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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Pregnant and hurting over his selfishness, how can I make him appreciate me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

29 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 37 weeks pregnant and been with my boyfriend almost 2 years. And my question really is when someone is so selfish how do you make them realise how they should be because I really don't understand and really can't think what I have done to be treated and made to feel like ... (449 words)

I have warts, and can't touch myself, how can I release sexual tension?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

29 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Why am I so horny ALL the time? Is there any way to release my sexual tension without sex or masturbation(I have warts on my fingers so I don't like it)... (31 words)

Does it mean anything when a guy says "We Have A lot In Common"?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5228 days ago

29 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Does it mean anything when a guy says "We have a lot in common" ??I really like this guy but I don't know if I am reading into this too much but could it mean anything...? ... (36 words)

30 y.o. and 'relationship-virgin'!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

29 July 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone, Major dilemma and in need of advice: I’m a regular guy who just turned 30. I’m happy with my life and consider myself to be pretty lucky with the circle of friends and the job I have. I’m gay and always knew I was – unlike some of the other people posting... (292 words)

Am I In Love - How can I tell?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5228 days ago

29 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I think ive only been in love once before, i have a general knowledge of the feelings that come with it. Recently i have noticed a subtle feeling for one of my good friends. And i cant tell if this is just serious platonic love for that person, or if i am in love with them. We ... (171 words)

How can I get over this man that is in my thoughts from morning to night?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

29 July 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - How can I get over the man I love, We have not spoken for 5 weeks and he is all I think about. We have alot of history and have spent most of this year together, he is separated and it's getting very messy. The ex has found out about me as is threatening to move awa... (280 words)

We have been together for over 7 years.. Now she wants to break up with me...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

29 July 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been with my girlfriend now for over 7 years. We met when she was 15 turning 16 and I just turned 19. At first we became friends because of common interests and where we were from. When she turned 18 she moved out of her parents house and so did I to get our own place. ... (897 words)

My Boyfriend is Bi-sexual and has met a "Couple" that he meets regularly for sex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5226 days ago

29 July 2010 (F)

age - I found out that my long term ( 6 years) boyfriend is a sex addict, that he has been frequenting "cruise areas for sex" and "glory holes" I found out he has made "friends" with a couple close to where he lives for "sex" that he met while cruising an adult book store and arcade ... (225 words)

How do you meet people in a gym or a grocery store?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5228 days ago

29 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - How do people meet in a gym or a grocery store? I know it sounds odd because there's tonnes of people at those places, but they always seems like places where people are just there to do there own thing (get fit or buy food) and seemed to get annoyed if random people start ta... (99 words)

Husband cheated and staying in the marriage only for the kids

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5223 days ago

29 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband cheated on me and he is staying in our marriage because of the kids only and he thinks maybe later his feelings for me will come back. He said his affair is over but they still communicate but says they dont cross the line anymore. Weve been married or 12 years ... (127 words)

13 and never had a boyfriend!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

29 July 2010 (?) age 26-29 - I am 13 and have never had a boyfriend! I read most of the questions on here and sometimes I get so upset and sad because I see others people my age talking about their relationship and how they love them and ect. At school pretty much everyone has a boyfriend/girlfriend. I ... (97 words)

How can I gain my husband's trust back?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

29 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband and I have been together for almost 7 years. We have been married for a year and a few months. I would never cheat on him, but I made a wrong choice. After I found out that he was talking with another girl and was hiding it from me, I went to see an old friend to let ... (231 words)

I'd love to be with my ex again, any advice from the ladies?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

29 July 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been broken up with my ex for about 6 months. We were in a long distance thing for about a year. I lived in her city for about 7 months. We were amazing together. I guess the distance broke us. During this 6 months apart I've been dating and doing my thing and so has she. ... (184 words)

Two days after anal sex and I'm still bleeding. Is this normal?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

29 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I tried anal sex for the first time with my bf, and it hurt so I told him too pull it out even before it got all the way in. When I got home, and used the restroom -number2- I realized my anus was bleeding. This is the second day that it's been hurting. I'm wondering how long ... (78 words)

When I asked my b/f about getting engaged, he says "whats the rush"? What does that mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

29 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been in a relationship with a guy for 2 years, we both have children from previous relationships, everyday he says he loves me, we have had problems in the past with his ex, she has called me in the past to tell me my boyfriend was cheating on me with her, I gave him the ... (117 words)

Caught wife in internet affair, now what?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

29 July 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - A year ago my wife started acting strange, up all hours on the internet, distant, etc. She started getting angry all the time and twice left me and the kids and went and spent the night in a hotel due to "being mad". One afternoon I was at the house while she was out and I fo... (656 words)

Guy I'm dating has a foot fetish, how do I get him to talk about it with me?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4324 days ago

29 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been seeing a guy for a few months now, and we are really compatible sexually. One night, after many a drink, he told me that he has a foot fetish (which I had subliminally picked up on in any case). He got really upset about it - saying that he felt wrong for it and ... (240 words)

How many sexual partners in your most "productive" year?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

29 July 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - A quick poll: how many sexual partners did you have your most "productive" year? I am male and had around 5-6 partners in one single year. Anyone else mind responding. My theory is that most people sexualartners are not spread out evenly but concentrated in a shorter period of ... (50 words)

Why do guys like performing oral sex?

