed, I then found out 6 months later he was still doing it (yes, by checking his computer) we had ... (373 words)

Girlfriend or potential, lucrative job?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5275 days ago

13 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I love my girlfriend of 1-1/2 years to death (though we've known each other for 11 years), and can't wait to propose to her someday. My girlfriend is extremely attached to me, and whenever I have been away for a few weeks, she gets upset. I made a promise to her after I gr... (289 words)

I know that he loves me, but he doesn't spend time with my girls

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5275 days ago

13 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a 35 year old single mom with 2 girls. I have been dating a man that is 11 years younger than me for about 2 years now. I know that he loves me, but he doesn't spend time with my girls or come to any of my family gatherings. I get along great with his family and they want ... (125 words)

Should I ask him why he stop calling me beautiful or babe?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5193 days ago

13 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey well my bf used to always say "morning babe" or "morning beautiful" but lately he hasnt been he just says "morning". I miss him calling me that stuff do you think it would be ok if i asked why he stoped? Its only been like 3 or 4 days but i still miss it. Thanks. ... (58 words)

A guy I like said he thinks I'm tight what does this mean?

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13 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - a guy i like told his friends that he thinks im tight... what does this mean? ... (19 words)

Advice on lasting longer

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5271 days ago

13 July 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - "OP Own Title" What are some ways to help last longer before ejaculating? I have been with my girlfriend for 1 year and the last few months I have been cumming in less than five minutes. I used to be able to go for alot longer. Wondering if anyone had any devices (cock rings, ... (67 words)

Sex life died in the first year of marriage?

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13 July 2010 (F)

age - "OP Own Title" This is my third marriage. The first two were when I was quite young so I have definitely gotten over them. Then ten years ago, my daughter and only child died and shortly thereafter, my sig other of 20+ years dumped me for a bar skank. Needless to say several ... (316 words)

How can make my girlfriend be more open with me?

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13 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello guys I have a big big problem right now, how can I make my girlfriend to be open to me, I'm really confused, she's everything I need from a girl but she never talks and worse she ain't open to me and we have together for almost 2 years now. Pls help!! ... (55 words)

Is she "double" cheating now?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5275 days ago

13 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - So I have met this girl. I actually knew her before but we ran into each other and we were instantly attracted to one another. When i was checking my phone she grabbed it from me and put her number in it. So we started talking. I found that she had a boyfriend who tr... (273 words)

I don't think my fiance is fit to be a father... but how do I tell him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5275 days ago

13 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - When I accepted to marry my fiance I knew that I would be giving up the family I have always wanted to have. Our parenting styles and ideas are too conflicted. I love him so much I'm willing to give this up, but recently he has started talking about when we will have children. ... (112 words)

Do girlfriends discuss their lovers in detail?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5274 days ago

13 July 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Another post had me wondering... when you girls talk about your BF's to fairly close or very close friends, what is the limit on discussion? Do you just say things like "he's great in bed" "he's very tender", or do most women go into more detail and describe what was ... (219 words)

Why my girlfriend said she needed a space?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5275 days ago

13 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been in a relationship with girl who lives in a different city we meet like three times. Most the time we would talk on phone.Last year we had break and then had patch up after three months. Now after six months, she suddenly came up tell me that she needed space from ... (121 words)

Am I in a dead end relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5273 days ago

13 July 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have a boyfriend for over two years now, we see each other on weekends he stays with me, I am a single mum of two, he has never had any experience with kids before and is trying hard though my eldest son likes him he find it hard to bond with him as he is not the kiddie type. ... (255 words)

She gave intimate details about me to my whole social network of friends. How do I handle this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5275 days ago

13 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I'll make this short... I met this great girl and we hit it off. We had our first date a few weeks ago. It was all going well until we had sex - for some reason I couldn't perform, it wouldn't stay hard. She said it was okay, but the date ended kind of abruptly and I haven't ... (168 words)

Please help! Did I cause it!? Should I pretend like it never happened?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5275 days ago

