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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My mom told me my husband touched her inappropriately. What do I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5289 days ago

7 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Okay here is the story. This past two weeks ago my husband and I stayed at my mom's house. My husband and I stayed at my mom's house in one of the bedrooms and my mom stayed on the couch in the living room. We all went out Saturday night and got back around 3am. I woke up at ... (947 words)

Why all the weird stuff?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5290 days ago

7 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my this guy for two weeks so very new relationship. In the two weeks we've slept together every day and I've gone down on him but he hasn't done the same for me. In fact tonight I was going down on him even though I didn't really feel like it - I thought it was ... (195 words)

She asked me to be her boyfriend one day after we met!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5289 days ago

7 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, I am a 15 year old boy who sorta has a problem. Right now I like this girl who is 16 and goes to my school, very much and she is a close friend of mine. I think she likes me too. So yesterday i was on this chat site talking and meeting new people. I found this very ... (187 words)

Should I stay in touch with this guy or move on?

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7 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Should I stay in touch with this guy or move on? We knew each other briefly three years ago. We met in a nightclub, and we fancied each other, so we got each others phone numbers. We texted each other every day for about a month, and also had one date during that time. During ... (454 words)

Is there a nice way of saying no???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5289 days ago

7 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - A man that I work with has had a crush on me for the last year. I am not interested in him, and he is more than ten years older than me. I have been trying to ignore him and pretend i haven't noticed, but he still hasn't taken the hint, and keeps asking me to come watch movies ... (123 words)

I feel our sex life is going down the tubes!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5287 days ago

7 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been in a relationship for a little over a year now with my boyfriend and I am questioning whether or not i want to continue this relationship because there hasn't been any sexual intimacy for 4 months and that is a big deal for me personally. I have somewhat talked to him ... (156 words)

Should I be trying to work though and fight for this relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5290 days ago

7 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - So here is the situation any answer is helpful I'm just lost in the world. The same day I lost my job for next year, He broke up with me, he didn’t know it prior to driving an hour and a half for a talk. This talk was not really a talk more than how was your day and here's ... (434 words)

Bleeding sex!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5289 days ago

7 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf and i had sex for the first time today. it was not how i expected it to be at all. halfway through he says your bleeding. first of all is it normal and how long does it last?... (40 words)

I don't know if I trust him any more...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5290 days ago

7 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I've been in a relationship for 9 months now and its been the best 9 months of my life to be honest. But recently, i've felt like im losing trust in him, he's been going out a lot more and when i ask who he's been with he just says 'mates'. He's starting to go out clubbing... (104 words)

Should I be ready for the big let down?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5290 days ago

7 July 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok so to those of you who saw my first question, she wasn't cheating, but she did want time off. For those of you who didn't see it, I have been with this girl for 3 years. She left for the summer to work, and I probably became a little overbearing. I called a lot and always ... (258 words)

How can I stop his sister manipulating him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5290 days ago

7 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in a relationship with a man that lives with his sister and brother in law, i feel like she is causing problems in our relationship, she has control of his money and everything else, it is like she is ok with us dating but dont want the relationship to move forward because ... (128 words)

Please help me to forget him...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5290 days ago

7 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok, here it goes. I'm in love with a close friend of mine, let's call him joe. well joe and I are kind of close, so me being in love with him is a problem I do not want to have anymore. Seriously, I want to forget about him, but I don't know ho to do it if I see him every da... (163 words)

How do I let her down gently without hurting her too much?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5288 days ago

7 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - So first off i am only 20 years old, and very mature for my age, and i have been with my girlfriend, who is turning 21 this year, for almost a year, at first i was sketchy about even dating her because she was so different in personality than i normally date, but it ended up ... (813 words)

How can I prove to her that all I want is her love?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5285 days ago

7 July 2010 (M) age 26-29 - Ok, I'm 15 years old and dating the girl of my dreams. We've been together about 5 months, but we both agree that it seems like we've known each other forever (in a good way). Unfortunately I haven't seen her in a month and we started fighting. It began a week and a half ago ... (165 words)

Dying to find my birth dad... but where do I start???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5290 days ago