This question has 32 answers - newest was posted 5222 days ago

29 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey Everyone, I'm 19 and a sophomore in college as well as my boyfriend. We have done everything we could think of besides sex which is something we are wanting to do very badly every we see each other. I seriously feel like everytime that feeling increases so he is trying ... (228 words)

Is it bad to have a fantasy like this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5226 days ago

29 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So ive had a fantasy of hooking up with a random guy, not for sex, but for oral and stuff, and like, meeting him in a club or somewhere and doing stuff like that somewhere risque. Is it bad to have a fantasy like this? Is it unhealthy or healthy to want things like this?... (55 words)

Why did she say these things after a break-up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5228 days ago

29 July 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - IF YOU DO READ THIS AND HAVE AN OPINION I THANK YOU IN ADVANCE... Ok I've been going out of mind over a girl I've wanted for 4 years maybe. We were friends for 3 three years before anything happened between. The first time she was close to an ex of mine so he stopped that ... (753 words)

Going clubbing! What to wear?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5228 days ago

29 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - This isn't too much of a relationship question than it is just advice. I am turning of age tomorrow and within the next month am going to go clubbing for the first time! My ex just broke up with me a month ago, so I am looking forward to just going and having fun! My question ... (84 words)

My b/f is jealous towards my old boyfriend who passed away!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

29 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - So me and my boyfriend have been together for 10 months, and we have a really good relationship, up untill a week ago. See my ex boyfriend pasted away, 16 months ago. And it has taken sometime to get over him, I have a tattoo for him, on my back. And I do still miss him. But my ... (199 words)

My friends are envious but I hate being so skinny!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

29 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - This doesnt really have anything to do with relationships but i am and always have been skinny, i absolutely hate my arms they're the worst, my legs are getting better. Loads of my friends think i'm lucky to be this thin but i would rather just be a bit more heavy. I fee... (132 words)

I'm entangled in an emotional vicious cycle!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5228 days ago

29 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - my life is so confuse. i dont know whether i am in love with my boyfriend or not.i care a lot for him and like t o be with him...i have been with him for 4 years now and truly he still loves me as he used to do since we first met..we have had lots of ups and downs in our ... (149 words)

I got a call from a woman who said my partner of 8 years was her fiancee! He said she was just playing a joke!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

29 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - hi im 32,ive been with my partner for eight years. he keeps saying he isnt ready for children and doesnt want to get married. just lately he hasnt been coming home and says he's worked late and is staying with a friend? a few months ago he went to stay with his family in alban... (117 words)

How do I stop feeling hurt about the fact that he's off and dating now?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

29 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - He's dating a new girl a few weeks after we broke up. I am very hurt and he wasn't emotional at all during our break up, it was very easy for him. How do I stop feeling hurt about the fact that he's off and dating now?... (47 words)

My girlfriend says I'm too clingy!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

29 July 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - I've been with my girlfriend 9 months and she says i am too clingy... How can i be less clingy? I am 15, we both contact through texting... We both have unlimited texts so we can contact each other whenever we like? i want the sort of hard-to-get feeling about me. Ho... (62 words)

Why doesn't this guy text or phone me more often?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

29 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Why doesn't this guy text or phone me more often??? We've been dating for 3 months- although haven't got intimate yet. He is always very charming and positive when we meet and as far as I know he's not seeing anyone else. So why does it seem like it's always me who starts the ... (92 words)

I'm having trouble coping with my sons' drug addictions!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) age - How can I be happy, when 2 of my son is a drug addict,and can die any time? I'm going for counseling , and they are keep saying, that is not my fault, and I should be living my own life, because it is his problem not mine.. I know , we gave everything to them, we could. We ... (157 words)

What should I wear to a spa?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5228 days ago

29 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I am 20 years old and come frm a small town..I moved to new jersey recently to study in the city..all my friends are from the city with a modern outlook..anyways one of the girls asked me to come with her to a spa..I have never been to a spa!I want to go but can someone tell ... (79 words)

How can I get our relationship back to normal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5228 days ago

