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I want him back but I don't want to hurt my friend who he is now dating, and I don't want to ruin what we already have

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Question - (13 July 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 13 July 2010)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

I loved my boyfriend so much, and I still do however he is my ex now. He claims to have dumped me because we never get to see each other, but two days after the harsh break up he was already in a relationship with my best friend! Now it has been about a month we've been broken up he is still with my friend but he is telling me he still loves me. But he is also telling me he will never be able to date ne he won't let himself do it, I want him back so bad but I don't want to hurt my friend or the relationship shared between me and my ex.

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A female reader, QuirkLady United States +, writes (13 July 2010):

QuirkLady agony auntHe's a piece of crap and so is your ex-best friend for dating him. The next time he calls you, tell him that you are not interested in hearing from him anymore and hang up. Do not answer any more of his calls after that. Don't answer his texts or Facebook messages or whatever either. A good guy would not leave you for your best friend, and he would not go behind his GF's back to tell his ex he loves her. That's cold hearted, shady, dirty, low down and disgusting.

There are other better guys out there. You will find another in time. Yes, this hurts now but it will hurt a little less every day.

Good luck.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (13 July 2010):

He's such a good guy, that he dumped you and cleared off with your best friend. Girl! Take off the rose tinted glasses. He dumped you for your best friend, and used her like he used you. He doesn't love you at all. He doesn't even know what love means, or is. This guy is far too immature and untrustworthy for you to be able to take him back. He used you, used her and will just use you again if you go back. He'll dump you for another girl. This is not a good guy, and you shouldn't let him back into your life after he treated you so shabbily.

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