13 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - My cousins came down from Ohio. And they were staying with my aunt. So my sister and I stayed with my cousins got about a week. Akward things happened between me and my cousin. (the one who is a boy). We are second cousins too. He would put his head on my shoulder. Then drink ... (210 words)

My verbally abusive husband!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5275 days ago

13 July 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband had been verbally abusive and physically abusive by way of grabbing my arm and restraining me and even a push. I moved out about 6 weeks ago and over that time he's continued to show signs of his abuse ways except for our last phone conversation He has started ... (224 words)

How long will the forgiving/forgetting period last before our relationship goes back to normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5275 days ago

13 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so my boyfriend and I were at this party together, and he broke up with me in a fit of anger because I supposedly left with another guy and came back. This is the same guy that caused trouble between me and my bf before. What makes it worse is that my bf talked to some of my ... (342 words)

My love triangle...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5269 days ago

13 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - What do i do when i feel for two guys but I don't know what i feel for them. It feels like my heart is torn in two an i dated both but one broke up with me then asked me back out and i broke up with the other one. What do i do??... (55 words)

Is he telling the truth or could he be a very good liar?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5275 days ago

13 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey there, So i have quite the problem here and i would really like some opinions on what i should maybe do. Ok so my bf and i have been dating for a little over three months now and i honestly love him so much and have fallin hard for him, i stay the night at his place on wee... (325 words)

Does it hurt to kiss with braces that have rubber band on them?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5275 days ago

13 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - today.. we kissed with my boyfriend, we really love each other but there is a problem my boyfriend has braces, he had a headgear before we were friends, now just braces. well in a week Im having braces 2!!!! WITH RUBBER BANDS!! :( does anyone have one? i told him and he said ... (128 words)

Please help me clear my head and pick myself up, I feel like I have lost my world

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13 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - "OP Own Title" Hiya i need some help clearing my head out. I've not had an easy past couple of weeks. My lifes feels like its gone for all to nothing. I feel in love with a friend of mine but never had the guts to tell him. He, alike me was also quite shy and quiet. The subject ... (658 words)

Is this a good sign that I am pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5269 days ago

13 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - on Saturday i went ti see my boyfriend. we were having sex and i guess it knocked something loose and i got my period. (sorry this is graphic) we finished in the shower but i didn't really see any cum when he pulled the condom out but he swears he felt it all on his hands. ... (110 words)

Should I stay with him? I feel like he's going nowhere fast.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5275 days ago

13 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years, he is 30 and still lives at home with his mum he doesn't pay rent, clean up after himself and to be quite honest I'm sick and tired of it. I love him, but I feel like love is not enough anymore. All my friends are with people that work ... (194 words)

He doesn't seem to like anything I give him, should I talk to him about it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5275 days ago

13 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Every present I give to my boyfriend ends up unused in a drawer, and it's really starting to bother me. I wondered if I was just getting presents he didn't really like, so this year for his birthday I got him something I knew he wanted because he'd been talking about it... (227 words)

My husband said he thinks sex is dirty, but I still want to have it!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5274 days ago

13 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, Iam 30 years old and have been married for 6 years. have 2 beautiufl lil girls.three year old and 2 year old. I have had issues with sex ever since i got married. It has improved with time, but my husband told me last night that he thinks sex is a dirty thing. on the othe... (239 words)

In love with a married man and not sure what to believe!

This question has 34 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

13 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I'm in love with a married man and i need to spell it out! At first i didn't know he was married. we dated for 6 months and then i found out he was married. At that time I couldn't even suspect that he was married since he was spending all his time with me. I left hi... (467 words)

Do I fight my corner and stay with him? Or do you think he will eventually get back together with his ex wife?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5275 days ago

13 July 2010 (F)

age - I am in a relationship with a man whos wife left him for another man and they set up home together, with a very large sum of money given by my b/f and this was half of the proceeds of their house so she could by herself and the b/f something. She took their daughters. He was ... (250 words)

How do I deal with this bitterness towards the woman my partner cheated with?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

13 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My partner cheated on me and this is not a question about him. I've been dealing with it with him. It's about the girl. I have taken so much anger out on him but she walked away with having no affect in her life and ruining mine. He knew her, had once been intimate but tho... (353 words)

Is he just being nice, or is he confused?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5275 days ago

13 July 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - So confused! Dated this great guy for several months. Things were going great. I think he got scared b/c he told me he needed to take some time to think about the relationship (he did say he cared about me). After a few days, I get an email telling me he thinks he doesn't ... (120 words)

We were talking about losing our virginity to each other, but then 2 weeks later he lost his to another girl! Now he wants me more than ever I don't know what to do....

