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writes:hi i am teddy and i have made a big mistake .... i have cheated on my bf who i have been with for ages its love ... shall i come clean and tell him .... xxxxx help me Reply to this Question
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (14 July 2010):
 Either you come clean or you will have to live with the guilt and the fear of being found out.. Pretty easy choice don't you think?
How well do you think a relationship without trust can be?
Own up.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2010): Yes, and break up with him after that.....trust me it's better for you two....
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reader, Odds +, writes (14 July 2010):
 You owe it to him and to yourself to tell him. This was not just a "mistake", you deliberately chose to act in a way that you know he would never want, and that would hurt him deeply. It's a betrayal.
He would want to know. Why hurt him again?
If it's really love, you won't act behind his back, and you won't hide things from him. If it's really love, he'll forgive you.
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reader, MonksDaBomb +, writes (14 July 2010):
 Depends on the scenario. If the person who you cheated with you love more than your bf or if it was a silly mistake and know that you'll never do it again. I'm all up for honesty, but it's hard to come clean with something like that. I'm sure it will eat at you and finally you'll just explode, so I say tell your bf. No doubt he is going to be angry, hurt, betrayed and you may break up. But I think honesty is the best option.
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