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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

FWB sometimes he's sweet, sometimes he's not

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

12 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - first of all I'm 16 NOT 13. Okay. So I've been friends with benifits with this guy for like 2 years..and yes I like him alot..I never told him though cuz I didn't wanna make anything weird..this guy is a major player but when he likes someone he's like..amazingly ... (95 words)

How do I tell my girl how much this frustrates me? which it does... immensely without sounding like an ass?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5275 days ago

12 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, I have been in this relationship with my girl for several months now (long distance) it isn't often that we get to see each other (month or 2 ) I took a week of leave off of where I am to go see her, so we can see each other, have fun...etc. But so happens the day... (254 words)

I want to work in porn but am worried about my boyfriend, its not fair!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5274 days ago

12 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I need help!?! With all the pressure from everyone asking what am I going to do with my life after I graduate high school I had no idea and I talked to my bf about working in porn because it seemed like something I would enjoy and get paid well for. He loved the idea and said " ... (99 words)

I don't know if it's worth working this out...he slept with my "best friend" and she is pregnant with "his" child....

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5275 days ago

12 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay. So i've been with my boyfriend for 11 months now, and have recently found out he was sleeping with my ex best friend for a good six months of our relationship, on and off. The whole reason me and the girl fell out was because she was sleeping or trying it on with my ... (289 words)

I feel so.. not normal because I'm pretty sure most girls my age don't masturbate..

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5273 days ago

12 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - This is kind of embarrassing, but I want to feel better about it. So i'm 16 years old and I masturbate about 3-4 times a week. I'm still a virgin, i've never gone further with a guy than a guy putting his hand down there (over my clothes) and making out. Is this a bad thi... (97 words)

How can I sort this out? Or rather can I sort this out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

12 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey... hope it's okay to post this here. I am in a horrible situation with the guy I am dating and I just wanted to hear what you guys thought of it. It's making me so sad and I just want to sort it out, but I don't know how. I met J about a month and a half ago through mutu... (733 words)

I don't want to carry on like this so do I tell him how I feel or just ignore any contact that he makes in future.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

12 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I met a guy 5 months ago in a bar we got on really well and i ended up taking him back to my place and having sex with him. We then saw each other again 2 days later and had a great time together. But when he went back home he sent me a text saying that even though he liked me ... (305 words)

I'm back to living at home and I'm worried my mum and me will drive eachother insane! How do I deal with this transition?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5275 days ago

12 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I've just finished university and I'm now living at home again. But I'm a little worried about living under my parents roof after living the care-free life of a student. My dad works away during the week, my sister is starting university in September, so from then onward... (257 words)

Holiday romance or real love?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

12 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i went to turkey for the first time on holiday with my mum and dad. we went to this family bar, and i knew that one of the staff fancied me. he made me a paper rose, and then asked to slow dance with me. the next night he bought me a rose and on my last night on holiday he gave ... (482 words)

My stretch marks!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

12 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - im 14 years old and i have stretchmarks. im so embarised by them that i were shorts with my bikkini i like evry part of my body exept my upper legs. does anyone know a cheep way i cood get rid of them bye next summer?... (46 words)

Opinions appreciated. Am I still a virgin... or not?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5273 days ago

12 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi so, im not sure if i lost my virginity, like his penis was in me but he was pretty thick and i was pretty tight and it was my first time so it was really sore, he pulled out though when i said i couldn't take it so does it mean im not a virgin? ... (56 words)

How can I let this go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

12 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been seeing one another for 10 (ten) months now. I love him to bits, and everyone and anyone can see how head over heels I am for him. The only problem is I feel very insecure, because of something that happened in the beginning of our relationship. His ... (328 words)

In a relationship but I don't feel we see each other enough...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5275 days ago

12 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey every1! me and my bf have been going out for more than 3 years and we're both 20(im a month older. He works at least 4 days a week so we only ever end up seeing each other once a week and we text for like 2 hours a day. I feel like this isnt good enough but im not sure ... (123 words)

I found a picture of a girl in her underwear on his phone...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5275 days ago

12 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have recently found in my bf's phone that he has a pic of a girl in her underwear and she is one of his contacts. seeing this really hurt me and i can't seem to get it out of my head. i checked the details and it was received a month ago and by the looks of things hasn't had ... (205 words)

Help! Am I plan "B"???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

12 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so I met this guy and we started texting he was really sweet and we had a lot in common. We talked on the phone for 2 hours one night, and tried to get to know each other more. When we first started talking he said he wanted a relationship and not just sex, that if he wanted ... (172 words)

Our relationship is on the line... how can we get close again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

12 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi all :) Over the past 2 weeks me and my boyfriend have been arguing quite a lot. I've been putting it down to not seeing him as often as i want to, but he doesnt agree. We've been arguing over so many things, he thinks i dont love him, he thinks i'm going to cheat on him when... (270 words)

We've been friends for years but I don't like him "in that way..."

