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writes: I've been going out with this guy for 3 and a half months, he is the first boy I've kissed and the furthest we've gone is snogging, we're both 14 but I feel like I want more and im not sure what I want and what to do.If you could help i would be grateful!(: Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, chigirl +, writes (13 July 2010):
If you feel you want more, but not sure what, maybe there is something lacking in the relationship? Like maybe you feel he doesn't give you everything you need out of a relationship? Try to think about what you need and what feels right for you, and then compare how your relationship add up with what you want out of a relationship. It could be that you need more openness, that you want more trust in the relationship, or more attention? How do you see yourself in a perfect relationship, and how do you see yourself in this one? What could improve?
Thinking about these things might help you figure out what it is you need more of.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (13 July 2010):
Take it slow :) That is my best advice.
Until you know exactly WHAT you want, don't do something you may regret.
And remember if sex comes into the piture, use protection. Don't be careless about it. READ up on it, KNOW what YOU need to do to stay safe.
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