7 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello all, i posted a question just yesterday and please understand that i dont mean to be a pain, only i am so desperate to find my birth father and i have only received one answer.. as im so impatient i wanted to post it again just in case no one else saw the question. i have ... (206 words)

Any advice on ways to get and stay focused?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5290 days ago

7 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I think I am losing it. There's a girl who is a good friend of mine that I really like. I enjoy hanging out with her, and I can't stop thinking about her when I'm not. She's seems to be in my head all the time, and it's all really been affecting my focus and my class ... (108 words)

How do I let go of anger and resentment of being mistreated?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5290 days ago

7 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - How do I let go of anger and resentment of being mistreated? My ex recently came back into my life. Through the breakup, I really thought about my part in the relationship and tried to change myself for a better person. It seemed like he did too, but within a few weeks, I rea... (140 words)

Do women actually cum too???

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5274 days ago

7 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Just to let you know i am 16 but for some reason it hasnt changed my age on here:/ Do women actually cum? I know this sounds strange but my boyfreind asks me during sex if im about to cum but i dont know. if so what happens?? or do i just not realise? sorry this sounds real... (83 words)

Embarrassing problem...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5290 days ago

7 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been in a relationship for 9 months now and me and my boyfriend have come to the stage where we want to start doing things, i was fine with the idea, as i was ready for it too, but i have a problem with my vagina area, i only noticed it yesterday and immediately thought ... (122 words)

I'm trying to pluck up the courage to leave my husband...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5290 days ago

7 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am trying to pluck up the courage to leave my husband. Can someone help me boost my confidence? All we do is argue and it's all the cause of him this is sad to say but my heart no longer feels the love for him because he treats me badly he calls me names and tells me i am ... (119 words)

I feel my marriage is a sham... help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

7 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband is always gone day and night, he doesn't come back home until late or sometimes he won't come at all, when he wants sex i refuse because he is always so secretive and never shares with me what he has done. When i try to communicate with him he rejects me then gets ... (235 words)

I just need him to show me that I mean something to him...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5290 days ago

7 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 16 and recently wrote about my boyfriend. I just want to write and get advice about how I feel cause I dont really have anyone to talk to and it's driving me crazy. I feel empty all the time or really upset and I don't know why. I feel like my boyfriend doesnt really c... (505 words)

How would you feel if your boyfriend was wanking behind your back?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5286 days ago

7 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - hi im hoping you can give me your views as im a little confussed and to be honest feel a bit cheated, can anyone give me there views how would you feel and what would you do and say if you found out your boyfriend was wanking behind your back whilst your asleep down stairs ... (55 words)

How can I cope when my libido is much higher than his?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5289 days ago

7 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - He is 35 and I'm 23! Sex when we do it is so mind blowing, problem is I am more sexual than he is, it's like I want it all the time, with him we can go a week but I can't do it that way, I'm now sexually frustrated... honestly if I start kissing or touching him he pushes me ... (113 words)

How can I reassure him that I still like him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5290 days ago

7 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I like this guy at school, he knows i do and i am pretty certain he likes me too, he just doesnt say it. he acts pretty jealous when i am talking to other guys. for a while he got a bit funny and rarely spoke to me but lately he seems to be excepting that i have guy-frie... (161 words)

Virgin in need of help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5290 days ago

7 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm a single virgin and I'm so horny to the point where I just want to give it up. However, I also want to wait for the right guy. Masturbating and porn isn't satisfying me at all. How do I deal with this? Please don't tell me to find a boyfriend cause I wouldn't be here if I ... (61 words)

I don't want to lose my friends over this guy... what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5290 days ago

7 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My friends and family don't like my boyfriend, they think hes a thief and we did catch him once with a cell phone but he did have a good excuse for how he had it. he had a phone that looked just like the one that was stolen/lost and they both ended up in his bag. they also ... (128 words)

How the heck do I last longer?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5290 days ago

7 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, this is quite an embaressing question but I see no other way than to ask. When I have sex with my girlfriend... I tend to come really fast, every time, im talking about 30 seconds tops. When I masturbate I try to make it last longer since I have heard it helps with lasti... (139 words)