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5270 days ago

12 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have known a guy ever since I was 14. I had my first kiss with him on a party and years later we met again in school. Anyway we kept in touch from then on, but as friends rather then anything else. I met his girlfriends and we sometimes would go somewhere with the three o... (334 words)

I'm scared to meet him because of how I look...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

12 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I've been dating my boyfriend online for like seven months or so, but hes meeting me this summer... sad fact is i have a beautiful face but my body isn't im fat, small boobs (but he likes butts) and im kinda scared to meet him. But I've said i was fat he asked how much i ... (100 words)

Boyfriend issues...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

12 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, I'm 15, and my boyfriend is 17. we started dating on christmas and the first 2 months we had no fights, everything was perfect even though we barely hungout since i had basketball every day and he had to work right when i got out of practice. after basketball season was ... (262 words)

A question of condoms...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5275 days ago

12 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - hey i had a question and i was hoping you could help if a guy has a condom on and it doesnt break could she still get pregnant. ... (28 words)

How can I get inside his head and know how he really feels about me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5276 days ago

12 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - there is a guy at school who is like a dream to me--all the things a girl would want-caring, funny, attentive, sensitive and oh-my-goshly-good-looking...... we are allready friends--quite close come to think of it, but i really really do have a humongourous crush on him.. im ... (230 words)

How do I find my true love...?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5275 days ago

12 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello i am 21 years old and i live in Saudi Arabia and i don't really feel that i belong to the culture or the society that is around me:( for the last few years i been trying to have sex with a girl [teenage] but couldn't find any to the point where i took a chance and ... (173 words)

Why this coldness all of a sudden? Is she going off me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5272 days ago

12 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay so recently my girlfriend has stopped saying I love you and hardly saying any cute.. like not making an effort you know? I mean I just check some text from 5 days ago and it's filled with: I love you's, forever, can't wait, wanna c u again. then I check some from yesterday ... (326 words)

Is it just his teenage hormones and should I tell my partner?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

12 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi all i have a bit of a bizarre problem, i just need some opinions on this. im 25 weeks pregnant and happily living with my partner. since i became pregnant, my partners 16 year old brother has been acting strange towards me. at first i thought he was just excited that... (261 words)

My boyfriend's ex still texts him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

12 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend's ex girlfriend texts him and calls him. It made me rather uncomfortable. They dated for 6 months before he broke up with her, and then started dating me about a month afterwards. It made me feel uncomfortable, and I made it very clear to him that it did. But he ... (352 words)

I dislike being the ugly one..

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5275 days ago

12 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I'm a 15 year old girl in New York. I'm 5'5 and I wiegh 110lbs! All my life, i never felt pretty and the problem is people give me compliments all the time which is i don't get! They compliement on my long hair or how "skinny" I am..I just got my braces off after 3 years ... (124 words)

Dead love, continued agony... it doesn't make sense...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

12 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - BACKGROUND: I met him in fall, 2008 - both in our early 30s, professionals in DC. For about a month, we had a mutual new love with hope, excitement and passion. I fell hard - he was charming, handsome, confident, fun. THE PENDING MOVE: He then told me he was moving we... (579 words)

We seem to be on different pages...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5091 days ago

12 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been seeing a great guy for about two months now. After we were intimate for the first time, I asked him what did he want between us. He let me know that he didn't want something exclusive at the moment. He said some other things, but I just wanted to make sure we were ... (401 words)

Are there any decent guys out there who just want a normal girl, someone who is just normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

12 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have lost of faith in men, I feel so stupid, I have just found out that this guy who I have just starting seeing has multiple "girlfriends", I had no idea and I poured my heart out to him about my past and why I was so shy and scared to commit and he was amazing, he doesn't ... (197 words)

My boyfriend masturbates next to me in bed and wakes me up, and gets defensive when I ask him to stop...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5270 days ago

12 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my current boyfriend for a little over one year. We are very much in love, and have a great sex life, but once in a while have a good argument about eachother's peeves. One that I am CONSTANTLY arguing with him about is the fact that he wakes me up in the ... (339 words)

Healthier eating???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

12 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - First of all, this isn't really a relationship question, but i do need help. Anyway, I've recently started living with my dad, who isn't married, and doesn't have a girlfriend. He also has NO IDEA how to cook, so he always eats out at places like mcdonalds and wendy's and ... (162 words)

