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writes:i've been dating a guy for 3 mos.and he still he introduces me to everyone as his friend, and he sometimes stays over,i introduce him to everyone as my boyfriend and i told him that i love him , he said thats a strong word to say but i was ready to say it,anyway he said that he would tell me that when his ready to say it and i was ok with that.i want to know when he'll say that i'm his girlfriend ? Reply to this Question
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reader, Basschick  +, writes (13 July 2010):
 Give it more time. Men take much longer to fall in love (or at least admit it to themselves) so until he has discovered his feelings for you, you will not be classified as his girlfriend. Be patient. If you push him or become upset this soon into the relationship, he may never get there. Just hang with him, and accept the friendship status for awhile longer. He may come around.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2010): You need to slow down a bit and not expect everything at once. Three months is only 12 weeks, not very long at all. Just let things unfold and enjoy getting to know him.
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reader, xanthic +, writes (13 July 2010):
 Three months is still really early, give it some time. Worry about it when you're together for something like nine months and he still won't call you his girlfriend.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2010): Because you're not his girlfriend, you've asked him and he didn't ask you to be his girlfriend...he may, but not if you just assume the role of girlfriend before he's asked.
Why aren't you still dating others. Three months is way to fast to commit to anyone, if he hasn't made your relationship exclusive, then neither should you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2010): He isn't going to until he ready...you fell for him faster than he has fallen for you. Believe me, when a guy wants to make you his girl, he will and he will also let everyone else know that you are his woman. Futhermore, he is right, love is a stronge word and should only be used when it's meant...therefore, if you bf doesn't mean it, he shouldn't be saying it and that doesn't make him a bad person either. Everyone has they're own timing as to when they fall in love or start loving someone. Some ppl it take a mere month while it may others a year or years to reach that point. So with that being said, don't try to brow beat your bf or make him feel bad simply b/c he doesn't say he loves you or feels as strongly about you as you do him. Also, it's up to your bf when he wants to ask you to be his gf so don't pressure him b/c if you do, you might regret it later. Let nature take it's course and if it's meant to be, it will be.
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