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Archived questions from: July, 2010 (see latest questions)

Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Where are the best places to go to find a girlfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5252 days ago

31 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - After a few bad relationships, I've decided to start going out again. I'm a single dude, age 24. I'm going out to clubs and bars to get myself out there. I see a few single girls there, but people advised me to stay away from those girls (STDS). I'm going for some ... (128 words)

I'm pregnant but I don't want to get back with him. How can I make him understand that?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

31 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - okay my boyfriend and i were going out years and we broke up and then i found out i was pregant and told him he cried saying he wasn't ready for this but he'll be there, I told him i'm not a bitch i have no problem with him seeing the child and coming to the scans, at the end ... (162 words)

How can you tell if a man is married for sure?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

31 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - how can you tell if a guy is married, because this guy keeps hitting on me and i want to tell his wife that he's a jerk. he actually asked me for sex i'm not just flattering my self. What should i look for?!?! he has no ring on... says he's divorced. but i really d... (63 words)

Lonely and really need a man in my life again...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4743 days ago

31 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm so lonely. I'm not that much of an outgoing person i find it difficult to socialize in big groups of people and can come across quite shy. About 2 years ago i got together with a guy who i could be completely myself with,i fell for him. That ended around 7 months ago. I ... (139 words)

Eating disorder thoughts are slowly becoming worse.. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

31 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 17 years old and I'm terrified about the thoughts that have been entering my mind lately. When I was 6, my parents got a divorce. My dad dated off and on, then finally got 'serious' with a woman when I was 13. She was a complete psycho; sadly, my dad didn't figure that out ... (232 words)

I feel like everyone hates me and that I just don't matter.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

31 July 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi All, My life feels so weird lately, I have friends on Facebook that take their friendship away without giving a reason, I get ignored on Facebook, anything I post doesnt even get a response! I feel like I dont exist, at a works party recently we all got tipsy and I ended up... (256 words)

I might not manage to go to the prom but she said she'd just go herself! This bugs me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

31 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hey me again, me and my girl where discussing when her senior prom will be, and I brought up the question of what if I couldn't come? (since I'm in job corps like 3 hours away from her, there is a distinct possibility I wont be able to) And she just replied, she would just ... (193 words)

How loyal are we to the memory of an old love?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

31 July 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - A generic question - you fall in love or develop a rather major crush on someone, and for whatever reason your feelings are never openly declared to the other person. How long do they hold a special place in your heart for? In my experience, and I am a female (though I... (324 words)

Is my boyfriend ashamed of me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4764 days ago

31 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I have been dating my boyfriend for 6 months and he has not introduced me to anyone and I feel like he is hiding me. We work together and he says he doesn't want to tell people about us, because he doesn't know how they will react to us dating and that he doesn't want to ... (177 words)

I think I just maybe losing my mind in this whole situtaion please help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

31 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - What do you do in a situation when you have a boyfriend at home that is older than you and you started out as best friends, eventually moved into a deeper relationship, have a hansome child together and are still good friends, but due to past issues never able to marry you and ... (326 words)

I don't feel as if my relationship with him is moving on...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

31 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - A couple of months ago I met a guy on the internet. We texed for a few days and then met for a drink. In person I found him physically attractive but he seemed a bit shy. After the date he carried on texting every day (hes funnier in his texts) and then a week or so later we ... (287 words)

Why oh why did this happen to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

31 July 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Me and my girlfriend have been dating for 2 years, we've had sex a couple of times, not regularly though. Yesteday we were fooling around and things got heated up, i was hard, and we were about to have sex. But when we were about to, i lost my erection and have no idea why. ... (103 words)

Have you ever dumped a girl because you suddenly felt that she was not in your league?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) age 30-35 - This is kind of a poll. Guys please be honest here. Have you ever dumped a girl for another girl who was better looking than your ex but not as interesting. To be more blunt have you ever dumped a girl because you suddenly felt that she was not in your league? ... (55 words)

How do I get this guy's respect after sleeping with him straight away?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2091 days ago

31 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys! Right, well i slept with this guy that i like, and have done for a while, were not in any sort of relationship though, me sleeping with him probably wasn't the best thing to do. How do i get this guy's respect after this? I'm hoping to be in a relationship wit... (102 words)

Why did she just diss my feelings that I still love her and want her back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5256 days ago

31 July 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Me and my ex girlfriend have been broken up for about 5-6 months already. We were in a long distance relationship for that time. We had an amazing bond together best friends, lovers we just got along so perfectly. Now during this break up I have been dating and I believe so has ... (284 words)

2 beers and he couldn't get an erection! What happened?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

31 July 2010 (?) age 41-50 - My bf is ALWAYS horny and we have an active sex life, I love it. We don't drink much actually but tonight we each had 2 beers. He wasn't horny at all! for the first time since I know him (I've known him for 2 years) he couldn't get an erection! I was shocked. Most of the time ... (96 words)

Since moving in together he is not the same person I fell in love with...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