I found messages to other women yet he says he loves ME!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5276 days ago

12 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend always tells me how much he loves me and we will be together forever but I found some messages he has sent to other girls when he's drunk saying they're hot or look good or just asking to chat. I did trust him but now I'm having doubts, I'm worried he will cheat ... (85 words)

Our trust and love is all down the drain... Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5276 days ago

12 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - For 2 years, my boyfriend and i has been through a lot. From cheating, to numinous of lies and dishonest but some how we manage to overcome those things and still love each other. A few weeks before our 2 year anniversary, he broke up with me. At that time it was our first year ... (323 words)

How can I spice up my same sex love life???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5275 days ago

12 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, this might sound like a stupid question but here goes anyway.. basically i'm 18, i'm a lesbian and i've been with my gf for 6/nearly 7 months now. she was a virgin when we met so obviously i didn't push her into anything sexual- scary enough the first time let alone w... (176 words)

Ladies: how do you like your sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

12 July 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - A poll for you ladies: How do you normally like your sex... hard and intense, soft and loving, deep, shallow, lots of positions, just favorite positions (tried and true), short in duration or as long as possible? I realize a combination is probably the answer, so if so, p... (60 words)

Why is she reluctant to hang out with me on my own?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

12 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay so I dated this girl over a year ago for 7 months and now we text all the time and when we are in groups she acts like we are still dating but when I ask her to go hang out just the two of us she says that she will only do group things and is uncomfortable if we would do ... (84 words)

I'm worried he'll disappear, based on my past relationships! How do I reassure myself everything's fine?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5275 days ago

12 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been dating this guy for almost a month.We have a great time together but I keep worrying that he's gonna lose interest/disappear. Last guy I dated ending up disappearing once he got a car. I thought he liked me alot but apparently not. So now I have this fear that this ... (275 words)

I feel there is no humanly possible way to keep her satisfied and help her!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5273 days ago

12 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, I am new to this site and joined it because well, I feel like I no longer have anyone else. I can't talk to anyone about how I feel or what is going on in my life. Especially my love life. I have been going out this this girl for about a year now, a little more. Things w... (435 words)

Letting go of an emotionally abusive relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

12 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - ... How do I mend a broken heart after being in an abusive relationship and still caring for that person when they have moved on? He's 24, I'm 22. I have known him nearly 10 years now. He gave me my first kiss when I was 13 but we stopped talking until last September when w... (781 words)

My husband is a madman when he's angry!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

12 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi, i am 23 yrs old and have been married for 3yrs.. my husband is a very nice person, he's loving, caring and loves me alot but when he's angry he gets violent.. he dont let me speak in front of him, he says i have to shut my mouth just because i am his wife (women).. he abuse ... (91 words)

I'm losing hope for this relationship everyday!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

12 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, me and my boyfriend met 15 months ago online when he was in iraq. After a month of talking (i know it was early) but we declared we were in a relationship. He was due to fly home in another 3 months so we were gunna meet when he returned. Two weeks ago i was online talki... (425 words)

Is he bi, curious or very confused?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5275 days ago

12 July 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been dating a wonderful military man for a little over a year and we have talked about marriage. The problem is I question his honesty regarding his sexuality. He has told me of a previous encounter around 10 years ago with two gay men. He has also told me during his ... (220 words)

I'm in an amazing online relationship, only she doesn't know this one thing about me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

12 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi. I'm a 23 year old guy in a situation causing me lots of stress. I really hope you can help me. I'm in an online relationship with an amazing girlfriend. We love each other so much. We've had our ups and downs but we're still together, and our love is stronger than ev... (170 words)

I can wait for him to come back but not wait from him to leave me for someone while I'm waiting.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5276 days ago

12 July 2010 (F) age 30-35 - My question is about the army. I don't really know that much about it and the guy that I'm with loves it he has been in it for a long time and recently got deployed. It has been hard enough not talkin to him for weeks but idk if I can trust him. Before he left we had some ... (189 words)

Ever since he moved he's been acting strangely, what should I do?