29 July 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - I am 15 in 2 months time, and my girlfriend is 15 in about 5 months time. We have been together for a few months short of a year, but in the last few months we've been together my girlfriend has begun to be really grumpy and moody with me. In our relationship we have a r... (341 words)

I feel so unwanted!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

29 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - can anyone help me i am too sexy but my husband lost his sex i dont know why? before we use to do sex a lot but now i feel im unwanted why is it? how to make myself wanted even by my family i feel i m unwanted? i want to be attractive and have good personality how to win ... (84 words)

Any ideas for adventurous sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5223 days ago

29 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi. my boyfriend is sexually adventurous and I will love to please him in all the kinky ideas possible. I'm a very sexual person, I'm up for everything but I'm from a country were sex is only allowed after marriage, I know how boring and mistaken, so we dont talk about it. ... (81 words)

Why can't he see how much I miss him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5208 days ago

29 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so I went out with this boy and then I broke up with him and I spent my whole time regretting it.. and then a year later we started texting again,he was like my best friend and then after a few months we started scoring and stuff..and we even went further than we ever did ... (256 words)

Should I get a checkup?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

29 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i have a small flesh coloured bump on my right vaginal lip, i dont know whether its genital warts or an ingrown hair from shaving, but today i squeezed it and a small bit of pus came out now it looks like a spot? last year i caught chlamydia and then when i got medication for ... (125 words)

Do you think theres any chance I could be with this girl again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

29 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok 2 years ago i met this girl and kinda went out with her, she was very obsessive with me totally always wanting my attention, She kept asking me a few weeks in if i fancied her, and i didn't say anything,i was scared and didn't ask her out, i also done some silly things like ... (408 words)

It stings when he tries to finger me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

29 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been sexually active for about the past two months (we are both sophomores in college). It's been a month since he's been "fingering" me. I put that in quotations because he can barely get his finger in before I tell him that it hurts (oh god, don't even ... (414 words)

My partner keeps lying to me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

29 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My partner and I have been together 12 months. I'm still going through a rather messy divorce and have major trust issues thanks to my ex husband. I've made it perfectly clear that all I ask for is the truth. I don't know how to confront my partner about things I've discovered ... (361 words)

I want to help my best friend but they won't open up.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

29 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - What can you do when your best friend is feeling down and something is clearly bothering them, but they won't talk about it or let you know what's wrong?... (29 words)

Is this relationship worth staying in?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

29 July 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - in a relationship with a sepatated lady for 2 months, she blows hot and cold in the relationship, feel like im on a piece of string , brings her business act home when shes over and then relaxes after a while, married for 19 years before they separated and hes also in another ... (171 words)

I'm back with my cheating bf and feel horrible

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

29 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my bf have been together for a little over 2 years. Recently, I've found out that he's cheated on me. He says that he's truly sorry and that he wants to be with me because he loves me. I've taken him back but I'm still confused on whether I've made the right decision. ... (126 words)

Discreet guy dating a canary

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

29 July 2010 (M)

- I started dating a past co-worker of mine this week. I’ve been riding the brakes on any relationship potential for so long because – perhaps unbeknownst to her – she’s a bit of a gossip girl, volunteering the details of other people’s personal lives and opinions without any ... (216 words)

I'm aroused by my older sister's underwear

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

29 July 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - ok so i am 13. i have a sister that is 20 and she has big tits. And when she is not home I go in her room and go through her bra and thongs. one time i got one of her bras a 36 D and rubbed it against my dick and i kept doing it alll of a sudden i started to jizz. is this bad ... (72 words)

I just want to spend more time with her and share more laughs and affection but she's not interested

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5228 days ago

29 July 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I met a girl through friends and we clicked immediately. Hung out in a group setting a couple of times and then had a date alone together. The date went well, we enjoyed each other's company, we had sex and she spent the night. I will say that I'm not very experienced nor ... (506 words)

Why does my ex feel like he must rub his life in my face?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

29 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Well me and my ex broke up beginning of the year, he dumped saying that he didnt have feelings for me anymore. I accepted it and just ignored him and went on with my life. Then about 2 or so weeks after that he started trying to get me to talk to him and trying to bring up the ... (230 words)

I was worried he was using me to get back at another girl so we broke up, but now he wont give us another chance!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

29 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i went out with this guy that i really liked and he liked me and swore he hated this other girl. well one of my friends that i really trust or i did trust,cuz i guess i still liked him and i wanted to go after him, told me my bf was using me to get back at the girl mentioned ... (208 words)

Should I give this guy a chance even though he could be a momma's boy who cant support himself?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

29 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - A guy who lives about an hour away from me is coming to see me this weekend; this will be our first time meeting. That said, I just found out he still lives with his parents, and this worries me a bit. I'm 18 and in college, and he's 19 and a hs grad who's working a steady... (374 words)

