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writes:What do i do when i feel for two guys but I don't know what i feel for them. It feels like my heart is torn in two an i dated both but one broke up with me then asked me back out and i broke up with the other one. What do i do??
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (20 July 2010):
 But... what is it, did the doctor tell you that you MUST date somebody for serious health reasons ?? You are only 13 to 15. There's pleeeenty of time for meeting someone that will feel right both to your head and to your heart.
If neither of the guys is exactly right for you, then ditch them both ! At your age you 've got thousands of other things to focus on ( friends, schools, sports, plans for your future, etc.etc. ) other than your love life !
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reader, xx__confused__xx +, writes (20 July 2010):
xx__confused__xx is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI honestly don't kno what my head or my heart is tellin me. Its all F***ed up in more ways then one. My heart is sendin me mix signals an my head doesn't kno whats rite or not..................................??
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2010): I would date the one you think about the most, for now.. even if it's not the one you fantasize about the most, or have the best feeling about.. only the one your gut feeling drives you towards. Then, if dating him doesn't work out too well, go and try dating the other one. If you don't have a strong gut feeling causing you to concentrate on one of them more than the other one, in your mind, date the one you dumped, so you can both figure out why you were with him, and why you dumped him(that is, if it wasn't because of the feelings for the other guy).
If you have trouble motivating yourself to go by your gut feeling, then access in your head why you feel what you do about each one, and the one you feel the most desire to be with, besides sex,.. go with that one. If you're that confused about one over the other one, that's all I can offer to you. Try the one you have the best gut feeling about, or the one you feel the most intimate desires or deeper emotions for, besides being driven mostly sexually.
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reader, xx__confused__xx +, writes (20 July 2010):
xx__confused__xx is verified as being by the original poster of the questionCan somebody help me..........Plz
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reader, xx__confused__xx +, writes (18 July 2010):
xx__confused__xx is verified as being by the original poster of the questionSomebody plz. Its bad enough that im' in this situation as it is
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reader, xx__confused__xx +, writes (17 July 2010):
xx__confused__xx is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell yes i am. But i dated this one guy for like 2 an a half years then he broke up wit me. I dated this other guy for like a week. Idk what i feel but its exhaustin an amazing at the same time. idk how to explain it. But idk. I can't date them both they go to the same school. an idk what to do. :(. I need somebodies advice
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2010): You're thirteen to fifteen, date both of them, none of them or date a different boy all together.You aren't in love, it may be puppy love and attraction, but that is it. Don't hang your self esteem on having a boyfriend. Personally, I think you are too young for that and trying to grow up too fast. By doing that you are causing yourself a lot of uneccessary anxiety and strife instead of enjoying your childhood of being free of romanitc obligations but having fun with all of your friends.
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