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12 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - For the past 3 weeks im having trouble with this guy ive been kinda seeing hes moved house, and since then hes been all funny Basically ive been trying 2 make an effort with things like saying would you like me 2 come pick you up like i used to i always get a reply nah im at ... (183 words)

How should I make my move?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5276 days ago

12 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay Guys and Gals, bit of advice please. A girl i like has just come out of a relationship, and i want to make my move. The past god knows how many times, I've tried to give her time, but everytime, some other guy jumps in. I've told her i want to speak to her, and while she ... (151 words)

Completely in love with my married boss, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5276 days ago

12 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - it is a long story i didn't no how to make it short.. and here it is. i am in love with my boss for 7 years now, as a kid i was the fifth after 4 sisters and had one brother who got all the attention, i went to a girls school, and had no real encounters with boys, an... (928 words)

I think the way I masturbate means I enjoy sex less, how can I fix this??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

12 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm an 18 year old male in a happy and stable relationship of 7 months, with strong sexual intimacy, but I am still deeply worried about one part of me- my penis and its 'phimosis'. My penis is quite big, but it has an annoying thin strip of skin which connects the inn... (233 words)

I got in touch with my old boyfriend, and now I'd rather be with him than my current partner!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5276 days ago

12 July 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - please can anyone help me ? i recently got in touch with an old boyfriend (whom i have always loved deeply and he feels the same) i feel now i cannot go on with my relationship with my present partner who i have been with for 15 years - we havent really been having a normal ... (162 words)

My boyfriend doesn't make any special efforts to make me happy!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

12 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hey all, I m in a weird situation n dnt knw wat to do. My boyfriend and I love each other and I know he cares a lot for me.But he is weird in many respects. Like he will not make any special effort to amke me happy. On my b'day this year..ofcourse he gifted me a diamond r... (254 words)

Sex isn't that great and I'm looking at pretty girls but I have a girlfriend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5275 days ago

12 July 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi im 38 years old and my girlfriend is 25 years old we have been together more than four years the age different is not a problem for us i love her and she loves me she is my best friend i can see us have kids together and get old together sex is ok not grate but it was like ... (216 words)

I can't orgasm, are we having to much sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5275 days ago

12 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I cant stop touching each other! lol We kiss and immediatly, sparks go off. He holds my hand, sparks. He smiles at me, sparks. We laugh together-sparks! He is my first. I always want him! He loves my stamina and sometimes, he'll purposely kiss the back of my ... (178 words)

I have to follow my heart and be with my love but I have a husband!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5272 days ago

12 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am married to a fantastic man and 2 beautiful children. My husband has been working alot, we are trying to save money to buy a house so we are in a rental now and it seems this is the hardest time for us. It is like we just co-exist in the same house. I went out with a man ... (291 words)

I don't know what went wrong!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5276 days ago

12 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - well..this particular guy was so keen on wooing me and at last i fell for him and the relationship went good for 3 years..but now he's trying to avoid me at all cost.He doesn't even care to look at me.Can somebody help me on what went wrong?... (47 words)

I wonder, how long does it take a man to fall in love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5275 days ago

12 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've only been in one serious relationship which lasted three years and my ex and I told each other "I love you" within a few weeks and meant it. We went through a lot during our time together and were always there for each other...we only ended because he moved back to ... (201 words)

I think I led him on and now don't know what to do

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4122 days ago

12 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I am 17 and just had my first kiss with a guy. I went to prom with him, had a good time, but then haven't really talked to him since last night. I never really liked him even though he's the perfect guy and now I'm afraid I've led him on with that kiss from last night, a... (85 words)

My girlfriend had an encounter with my friend before she met me and I cant seem to get over it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

12 July 2010 (M) age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I have been dating for almost 6 months now and things are going amazingly way. I met her at college so we are currently doing the long distance thing until we go back to school in the Fall. The whole experience has made us a lot closer, so we began to talk a ... (320 words)

Is it normal to hurt so much after this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5275 days ago

12 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i am 17 years old and last night my bf fingered me for the first time. Ive only ever read about what an amazing experience it is but it really hurt. I can barely even touch down there this morning because bits of it is still painful. Im guessing this isnt normal? ... (52 words)

I really like his friendship but not attracted to him sexually, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

12 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been going out with a guy for over a year, and we get along pretty good, and have a lot of the same interests. However, I have never been sexually attracted to him. I was at first, until I realized the sex was not very good at all. The kissing isn't very good either. ... (131 words)

My boyfriend is really controlling but I cant dump him because I have been with him for too long!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

12 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been going out with my boyfriend for more than two years now and at first he was good but now he is controlling me. its that bad i cant go on the computer, msn, have facebook or even look and listen to boys on tv! i cant have boy mates or girl mates and its getting to a ... (113 words)

What can I do to improve our relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

12 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend seems to care less and less about our relationship for some time now.. I've broken the trust in the relationship with my boyfriend of 3 years before by lying constantly and he told me frankly that he could no longer fully trust me, or would not give me benefits of ... (167 words)

He hits me when he is drunk....how long should I ignore him for this time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

12 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - my bf hit me once drunk...because i went out with a "slut" for a party..he was scared i'll turn into her pretty insecure bf there..but the fact that he hit me wasnt good.i stopped talking for a week and he came back begging for me..so i got back with him..he said he would ... (233 words)

Wife has feelings for another man?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5276 days ago

12 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My wife of 2 years (together for 7) went on a 16 day trip to Japan with a group of teachers for an award that she won. While there, she became close with another man that lives in the states, but on the opposite side of the country. At first, she told me they were just friends ... (188 words)

Should I ask her these questions I have about the future or is it too soon?

