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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Should I wait this year out to be with him even though he may break my heart?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

30 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok sooo. Last year I dated this guy who I was totally in love with but he basically broke up with me a week after we had sex. I felt totally used and hurt. Though he promised me it wasnt something he liked doing but he couldnt do long distance he just missed me too much. He ... (257 words)

Help, I'm so confused about my sexuality...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

30 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I've always liked girls but the last three years or so I've had nuthin but bad luck with them.... I was telling one of my brother's gay friends about my problems and he said that I might be gay or bi........ so i did soem work and im not sure and need help. I masturbate to gay ... (126 words)

He wants me to choose between him and his brother...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

30 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I have a boyfriend and we have been going out for a long time i love him a lot and his older brother is my best friend. His brother was acting a little wierd around me and then he told me that he loved me and that i have to chose between him and his brother. I dont know wat to ... (80 words)

How to diffuse a wife who screams and yells when she is mad???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5239 days ago

30 July 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - What is the best way to deal with a wife who starts yelling, slamming doors, saying nasty mean things every time we argue? My wife never used to be this way, but in the last couple of years her temper is just escalating. I guess she feels it is her prerogative to yell and say ... (216 words)

People phobia...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5258 days ago

30 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So im 18 and im getting ready to start college i just have a few last minute things to work out. Here's the problem, i get nervous and shy around new people and when i go to college that's all that's going to be around is new people im scared shitless!I keep thinking about ... (257 words)

My boyfriend hits me I need help and advice please!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

30 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 20 years old, Basically i have been with my bf for a year and 4 months into the relationship he started getting violent. it began by him punching things around his like a wall or the car dashboard, then when he got more angry he started to actually use force towards me. I'd ... (391 words)

Was it wrong to message my ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5258 days ago

30 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I know i shouldnt care about my ex, and that i should let him go out of my life, except i caved in a asked him to clear up a rumour i heard. I heard that he's dating a new girl and i messaged him and asked if it was true or not and told him if it is, he moves on fast as we only ... (78 words)

My best friend's girlfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5257 days ago

30 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - So here's the deal... I'm really falling for my best friend's girlfriend. But it's a bit complicated.. I've known the girl (we'll call her Lisa) since I was in middle school, and ever since then, we've been pretty good friends. We used to live in the same neighborhood and... (1072 words)

I'm thinking of becoming an "escort". Any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

30 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi im 16 years old and i have no qualifications as i got kicked out of school, i am considering becoming a protitute or joining a escort agency but i was just wondering can i even become an escort if i am only 16 nearly 17, i have no other income and i cannot get into collage ... (72 words)

SICK of oral...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5258 days ago

30 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I really enjoy oral sex, both giving and receiving it. The only person I've ever done this with is my current boyfriend. Not too long ago, we were joking around about oral sex (I'm not going to go into needless details) but I joked that I would come over to give him a blow job ... (199 words)

How do you tell a guy you're just not interested???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5258 days ago

30 July 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi Can someone please suggest a nice way to tell a guy that i'm not interested. Just so everyone knows, I'm 40 and recently single (divorced less than a year) so i can make my own decisions. I met my friends dad recently in a not so nice circumstance. His dau... (277 words)

Do guys like toys too???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

30 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Do guys EVER like vibrators on there cocks? if so where on the balls? i want to try it on my BF but he's never tried it so any advice would be great!!... (33 words)

No matter what I do to make myself look better it backfires... help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5257 days ago

30 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Okay, I guess I don't where to start here. I guess I can start by saying that I'm in a relationship with a man who I love. This is also the first "serious" relationship I've had(that is where I feel like the love is requited and the man treats me decently.I'm 32, no joke). My ... (390 words)

Wife was mad at her father, then he died, now she is mad at me

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30 July 2010 (M)

age - My wife's father died 2 months ago. She didn't really get along too well with him and in fact was mad at him about something at the time, although she did take care of him toward the end. She used to like me well enough but now she seems mad all the time. My question is, does ... (108 words)

Love or leave?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5257 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) age 30-35 - I was with this guy for 7 months but he never cared about me and would dog me and he's moved on but the thing is his cousin and me wanna be together do you think thats wrong???????????? to be with his cousin...... (43 words)

What can I do to believe and trust him again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5258 days ago