Is it selfish of me to keep waiting...?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5290 days ago

7 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I am currently in a LDR (long distance relationship) after dating my boyfriend for 9 months. He came to Asia, where I currently reside, to study on a one year exchange and we happened to fall in love. We had plans to move to London together since I was moving to London i... (167 words)

How much does size matter to women?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5288 days ago

7 July 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I have an ordinary size dick and I spoke to a Doctor about it once. He said that there wasn't really anything that can be done about it. His exact words were... "you are what you are and there's nothing we can do to change that." I want an honest answer. Do women prefer guy... (147 words)

How can I make her my girlfriend without coming off needy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5290 days ago

7 July 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I started talking to this girl 3 months ago. We talk almost everyday for hours through text and calling. Gone out on a few dates and have slept together. I'd like to see her more often as we only now see each other only once a week to once every 2 weeks. But she is young (23) ... (141 words)

Should the good guy dump his wife of 20 years for the old girlfriend?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 5289 days ago

7 July 2010 (M)

age - My wife and I just passed our 20th anniversary, we have two girls 10 and 14. My wife has various emotional issues and our home life can often be chaotic. I have always done much of the home work (cooking, keeping an eye on girls' schoolwork, getting them to dance practice, ... (557 words)

Am I just hormonal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5290 days ago

7 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive been having off and on cramps this week but my period isnt suppose to happen for another 2 weeks. Im on Yaz. I been under stress from school and work. My last 2 periods were normal...kinda One came a few days late the nthe next one came a few days after that one h... (119 words)

How do you stop loving someone and get over them

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5290 days ago

7 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, this is going to sound like all the other silly questions about getting over guys, but I am struggling. Everyone tells you to get over someone, but HOW do you do it? I have been in love with a guy for a long time. He makes me smile, and knows me better than any other p... (268 words)

Why am I going soft?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5290 days ago

7 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello i am having a little problem in my sex life. My wife and i love each other to the max i really love her and she is very sexy to. we together for four years now going on five and i have this problem.sometimes we would have sex and it will great but sometime i would go ... (102 words)

Should I not meet him in person?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5290 days ago

7 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I got to know a guy who's from Germany on a website for people to practise languages they're learning more than one year and a half.When I got to know him,he was quite busy cos of graduation,but we often had good chats with each other.Later on,I had to write my thesis while he ... (502 words)

How does a virgin spice up their relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5290 days ago

7 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I really want sex with my boyfriend but im a virgin. We have done other things recently but there starting to get boring. (Blow jobs, Licking out) I want to experiment with these two things to get his attension and completely wow him. howw ? ... (45 words)

He stopped trying because it was too difficult to take my virginity!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5290 days ago

7 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - me and my boyfriend have almost been together for 2 months, we are so close and comeftable together it is so right i now belive in love ther is 2 years 9 months diffrence. when we first got together he wasn't too keen om my age and im a 15 year old vigin and he is soon to be a ... (155 words)

He has a history of dating coworkers. Should I be worried?

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7 July 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - He works in the same building as his ex and it seems he has dated other women at work in the past. He still has stuff of hers around the house yet he says he's totally over her. I thought dating at work was a big "no-no" but this guy seems to do it. Should I be worried? ... (61 words)

Does she like him or is she just messing with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5290 days ago

7 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - [MOD NOTE: Names Edited] Ok so I have this guy friend whos my best guy friend and he needs help with this girl he likes. So I told him I'd help him out:) Ok so this girl is named *D but she is really confusing him. She tells him she likes him and thinks hes hot but doesnt w... (128 words)

He doesn't have the trappings of a guy in 2010....so?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5290 days ago

7 July 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My kids think there's something wrong with him but I think he's wonderful. He doesn't have a cell phone, TV, internet or friends. Heck even my parents have all that and they're nearly 80. His relationship with his parents is via phone although they're just a few hours away ... (102 words)

Did I handle this situation correctly?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5290 days ago

7 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I was just on this dating website chatting to another user, everything was going fine and then he saw me on FACEBOOK, after that he just went cold and blokced me. I sent him a curt email telling him he was immature shallow and not all that attractive either. The g... (125 words)

Ideas on how to get him back?