My boyfriend's mood seems to be dependent on our finances! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

29 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been living with my boyfriend for over 4 years. We have had our problems in the past, but we've both discussed them and moved past. Some days, he'll tell me he loves me, he wants to have children with me, and he wants to marry me and spend the rest of his life with me, ... (221 words)

I love him but just don't want to be with him anymore...i need advice...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

29 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Please help!! I am 23 years old and have been married for 2years. My husband is 16years older than and at first everything was rosey! He used to drink but lately it seems he has to have alchol every night, he has between 8 and 10 cans a night (is this wrong?). We curre... (112 words)

Guys: Was it hard for you to realize you were in love the first time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

29 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Mod Note: Poster's Original Title Guys: The first time you fell in love when did you realize it? Was it hard for you to tell her? For me it seems that girls can realize it and decided when they are in love with some one easier then a guy can. My boy friend, has never been... (96 words)

I think I'm in love with my female best friend...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

29 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I seriously think that I'm in love with my female best friend, and it'd mean so much to me to have a chance at being with her. I miss her when we're not together, and feel elated when we are. I think I want her to know how I feel, but without ruining our friendship. To make it ... (95 words)

Why are men always rejecting me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

29 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I always tell men am in luv with them and they reject me, why is this?... (16 words)

I want more than that but not sure show to play it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

29 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I met this guy on a dating site about 3 months ago. We have met about 8 times and get on really well. After the first date he said that although he fancied me he would prefer to become good friends and see what happened. I was fine with that but we were still kissing and ... (198 words)

Should I Continue to talk to him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

29 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm talking to an army guy who has post tramatic stress should I continue to talk to him?... (18 words)

Its been 18 years since I had sex and I don't know how to move this to the next step...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

29 July 2010 (M)

age - I am 47 and divorced. I have not had sex in 18 years and I'm thinking too hard. I'm dating but I can't figure out how to move us from a kiss in the living room to sex in the bedroom. (Sex in the living room would be even worse.) Is it as simple as taking her hand and ... (94 words)

Just my type

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5228 days ago

29 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Mod Note: Poster's Original Title Is it possible to attain an online love without planning to meet them in real life? I'd be willing to share pictures(I'm a little short but not unattractive) and have things to discuss that sort of thing I'm also not married or currently seei... (77 words)

Its not her thing so why is she mad at me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

29 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - What did I Do Wrong? Ok so me and my guy best friend John, are planning a camping trip. He made up a list with, Some french girls (I live in a french english community), Some guys, me and my boyfriend. Well talking to me one friend about it, he went off and told one of my best ... (121 words)

Does this mean he really wants to see me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

29 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I really like this guy and he has expressed an interest in me too. But, we stopped talking about 3 months ago because situations were too difficult. He travels a lot for his job so he's rarely in town and I had some things going on too. Anyway, we chatted briefly online the ... (152 words)

How do I open up to her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

29 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, iv been with my girlfriend for nearly 4 months now. For the first 2 months it was great, we were both happy and got along really well. But as time went on, it seems that the relationship has just dwindled... its really frustrating for both me and her. she used to te... (248 words)

I don't love him anymore but I'm worried about breaking up!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5226 days ago

29 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - OK, there are so many part to this story I don't really know where to start. Basically, I've been with my partner for nearly 5 years (I'm 20 years old), we have lived together for over 2 years and got engaged in 2008. I thought he was the perfect guy for me but I've realised ... (374 words)

Question for men: why is he acting like this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

29 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - ok so i would like some advice , from men please. i have a few questions if you could kindly elaborate. what does a man really mean when he says these things:: After a string of dates with someone, the following occures, he is clearly interested, making statements su... (287 words)

Why does he keep changing his mind?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

29 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently wrote to you about how my boyfriend liked me for two years then very quickly changed his mind about "us". Well, once again he seems to have changed his mind its, strange after he told me he didnt feel right being with me now that he has me he's now making plans for ... (90 words)

All we seem to do is fight!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

29 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Been with my boyfriend for a year and a half. never loved a person so much in my life, im his first serious girlfriend and first love. im 5 and half months pregnant with our first baby, and we are just doing up our new home, we should be so happy right? but all we seem to do is... (172 words)

Is it normal for my mom to be jealous of my mother in law?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

29 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all I'm wondering if anyone else experiences extreme jealousy from their mother's when it comes to the mother-in-law? Is it completely normal for your mother to get really upset at any inclination of you forming any type of bond with her? My future mother-in-law doesn'... (306 words)

Have I found my perfect partner too young?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