30 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok I am lost and in a daze right now. I found out my husband has been cheating on me for the past year. The one girl had a baby recently and said its my husbands but its possible its someone elses. I also found out he was seeing her and talking on the phone to another girl. He ... (216 words)

Do I tell him... or keep my loyalty with the club?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

30 July 2010 (F)

age - We have a social club that hires a gentleman to entertain weekly. I am currently involved romantically with him. Unfortunately, I just found out that the club is going to discontinue him next year. Do I tell him or keep my loyalty to the club. I work hard for the club in a non ... (68 words)

He said he needs sex to feel commitment!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

30 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I asked a question awhile ago and the answers I got were not the ones I was looking for, so I am going to add more detail and ask the question a little different. I have known my boyfriend for 2 years, We have been dating now for 7 months. His only other relationship was... (261 words)

My boyfriend seems to "Move" to fast! Please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

30 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - MOD Notes: OP's own title: Well I just turned 14 a few days ago. My boyfriend is 15 and he will be 16 in december. He comes over to my house a lot. We usual hang out in my room. My room is in the basement. I usual have family members walking down stairs looking at us so they ... (300 words)

Whens it time to end it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5258 days ago

30 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Mods Note: OPs own title: So lets call this guy J. Me and J met 4 years ago on the computer thru a netural friend. (He was my moms friends step son before his dad and her broke up) So basically her x step son. Anyways, we clicked so quickly and would talk for hours, almost the ... (384 words)

Everything was fine, but he's turned funny, can anyone give me any ideas why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

30 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - There is a guy I have liked for a long time who I have cause to see once a week. I decided to let him know I liked him a while ago. We are both unattached so I didn't think there was anything to lose. He told me he didn't think of me in that way and just wanted things to... (220 words)

How long am I meant to last during sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

30 July 2010 (?) age 36-40 - Hai, I am 24M. I had sex when i was 21 and it did not lasted for more than 10mins and my gf broke up with me as she wanted to go long. since then i gave up untill a week bak i met this woman who was 35 and we met and very soon got so comfotable that we had sex the same night, ... (204 words)

I dwell on things, how can I be more assertive?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5256 days ago

30 July 2010 (?) age 41-50 - I always let what people say to me get to me and bring me down. I've had run-ins with ex-friends years ago that I still dwell upon and let it affect how I feel. I dwell upon a lot of things that people have said to me and it keeps running through the back of my mind. I try to ... (151 words)

How do I tell our parents, my gf may be pregnant? Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

30 July 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - My gf is pregnant. Her and I are 14. I'm thinking about telling my family and hers but I dont know how. A bit ago we had unprotected sex. And I'm waiting to know if she is pregnant or not. What should I tell my parents??? Please help... (48 words)

In dire need of advice!! Is he too weird?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

30 July 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Been dating a man 10 yrs older than me (never married, no kids, engaged a few times) for 3 months now. I thought I was in love with him after a month or so, but now when I say it...I just don't feel it. I think it's because he's a bit odd. He's in his late 50's, no friends, ... (183 words)

Am I being used by a married woman?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5230 days ago

30 July 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - hi all, hope someone can help. it has been two years since a have fallen for a work collegue. we could not be any more different. im 33 and she is 48. i am white and she is black. and here is the big bomb shell...... she is married. anyway, i tell her all the tim... (361 words)

Will 18 year old boyfriend be in trouble if my parents approve of us dating?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

30 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey there. soo im kindof confused.ive been looking for the answer everywhere. But im 15 and my boyfriend is 18 my parent approve of us dating im almost 16 and we wanna have a kid as crazy as it sounds but will he get charged by the stated with anything or will it be okay becau... (65 words)

In Search of Truth

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

30 July 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm in a situation that is driving me insane. My wife of 6 1/2 years says that she has only had sex with 3 men in her life; a high school boyfriend, her ex-husband, and me. Following her divorce she dated a guy that I now work with (they probably dated a half dozen times... (342 words)

We dated for 2 years, broke up and are now together but she's unsure of us

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5258 days ago

30 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend and i were together for 2 years. just after our 2 year anniversary she dumped me. She had a list of things that i did wrong during our relationship. And she was right. i took a lot for granted. didnt respect her feelings. I never cheated or anything like that i j... (528 words)

My boyfriend needs to hide from me because I'm always jumping on him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5258 days ago