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7 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i was in relationship for 3 years we had our up and downs meaning we used to fight we have a son together. we rented an apartment and i wanted to furnished it but he wanted to buy a car he didnt work for a year and i had taken care of all bills rent food baby everything you ... (118 words)

Why do guys like bachelor parties so much?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5290 days ago

7 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Why do guys like bachelor partys so much? I dont even want a bachelorette party. I asked my bf if he wants one and he asked me if i would be upset and i said i wouldnt really want you to have one it could lead to problems. He said ok but if his bestfriend surprises him with one ... (155 words)

Why is he making bad decisions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5290 days ago

7 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I really really like this old friend of mine. i reccently broke up with my boyfriend so i would be able to go out with my friend. but last night he started talking to me about how he just dumped his girlfriend for another girl, not me. and he is doing nothing but talking about ... (198 words)

Can you be homosexual and love someone of the opposite sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5289 days ago

7 July 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Just wondering right, do you think that you can be homosexual and still be in love with someone of the opposite sex.?... (22 words)

How do I take things to the next level without being pushy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5286 days ago

7 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - *sigh* i'm really bad at explaining so bare with me. i really like this guy that i've known for awhile and we've been technically 'friends with benefits' for nearly a year now, we have been in a relationship before but it ended, we're very close and tend to think alot alike. ... (159 words)

Should I try and forget about this girl?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5290 days ago

7 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - A month or two ago a co-worker and I started having a relationship. I am single and she has with a boyfriend whom she has been with for four years. At first we both felt very bad about the fact that she was cheating on her boyfriend but as time went on it became clear to us ... (525 words)

Is 8 years too big of a difference?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5288 days ago

7 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, all I want to know is if anyone thinks that 8 years is a big difference? I honestly don't think it is. But I'm 18 and I like a 26 year old who likes me back. I just wanna know if you think 8 years is too much.... (49 words)

I feel like the romance in our relationship is fading. Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5286 days ago

7 July 2010 (F)

age - I have been with my boyfriend for six years, we are 20, we live together, we study, we get along really great, we always laugh and have a great time together, we're best friends. For the last few years he doesn't put effort in to make me feel special, when im hurt, sad or lon... (663 words)

What should I do? I've lost the spark for my partner, and developed feelings for another man!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5290 days ago

7 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been with my partner for almost 3 years now and were engaged but recently i started losing the spark for him , and ive also stared talking to this other guy i have devoloped feelings for but i dont want to hurt my other half but this other guy really likes me he says . ... (78 words)

My boyfriend ignores me, should I just break up with him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5283 days ago

7 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend neglects me. He ignores me on facebook and doesnt reply to my texts ALOT. He always gives stupid excuses which I find hard to believe. I still love him and I'm willing to give him a second chance. Thing is, he hasn't asked for it. Tomorrow is our 2nd month ... (60 words)

My husband is talking to other women, am I being played?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5290 days ago

7 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - my husband and i are separated for about three weeks now. he says he wants me to move back in and that im the love of his life. but he doesnt know i know he has been sending messages to multiple girls. like hes trying to hook up with them. i dont understand how he wants to get ... (262 words)

My 18 year old son is dating someone my age!!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5286 days ago

7 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My 18 year old son has started dating a 35 year old woman, which is my age, I am having alot of different feeings, from near break down to breaking her in half. I don't want to do the wrong thing and push him closer to her. I can't imagine dating someone my sons age. ... (56 words)

Should I run and not look back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5290 days ago

7 July 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - [Mod Note: OP's original title] I've met a lovely man and we're in love. We'got to know each other slowly since the February and have been exclusive for 2 months BUT I have some issues that are concerning me. He was in a relationship for 5 yrs broke up with he around a year... (229 words)

If my ex is happy with his present relationship, why does he still talk to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5290 days ago

7 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex broke up with me 6 months ago.I tried everything to convince him.But failed.After that I use NC.It Worked.He tried to contact me aftre one month.I didnot reply at first.He tried a lot of thing to break my NC (indirectly).After a long period I broke my NC.Then He said ... (432 words)

Is this a red flag? How should I proceed?