29 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm in a fantastic relationship at University. My girlfriend is as nice, attractive, good looking, healthy and trustworthy as I could hope for. There is no doubt in my mind that she is totally in love with me, she seems to be my number 1 fan, and she even quit smoking for me. ... (195 words)

I cant wait until I am 25 to have sex! So how do I convince my girlfriend we will be together forever so having sex now is ok?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

29 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My name is Alex. I'm in this situation Where I want sex and she wants to wait until Marriage. It's hard for me to wait. I'm thinking I'm probably going to marry this girl one day, I Love her more than imaginable. We've never gotten into a serious fight or argument. We've... (270 words)

Was what he did with me considered cheating? And how can I get over the feeling of being used only for sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

29 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone! Soooo I have a bit of a problem... This summer was a pretty crazy one for me. I lost my virginity to my bestfriend. We didn't start dating or anything, but I didn't expect him to be talking to another girl. Throughout the summer i guess he was trying to get with... (437 words)

How do I know that he means it when he says "I love you"?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5229 days ago

29 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so i'm freshly sixteen and my sixteen, almost seventeen, boyfriend and i have been dating for a little over three months(:- about a month ago, now, he told me he loves me...i'm not complaining, i don't think it's too early, because i mean if you feel it, you feel it, but ... (117 words)

Why hasn't he called? Am I worrying over nothing?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

29 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm super anxious. My bf hasnt called me in 3 days (he normally calls daily)Sometimes he forgets to call back after we've talked already -which is fine (rarely).. and he doesnt really need to call everyday but the last time we talked (Sunday) he had told me he has head cold and... (292 words)

Why has my ex called twice in 2 days?

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29 July 2010 (F)

age - my ex-boyfriend has called me twice in two days. he wont talk talk on my voicemail. why is he doing this.what does this mean? i still have strong feelings for him. we dated a year. it has been a little over a year since he broke up with me. he was the one that said he loved ... (66 words)

I lost everything because I was to blame for the break up, now I cant seem to get over him...

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29 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, It would be great if I could get some great advice from this site. Several years back i met a really great guy, we were together all most 5 years. then he decied to get up and move to califorina he need to get away from us. well when we meet he was 18 and I was 19, and now ... (729 words)

How long should a guy last in bed?

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29 July 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - To the ladies what's the least a guy should last in bed?... (12 words)

I have gone from having lots of contact with my ex and to nothing! What is going on?

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29 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I need some help and some advice! My ex of fifteen months broke up with me a few months ago. The only reason I've had since then was that we argued too much. However, he cancelled our holiday, made me lose money and even burnt my things. Thing is, he has been around since... (344 words)

I don't know much about serious relationships, can anyone give me some advice on what to do?

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29 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - im not use to all this, but ima do my best. I've been wit this chick, she the most amazing girl i ever met, but i dont really know much about having a serious relationship,, like i been talking to her everyday on the phone, and im running out of conersation to talk to her ... (85 words)

My colleagues keep sticking their noses in about me not being able to drive! How do I handle this?

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29 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I am getting increasingly irritated by some comments people-mostly colleagues keep making about me not having a drivers licence. Its not like I’m not trying-I’ve taken my test several times and failed on stupid things so I keep trying. What is making me angry is how peo... (369 words)

I cant stand my boyfriend hanging out with his ex, I'm sure she wants him back!

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29 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my bf have been going out for a year and a couple of mouths. every thing started out grat till he started hanging out with his ex that he dated for 6 years and her bf. I live with my boyfriend and his grandparents. My family dont wont any thing to do with me. But since ... (220 words)

How can I be ok with the result of my exam, whether I pass or fail?

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29 July 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - i please need some big advice that will convince my self that everything will be ok. i am a student. and yesterday we have this exam. i study a lot for a past few 7 months.its actually give me a big pressure, depression and hard migraine. i was really concentrated in my study ... (347 words)

How can I get my husband to want to have sex with me more often?

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29 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - how to make my husband do sex with me more and how to make him keep an eye on me and want to do sex more often? as he dont even talk about sex. as i remember he is so sexy and always will keep watching sex movies in his mobile but he dont have my attention at all, but before he ... (121 words)

My husband found out I am not a virgin! What can I do?

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29 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - sir,,i got a mistake,my problem is that my husband got on first night that i am not virgin girl.what can i do.... (22 words)

I'm hurt my ex is moving on so fast!

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29 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So when my ex broke up with me (only a month ago), he said he wasn't breaking up with me for any girls or anything, and he wasn't going to start dating any time soon. I just found out theres one girl he's been texting all the time and talking to non-stop. I've been told he ... (133 words)

Is it wrong to like my cousin?

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29 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - is it wrong to like my cousin? we are related by mariage...not by blood and i like him a lot. i can tell he has some kind of interest in me and i want us to have a relationship but at the same time i dont want ppl to judge i mean its not like we are actual family by blood ... (74 words)

He likes my best friend but then why would he ask me out?