30 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend needs to hide from me- I'm always at him! lol He obliges me when I do want to um...toss the sheets or whatever :p but then, right after, I feel like jumping him again and have to hold myself back. In the car, I'm always kissing his neck and he seems to like it but, ... (158 words)

I wonder why he's not interested after having sex with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

30 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I was really confused , I meet a guy in dating site its kinda adulthsite for casual sex. This guy is interested to get to know me persona, we share a lot of things through chatting ,I know his past relation were share things over the internet and he knows that I'm using the ... (284 words)

I can't get rid of thrush and am too embarrassed to go to the doctor

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

30 July 2010 (M)

age - i have had very bad thrush for about 6 years i went to the doctors about it and he gave me a perscription for clotrimazole 1% cream.it did the job while i was applying the cream but as soon as it got better and i stopped the cream it came back with a fury .so i just went to the ... (129 words)

New guy claims to have gotten an STD from me and its ruined our relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

30 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I am trying right now to get over the worst thing that has ever happened to me in my romantic life. About a month ago I met this guy at a club and we really hit it off and have been living a real intense, romantic life for the last month. He called me beautiful, an angel, ... (499 words)

Why doesn't this guy like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5258 days ago

30 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - please forgive me for asking but im really upset and need advice. my best friend is friends at work with a guy who doesnt like me. why ? because he works with another woman who is very bitchy and doesnt like me and he has been listening to her and has never acknowledged me.... (193 words)

Is it normal to find your husband looking at other naked men?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

30 July 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Is it normal to find your husband looking at other naked men, in provocative way on internet, and find myself am I married to a closet case? Sex is good, when I initiate, due to medications he is at times unable to finish performance... (45 words)

I hate my boyfriends friends

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5230 days ago

30 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years now. We have made it through long distance and everything. He is back for the summer and has to leave soon to go back to school. We all went to school together i'm 2 years younger than them. All of his friends are in a... (529 words)

He wants to have sex but I can't relax

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

30 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a boyfriend and he wants have sex but I can't relax and he puts on slow music and gives me a massage but my heart keeps racing just when he does this and he kisses me on my neck and I just can't take it so what should I do.... (52 words)

Does it mean he wants only sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) age 30-35 - If a guy says he wants to lie you down and strip you, does that mean he wants sex, and does it mean he wants only sex ?... (28 words)

I know I'm straight but I'm paranoid

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5255 days ago

30 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - help im 15 and ive been paranoid for a few months about being gay when ino im straight and im wondering if i cud have an illness or if it has anything other serious to do with it i only masturbate to stright porn aswell ps: for those hu say gay ... (114 words)

Can I move out at 15? I don't have a good relationship with my always ill mother.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5258 days ago

30 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey, this isn't a relationship question but I don't know where else to turn. My mum has been ill for over 10 years and from a young age I have looked after her. I left school at 13 and developed depression. My brother's left home and my dads always working. For nearly a yea... (187 words)

We are having an affair and she feels guilty for cheating on her hubby!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5257 days ago

30 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I am 24 and she is 28 and married. We had a strong relationship and her husband works out of country. She hasn't met him in two years. We started as friends and became very close. It all happened on our road trip to another city while returning. She started it by sleeping... (168 words)

Reunited with a lost love!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

30 July 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - A lover from my past has been looking for me. After 10 years plus he finally finds me. We do communicate through email only. He reminisces about the past and went through a lot to get to me. When I moved away we were on good terms. Just lost contact. He tells me he has found ... (154 words)

How can I increase her sex drive?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5246 days ago

30 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi,i'm sad and need your help.My GF is a guru whan it comes to blow jobs.Due to the sexual healing i receive from her,i named her my sex machine. she knows lot of sexy things to do and does them at the right time.She knows were to touch, whan to touch, and how to touch ... (131 words)

How can I make myself so mom won't be nasty to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

30 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my mum is always nasty to me and just picks on me for nothing. she has just come home and i am sat on my laptop and just asked her how was work? and she said as if you care! now get upstairs! i dont understand why she is like this. i do well at school my room is tidy i clean ... (146 words)

Ex boyfriend doesn't want to date me but keeps asking if I am dating.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5255 days ago

30 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i broke up about four months ago and i was really upset he was my first boyfriend and not to mention my first love. He said he was moving away and ended up not moving which was the reason for the break up and he also didn't know what he wanted that seems to be ... (284 words)