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5275 days ago

13 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Well, i have been talking to this guy and weve liked each other since childhood.one day we asked each other about our virginity and we both admitted we were. I believe in abstinence,none the less i was willing to loose my virginity to him. But a couple weeks later i found out ... (119 words)

Is it just sex? Or could there be more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5275 days ago

13 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been "officially" dating this guy for about a month now. We started off as sort of friends with benefits but we started having feelings for each other. Now we see each other almost everyday and the sex is AMAZING! I have absolutely NO complaints about the physical intimacy ... (159 words)

I feel I want more than snogging but I'm not totally sure what I want to do!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5275 days ago

13 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I've been going out with this guy for 3 and a half months, he is the first boy I've kissed and the furthest we've gone is snogging, we're both 14 but I feel like I want more and im not sure what I want and what to do. If you could help i would be grateful!(:... (60 words)

How do I tell my family I am pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5275 days ago

13 July 2010 (F)

- Hi I have just taken a pregancy test and it was postive. I am going into the doctor to get it confirmed. I am really scared of telling my parents. I am 27 and my boyfriend is 20 we have been dating for 2 years and we are engaged. I really do not know how to tell my paren... (123 words)

How do I bring it up with him that I am unhappy he did not get me anything for my birthday?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5275 days ago

13 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been dating about a year and a half now and my birthday has just gone. All week he had been asking me what I wanted for my birthday and to let him know so he could decide what to get me. However, I haven't received a present. My family celebrates ... (101 words)

I'm worried he will never want to marry me because of my dysfunctional family!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5275 days ago

13 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I have been dating the most amazing man for just over a year. Our relationship has been good but frequently peppered with recurrent craziness by me. I checked his facebook and emails because I thought he might cheat (with no evidence and I didn't find anything), I gav... (567 words)

I think I am too young to have a baby but I believe everything happens for a reason, so maybe this baby is meant to be?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

13 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Please help, we really need advice... My fiance and I are getting married next year and we live together right now. In May we had unprotected sex and he finished inside me. The next day in the afternoon I took Plan B, so it was in the time frame, but turns out it did... (430 words)

He broke up with me since he liked someone else too but he says he still wants to be with me as well!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5275 days ago

13 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I am a teenager and i was dating this guy i really liked. i met him a year ago and we were friends, we talked and stuff. so a couple months ago he finally asked me out because he trusted i wouldnt cheat on him since we lived a little ways away from each other. so we were dat... (225 words)

How can I make this girl see the guy she is dating is a jerk?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5275 days ago

13 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi. I am 16. There is a girl that I love. We have gone on dates and spent a ton of time together. The problem is, I had assumed we were already going out. She recently started to date this other dude. He is not nice to her. She still wont dump him. What can i do to help her ... (78 words)

Why cant a make a guy cum from a bj?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5275 days ago

13 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My last boyfriend of 6 years never came during a blowjob. now my new boyfriend hasnt either Am i doing it wrong?? im really hurt hes stuck with a rubbish girlfriend!! are some men unable to come during a blowjob....why!!!!!... (40 words)

I have a sexual attraction to my friend but unsure how to proceed she is still married

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5275 days ago

13 July 2010 (M)

age - I have a friend I'm very attracted to. I am separated, she is in a failing marriage. I don't give her advise or temp her to leave her marriage, but I want her to. Because of our situations, we see each other a few times a month. This is a big secret. If her husband knew we met ... (335 words)

14 years of abuse and I want out!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5275 days ago