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12 July 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi All, I am 30 years old, its been 8 months that i got out of a unhappy marriage, about 5 months ago i met this girl that i now totaly adore and love, initially when we started getting serious she did tell me that she at one point was lesbian..when we have sex, she do... (276 words)

Where does sexual desire come from?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

12 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am wondering about low libido! Some people say that the desire can be somewhat controlled in the brain. What do you think??? Where does that lust come from? ... (29 words)

Am I correct in thinking - "this is flirting"?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5275 days ago

12 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi Readers. I’m looking for other peoples views on flirting... I’m in a situation at the minute where I’m falling for a friend of mine (yea I know – difficult situation!) Thing is I think the feeling may be mutual... So I’ll give you some examples of what I felt to be... (329 words)

Do I wait for her to choose?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5276 days ago

12 July 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been in a on and off relationship for close to 10 years which started in College. Most of the offs were my fault. The last time we got back together 2 years ago I thought things had been really going well. I proposed about a year ago and we started to plan out ... (475 words)

Should I divorce this man who does not seem to love me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

12 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My problem is this: I am married to a kind, caring man. He is respectful and wants to take care of me and our child (materialistically that is). The main problem is that he shows no affection, does not say he loves me unless I say it first, doesn't initiate sex, never tells me ... (411 words)

Why have I got baby fever now I am with my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5276 days ago

12 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey there me and my bf have been dating for almost 7 months... And since we went over 4 months, I started to getting the baby bug... I was very scared for babies before I met my bf... And now I really really like to know...why do I have baby fever really bad when I'm with my bf ... (66 words)

I've loved him for 3 years but now he is married, what should I do?

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12 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - hi please help me im in love someone last 3 years he also love me lots but last 2 month he get married another girl but cant stop relation with me. also i am also not stopped this relation with me and him but now i feel very bad because i dont want to share him to any girl ... (94 words)

Is he trying to stay away from me or is there a chance he likes me?

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12 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i talked to this guy for a while now he always texts me everyday and we talk i thought maybe he likes me because of all the signals and i thought that he might..his cousin even told my own sister asking if we were together because he keeps talking about me. the down... (370 words)

Why are her parents so strict on when she can have sex?

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12 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Well, as usual, I am one of those teenages boys outside who is in doubt about sex and want to know more and discuss about it. What I what to ask is, should parents intervene their children when to have sex or having a sexual relationship (genital touching) if they are an adul... (1104 words)

Why did he flirt with me then all of a sudden leave?

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12 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm really confused and my heart has been really broken please help.my sister told me about a guy that was into me and that wanted to get to know me i saw him at a club once i thought he knew who i was thinking my sister showed him pictures of me i said hi and he just hugged me ... (469 words)

They are divorced, she is re-marrying, so why is he still so involved with his ex wife?

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12 July 2010 (F)

age - My bloke got divorced after 25 years because he was very unhappy and we got together again having been childhood sweethearts. He didn’t allow himself the time to recover from his marriage but rather jumped straight from one thing to the other. As you can imagine, it has been ... (502 words)

Why was my orgasm during sex the same as when I masturbate?

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12 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I was having sex with my boyfriend and I was on top and I got an orgasm, but it felt like the same orgasm I have when I rub myself, it wasn't that intense, lasted about 20 seconds and I was done. I was wondering if this because of my clit maybe rubbing against his body, or ... (112 words)

How do I break up with him?

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12 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - So I have decided to break up with my boyfriend of 8 years but I dont know how to go about it, i'm really scared as I know he will be really upset with me. But I have been really unhappy for some time. I try to pretend that the way we are living and have been living for the ... (82 words)

Mother from hell, please help!

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12 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hey everyone, hope you can help me sort this out. iv been dating a guy for a couple weeks now, and were getting on so well, i really like him. The one major issue thats come up now is my mother. shes such a lovely woman, but shes also too interfereing. she inter... (314 words)

He hasn't said he loves me yet, am I just a fool?