Do I play it off like I know nothing about her "secret date"?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5172 days ago

30 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Lol i forgot to mention that I am not a female age 20-22 I am a male 36yr old. This is my sisters page. Ok here goes. This girl that i like and myself recently (about 9 days)got into a verbal spat and to kinda let it die i havent contact her since. Yesterday i find ou... (374 words)

Do you women think this could have happened?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5209 days ago

30 July 2010 (M)

age - Hello, i'm older male that is wanting to know about something that happened yrs ago. I recently caught my wife in a terrible lie! When my naive gf went upstairs with a guy at a party to talk she told me that they made out, he touched her bare tits, he touched her crotch, ... (284 words)

Will my boyfriend's feelings towards me change if he knew I liked lesbian porn?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

30 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a female in my early twenties and I like to watch lesbian porn sometimes. I'd say I watch it about 50/50 compared to hetero porn. I'm worried that my (serious)boyfriend will think of me differently if I tell him I do. He likes girl on girl, and girl/girl/guy po... (153 words)

I'm worried my g/f might like her friend more than she likes me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5258 days ago

30 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey all, i'm a 19 year old gay female living in the uk. currently have a gf who i've been with a few months. we are in a long distance relationship and although its sometimes hard being apart, its a great relationship for the most part. we have a good sex life and when i ... (306 words)

I'm 23, do I need viagra?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5228 days ago

30 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Well its been about a month since my boyfriend and I broke up. The thing is that I can't seem to get erect during sex like I used to. I feel awkward and it feels really different. I am versatile so I can top or bottom. I have done both but I don't seem to stay hard or I ... (142 words)

Un motivated boyfriend.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

30 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so i am almost 16 years old with a 19 and a half boyfriend. We have been going out for a year and a half. Last year he enrolled in a college thirty minutes from the town we live in and he lived in a dorm. His parents have insisted on paying his college money so he has ... (425 words)

Is he only interested in having a sex buddy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

30 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi i really need a second opinion on this! I've met this guy thru a cousin of mine they work together. He's a really nice guy, clever and funny and we get on great for most part!at first i wasn't sure about him beacause he's not really my type but my type is usually the wron... (301 words)

My fiance just feels like an excellent roommate, nothing else

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5258 days ago

30 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My fiance and I have been together for 2 yrs, and 7 months. And, We keep arguing, like, coming back to the same argument, over and over again. He expects me to change my whole personality for him. Because, I am a quiet person, but he wants me to be more talkative. I do that. ... (253 words)

In love with my brothers friend !!! help me to understand his signs. Does he like me back???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

30 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in love with my brothers friend, and I really don't know what to do.. I'm not sure about what he feels and thinks of me, and I need help.. I've known this guy since I was a little girl.. We used to be very good friends when we were little kids. We were always together,... (711 words)

I feel so bad at the thought of why I get treated differently, why am I different as a friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5176 days ago

30 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi i need help with a friendship. I need to improve it. Quickly. I know it wont happen at the click of a finger and maybe i am hoping its gonna happen quicker than it will but either way i would do anything to get it there. Me and this guy are good friends, well hes said we are ... (525 words)

The Psycho In-Laws

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5258 days ago

30 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay. I've been with my boyfriend for almost a year now, and his parents still hate me. :( I'm 15 and so is he.. and we are both virgins. We want to have sex, but there isnt a time and place for it. We never get to spend time together outside of school and church, so i don't ... (96 words)

I love a man that died 3 years before I was born

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

30 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - See, there's this guy. I'm in love with him, but nobody understands it, not even myself, actually. Some say I'm too young to fall in love, I just find guys beautiful, but for the first time on my small life I can say I'm in love... I never thought this would happen but for the ... (136 words)

Are soulmates always destined to be together?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

30 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - *OP's Original Title* Hi, I'm a 17 year old girl, and about 4 months ago I've met a guy one year younger than I am. Initially it started as friendship, but soon enough we developed a very strong bond, and we started hanging out more and more until he confessed his feelings... (359 words)

I like him but he never wants to go out!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

30 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a problem. My boyfriend never wants to go out with me. He says it's becasue he doesnt have much money, which he doesnt, as he doesnt have a job, is on Income Support, which are benefits that he gets from the government here in the U.K, and he has Spondylosis, so he ... (287 words)

Her fantasies turn me off!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

30 July 2010 (M)

age - My wife and I have had some very serious problems for the past couple of years and have been going to a therapist. I want to be cooperative, but I admit also to wanting to learn more about my wife's clandestine behavior that led I believed to our recent separation, so I ... (150 words)

He says he can't love before sex!