13 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been in a relationship for 14 years. He's very abusive both mentally and physically. I want to leave, what do I do?... (23 words)

Should I marry her and have kids or live alone?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

13 July 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Well, my question is probably not that different from most. I had a relationship with a girl for 6,5 years. Around 3 years we broke-up because she wanted to marry and have kids and I just didn't know if I wanted to do that (I already have a son). After a six month break-up p... (434 words)

I have sexual urges but am afraid to act them out does it mean I'm not ready?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5199 days ago

13 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i am 14 and i get these urges to do sexual things with guys. i feel like i d8 a lot of guys. but i think im just looking for the right person 2 do it with. i will get 2 the point where i feel ready 2 do sexual stuff but then i kinda chicken out and dump the guy i was d8ing. a... (76 words)

Wife messing around, was it planned?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5274 days ago

13 July 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - my wife has been going to her best friends house every weekend for a few months, her best friends boyfriend also invites his own best friend and they stay up late getting drunk and chatting,about a month ago my wife said we should split, and i now know they are getting close, ... (72 words)

Should I get back with son's mom as my heart wants to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5275 days ago

13 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - i am 18 n have a 4 yr old child, who i only get to see him once a week, i feel as tho i am in love with my sons mum, but my friends tell me it is because i want the best for my son. should a fallow my heart n ask to get back with her, or should i prevent any awkwardness n just ... (73 words)

19 and My life is destroyed

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5275 days ago

13 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear agony aunts i'm a 19 years old guy and i'm confused weather am i hiv+ or not,i've lost a lot of weight recently and my skin colour is getting dark.I did hiv testing 5 times since october 2009 and my last test was on the 23rd of june 2010 and it was stil negtv.I stil feel ... (115 words)

Is it normal to be ticklish in this area?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5275 days ago

13 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I just wondered if something was normal or not: I realize the clitoris is very sensitive, but my clitoris is ticklish and it makes me go all squeamish in a way... is it normal for that spot to be ticklish? Thanks for any answers.... (46 words)

Can alcohol and headache tablets stop the pill from working?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5275 days ago

13 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi:) 2 nights ago i had sex with my boyfriend,I`m on the pill but i drank alcohol that night and i took 2 panadol tablets for a headache before we had sex,we didnt use a condom or anythin. Im worried that the alcohol and tablets would have affected the pill in any way as ... (70 words)

Am I bisexual?

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13 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Im really confused about myself. Im a girl who has been out with a few guys, and i really enjoyed being with them. Im single right now, and im really close with my friends. when we see some guys at the pool or playing football with no t-shirt on, i feel no attraction or ... (193 words)

I'm too nervous to talk to girls at school!

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13 July 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - How do I impress girls at school. I can't seem to talk to them I get extremely nervous.... (18 words)

Is it wrong to watch porn every night?

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13 July 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - I have trouble looking at porn every night when I am supossed to be in bed sleeping. Is this wrong. I dream of sex like 12 times every night.... (29 words)

Should I let my girlfriend decide what to do with a guy hitting on her?

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13 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been helped many times here before and i'm grateful! I got a question..Me and my girlfriend love each other. Our relationship is long distance. She mentioned helping someone and likening him to me. After she helped him carry something, he asked for her email. She gave ... (175 words)

Is loving two people ok?

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13 July 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My Ex fiance admits shes in love with a co worker and me. But she wants me to try and work to see if we can get back together after she ended our engagement, canceled our wedding and moved out because of this guy. She said now that she loves me more and wants to try but still ... (102 words)

Should I allow him to continue to see me when he has "chosen" another girl over me?

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13 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I had been dating my ex for about 15 months or so. We met online, but we were virtually inseparable. Every moment of our spare time was spent with one another. Alright sex life for what you are capable of on camera/phone. We had planned to meet multiple times though things ... (434 words)

Do other people know if someone has had sex the night before?

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13 July 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I don't want to disgust anyone with this question, but I want to know what goes on inside other people's heads. My question is...Do people wonder if they see someone walking down the street whether or not that person had sex the night before? Can people tell somehow? Is th... (169 words)

When should I call back? Is this part of his mind games?