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12 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - he hasn't said he loves me am I a fool? I've been with my boyfriend for 4 months going strong. Before that we met in January and went out 6-7 times and broke up for a month cos he was unsure if he wanted to commit to our relationship. He came back and fully commited to me b... (1001 words)

I'm ready for sex at 13 but I don't have anybody to share my first time with!

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12 July 2010 (?) age 26-29 - I AM READY for sex, but i don't have anybody to share my first time with. What should i do? I truly am ready, but i want the first time to be with a guy but i really am ready... what do i do?... (44 words)

What's going through his head?

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12 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been in an on and off relationship with one of my long time guy friends. After one of the breakups I realized I loved him. Not just stupid teen love where you think you do. I love everything about him even his flaws I can trust him 100 percent. I told him how I felt and ... (210 words)

I'm worried my dad's friend is attracted to me......

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12 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Here it is. My dad(45 yrs old) has this friend who's only a year younger than him. They've been friends as long as I can remember, plus they work together and we go to the same church. With him being so close to my dad, we've developed a really close relationship. I don't ... (475 words)

I'm scared my boyfriend will cheat on me! What can I do?

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12 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Well me and my boyfriend have been dating for 7 months and hes the first guy who hasnt cheated on me. I really love him and our sex life is great, but he smokes pot and lies alot. We always argue. He almost broke up with me because he said he didnt trust himself when he goes to ... (166 words)

Who does he like, me or my best friend?

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12 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I liked this boy for a long time and he knows it. He always looks at me and smiles.., My BFF likes him too. I thought I was getting on his nerves so one night I asked him if he disliked me. He said that he doesn't dislike me and see me as someone who understands him more then ... (157 words)

My heart is broken, how can I get over this?

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12 July 2010 (?) age 26-29 - How do you get over a broken heart? 'Cause right now... mine is shattered! The guy i loved, just wanted me to give him oral sex... again... i admit i did it only once though, but then all he wanted to do was get me in the sheets. He said we were dating, then after he asks me to ... (75 words)

My girlfriend cheated on me, and I can't seem to get over it!

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12 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, My girlfriend of 8 months cheated on me and I haven't been able to deal with it very well. She told me on our 8 month anniversary that she went to a bar, a guy bought her drinks and she got really drunk. She ended up sleeping with him. I broke up with her the next day. Ev... (311 words)

My brother is only 15 but his crazy girlfriend wants to get pregnant and then get married, what can I do to stop this?

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12 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - my bro and his girlfriend were together for 1 yr. they texts more than 24hrs although they just came back from date, thanks to that my bro sleeps every 2am. yesterday they posted a photo of them kissing together on fb, i was really shocked..i mean they're just 14yrs old and ... (275 words)

My boyfriend proposed to me, but I have feelings for someone else!

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12 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am committed since last 5 years, but just realized i was just fulfilling a commitment and am now in love with the other guy.Please help! I have always stick to the belief that i love the person in my life and i as a girl wanted to give him happiness, i waanted to b loy... (266 words)

Is my penis big enough for sex?

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12 July 2010 (M) age 30-35 - I have a 4 inch penis. I am 15 years old, but I am growing every day and I want to have sex with my girlfriend. Is this normal?... (29 words)

Why the double standard?

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12 July 2010 (?) age 41-50 - Why do guys become 'the man', and girls become 'the slut' after sex too soon? i slept with a guy that chased me like crazy and yeah I know...I shouldnt have. if he stopped contact because he thought I was easy, then how is this not a double standard?pretty sure I wasnt having ... (96 words)

She's engaged, but I want to be with her!

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12 July 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I'll try to make this as short as I can. I had a crush on this girl for several years. I told her how I felt a few times and got shot down each time. Eventually I told her that I give up. That was about 5 years ago. We ended up not talking to each other for about year aft... (176 words)

He touched me, now I feel guilty! What should I do?

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12 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Well, I am 14 years old I am know as the good girl in my school straight A's all that but i had a boy friend and he tried to touch me where I didn't feel convertible. I rejected him the first few times... But then i gave in. I feel so guilty. Should i feel guilty? We didn't ... (96 words)

He lies all the time! Should we stay together?

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12 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My fiance lies to me on a regular basis, I can tell when he is lying and when I confront him he tries to turn it around on me. We argue about it and then he admits he lied and promises he wont do it again. Then a week later he lies to me again. I have been dealing with problem ... (116 words)

Are these indications he likes me?

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12 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Is this typical for someone secretly crushing? Okay, when my crush and I run into some of his friends, i get the feeling that i have been the topic of discussion among them cause it seems like they already know me without saying anything... Then when we are in a group si... (145 words)

Do men become less sexually attracted to their partners as time passes?