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

30 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend has this thing, where he feels like he can not love me until we have had sex. He says, that it's not like he doesn't want to he just can't, and he thinks it's the only thing holding him back. I want to know if any one else feels this way? Or maybe why he feels this ... (95 words)

I want my wife to hookup with a guy at a bar!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5229 days ago

30 July 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Do any of you have the fantasy of watching your wife or girlfriend get picked up in a bar by another man, and then watching them do stuff short, but close to, sex? Have any of you indulged this fantasy? For some reason the thought of this really turns me on. My wife and I h... (202 words)

Help!!! I don't know where I stand with him. Should I text him back?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

30 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I was texting this man for 2 months, he used to text me every day and we had met up a couple of times but not lately, so last week I asked him in text where we stood and he replied "not too sure I find its best not to worry about it and go with the flow" I felt like he was ... (93 words)

What did Bambi do????

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

30 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am breaking the cardinal rule – I know it. I can’t help it. I’ve worked with this guy for a few months now. And initially we came to a mutual decision that relationships with the people you work with just don’t work out. And all was well in the world. We joked aroun... (240 words)

I am sooooo trying to give her her space but I'm also a bit confused here...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

30 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi Firstly I would like to apologise for the length of my post, I wanted to give you as much information as possible so you could make an informed decision I was dating someone for 4 months and it was going along very well without any hiccups or arguments or anything ne... (1145 words)

One of my breasts is much larger than the other.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

30 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a lot of problems and don't know where to begin but I guess I'll just start. I have one breast that is much larger than the other one. In school kids called me quasimodo. I have to be specially fitted for bras. I have never had sex. I am finally able to have ... (395 words)

I feel I just can't say no...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

30 July 2010 (M)

age - I'm a male and after a divorce I didn't want to have sex with a woman again. I didn't believe I was gay but was followed home when leaving a rest area. The guy followed me home and right into my apartment without an invitation. I had heard stories about gay guys and was starved ... (202 words)

Guilt about cheating...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

30 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Can a relationship survive one partner's guilt over being unfaithful, and keeping it a secret? Will our relationship be able to grow and survive if I don't tell my partner that I cheated on her and vow to myself to keep it a secret forever and never cheat again? I have just ... (103 words)

I had an abortion over 2 months ago and its killing me!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

30 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, i made the silly mistake of having unprotected sex with my boyfriend and as a result became pregnant. I never found out i was pregnant until i was over 7 weeks gone like the feeling sick and tiredness etc. I had missed my period so decided to do a test and it was positive. ... (359 words)

I'm not sure if he is just playing with me or what... what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5258 days ago

30 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a female of 24 years.. been single for a while now, and just recently started dating again, i met this guy who's 5 years younger than me, we are not of the same race, which i dont see as a problem. I'm really starting to like him after 2 months now, we've been on a date ... (259 words)

I don't feel valued by my family...

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30 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Is it any wonder that im angry with my family? ok heres my problem. i have a host of 'supposed problems' - including ADHD. well i have two sisters Maira and Sarah, both of them fight like cat and dog and mum often favors Sarah. Sarahs had everything - a house, a car out... (178 words)

Never had an orgasm at 22....

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30 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I previously posted a question regarding lack of sex drive with my amazing partner and how its been really getting me down. A few people have suggested it may be due to never having had an orgasm. Not even with previous partners. Does anyone have any advice? The only problem ... (69 words)

Should I be a close friend to my ex or leave it and move on?

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30 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - well i think im falling for my ex agian. Were both 15 and was together for 11 months 2 years ago but now he says to me that he likes me a lot and would love to have a relationship with me again, but the only thing is his not ready for a long relationship. So now he has aske... (131 words)

I dreamt I don't love my boyfriend!

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30 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I am reallyreally worried. Because me and my boyfriend separated up about 3 months ago, but recently got back together. Last night i dreamt about him, but in the dream i didn't love him and was worried about how to end things. Now i feel so guilty about dreaming this. I do ... (84 words)

I have met the man of my dreams but I have gone off sex!

