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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Should i tell my ex i miss him?Him and I dated for 1 yr and 1/2 it was a very intense relationship, he dedicated everything to me wanted to marry me wrote sayings about me was just head over heals for me well for a lot of reasons we ended up splitting up.He got a girlfriend about 2 months later and has been going out with her now for prob 8 months. 2 months into their relationship he calls me/texts me and wants me back talks about old times, loves talking to me, then when we see eachother he stops talking to me.then about 4 months later from when that happened he contacted me again but for a much longer period of time talking about us and his new girlfiend and how its not the same and how he wants to tell me he loves me and talks about old memories. Then we see eachother and runs again and never talks to me.Its been about 2 months since we last talked. Because after he told me all that stuff he pretended like he never did and "said" he was so in love with his girlfriend. By body language and a lot of other signs he doesnt deeply love her like him and i did. I got a boyfriend recently but i find that whenever im not around my boyfriend or around my friends i miss him a lot. My boyfriend and i arent agreeing a lot so we might break up and im just really missing my ex a lot, but he still has a girlfriend and is always with her 24/7 im pretty sure. I told myself since i broke contact w/ him and told him he was a bullshitter and not to talk to me that i wouldnt contact him and i havent and he hasnt contacted me either. I really only miss the old him all he does now is party and drink and smoke and that seems like all he really cares about and just has a girlfriend for the "looks" of it or maybe for him to feel like he has moved on from me. He is no where near being the person i fell in love with but thats who i miss, that isnt who he is now..so should i even contact him until he contacts me w/ a change of attitude? Thanks!
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reader, xanthic +, writes (14 July 2010):
 He has a girlfriend now, and he's not even the same person you fell in love with. Let him go.
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