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29 July 2010 (F) age 30-35 - There a guy ( I will call him mike ) he seems to like my friend (Jane). I think were friends we talk a lot he talk to me about movies like he go to cinema and he like that movie or about some books he read is just a normal conversation between friends even if he don't... (238 words)

We broke up because we never see each other or speak often, then I found out he texts my friend all the time!

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29 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So recently me and my boyfriend broke up due to NEVER seeing each other (literally). We hardly talk to each other now because he works all day everyday and has football.. He told me he still really likes me and we can "try it out" when school starts again. I told a good friend ... (130 words)

Why is it so difficult for me to break up with her?

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29 July 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I've been in a long distance relationship for 2 years now. We get along very well for the most part. I've never experienced anything close to this before and it's confusing me really bad. I've been in 8 relationships over the past 20 years and never got along with anyone ... (495 words)

She's 13, I'm 16 and we like each other but her mom wont let us see each other!

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29 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - i am 16 and there is a girl that is 13 and we both like each other one day i told her she was pretty and her mom wont let her hang out with me!!! wat should i do???? i need some help... (43 words)

What does she really want to talk about?

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29 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - ok ive been talking to this girl for about to weeks and i really really like her and i made sure to get to know her and find out her likes and dislikes and i made sure to remember little things and make sure she knows i remember.we have gone out a couple time and i guess we are ... (108 words)

How can I find male friends that want to stay just friends?

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29 July 2010 (?) age 30-35 - So, my issue is I don't have many friends of the opposite sex. Why? Because I've lost them all because they started having romantic feelings for me. My issue is pretty stupid and simple, but it's urgent to me. How can I have guys who are just friends and don't want to bang! I ... (78 words)

Why do the nice, smart girls always have to wait years before someone finally takes an interest in them?

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29 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my best friend is the nicest girl you will ever meet! shes cute and sweet and everyone she meets likes her. lately shes been upset because shes never been asked out. my question is why do dumb b****y girls always have a bf but nice smart girls have to wait years before someone ... (60 words)

I'm jealous of my best friend!

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29 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - What do you do if you're jealous of your best friend. I know I'm not ugly..or horrible looking but I've always had low self esteem, no matter how much make-up, extensions..whatever I put on. She has a perfect relationship, nice body and gets attention. You know she's the ... (181 words)

I can't get an erection around women any more, am I gay?

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29 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hi, im a 20 year old male and in the past two years have become concerned that i may be becoming bi sexual or even gay! it started when i used to smoke canabis alot and resulting in me giving up wich is a good thing i guess, but then the thoughts continued. from a young ag... (351 words)

It's so hard seeing my ex-boyfriend suffer because of our breakup, please help!

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29 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I broke up 2 weeks ago after a 3 year relationship. I saw him as the love of my life, and I know in my heart that he has never loved anyone as much as he did me. We were gonna get married, there was even a point where I took him into my home because he lost his ... (610 words)

Why does he want to take a break?

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29 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Why does my bf want to take a break? We've been dating for almost a year and I have to admit that things aren't that great between us right now. And I think it's mostly on his side, he doesn't seem as receptive and into the relationship right now. So I asked him what was ... (185 words)

Can I harm my unborn child if I smoke and drink around my pregnant wife?

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29 July 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - [Moderator's Note: Question edited for clarity] i drink wine regularly, my wife is pregnant, is there any effects on my unborn baby because of my drink? is there any risk of smoking and drinking wine on my child which is not come in this world? ... (52 words)

Will we ever get back together?

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29 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been "seeing" this guy i met online for a while, things were going good until he lost his job and moved in with his parents he became really depressed and i was there for him through the whole thing, well a couple days before my birthday he says that we should cool off ... (246 words)

Am I paranoid? Am I punishing myself? Or does he not love me anymore?

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29 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - You can read all of the details below, or you can just go off of the summed up version I'll present now (I wrote out the super longwinded, hormonal female version first) ;) My boyfriend, whom I have known for nearly 10 years, been close friends with for the last 2 years, da... (233 words)

Regretting my decision to have unprotected sex with an older boy....

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29 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - last night i had sex with an older boy i just met, i feel like i made a big mistake im really scared and we didnt use a condom.I kinda wanted to do it but at the same time i didnt..it just happened so fast i dont really even want anything to do with him.How can i handle this ... (60 words)

We've had sex and he gave me a key to his apartment, but I'm not sure where our relationship stands!

