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writes:Hey, im 20 straight male, and still have never been in a relationship in my life. Girls have always been attracted to me my whole life but It seems that once things start to get serious and i go on a date or something im just not myself and it gets really akward...I dont know what to do. It seems like the only time i can be myself around a girl is when i drink some beer and i think we all know thats not a very good alternative. In fact it screwed me over I was saving myself for when i fall in love. But as fate would have it i passed out at a party 2 be woken up by a girl sucking my you know and from and in a drunken haze i didnt stop her and she had sex with me. I was very heartbroken cause i had waited 4 so long 4 nothing.it happend 2009 and i havent slept with a girl since. Any advice out there though how to be yourself around the opposite sex? I just want to experience "love" already =[
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reader, everyrose969  +, writes (13 July 2010):
I'm always nervous when I start dating new boys. Actually really nervous to the point that I try and avoid the dates for the longest time and the guys just keep on pushing me to go out on a date.
I find it's easier to date my friend's friends. That way you have something in common at least.
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reader, LLindy87 +, writes (13 July 2010):
 maybe date one of your already friend girls. See if there are any sparks between a friend of yours or not. Look at them in a different light perhaps. You're already yourself around them, go for it. However, I'm assuming you have friends that are girls, if you don't, my advice is trash haha.
Otherwise, its okay to be nervous at first, ya know. its normal. Eventually that will go away. It has a lot to do with chemistry too, I find that I'm less myself with guys I like but don't have that much in common. Less to talk about. ya know? the more you have in common, the easier it is to find things to talk about. eventually once you find a topic you both are into then convo will start going :)
GOOD LUCK!
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