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7 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been seeing a guy for the past 4 weeks. We both agreed not to date other people since we've become intimate. First two weeks, he was amazing, attentive and takes me to nice places. Lately, he's still making an effort to meet up (even though he's VERY busy with work) but ... (230 words)

I try to move on but I always wind up back with him!

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7 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - dear cupid, i love my boyfriend very much, we have a two yr old daughter. he also has a 3 yr old daughter with his ex. wen i met him they were in the middle of a break up with his ex and inspite of all the pressure from his parents to marry her as she was pregnant he choose t... (198 words)

Should I leave him and continue with my life?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5290 days ago

7 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone!! We have been dating with this guy for 6 months and he is a foreigner. We have just been enjoying our relationship. One of his relative came to my country, she was employed here so she had no where to stay, so she asked for accommodation from this guy temp... (258 words)

He swore blind he hadn't masturbated behind my back!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5272 days ago

7 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - please i hope someone can help me and give me advice, i recently found something under mine and my boyfriends bed and also something else in the cubord in there which was stained in ,what looked like semen i asked my boyfriend what it could be and he told me he blows his nose ... (305 words)

I think I'm pregnant, and I have no idea how to tell my parents or what they'll say. Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5290 days ago

7 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, my naame is Alexandra. im 15 yrs old. and i think im pregnant ive been pregnant before. but i lost the baby one month into the pregnancy. But now since im pregnant again.. i just dont know what to do. im goingg to thee gynocologist in 2 weeks to ask for a tes... (161 words)

I've never had a girlfriend and this affects my confidence. What can I do to improve it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5284 days ago

7 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Nowadays, everywhere you look the media displays sex, and for me it doesn't do well for my esteem which is already low. What I mean is that I feel frustrated and inadequate; tv especially presents sex as a thing that only the popular and the outrageously beautiful can get, and ... (454 words)

How can I suggest adding a girl to our threesome?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5290 days ago

7 July 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I am a 32 year old male and have been in a relationship with another 29 year old man for the last eight years. About 5-6 times a year, we have a threesome with another male. I would like to note this has never caused a problem for us, neither have cheated on the other, we have ... (229 words)

How do you define a healthy sex life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5290 days ago

7 July 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - What is a healthy sex life? My wife and I have been married for 17 years. I love her dearly and desire her greatly. However, she has little or no sex drive. We have sex on average about once every 5-7 weeks. We have sex less than 10 X a year. I have tried talking to her and ... (66 words)

We broke up, and now he's badmouthing me to all of my friends, but denying it when I confront him. Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5273 days ago

7 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so, about a month ago, I broke up with my boyfriend of six months. The relationship just wasn't working for me and in the end I figured out I didn't actually like him as more than a friend. It wasn't really a bitter break-up, and we said that we would try to remain fr... (185 words)

I'm torn between my husband and my boyfriend. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5290 days ago

7 July 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Help please. I was with my partner for 20 years and we have a 9 year old boy. I wanted two children and when I found out I couldnt got low and ended up having an affair with my boss. This was really intense and I thought I had found my true love. He left his wife after 6 ... (258 words)

I can't stand the thought of kissing him or being intimate with him, but I don't want to end it. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5290 days ago

7 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a boyfriend that I love very much. I'm physically attracted to him, but there are things that I just do not like to do with him any more. I like cuddling and hugging and small bits of affection, but I am completely turned off by the idea of kissing him (and only him, I ... (203 words)

How to move on after a long relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5289 days ago

7 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - want to move on after a10 years relationship he dumped me so badly. He just want to stay friends with me. 2 years i tried not to love him and acting like a hell. Its a vary hard time for me being with him as a friend and nothing els. please somebody help me. I don't want him a... (96 words)

I want an affair with my sister-in-law and am in need of help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5265 days ago

7 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - i m in affair with my sister in law (brithers wife) two year back we had sex togeather and we have been caught by our family after that i get married. We all family still live togeather. Now my problem is that after 2 years of my happily marriage my sister in law is stairing ... (136 words)

My girlfriend hasn't touched me in over a month.

