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Is he just not into me?

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Question - (13 July 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 13 July 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

So I have met this guy, real cute seems very well mannered and just nice! lol

I took his number as I am a bit of a control freak and said I would call him. I text him the morning after as he came down to where I live and had to drive home so i asked him "how was the drive home" he didn't reply. But 2 hours later he rang me from a friends phone and said I haven't got any credit and I didn't want you to think I was being arogant. I thought that was lovely. I advised that I would call him later that evening for a chat, get to know each other etc...I called but to no avail and still no message...this was yesterday...am I being a freak or is he just not that into me?

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A female reader, xanthic United States +, writes (13 July 2010):

xanthic agony auntIt's only been a day. Give it some time, he could just be busy. I doubt he would've called just to let you know he ran out of credit if he wasn't interested in you, so give him a little space and let him be the one to call you next.

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A female reader, Kit-Kat United Kingdom +, writes (13 July 2010):

You need to calm down a little bit! He sounds like he might like you, but keep this up you will scare him away. it was nice of him to call to said he had no credit, but i think you are starting to scare him away. dont start chasing him because he will use that to his advantage. let him do the calling and texting once in a while. If it was me, i would text him at the start of the day for two days, and if he hasnt replied within a couple of days, try to resist calling him. If he wants to talk he will reply back.

Please dont chase him, because if he is into you he will talk! :) good luck

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (13 July 2010):

Easy there. You're perhaps moving a little too fast. Slow down! :). I tend to give a limit of three days. On the third day that there is no contact, then you call him and try to speak to him. If, after another three days nothing has happened, then you know he's not interested and is not worth your time. So just slow down and don't panic too much, or you might come on too strong and he might get scared. Give him a few days, and see what happens.

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