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13 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My partner and i split up 3 weeks ago due to a major argument which is in his words 'beyond repair'. i love him dearly and can't imagine life without him. i bombarded him with texts and phone calls which obviously pushed him away and last week he said leave me alone for a week ... (229 words)

I'm worried about meeting this girl who my boyfriend has some history with

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13 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - im going away with my boyfriend of 9 months, we really like each other, thing is there is a girl who is going to be there who he has some 'history' with. as he is friends with all her friends we will end up hanging around with her. i'm really worried about meeting her. im not ... (99 words)

I made a mistake talking to this older boy about sex and now I am worried everyone at my school will find out....

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13 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, I am 13 and all of a sudden I have become like obbsesssed with sex? I know it sounds weird comming from a girl and all ... But yer I am... And i was going out with this and we really really loved each other a lot ! I spent 8 hours talking to him sometimes... But then we ... (297 words)

Wants baby but not marriage? We live together so why cant he marry me?

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13 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, here goes. I met a really great guy in November 2009 and he moved in with me a week later. It was like magic we got on very well and still do. In January he proposed and in March he told me he wants to postpone the wedding which was booked for September. I wouldnt hear of ... (368 words)

Is he trustworthy or not?

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13 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I really like this dude but I been reading my zodiac stuff and I don't think I can trust this girl I been hangin with, how do I figure out if he is secretly likeing her instead of me PLEASE HELP!! I'm so confused... (44 words)

Is he just not into me?

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13 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - So I have met this guy, real cute seems very well mannered and just nice! lol I took his number as I am a bit of a control freak and said I would call him. I text him the morning after as he came down to where I live and had to drive home so i asked him "how was the drive ho... (144 words)

Set to be married next month, but things have been quite rocky. Needing advice.

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13 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey, sorry that this is going be to quite lengthy. I apologize for any ranting. Lately my fiancée has been acting completely different than she has in the past. I love her more than I can explain, but have been questioning whether this is the right decision - as has she. I... (1108 words)

I don't want my son to have a bad role model in the form of his dad, but then again I don't want to keep my son from having a father! What should I do?

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13 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, So I have a problem with my son's father(20).A few days after he left me he was dating my little sister(14). They were dating for about 5 months, during this time he was smoking dope and had nothing to do with our son.He change into a completely different person. ... (233 words)

How do I get to be beautiful like these girls I see?

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13 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I have a problem with one word that teenage girls go through and that's the word UGLY!!! I'm 5'2, brown hair and eyes, I have and average size body and I'm black. But even with that information I'm still called ugly. Everyday I get talked about the way I look, dress, ... (122 words)

Ex girlfriends panties in my boyfriends drawer. I am shocked! What to do?

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13 July 2010 (F) age 41-50 - Panties of ex gf in the drawer... Hey all, I found penties of ex girlfriend at my boyfriends drower...and I don't know what to do... The problem is that I found it in his bag, which was closed and contained other memorabilia from his ex girlfriends, like cds and photos and l... (156 words)

He wants me to meet his daughter but I am uncomfortable because his ex (the child's mother) will be staying at his house

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13 July 2010 (F)

age - I have been dating this man for 9 months. When we met he told me he had been divorced for 2 years after a 20 year marriage but in his Younger days he had a gf who he never married who he had a child with, however he raised this child on his own, along with his xwife the child ... (223 words)

Is sex between siblings bad?

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13 July 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - i would like to know if sex between siblings, is bad or actually a taboo? and why? is it just because of society norms? is it because we have been born and educated with the thought that it is bad, even though we have experimented when we were kids? i am not talking about ... (113 words)

Is my penis normal?

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13 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi i would like you people to help me when am aroused my penis tend to bend towards my left side as in it is not straight am even afraid of making out with girls am i realy normal.... (39 words)

Having doubts we can make it work.