31 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating my boyfriend for some time now and we've been living together for about 2 months. It was nice in the beginning when i first moved in, but now i feel horrible. He is not the same person i fell in love with. He calls me name and flies off the handle over the ... (307 words)

Should I cut my mother out of my life for ever?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) age - I have a really hard life, including kids problems, health problems and all other aspects. Seemingly unrelated and I blamed it on bad fortune. As there is things I have done wrong, but nothing to deserve this outcome.... I cant get into details, because it would be a novel. I... (232 words)

Why won't my girlfriend touch me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

31 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend will not touch me. We've been together almost seven months and I'm depressed every day. We recently started being more sexual, and I touch/please her, but all I get in return is making out. I don't think this is fair, but I don't want to pressure her to do ... (96 words)

Do you think once he sees my bump he might change his mind and stay with me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

31 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I am 35 and my bf is 46. I was married before but not children. He does not have either but said that want a family and kids. We have been dating for 7 months and by accident I got pregnant. He was furious and wants me to terminate it. I had one 10 years ago and got very... (293 words)

My boyfriend is a pothead!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

31 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i have been dating for 3 and a half years since 8th grade. he was a major pot head and last year he was sent to a boot camp for almost ten months, he made it seem like he was so changed and he wouldnt smoke again i waited for him. about a month after he comes ... (136 words)

Is this girl just playing games, and a liar?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

31 July 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - This is a bit of a story, but please bear with me. I guess i probably know the answer anyway, but typing it out might be theraputic in itself. 4 weeeks ago I started chatting to a girl online, she approached me first. We chatted and really hit it off. Next thing is we were ... (578 words)

Opinions. If he wanted to break up he'd tell me, ignore me or be slightly rude right?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

31 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I've posted before.. but i cant seem to relax.. im constantly thinking. I realized when guys are sick theyre big babies (well some). I'm used to being needed when a bf is sick but because my bf has his mom nearby/her friends to get him things.. he doesnt need me. As far as i ... (437 words)

Help!!! How do I tell my mom I'm gay???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

31 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, I really want to tell my mom about what I'm going through with my sexuality (I think I'm gay) but I need some advice on how to go about doing that. So any help would help a lot. Are there any teens out there who feel the same way? I'd love to hear how you feel because ... (78 words)

Sensitive subject and at a loss...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

31 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a 5 year old who will be 6 in August and I recently noticed when putting her to bed that her hands smelt like they were near her "Daisy" or vagina. I asked her aboút it and she became stiff, so I told her that IF she was going to do that she needs to do it in private and ... (94 words)

Can I be in love with two men at the same time?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5230 days ago

31 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - is it possible to love two people at once or is there a diference between loving someone and being in love?i'm in love with two men. i just don't know which one is my "true love".... (36 words)

My best friend's boyfriend likes me, and I like him...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

31 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel pretty bad for liking my best friend's boyfriend, even though i liked him before she did, but i never told her. Her and him haven't been dating that long but she's really mean to him she talks to other guys while dating him and she calls him fat all the time. She has no ... (175 words)

How much does height matter?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

31 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - This woman I like is about 5'8... the same as me. When she wears regular shoes to work and I wear my dress shoes I am a little taller. However, she often wears 4" heels which jumps her up to 6 ft tall, while I remain in the 5'10ish range in my dress shoes. Is this any s... (79 words)

Help! My mum's boyfriend is molesting me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

31 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok, so ive asked a few questions on this topic before but i could really use your help on this one! until about 3 months ago my mom's boyfriend has been molesting me (this had been happening for about 3 years and no-one knws about this. i was also sexually molested from the age ... (156 words)

Two men - Should I go with my head or my heart?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

31 July 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I am confused. I need to choose between two men. This is not an easy decision. My husband has been out of the country for 2 1/2 years and I haven't seen him in one year.Over time we have lost communication(more on his part I would talk and talk and he wouldn't say har... (437 words)

Internship people are asking me quit my job! I need advice fast! Please help.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

31 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there, I have a bit of a big dilemma. This is more about a career thing, but i've came here for a lot of problems before and have received so much help. I'm not sure where else to go in such short notice. I hope you can help me! I am currently working at an internship 4 days ... (437 words)

Why is it mainly women posting on here and not men?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

31 July 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Hello Aunts I have one general question on the forum. Why do only women post questions here ? why so less questions being raised here by Men?. what are the thoughts on this. I know it is complex question and not a single and easy answer. Do the men do not prefer to s... (91 words)

How can I unleash her libido?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

31 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi,i m sad and need your help.I just found a new girl friend who turns out to be a sex guru..She does lots of sexy things to me during a blow job wish gives me satisfaction.She hates using protections and i love her for that,i intend f****** the h*** out of her to night but i m ... (133 words)

I lost my virginity to a guy I'm not in a relationship with...how do I act with him now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