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12 July 2010 (F) age 30-35 - I was reading a question here, about whether men fantasize about other women or not when they're in relationships. I understand they do, and that it's healthy (I mean, yeah, it'd be A BIT weird that a guy could only get it up with one woman). But one of the guys said that a... (261 words)

I don't understand why he's become distant!

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12 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I met a boy in Montana about two weeks ago. We hung out a few times while I was there and we had an instant connection. I have never felt so comfortable around a guy in my entire life. He kept telling me how much he wished i lived in Montana, and how i should even go to college ... (234 words)

Do I walk or do I wait?

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12 July 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 10 months now and we have never so much as even had a fight. He has been very busy with work and other obligations so we have only been able to see each other about once a week, which was fine because we would talk on the phone every day ... (564 words)

I snooped through his phone, how can I get his trust back?

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12 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, Today I looked through my boyfriend's phone. I know it was wrong but I was just curious. Now hes terribly mad at me and won't speak to me. We live together and he is the love of my life. He put a lock on his phone and told me not to go through his things anymo... (88 words)

Should I tell my friend I dislike her new boyfriend?

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12 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - My friend has been dating this guy for a little over five months. Ive never met him, but from what she tells me, i dont like him. he is like 3 years older than here. He does drugs, and has been in trouble with cops a time or two, and he hurts her constantly. (mentally, not ... (148 words)

Was something ever there?

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12 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - we both come from Indian-Pakistani cultures where guys party and then find a "good girl". I look like the party type bc I have those friends and have training in makeup. Yet the truth is, while in college I lived at home, am quite a nerd and am so picky and uninterested in ... (1296 words)

I humiliated my partner in front of her kids, now she wont speak to me! I know I was wrong, but how can I make this better?

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12 July 2010 (M) age 41-50 - I embarrassd my lady of 3yrs in front of her house with her kids being there...it was so wrong...she is ten weeks pregnant with our baby and for the last 2 days she wont reply talk or text me back...she's bipolar and can't take meds, pls give me help... (49 words)

I still miss my ex after we broke up two years ago crying my eyes out, even though I'm happily in a new relatioship can someone tell me why??

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12 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I been holding this in for awhile now I guess, I keep missing my ex even though we been over for almost 2 years now. We lived together for two years before our breakup and knew each other since teenage year. In some way he saved me from myself but in the end I couldn't save him ... (250 words)

I'm finding it hard to get pregnant! What can I do?

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12 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I been trying to get pregnant for a while now! My boyfriend smokes weed too! I want a baby but its hard to get one! Is there any way I can get pregnant? Please help!!... (35 words)

Women only: Do you like the "wife beater" t-shirts on guys?

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12 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Aunts, My boyfriend and I have made a bet. He says girls think guys look sexy when they wear those "wife beater" t-shirts. I say they look very tacky; especially worn without a shirt over them, and most girls think as I do. So this is where you all come in. I'm o... (105 words)

Don't know how to say no to my ex

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12 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been in a reltaionship for about 10 months, I cheated on my boyfriend once during the first month. it basically killed me. i felt aweful and told him we fought but decided that we could get through it. I told my self i would never do it again because I love my boyfriend ... (114 words)

For all of those people that have obvious flaws, how did you find your mate?

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12 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey guys, I am 22 and I've never had a boyfriend. I have wonderful personality, I'm intelligent, educated, I love new things, having fun, and I am decent in terms of looks; I have a nice body, cute face...the blatant flaw is, unfortunately my teeth. They are not straight nor... (99 words)

He used to do shows on-line for money

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12 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been dating/living with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now. About a year ago he admitted to me he used to do shows online for money but he doesn't do it anymore and he is no longer in contact with any of the people. I found out he was still talking and doing occasional ... (145 words)

How do you find out what you're passionate about?

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12 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey guys, I'm kind of in a bind. I just graduated from college in May with a BBA in accounting. I'm currently interning this summer and it turns out, I HATE accounting. I thought that I would love in while I was in school so I never really considered any other career opt... (167 words)

Men, would this turn you on?

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12 July 2010 (F)

- Here's a question for the male readers. You're at a bar by yourself one night, listening to a band and a woman comes up to you who is not really that great looking; short hair, big hips, kind of flat chested, has alot of tattoos and she walks up to you, leans over and runs her ... (110 words)

Torn between two "Loves of my Life"

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12 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been in an "off and on relationship" for 10 years with Bill. Bill and I met in college and have a tumultuous past (he always did the breaking up), but we always seemed to fall back in love with each other. The last time we got together was 2 years ago, we moved, and he ... (236 words)

We've been friends -- is he interested?