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30 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a 22 female and finally met the man of my dreams. When I see him I think how gorgeous he is, he treats me like an absolute princess, hes kind to me, caring, helpful, thoughtful...basically as if sent from heaven. BUT...I have COMPLETELY lost my sex drive. I have been ... (304 words)

My girlfriend gags when she tries to give me head! Is there anything I can do to help her?

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30 July 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello all I need your advise my girlfriend says she can't give blowjobs as she gags on my penis his 6 and a half inches and was wondering if there's owt could do to stop her gagging on him as she won't do them know more because of it Is it me am I to big or is there better way... (93 words)

Should I confront my friend or would I just be lowering myself to her level?

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30 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I need advice cause I'm going mad. I have been friends with this girl for over 10 years and I have helped and been there for her no matter what. She was with this fella for a few years until he cheated on her with a man, I told her get rid which she did until a couple o... (302 words)

How can I win my husband back?

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30 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everybody, My husband says he loves me but i am not his love... his love is virtual.. he will not say it to anyone.... but i found some e.mails to his colleague, he admits his love for her. This girl was teasing me for 3 years, long cals, chatting and mobile msgs..... my ... (291 words)

Here are three of us in this relationship! Me, my boyfreind, and my best friend!

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30 July 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi All, Wondered if you could advise me on the following plase. !! I have been in a relationship for two months. For the last month it as been rocky for various reasons, but I have realised that alot of that is to do with my anxiety, and am working on fixing that:o)however, my ... (371 words)

What's so good about big penises?

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30 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Granted I myself am not very well equipped, unless you consider 5 inches long and 4 inches in girth as well equipped, I don't understand what's so great about big penises and why girls seem so attracted to them. Do big penises actually feel better than smaller ones or ... (151 words)

Should I tell him I had sex with someone else during the break?

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30 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been dating the same guy for 2 years. One time when we broke up he had sex with one of his good friends and I didn't find out till 6 months later. we broke up for about 3 weeks because i said i couldnt handle it but during those 3 weeks i had sex with someone else. I ... (175 words)

Boyfriend heading off to college, how do I keep up a long distance relationship without being paranoid?

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30 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Alright so my boyfriend is a year older and heading off to college in a 2 weeks. While he's not a hardcore party junky, I'm sure he'll attend a few over the next year, and make new friends, some of which will inevitably be girls. My question is, how do I get over the fear of... (196 words)

How do I deal with my boyfriend going into the military?

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30 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm currently in a relationship with my 23year old 2nd cousin and he is going into the military and I don't know how to react to that. we have had sex many times and that makes it even worse because I won't get to see him yet I want him more and more by the minute.... (56 words)

Should I even stay with him through all of this?

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30 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for almost 2 and a half years, and I found out he cheated on me. I asked him plenty of times if he had cheated, or if he ever would; and he just kept denying. Finally a couple days ago I confronted him with actual proof, and he finally admitted to ... (191 words)

Who gave me this STD? Was it my cheating ex or my 1st love?

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30 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I was with this guy for little over a yr. We met in dec and by the end of Feb we were having sex. He cheated on me with his ex in apr. She stated she was pregnant and he didnt deny it. I was hurt so i left. He kept calling and sending me flowers so we got back together. ... (250 words)

My mother is eating herself to death!

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30 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My mother has extremely unhealthy eating habits, and I'm very concerned about her health. She refuses to see a doctor, even for a normal check-up, and hasn't seen one for over ten years. She keeps saying she'll go once she loses some weight, which she already has, yet she still ... (374 words)

Do I tell him that I love him? Or do I hide it seen as he has a girlfriend and is going to a different college?

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30 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently connected with a guy. We talk everyday and all night. I knew he had a girl friend and i respected that. I even kept my distance. The other day he insisted that we meet up before we both leave for college so i did. It was amazing. We went to the pool and talked, joked ... (177 words)

My boyfriend cheated now I don't know what to do ? Please help..

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30 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i have been together for almost 10 months and im super in love with him , lately since its summer we barly see each other and weve been fightin so this weekend on fri he went to go eat with this friends and my bestfriend called me on sat that he shared a kiss ... (230 words)

Who should I be with?

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30 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been going out with this guy and we dont really get to see each other as much. We have never been intimate with eachother. I thought when we first start talking that I was so lucky to be having a chance to go out with him. But now that thought has faded away. Recently ... (329 words)

I have been married for less than 2 months and we are talking about divorce. Can you advise?