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13 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend have been dating for a year and half, he broke up with me back in september because of fight in december he wanted me back and we got back together. now we have been fight lately and he says that my insecurities are pushing him away. i said i can work on it ... (84 words)

How can I tell him I'm in love with him and not scare him or make things awkward between us?

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13 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok im thinking about telling my best friend of the past 13 or 14 years that im in love with him and have been for the past 3 years, well maybe not the three years part cuz when we were still in high school we told each other who we liked, and for the last two years of school i ... (248 words)

We generally have a wonderful relationship but there are a few things eating away at me....

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13 July 2010 (F)

age - Help! I have been seeing this terrific guy for 1 1/2 years. We are the best of friends and we have so much in common. The thing is friendship grew into love and we have been inseparable pretty much since we met.He is good to me and I am good to him. The problem comes in when ... (625 words)

Scared to have sex!

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13 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been going out for about a year and we are ready to have sex but I'm kinda scared any advice?... (25 words)

What should I do to get over him?

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13 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex and I broke up awhile ago BUT I still have to see him all the time. And no I'm not just "accidentally" running into him. My best friend(she's the mary kate to my ashley)'s boyfriend is one of his best friends so every time we go out, I always have to see him which doesn't ... (149 words)

Help! Did I cause it? Should I avoid him? Or should I act like it never happened?

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13 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Well I was with my sister and my two cousins at the movies. I was sitting next to my boy cousin. I was drinking soda through a straw and my cousin pulled down his shirt. Then I took another drinking and he put his hand down there like covered it. Then another drink and he ... (121 words)

I want him back but I don't want to hurt my friend who he is now dating, and I don't want to ruin what we already have

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13 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I loved my boyfriend so much, and I still do however he is my ex now. He claims to have dumped me because we never get to see each other, but two days after the harsh break up he was already in a relationship with my best friend! Now it has been about a month we've been ... (120 words)

Should I stay or should I go?

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13 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I was in a long distance relationship and i decided to leave without any notice. I went to my college and met this guy there. Me and him hit it off great then my parents started getting annoyed with us so they kicked me out of the house and i started leaving with him and his ... (247 words)

Is this some sort of psychological block I'm experiencing with her?

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13 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - So, I'm a 25 year old male virgin. I know, as sad as that sounds, I was overweight for most of my life and have recently lost a lot of weight and have begun experiencing the confidence boost and attention from females that comes with it. Anyway, I've started getting sexual w... (192 words)

Cheating with sexual texts, visting female friends etc

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13 July 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - The guy I'm seeing for the last year and half has texted someone sexual text message asking if she was still coming over and then if she would"---" on his face"..There has been some other questionable actions, Ie "visiting A friend from high school days" -I know he didnt have ... (320 words)

What do you think about these actions of a guy I think might like me?

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13 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm friends with this guy. We've been friends for about 1 year and only became friends because of a mutual friend. I'm really shy so I could never just come out and ask him. I don't see myself as the type of girl that a guy would like so I don't really know the signs of a guy ... (374 words)

Why hasn't he contacted me in three days and what should I do about it?

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13 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been "seeing" each other for six months, most of that time he has been deployed. For the entire six months we talk almost every day - if he got really busy for a day or two he would send brief notes and say he was busy and would write when he could - it ... (425 words)

He said if I cried during sex because of the pain it is all on me because he is not stopping!

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13 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - This is a conversation between me and my ex. hes 19 and im 16. we were talking about visiting each other, we live in different states now, and he is coming here at the end of the month. please read! him: "how many guys have you had sex with since me?" me: "only one and it... (238 words)

Oral sex and contraception.....

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13 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Can a guy/man go down on me when I use a sponge contraceptive in? ... (14 words)

Intelect and the uneducated.....

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13 July 2010 (M)

age - I recently met a woman who I'm not sure I should be dating. Here are some facts about us. She is beyond a masters degree, I have a HS diploma. She is highly intelectual, very smart. I am not the brightest bulb in the box. She is Jewish, I am Catholic, that seems to be a none ... (158 words)

He doesn't think a long distance relationship will work and I will cheat, but I just want us to try!