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29 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey everyone, I'm nineteen dating a thirty-four year old guy. We started seeing each other thinking that we would just hang out and be good friends but, things changed. He drove six hours to come "rescue" me from a bad situation once and after that, we got close. I lost my ... (205 words)

He can't get over the fact that I cheated, even though he's cheated too!

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29 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So I cheated on my bf and I told him...I told because I hate lieing to him..At first he took it like it was okay then later he wrote me a long ass message..Saying that he thought he couldn't take it but he said it was time he let me go...But the thing is the whole time he ... (143 words)

He slept with another girl whilst we were broken up, I don't know what to do!

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29 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend broke up with me from Oct 09 to Nov 09. He came back towards the end of November and left on October 8, 2009. We have been good since his return in late November. He has really been so amazing. We love each other so much. But, two nights he told me that during that ... (472 words)

Friends have hurt me badly, I have great trouble forgiving them, how do I change??

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29 July 2010 (?) age 41-50 - I have trouble forgiving people. Old friends have tried to hang out and I don't want anything to do with them because they were so mean to me. I also had an ex-crush who rejected me try to talk to me online, but I just blocked him. I don't want anything to do with them and have ... (104 words)

I told her boyfriend she was cheating, things got crazy, what do I do now??

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29 July 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I told my friend her boyfriend that she is cheating, right now everyone is affected, her family and some friends. what do i need to do? she is so mad. but his boyfriend wants to know everything she did. ... (40 words)

No comfort or serious communication from my friends, what should I do?

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29 July 2010 (?) age 41-50 - I feel drained and used by my friends. When they have problems, I listen to them and am there for them. However when I talk to them, they don't repay me in the same way. They'll instead reply with "Well, at least this didn't happen" or they try to downplay it in some way. They ... (261 words)

Neither of us have moved on, should I travel to see her??

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29 July 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - should i visit my ex girlfriend who now lives in another country. We dated for one year, then she left due to her visa expiring. We’ve stayed in touch and have been talking more recently. I don’t see how a long term relationship could work, but we really don’t have anythin... (136 words)

If it's true love, will it happen on it's own?

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29 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently just moved away from my old town and have trouble deciding what I want to do with my life. I live in NYC and would love to have a successful career in the media. However, something is holding me back. I am in love with a man back home, and choosing this career, will ... (231 words)

I've been short of breath for a couple of days, when should I see a doctor?

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29 July 2010 (?) age 30-35 - For the past few days it feels like I've had a shortness of breath, and I can't figure out what it is. I'm extremely scared, and I don't know when I should go to the doctor. Could it be because I haven't exercised in about a month?? Before that I exercised regularly and didn't ... (90 words)

He's no longer interested in sex, what happened?

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29 July 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend of 18 mths that I live with (with my 13 yr old son), and is 10 years younger than me, is no longer very interested in sex. I feel ashamed because I am, I fancy him to death! He's still very loving and thoughtful towards me. What's gone wrong?... (51 words)

Will she ever end her relationship with him?

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29 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been waiting for this girl for 2 and a half years already. She is in a relationship with her bf for 4 years plus. She knows her relationship is unhealthy. There have been couple of break ups in between these 4 years but they patched backed. She has feelings for me too ... (140 words)

Should I get it overwith and have a one night stand to lose my virginity?

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29 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so I'm only a few months off 21, and I'm still a virgin. Not feeling quite as alone in this as I just read another post from a 21 yr-old girl in a similar situation, but regardless, I feel that it's time to lose my virginity. I've never had a boyf, only ever been on one ... (188 words)

Because he did this, do you think he really loves me??

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29 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - after my x bf acuse me of lieying to him for not being a virgin i found myself a good man he lier for me by telling my parent that he his the one that took my verginity i was so chock when he said that so do u gys think he really loves me.... (55 words)

My best girlfriend and I made out a little, am I bisexual?

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29 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I have a best friend. She was the first person I met when I moved to my new neighborhood and I met her at church. We have been close for years. One night at a sleepover we were talking about horny we were. We were laying on her bed and then we started touching each ot... (107 words)

He hasn't replied in three days, should I message him again?

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29 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, What do you think i should do next? I saw a totally gorgeous tanned, blonde guy on my friend's facebook! I really lack confidence to make first moves and although people tell me i'm pretty and fun and i should go for it, i feel so foolish. I'm really shy and i fi... (510 words)

I think I might still have feelings for my ex, even though I'm engaged to his best friend!

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29 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - About a year in a half ago I started dating a co worker. It ended because he went back to his ex. I was heart broken but eventually moved on myself, with his roommate/best friend. I don't know exactly how it happneded. But now we are engaged and getting married in December. ... (76 words)

Sex during the menstrual cycle, How is it?