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7 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello. I need some advice on how to go about this problem. I'm female, and need some advice. My girlfriend and I have been together for just over 2 years now, and we've been physically active with each other for about a year. Up until a few months ago we would switch... (253 words)

What do I do about workplace cliques? Ignore it? Please help.

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7 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Need some genuine advice about workplace cliques.. apologise for the length.. My workplace is not an office, its a hospital, which is very different.. I work with a lot of very cliquey girls, no bad vibes or hate between us or my boss, just a very strong, sometimes qui... (437 words)

What did you do when he cheated? Was I being too dramatic?

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7 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend came home one night and told me he had something to tell me. He'd been partying with some coworkers and had kissed one of them. I stayed calm. I didn't get mad. I tried really hard to be understanding. I just asked him if he still wanted to be with me. He said he ... (714 words)

When is it my time to cheat?

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7 July 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I want to know when is it my time to cheat? I've had plenty of oppertunity to sleep with some broad. My girl admitted to sleeping with someone i confided in. I wuz out of town when this happened and i'm still pissed. I feel like sleeping with her sister, but that wouldn't bee ... (118 words)

Any ideas for retribution?

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7 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Guys I think here Im more an agony aunt than a dude seeking advice but I might as well ask how should i deal with this chick. I started talking to this girl and she started getting hell into me. Eventually I invited her to a party so we could get together. I also invited som... (238 words)

Bad little brother, need help!!

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7 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, I just recently caught a glimpse of my little brother masturbating to the computer, but he didnt see me. I didnt get a very clear view of the picture at first, but I did notice that it was a saved image. I waited a while and then hopped on the computer when he was done to ... (330 words)

He treats HIS daughter differently!

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7 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband treats his daughter different from my kids. i love his daughter and treat her as one of my own. i tell her i love her and give her hugs and atterntion. there's a line i draw when it comes to punishment though and i dont feel its my place to punish her but i ... (152 words)

His mother is ruining our marriage! And he beats me up!

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7 July 2010 (?) age 36-40 - hi all. i got married with my husband nearly 4 years ago. i knew him 1 year before. we got married and he left me and went to uk for work purpose. we did the wedding ceremony when he came back after a year and we started living together at his mom's place. his mom would always ... (243 words)

Is it possible for a woman to want too much sex?

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7 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Sex means way too much to me, I know this. And it doesn't come from a good place. It comes from never being touched as a child expect sexually. So I know this isn't just a personality thing. Well it's left me feeling very comforted by sexual touch and sexual longing from oth... (504 words)

Could I be pregnant? I'm afraid to ask my mother!

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7 July 2010 (?) age 26-29 - Hi. My name is Quinn and i have been experiancing some weird things. I have been to many websites and nothing has helped. Could you please help me? Okay so this is what's happeneing, I have missed my period for 1 month and 1/2... but i have NOT had sex, i am still a virgin, ... (171 words)

I like one of my friends! How can I tell if he likes me too?

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7 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so here's the deal I'm 19 and never been on a date or had a boy friend. I'm kinda a keep to myself kinda person and really shy. Well I have this friend and him and I have been best friends for like the past 13 or 14 years and for the past 3 years I have liked him as more ... (111 words)

Are these all signs he's interested in me?

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7 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - There is a guy I have a crush on who I have been seeing for the past month. We both have been getting to know each other (only in person because I don't have his number or email). The more I see him, the more effort he is putting in getting to know me. I feel so comfortable ... (186 words)

Why does she act like she's not interested in me?

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7 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - So, like every other guy on here... theres this girl, we've known each other for almost 7 months and have come to be very very good friends, to the point where we consider each other as best friends and see each other every day. Over those 7 months I've helped her find ... (722 words)

I think I like another girl more than my girlfriend!

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7 July 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi i need help. about 3 months ago i started to like this girl my age(15) and we got to know each other more and more then she said that she kinda liked me too. a few days later talked again and i found out she had a boyfriend i felt as if i was being used so i got pretty upset ... (126 words)

Words never were enough if there is no action! My husband is all words!