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12 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been Friends with this guy since the middle of the school year. We weren't good friends or anything. Partners actually. But we text every now and then. I hung out with him all Weekend And I REALLY like him. And it seems like he may be interested too. But I don't know! ... (273 words)

Why would she say all this?

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12 July 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok so me and my ex broke up a couple months ago cuz she said she just wanted to be single for a bit. These are some things she said during the time of the break up...."I'm 100% certain we will be together one day for the rest of our lives." "I've always wanted that and always ... (175 words)

She's shy about showing me her lady parts

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12 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - ok so me and my gf have been together for 7 months now and we are beyond the sexual level of our relationship...well just lately i been having an issue because she wont show me her LADY part (vagina), now thats not the problem. The problem is she always ask to see mine but ... (202 words)

Hubby's lack of sex, what can I do, serious help needed

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12 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married for 12 yrs now I am 29yrs old, when i first met my hubby sex was great then we had 2 ids and i am sexualy active and my husband is no longer intrested in sex, i have been looking online for someone for friend with benefit just to release my stress of sex but ... (262 words)

Which sexual act do guys prefer?

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12 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I will keep this short and simple. Guys which sexual act would you most prefer from a girl, a handjob, a blowjob, or intercourse, and would your preference change if you were in a relationship or just looking for casual encounters? Thanks you....... (46 words)

My boyfriend slept with someone else while I was asleep in our bed.

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12 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. I'm in an open relationship with my boyfriend - but instead of seeing other people on our own, we usually just invite people in for threesomes. We've had many successful threesomes, and although I was monogamous before this relationship - I've dealt with the jealousy quite ... (505 words)

Married for six year, hardly any sex

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12 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i been married for 6 years,since the first 6 month of our marriage my husband always rejects having sex with me,i try to put cute lungery on he say he is tired,we have sex seven to 9 times a year i am so frusteted i even start thinking he is gay,i ask for oral sex he told me is ... (112 words)

I fell for him but wonder if he still likes me?

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12 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ive fallen for someone and i dunno if i regret it or not we went out few days ago for the first time, and got on well, we kissed and that at the end of our date but i dunno if he wants a relationship, hes sucha nice guy thou, like amazing i had a convo with him on msn to... (224 words)

Do you think she's interested in being more than friends with him?

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12 July 2010 (?) age 36-40 - My boyfriend has a college major that requires him to work in groups for projects very frequently. Someone often in his group is his best female friend. I don't care that they work together in groups, but it always seems like she's trying to take it farther. For example: ... (520 words)

Never had a relationship at 19

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12 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 19 and I have never had a relationship, boyfriend, or even been kissed. Am i the only one out there? Is there something wrong with me? Is there anything i can do to improve my pathetic social life?... (40 words)

What do you think this song means and why would you ever post that as your status?

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12 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Song is called "Stereo love" by Edward Maya and Vika. If your a guy, what do you think this song means and why would you ever post that as your status. Yes, I'm over-analyzing but this guy is NOT emotional. Is it when you meet a new love...or remember the old...or... (484 words)

What scents drive him wild?

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12 July 2010 (?) age 41-50 - Are there really scents/ perfumes that snag a man's attention more than others?? this is something a friend and I are dying to know! I once heard in college that vanilla scents were proven to send blood straight to the privates...um is that true guys? lol now women...what ... (68 words)

Her shyness is holding her back from oral

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12 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hmm... were to start, well ive been with my girlfriend for 15 months now,we have had sex but never oral, all of a sudden she comes out with she wants to give me a blowjob but she is scared, i can read her like a book and what she means is she wants to do it but is shy,now of ... (86 words)

Worried about sex with my new b/f

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12 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've dated this guy for almost 3 years, we had sex a lot. I'm 16, but I'll be 17 in November. Well me and my boyfriend of 3 years broke up a while back and I've moved on to someone else and we have been dating for a couple months, we've been good friends for awhile before ... (161 words)

Found dirty texts on her phone - is it reasonable to ask for more access?

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12 July 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I found dirty texts from another guy and responses from my wife in her phone. Now my question is should i just leave it be and is it okay for me to want her to be open with her phone and email and facebook and let me have access. Or is that over the top and a little to ... (60 words)

Diagnosed as bi-polar following an abusive relationship

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12 July 2010 (?) age 41-50 - I was in an abusive relationship for two years, and shortly after I was diagnosed as being bipolar.....a result of severe emotional trauma by my ex. my question is, how do I tell the man I love about this, without judgement?? I'm scared to get close again to any man for fear ... (61 words)