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30 July 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been married for only a 1 1/2 and we are already talking about divorce. We argue all the time, lately he complains about the way I kiss him while having sex. At times I feel that he does not wants to kiss me or touch me. I have the feeling that he is hiding something ... (121 words)

Does the placebo pill you take during your period still protect you from pregnancy?

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30 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel like this is a bit of a silly question that i probably should know the answer to but anyway.. I have been on the pill for about 3 years and use it as the only form of contraception. Sexually active throughout this whole time (with the same partner) never had any pr... (96 words)

When are you supposed to know if the relationship is just physical or there is potential for more?

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30 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - so I started casually dating this turkish guy 9 months ago after initially meeting in a nightclub. the first 2-3 months were great, we would speak daily and see each other either every week or every 2 weeks. and i must admit i was extremely happy and infatuated. He kept telling ... (201 words)

This random girl claims my boyfriend got her pregnant, and there is lots of evidence to prove she is lying, so why do I still think about it?

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30 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Recently a girl tried adding my boyfriend on facebook but as he didnt know her he ignored it, she also added my friend and started messaging her saying that my boyfriend got her pregnant and she really needed to talk to him. He thought it was a joke and for a while I did too ... (234 words)

How do I find out what is my sexual orientation?

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30 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Im a 23 year old F, I usually go out with men, but often have feelings towards women. How do I find out what is my sexual orientation?? Anonymous... (32 words)

He has a girl and I need to forget him

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30 July 2010 (?) age 30-35 - Dam I just need help in fergetting This guy I heka like .. Ever since I know him I like him, and this is like 3years all ready and I just cant leave him in the past.. A year ago we went out for a month but something stupid happend that caused us to break up.. And know I ... (180 words)

My past is haunting me to the point where I can't sleep

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30 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for the past 9 months. I love him to much and he loves me too. Lately I've been having anxiety and I have not been able to sleep because I feel so guilty about my past. I have never had sex before but I have kissed other guys. I do remember all the ... (280 words)

How can I show my boyfriend that my male friends are ONLY friends?

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30 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - How can I convince my boyfriend that my boy friends are just that, my boy FRIENDS? I offer to have him hang out with me when i'm with them but he always bails and I can't get them all to meet... ... (44 words)

I'm terrified of what might happen next after the police caught us talking to 2 underage girls, but all we did was talk!

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30 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - This is probably the worse place to ask for advice on this topic (No offense I appreciate all the help I've received over the years) but I don't know where else to turn. My best friend and I have two female friends (ONLY friends) that are 13 and 14. Both of us are 17. After ... (253 words)

I did so much for her, yet when I decided to stop receiving her abuse all she did was get mad at me!

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30 July 2010 (?) age 41-50 - After college, I continued on with my education while my friend "X" had her plans not go according to the way she wanted them to. (She didn't get accepted to grad school and didn't get a high paying job she wanted.) Over time we saw less of each other. That's okay, I thought, ... (448 words)

When I lose my virginity to my boyfriend I don't just want to lay there and not know what to do! Can anyone help?

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30 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, i've been with my boyfriend for a while and we havent had sex he knows im a virgin but he doesnt rush anything because he is a gentlemen and he's not a virgin. but when we do have sex i want him 2 have a lot of pleasure and i dont just want to lay on my back but i kn... (112 words)

Should I give up on love? Everytime I like someone it seems they don't like me back!

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30 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so I have a brother and he is on a team for baseball. My brother is also on a travel team. There is a guy that is on his normal team and travel team. Ever since about four months ago I have liked him. He is a year younger than me. Before I liked him it seemed like he liked ... (200 words)

Do I tell my friend he is not as popular as he thinks, or let him learn a lesson?

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30 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - First of all, please don't think I'm like a terrible person for writing this(: Ok, my best friend (who is a guy) I mean we're like inseperable, is playing basketball this year. He tried out last year, but didn't make it. A few guys on the team gave him a nickname and it's ... (182 words)

What things can I do to make this awkward moment more relaxing?

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30 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i just met this super cute guy and his dad would like me to come over to his house. what do i say to him? what do i do when we're alone together? ... (33 words)

Why does my ex hate me so?