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7 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - me and my husband we are not together right now, am waiting the visa, usa, he went back to his country. we only talk in phone and msn and his ex wife there and she get divorce from her husband who in first place cheated my husband and left him for that and i have strong feeling ... (530 words)

My boyfriend loves his 11yr old daughter more than me!

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7 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - [Mod note: Two questions by the same poster have been combined into one.] My Boyfriend is 35, i am 23 we have known each other for 7 years and have only got together 7 months ago. We have been in our own apartment for 2 months. He has a 11 yr old daughter from previous relation... (417 words)

Is 12 too young to use tampons?

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7 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My younger sister wants to try tanpons she is only 12 do you think I should let her because she is very young but she keeps asking me should I let her ? ... (42 words)

I was sexually abused, now my period is late, could I be pregnant?

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7 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I was sexually abused last month, the guy didnt wear a condom 2 days later i got my period right on time for 6 days normal flow. This month its 3 days late already, could i be pregnant? ... (38 words)

I broke up with him but I miss him!

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7 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so after 3 years we broke up.. Its hard to let him go I sometimes miss him but deep down I no it was for the best.. I got fed up with the fact that he changed and didn't have time for me anymore I tried so hard to work us out and maybe I did few of my mistakes but that still ... (196 words)

Is his behavior about control?

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7 July 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My ex-boyfriend is still a bother - why does he insist on finding out what I am doing and with whom? He is jealous of me going out with a guy we both know. But the ex-boyfriend has been living with another woman for over a year! And he doesnt care that he cheats on her. He t... (212 words)

Would you be upset if your boyfriend's ex texted him?

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7 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Would you be upset if your boyfreinds ex gf texted him? It doesnt matter how much, it could be the 1st time she texted him or the 10th would you be upset? Also how do you not get jelous easy? Cause im a very jelous person but i try not to show it to much.... (55 words)

How do I overcome this situation? He won't take me back because I cheated.

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7 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been in a relationship for 7 years. I am 25 years old and met my ex-husband who just turn 47 in a different country. We got married and after a year he brought me to US. Another year went by and he ask me for a divorce because he felt the need to protect his interests ... (195 words)

She won't let me see my son!

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7 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - right here goes... I have a wee boy called callum who is two and i dont get to see him at all. the story is that i used to go out with a girl called ali she was 16 and i was 21 she fell pregnant and our relationship fell apart soon after we found out. i have seen my son two ... (116 words)

Do I keep in touch after the emotions cool down?

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7 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - So I messed up...I broke up w/ a really great guy over and over again cuz I was not sure he was "the one" and I wanted to go out and date cuz I never had a chance to be single and experience what was out there. I really hurt him and he broke things off w/ me and started dating ... (457 words)

Is this a sign we shouldn't be together?

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7 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with my current boyfriend for the past 8 years. Most everything is good in our relationship. We met in college when we were both 18. He's my first serious boyfriend and first lover. I guess what I want to know is what's normal. We don't have sex very often at all. ... (160 words)

Any thoughts on how to get her out of my head?

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7 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok so im 19 years old and just recently got out of a horrible relationship. I guess it was really good in some ways, but in other ways it was horrible. Back in November i reconnected with a girl i met only once before. We hit it off right away when i first met her but were ... (590 words)

Tips on cooking? I'm trying to help out my family.

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7 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - hi, im 14 and my mom usuelly is very nice to me, she lets me stay in town overnight if i call her, she does things like braid my hair, and lets me sleep in very late if i don't have school, but when i ask her to make me dinner or lunch ect.. she gets very angry, and tells me to ... (137 words)

How do I find my biological father?

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7 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hello :) erm im not sure if this question is ok for this website but it says relationship advice soo i guess that means with family members too? anyway, im 18 from the UK, and ive finally been given my birth dads real nam after 18 years (my mum wanted me to wait until i was 18 ... (202 words)

Is this relationship about true love or is it just a safety net?

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7 July 2010 (F)

- My Bf and I have been dating for 5yrs. He is 42 and I am 37. Recently I've started asking myself if this is a true love relationship or just a safety net from being alone; someone I've got comfortable with. Any advice would be helpful.. Thanks As I stated my bf and I have... (217 words)

Will my husband physically hurt me again?

