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*isha6181
writes:I met this guy about 3 weeks ago in the mall and the same day he text me and called, and the next day also, by the next night we watched movies together all night and we eneded up fooling around, the next day we went for lunch and hung out, he text me and called me two days after that and he just stopped so i would contact him he always responded but lately i haven't been trying to contact him and he hasn't made an effort to contact me im really intrested in this guy i mean i like him...should i call or text him or just leave him be? Is he intrested in me at all?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2010): Sounds like you made everything very easy for him. Most men like the chase. And that includes who does the contacting. Don't pin any hopes on him. Learn from the experience.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2010): Im sorry to say this but you might have just been "bootycall."
I think you should leave him alone and find someone who shows more interest to you... you never know i could be wrong, and during the time that you are doing your own thing he could come back to you :)
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reader, everyrose969  +, writes (13 July 2010):
Ya, let him him miss you. QUIT contacting him.
The first time I met my ex we hooked up and then he was like obsessed with me for a week straight and would not quit trying to talk to me. Then magically he disappeared for a week. I didn't try to text him at all over that week we didn't speak and then he started talking to me again and voila we started dating.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2010): Yeah, I would say don't contact him anymore...let him do all the chasing and even then you want to make certain that he isn't just contacting you b/c he wants to take advantage of you. I know you are "really" interested in this guy, but I say just let it be. If he contacts you...great, if not, then dont' contact him b/c if you do, you give off the impression that you are willing to do the chasing and when women chase after men, the final results are never pleasant.
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