31 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I guess you could say what i did the other night was pretty stupid. I lost my virginity to a guy im not in a relationship with, he claims he really likes me, and we have had abit of a thing goin on for a bit of time now. However, im realising it was pretty silly of me, bec... (138 words)

Mum walks in on me having sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5252 days ago

31 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Titled by Poster: What a mess i am in. Had a gathering the other night, well i would'nt even call it that, there was like five people and myself there and that's it. Things went well, wasnt anything crazy, nothing broke, i dont think. However, the problem is, myself and this ... (268 words)

I'm finding it hard to let myself go sexually...I am so shy.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

31 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I need some advice as I feel I am not normal, I have never felt attracted to anyone until now, I am with this amazing guy and we have been together for a long time and he has said he loves me and I love him in every way, he knows everythng about me and I feel really comfortable ... (202 words)

Is it a break if we are still talking...or should I take a total break...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5256 days ago

31 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently made a post on here...and I received lots of great feedback and thank you all for that. I have one last question and situation to share with you all...I need help because I have been given advice from friends but I need unbiased or neutral opinion from people who are ... (390 words)

Secret fantasy...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

31 July 2010 (M)

age - Hi, I have been married for about 18 years, and recently have this fantasy of my wife being with other men, I get horny if i think of it. However, I am afraid to ask my wife about it. We love each other and have good sex. Am I crazy??????????... (52 words)

He needs time... all the while I am unravelling.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5256 days ago

31 July 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello friends, I need some advice. My bf and I had a big blowout a few weeks ago, it was my fault, I lied to him about a few things and he found out. The lies were white and small and didn't hurt anyone but still, I lied. After trying to reconcile and him not seeming to make an ... (341 words)

How can I show him that I'll be there for him regardless of anything and that he has nothing to fear?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

31 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been talking to this guy for about 2 and a half months. We have been really hitting it off. We both absolutely like each other and have soo much in common its like seeing myself in a mirror. he treats me like his girlfriend, he holds my hand, kissing me , we make out... (195 words)

Should I wait 3 weeks for him to break off his other dates?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

31 July 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been dating a guy for about 2 months now. Sex has come up and I have stated that I will not have intercourse until we are in an exclusive relationship. At the beginning of the week, he has said that he likes me a lot, and that he 'needs to put some things in order'... (318 words)

Landing strips for men???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

31 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok so i got bored this morning and when i was in the shower i gave myself a landing strip... I feel a little weird since its usually girls that get them. Is it ok for a guy to have one? Will people think I'm gay or something, will girls laugh at me when they see it?... (57 words)

Will she ever be happy in this relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5256 days ago

31 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok. A friend of mine, who is in a relationship with her bf for 4 years plus, but these 4 years was a rough ride for her. She told me she has initiated a few break ups but patched back with him. She has slept with him once. She tells me he controls her, he is very possessive. ... (169 words)

I want to say no nicely, and I want discretion....

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

31 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I have a married male friend who recently asked me to have an affair with him, I too am married and love my husband dearly and would never cheat on him. How can I let this man know that as much as I like him I do not like him in that way and not for our other firends to find ... (63 words)

I want my children to finish College/ University and I want them to have a good upbringing too but how can I have these both without risking my work and children?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

31 July 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Aunts and Uncles, I am married with 3 children, ages 15, 10 and 5. Since 2007, I left my children and work abroad since my husband couldn't help me financially, I would rather say, he is very irresponsible and wouldn't like to work. He takes care of the children but doe... (582 words)

I need advice about sex...How to be safe, and satisfying

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

31 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - i want to make a safe sex with my girl friend. We are realy sincere with each other therefore we want to make sexual relation between us. . ! Please give me tips by which we make our sex long at night and i don't want her pregnant. Help me s0on. . ! Our meeting is fixed on ... (64 words)

Blowjobs...What's my problem and what do I do about it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

31 July 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok, so I have been married for over 13 years, and have only gotten off by a blowjob once in my life and it wasn't my wife. I love when my wife goes down on me, it's truly amazing to watch her as she engulfs me, but for some reason I just can't cum. It frustrates her, but at the ... (126 words)

Erection issues...need advice!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

31 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hey friends,, I am a 19 yrs old guy, well virgin guy, and I'm facing lot of problems these days. Firstly, i keep getting an erection all day, also at night, its so much more than normal, i believe. whenever i see a hot girl or without any reason, i keep getting an er... (121 words)

I secretly masturbate but don't like doing this ...any advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

31 July 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello, I have been living with My Girlfriend a while now but I secretly masturbate a lot. No one knows about this, I have porn magazines hidden behind the panelling on the bath in the bathroom and I masturbate to them sometimes. I also masturbate sometimes in bed or just bef... (131 words)

Sex has waned in our relationship and I'm thinking of looking elsewhere. Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

31 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my guy for 5 years! I have a high sex drive and he knew this when we first started dating. This was one of the reasons we kept seeing each other as he thought he'd died and gone to heaven...sex on tap! But as the years have gone on he's slowly going off it...he ... (178 words)