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7 July 2010 (?) age 41-50 - My husband and I have been married for 7 months. We fight because he's done stuff to make me not trust him. today we got into a fight and I threw his phone into our wall out of frustration (not at him). when it came apart he kicked me and told me to get the fuck out of his ... (173 words)

Is it a stupid idea to let him know I cared?

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7 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, when I was living in China I dated a boy living there for a short time (in January 2010). Before we even got together I made sure he knew I was leaving to go home because my little brother was very ill. I was supposed to go back in March (which passed) or August but now ... (242 words)

How do I keep the distance from tearing us apart?

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7 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey guys, I was hoping you could help me; I recently began to like this boy that I met a few months ago. He's absolutely gorgeous (to me); he's tall with long brown hair and green eyes. We really love each other, but I feel like we're struggling to be with each other. He's ... (109 words)

Will he lose interest because I'm a virgin?

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7 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 24 years old and still a virgin. I'm not saving it, I just haven't met someone I'm comfortable enough to sleep with yet. Here's my problem. I'm interested in a guy right now who is so kinky he makes hardcore porn look soft. I'm pretty kinky myself, but the fact that ... (138 words)

How do I move beyond my obsession?

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7 July 2010 (?) age 36-40 - I'm very emotionally hurt, I can easily cry if I think too much about him, or about our situation... We meet two years ago, from the beginning I've seen in him something special and in the same time a lot of bad feeling, we never had a commitment or an official relationship. We ... (366 words)

I hate giving blow jobs, but want to make him happy! What should I do?

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7 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - okay.... well my boyfriend went down on me twice in one day and then he wanted me to give him head but my parents were around so i couldn't i mean i want to and i've done it loads before but i hate even the thought of cum... i guess i never cared about offending guys when i dry ... (134 words)

He never wants sex, but still maturbates!

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7 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, I can't believe I am asking this, but what the heck... My boyfriend and I have been dating for a little over 2 months. We have had sex maybe around 5 times. I try and try to get him to have sex with me all the time only to be told no.. He says he just has so much on his ... (198 words)

Sooo... I don't go facebook like everyone else

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7 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - so i'm 16 and i dont go on facebook like at all. i have one but i just don't go on it at all.i honestly just don't c the obsession and ppl kind of freak out like "omg wat" when i tell them i don't go on it.i mean i know that everyone loves it but i'm the type of person that ... (74 words)

Nothing Below the Belt: Is He Gay?

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7 July 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been seeing a guy off and on for almost six years. He has NEVER touched me below the waist. He seems to really like my breasts and loves me to touch him and kiss him all over, of course. I guess the main reason I continue to see him sometimes is because I'm really ... (345 words)

Mixed feelings about clubbing

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7 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have mixed feelings about going out clubbing. In a way, i enjoy it, as i love the music, especially in a couple of particular clubs that my friends and i go in, but sometimes, i dont like the crowds, although, sometimes i can tolarate it. I also hate it when men that i dont ... (285 words)

Could she get pregnant from this?

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7 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend gave me a handjob and after I came I immediatly began to rub her vagina. I didn't actualy put a finger in but I'm worried she might be pregnant. Is there any chance of this?... (37 words)

After the break he was just as sweet, then suddenly blew me off

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7 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So theres this guy ive been in love with for almost 3 years. We've never been officially together, but for 2 of those years weve been having sex. So it was like were were together but not, even tho I knew he liked me too it just never happened. When it came to the 3rd year he ... (303 words)

I can't get close to him again?

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7 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - okay, My boyfriend an i dated for 2 an a half years. Then all of a sudden he broke up wit me?? He never really told me why, but then we were seperated for at least 3 weeks. He talked to me an said he missed me. We gave each other hugs an kisses an talked bout how things r goin ... (94 words)

No affection in the relationship -- was I right to call for a break?

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7 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - i have been with a girl for 4 year and love her very much my mates and family have been telling me to get rid of her for ages but i lover so much its my first serious relationship any ways it came to her 21st birthday i took her on a suprise mini cruise to brugge in belgium but ... (142 words)