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30 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I ended a relaionship with an ex. And he hated me right after. Im not really sure why, there was never a reason. i was good to him. We never fought until the last day we broke up. he hates my guys now and is constantly talking bad about me. Idk why though. Like I dont ... (96 words)

Why do I always get stung by those I'm nice to

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30 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - ok so i'm a really nice person, probly the nicest person in my whole skool, i'd do anything and everything in my power for the people i care about and i'm pretty much friends with everyone worth talking to. My problem is is that i get so close to guys and they'll let me b... (149 words)

I had an affair and I feel I can't escape it

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30 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i really need some advice...i was involved in a an affair a couple of months ago with someone close to my husband...i ended it because i knew i was doing wrong..my husband really loves me and honestly i dont know why i did it...well maybe because i was feeling lonely and he was ... (187 words)

I'm sure my straight girlfriend likes me too but she is cooling off our relationship, what should I do?

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30 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Im jess, Im a lesbian..i seek help from all of you...im got relationship with a straight girl for 1 year..however this girl oledi live in with her bf for 4 years..recently she so cool to me..ask us stop relationship..but i feel she like me too. but something make her wil avo... (182 words)

I am falling in love with my cousin, what should I do next?

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30 July 2010 (?) age 30-35 - ok im 18 and i am falling in love with my cousin i want to be with her and dont know what to do.... she and i are close we tell each other stuff we wouldnt tell anyone else what do i do i want to be with her so could someone help me... (56 words)

Will his past affect our future, and is he worth sticking with?

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30 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - What do you do with a guy who seems to have a past? I mean it doesn't barther me as much as it use to, but I'm curious. But I don't want to ask and hear something I wouldn't want to hear. He's had A LOT of sex. He doesn't even know the number. Eventually I got over it so I said ... (326 words)

Why do I date outside of my race?

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30 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Help, I can't understand why I've never dated a guy my own race or age. It's so weird...the other day, a man asked me if he was the first white man I've gone on a date with. I said no and this led to me admitting I always dated outside my race. He asked me why and I really ... (64 words)

My bestfriend likes my boyfriend , what should I do?

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30 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - what do you do if you so called bestfriend likes your boyfriend ... (12 words)

I'm very insecure about my penis size.

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30 July 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - lookin for advice from any ladies,iam a decent lookin guy, but my penis is 6 inches long and only 4.5 inches around.iam very insecure of it,any advice?... (27 words)

Enjyong sex but not squirting like rest of girls

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30 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - OP's own title: hi, i do sex even i enjoyed it a lot we both satisfy each other but the thing is i never squirt like the way i saw on different videos n clips i want too squirt like that n even i do masturbate my self but never had that sort of lots of squirt. can you help me p... (63 words)

How should I ask him to my prom?

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30 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I just want to be prepared for when this event happens, and I know it will pretty soon. Soo now I'm a senior, and we all know that's a great accomplishment and all. So anyways I was thinking of going to my prom with someone outside of my school. I'm not sure if he'll say yes or ... (310 words)

Guy keeps trying to contact my girlfriend

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30 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - MOD NOTE: OP's own title: Hey people, So me and my gf been back together for almost 2 months after a breakup and things are so far going okay. But the guy she was talking to during the breakup still from time to time tries to call and text her. And when on AIM today, I saw... (146 words)

Dont want to be his fwb, I want all or nothing, but how?

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30 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't get him at all! I've been talking to this guys for over a year now. Sometimes we'd be on and off because I wanted to get rid of him but it looks that won't happen anytime soon. So I text'd him last night actually, just to see what was up. Seems like he was kinda busy so ... (285 words)

Can someone explain this cheater to me?

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30 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Why would a guy cheat before getting engaged, not tell their partner they cheated on them, proceed to get married....and then say that if HE were to find out that his fiance cheated on him before marriage, that he would definitely leave her, and not want to work it out through ... (88 words)

Will she date the guy again simply because another guy insulted him?

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30 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok here goes. This girl that i like and myself recently (about 9 days)got into a verbal spat and to kinda let it die i havent contact her since. Yesterday i find out that she went to a rock concert with a guy. When she came back from the concert she told her friend (who is ... (311 words)

Should I work on the friendship I have with my ex?

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30 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I have been good friends with an ex of mine for a few years now, we used to talk regularly but since he met someone new about 6 months ago he never gets in touch now. This is unusual because he has stayed in touch throughout his other relationships. I dont think his girl... (109 words)