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13 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so I'm leaving for college in 25 days, and I currently am in a relationship with a guy that I truely care about. I believe that we can make a long distance relationship work. I have no doubt in him being faithful to me and I believe I can stay faithful to him, but he doesn't ... (156 words)

Only 17 years old living a very messed up adult life

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13 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in a very messy situation. I am 17 years old and I have been with my boyfriend for 2.5 years. We have an 11 month old daughter together. He is violent. (Name calling, put downs, death threats, pushed me, broken things) for the past 18 months he has been like this. It is ... (288 words)

Confused young girl......

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13 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Soo, there's this guy. I like him A LOT. I don't know if he likes me back though. He use to like barely ever talk and then I found out he was talking to another girl so I got mad and deleted him from my phone and myspace. A few days later he texted me and he kept texting me ... (89 words)

Am I subconsciously pushing him away?

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13 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - A few weeks ago i was having serious doubts about my boyfriend. He's a great guy, but i guess you could say he's not "everything i want." I decided to stick with him because i do love him. Now my feelings are pretty much back to normal, but i can't help wondering sometimes if ... (96 words)

How can I overcome jealousy?

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13 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend been going out for two months.But I get too jealous when he's talking to other girls. He be saying their beautiful.And how he's thinking how beautiful they are. And yes he compliments me I just want him to talk to me and compliment me.How can I overcome ... (52 words)

I regret not making a move on her back then, but should I add her as a friend on Facebook now even though it has been 3 years?

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13 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - There was a this girl I liked back in high school. She was a really nice and beautiful girl who I hung out with every lunch our of that semester. I don't think there is a girl other than her I've fallen for this hard ever. I was devastated when I found out she was graduating ... (175 words)

Is there is anything I can do to him while he's pleasing me?

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13 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'd like to give my boyfriend a wild time in the bedroom. We've tried all types of anal, missionary, oral. I just want to to know if there is anything I can do to him while he's pleasing me, because he's doing all the work pretty much during sex. Any tips?? please be ... (64 words)

I'm hesitant to move in with him!

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13 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with my BF for a year now. Great guy, fantastic relationship, respects me a lot, we’ve met each other’s families etc. He’s been talking about living together one day and recently the talk’s gotten serious. He’s got this plan that he’d like to move in together by t... (372 words)

He refuses to come inside of me!

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13 July 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - BF of 3 yrs cannot/will not come inside of me even though pregnancy is not possible. I have also suggested he use a condom if that would make him more comfortable with the idea. He doesn't seem interested in increasing our intimacy this way. We are not kids and I have no idea, ... (152 words)

I like a boy, should I ask him out or wait for him to ask me?

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13 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i hav really really liked a guy for what seems like forever. my friends say he likes me too but im not sure. he does smile at me in an way that he doesnt do to any other girls. my friends say that this is a green light for me and that he likes me too. he also has a little ... (102 words)

I'm unhappy in my current relationship and can't stop thinking about my ex-boyfriend!

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13 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - so me and my fiance have 2 kids. we just bought a house. but i am so unhappy. i cant stop thinking of my ex bf. i think about him everyday and every night before i go to sleep. i dream about him. i am absoloutly miserable with my current boyfriend i been with him for 5 years. ... (107 words)

Can you honestly love someone else after having had such strong feelings for someone?

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13 July 2010 (F) age 30-35 - I broke up with my ex little over two months ago. Things were complicated between us because of jealousy. His jealousy. It was too much. We told each other many hurtful things in the relationship, and sadly, we got into a circle of breaking up and making up. So when I finally ... (372 words)

Not head over heels anymore. Am I just comfortable?

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13 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 22 years old and have been with my boyfriend for three years.. We have been living together for 2.. We get along great and have lots of fun together!! I don't feel head over hills for him anymore and often think about what it would be like to be with another man or single.. ... (78 words)

Why do I always push my girlfriends away by finding faults with them?