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29 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay... may sound akward or digusting. But I know us females feel the most horniest while we're on our period. I'm not saying I would or wouldn't do this, but I'd like to get more info on this. How is it having sex on your period? Is it better..worse..the same? Are guys ... (116 words)

What do I do with my flirtatious boyfriend?

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29 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - OP's own title: My boyfriend is a flirt. I'm okay with that cause I can be too, but he's started flirting alot with this one girl in particular. I don't know if they text each other. He has mentioned her to me a few times. The other day I met up with him and a bunch of frie... (145 words)

What kind of person does this to someone?

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29 July 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi this may seem a little long but bare with me and maybe i will get an answer that fits the profile,I have once again split from my baby`s father for the very last time in nearly 7yrs as a couple,when we got together he warned me that he was a little weird and found it ... (453 words)

Why can't I appreciate the friends I have?

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29 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I seem to never be happy with what i have. Not with items of possession with friends mostly. For example if im talking to lets say sally and im talking to her on the phone then hangup and go on a website where i can see what everyone is doing i become sad. I thinnk oh look ... (164 words)

Sexual problems In third year marriage

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29 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - MODS NOTE: OP's own title: I have been married for three years now I have two daughters, one is 20 months and the second one is only four months. Our first year married was awesome, we went out, we had fun, we made love often, even more than twice a day, our loving was plen... (429 words)

We've dated for five years and have a four month old baby, but he doesn't want us to live together!

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29 July 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - well the reson i desided to use this sight is i losted one min i felt i had it all now i feel losted my baby dady the love of mylife but for some reason he feels he need to be on his own after we dated almost five yrs and now have a four month onld baby he loves he and i ... (157 words)

How can I make my 'stand up' bf, end his long distance relationship?

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29 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I recently began dating a friend of a friend. We met about a month ago, and in the last few weeks have gone out about 6 or 7 times. I know he is in a long distance relationship, though he has only alluded to it, ambivalently, once (the night we met- a social event). Last... (162 words)

Show him I'm not playing him? (hes not replying)

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29 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - MOD NOTE: OP's own title: hey,so i like this guy and he said he liked me to. we went on a date,but in the end up invited a few others round to to his to have a drink/play the wii etc. after we watched a dvd the guy i liked asked me if i wanted to have sex,i said no (as i was... (131 words)

If I bring up my concerns again I feel like I'll only be nagging him!

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29 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - to start off with, my boyrfriend and I have dated for 7 years. it was great up until last summer. In the summer we dont see eachother much due to us working everyday, we are both 21. whe broke up with me last summer and got back together in october, broke up with me in february ... (263 words)

7 year relationship.. make it or break it?

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29 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - MODS NOTE: OP's own title. To start off with, my boyrfriend and I have dated for 7 years. it was great up until last summer. In the summer we dont see eachother much due to us working everyday, we are both 21. whe broke up with me last summer and got back together in octo... (268 words)

Do I have the right to ask what he's up to?

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29 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, I have been with my bf three months now, he was my ex, four years ago we had a relationship, it was a very powerful relationship in the positive and the negarive side, we broke up and we kept loving each other in a secret way, now we are back, and it's very confusing for ... (183 words)

How should I greet him?

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29 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I just met someone, and we both really like eachother. I just moved countries. I'm going to see him around Christmas time. What should I do when I see him? Hug him, kiss him, wave to him? We both really love hugs, but I'm not sure if it will be the right moment...... (53 words)

Why won't she let me support her through this?

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29 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and myself have been together for 6 months now and we are very happy together. Now Monday we were on a date and she got a call that her mom was arrested, and things between us haven't been the same... normally we text through out the day and i call her once at ... (240 words)

Boyfriend wont move out with me...

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29 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi aunts and uncles, I have a problem, something thats caused lots of arguments and some ill feelings about the topic, he thinks im being unreasonable, so iv come here to get a second opinion. My bf will not move out with me, i want to move out of my own house as my mother... (621 words)

Any tips on diet and exercise?

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29 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, i am 18 years old, male, about 5'10". I am trying to plan a workout/weightloss/muscle gain or what ever you would like to call it so that i can try and gain muscle and lose fat. Would a detox THEN workout work best or just workout? Also, what foods is best to eat... (145 words)

I'm scared to find out the outcome if I tell him I cheated...what should I do?

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29 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i've been dating this guy for a little more than 4 months now, but yet i had a boyfriend (long distance) for more than a year at the same time. I told the long distance one that i was seeing another guy and this was the second time i cheated on him. I recently had a long ... (126 words)

Fear of hurting people is stopping me going with my heart.....

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29 July 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I am completely torn between my fiancee with whom i have two young children and another woman who i met by chance and am now deeply in love with. I care for my partner and don't wish to hurt her or be a part time dad to my children and because i felt like it was the right th... (220 words)