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13 July 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok I need help in working out if I always push my girlfriends away, or if I'm just very judgement, or both. And if so why? I feel I do this by trying to find faults with them. I find faults which genuinely do annoy me and then make them feel bad for it. With an ex gir... (441 words)

20 and never been in a relationship...Advice please!!!

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13 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, im 20 straight male, and still have never been in a relationship in my life. Girls have always been attracted to me my whole life but It seems that once things start to get serious and i go on a date or something im just not myself and it gets really akward...I dont know ... (190 words)

When is he going to start telling people I'm his girlfriend?

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13 July 2010 (F)

age - i've been dating a guy for 3 mos.and he still he introduces me to everyone as his friend, and he sometimes stays over,i introduce him to everyone as my boyfriend and i told him that i love him , he said thats a strong word to say but i was ready to say it,anyway he said that he ... (85 words)

Why would he blow me off and then come back as if nothing happened?

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13 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey all, so I started seeing this guy four months ago and we talked about dating, well then he got a letter saying he had to go back to the military and stopped talking to me after telling me that, he didn't have to go until November. However, he doesn't have to go anymore and ... (116 words)

Is our first anniversary too late to have a wedding celebration?

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13 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My fiance and I are planning on getting married in Las Vegas next summer. We decided to only have two witnesses. We both want to have a party to celebrate with family and friends. But because of financial costs we may have to wait til our one year anniversary to have the party. ... (64 words)

Should I contact him or is he not interested?

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13 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I met this guy about 3 weeks ago in the mall and the same day he text me and called, and the next day also, by the next night we watched movies together all night and we eneded up fooling around, the next day we went for lunch and hung out, he text me and called me two days ... (119 words)

My girlfriend is stunning, and this causes problems in public, what should I do?

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13 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello all. I've been with this girl for 2 months now, she is stunning, but this is a bit of a problem because whenever we go out, there is always someone staring at her behind or her legs or something, and if they aren't just staring, they'll say something like "Oioi sexy", ... (219 words)

Recently discovered I'm bi and afraid of my parents' reaction

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13 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I am 15. I have recently discovered I'm bi. No not bi-curious. And I don't know what to do I'm afraid of what my parents might do.... (30 words)

Divorced nine months ago and still in pain

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13 July 2010 (M)

age - i was married for 10 years we have been divorced for 9 mos and every time i see her it hurts i know she is seeing other guys and that is killing me so how do i move on and forget about her we have the same friends and have to see each other from time to time i don't think i ... (103 words)

Why doesn't anyone like me?

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13 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - all of my friends have been "snogged"/"been with"/"made out with" somebody. i find this kinda frustrating because i'm the only one who hasn't. all of them say that i'm pretty and sexy but i dont understand why nobody likes me. im 13,a little bit chubby, 5ft 4", i have green ... (84 words)

Am I her fall back guy?

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13 July 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - So I am confused and lost so I'll keep this short and simple. I met this girl over 7 months ago and started having phone and text conversations with her. We had a brief argument which led to 2 months of avoiding each other. We have been on 2-3 dates however she always ... (196 words)

My b/f has gone from being a fun,loving and talkative man to a coldhearted, unpassionate and noncommunicative man what do I do?

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13 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I met my boyfriend at Home depot. We both worked there. He is 41 I am 24. There is an age gap but we hit it off I fell for him and he said he loved me. After a couple of months he started treating me badly...I broke up with him and dated other people but I couldn't get him out ... (262 words)

He only likes anal sex

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13 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - is it suspecious that my new boyfriend only likes anal sex? or am i trippin... (15 words)

Is he waiting for the next move or just not interested?

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13 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So there is this guy and I really like him and the other day we were drinking and he kissed me we made out pretty heavily for a while but it didn't go farther than that now he doesn't act awkward or anything he just hasn't tried anything else with me he is waiting for me to ... (84 words)

I really want revenge on this shameless, unthankful liar...help?

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13 July 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I was unhappily married for 13 years.I still respect my wife but love was just not there anymore.We have together three beautiful kids.I was more and more sad by time and didn't know what to do.Then two years ago I meet new love of my life.I am 35 and she is 9 years younger ... (1465 words)