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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How am I supposed to move on??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

2 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Me and my boyfriend has been in this relationship for 4 years, 2 years together and two years apart since I have to go overseas to work. We were so inlove. He is 25 and im 27. He has been asking me to marry him two years ago, he doesn't want us to be apart, so we can be ... (443 words)

I feel like our relationship is falling apart, I don't know why, we're constantly fighting/

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

2 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 6 months, going on 7. Our love has never been stronger. I honestly and truly believe we are in love. He's 19 and I'm 16 by the way. For the first 4 months he didn't have a job, we've both had jobs in the past, but weren't looking. So we ... (303 words)

Am I creating this issue or is he perpetuating it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

2 July 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Ok. Ugh. I have a stupid problem. While I am extremely confident and successful, I have body issues - I know everyone does but I think mine are a bit more severe. I can't decide if my boyfriend makes it worse or is inconsiderate of that or if it's just my stupid insecurities ... (620 words)

I hate performing oral sex, but I like receiving it. Am I selfish?

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 4900 days ago

2 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have tried oral sex numerous time, but I still hate it. I don't understand how anyone can enjoy performing oral sex on a man. I feel sick, I get a sore throat, my jaws hurt, the taste is awful and the sight of semen make me want to vomit. My boyfriend loves performing and r... (223 words)

He's heartless!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

2 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - here's the situation, my boyfriend says i never open up to him. but when i try to tell him why i get upset over situations he then gets upset with me telling me i get mad over petty things proceeds to tell me i can find someone else who doesn't treat me badly . honestly he ... (170 words)

I want my ex back... I want him to love me again...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5125 days ago

2 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been in a relationship for 6 years, we were engaged for 3 years. Couple months ago I found out my bf is seeing someone from his past. His childhood friend. When I asked him about it he told me he didn't say anything cause I can't handle the truth. Meaning Im very jealous. ... (304 words)

18 and lost on dating and how it all works...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

2 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've never had a boyfriend before, so the problem is that I have no game and no idea of how to meet people and ask them out. I wouldn't even know where to begin! Like...do I just go up to some random man in a bar and ask him out? Or do I only ask people that I know? As y... (101 words)

Is she lying about her sexual past?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

2 July 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - So I need a bit of help playing detective to determine if my GF is a bit more promiscuous than she lets on. First off, she did not start having sex till she was 30. I have proof that is true. She is now 40, and claims to have had sex with 4 guys before me, with a few oral ... (537 words)

How to keep legs smooth during the summer?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

2 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - A beauty questions for females. Any advice or tips how to use the epilators and how to prevent the ingrowth of hair. Do you need to use anything after exfoliating the legs? Basically how to keep you legs smooth without bumps and bruises especially now in summers when y... (101 words)

Worried about him after his bad relationship

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2 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a guy friend I've been friends with for about 8 years. There are definitely feelings between us the timing just hasn't worked out well. He is my best friend and we used to talk every day, he'd tell me everything all his ups and downs. He got in a relationship back in ... (406 words)

He calls me beautiful and then oggles other girls!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

2 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i have am very young but i have roblems getting over how my boyfriend used too look at girls, we stopped talking to them we promised to eachother that we would talk to none of the opposite sex.. but i am always hearing he talks to my friends and even his friends agree he used ... (180 words)

Could seasonal depression be the cause for her odd behaviour towards me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5252 days ago

2 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, me and my girlfriend have been together for nerly 18 months and have just finished off our A-level exams. we are still young and she is very much my first love. with all the confidence i have left, i can say that for large majority of our relationship we have never been ... (614 words)

Depression deja vu?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

2 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - [Mod note: OP title] Hi, me and my girlfriend have been together for nerly 18 months and have just finished off our A-level exams. we are still young and she is very much my first love. with all the confidence i have left, i can say that for large majority of our rela... (618 words)

Looking for a hextrosexual relationship, am I being niave??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

2 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello this is a question that I have to ask, me and a guy i know were talking the other day (this guy hastnt been the first person to say this) he came up with the theory 'all females are bisexual' and it got me thinking... I am a 22 year old male and to be honest about 60%... (265 words)

How do I improve my self-esteem, I hate my looks??

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

2 July 2010 (F) age 36-40 - I hate myself, because I feel ugly and disgusting. I'm not fat and people say I look ok, but average is not enough for me. I don't know what to do. Everytime I see a beautiful woman, I get depressed. So yes, I'm constantly depressed, every day, because on TV, papers or in real ... (165 words)

My ex is possessive and it is troubling, why is he like this??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

2 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know why my ex boyfriend still keeps an eye on me. It's been almost a year since he cheated on me and dumped me. But still he keeps an eye on me and finds out everything I'm upto. And whenever he gets the news that there's a new guy in my life, he'd make an entrance, in ... (127 words)

Is it safe to use Nair to remove pubic or armpit hair??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

2 July 2010 (?) age 30-35 - Can you use hair removal cream like nair for your pubic hair?? Armpit hair??? Anyone know!!... (16 words)

How can I stop my rush to connect emotionally??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

2 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - A few months ago my gf and I split up. I posted a question about my situation dealing with it on here already http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-want-to-forget-her-but-ive-done.html The short, short version is that she started dating one of her friends who I don't care for ... (356 words)

Dizzy over this much older man, how do I stop this??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

2 July 2010 (?) age 30-35 - Help needed!! I'm in highschool in England and I'm over the age of consent. I have a problem because I am madly in love with someone who is much older and sees me as a nice interesting kid. I know nothing will ever happen because he's not a pervert and I wouldn't really ever ... (87 words)

He left us for a younger woman, do you think he'll be back??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

2 July 2010 (F)

age - My husband of 23 years recently walked out on me and our children (10 and 15)after behaving really badly towards us, and our extended family and friends, for a couple of months. He packed and left and moved straight in with a 24 year old he met at work (known her for 3 years ... (485 words)

Want to stay friends with my ex, but he is drawing away, help??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

2 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, me and my boyfriend, or should I say ex, just broke up last Thursday because it wasn't working between us. We agreed to stay friends seeing as we were really good mates before we started going out and neither of us wanted to ruin that friendship. I was a bit upset to start ... (153 words)

Have feelings for a taken coworker

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

2 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have feelings for a coworker that I shouldn't be having. We talk and flirt all the time, it's all innocent. We are definitely interested in eachother but he has a girlfriend and I will NOT come between that and he won't do anything either. So do I stop being 'at work ... (158 words)

I asked her for sex, she is shy and said no, what can I do??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

2 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - i m very much attracted to my cousin sister she was really close to me so i asked for sex but she refused and we both are not talking to each other now but we meet daliy eveen she is feeling shy to talk to me now so plz tell me wat should i do now how should i convence her to ... (68 words)

How do I convince her that he cares?

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2 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - This may sound stupid since I already know the answer from my own experience, but I'm just putting the question out there as a poll....to convince a friend that she has a great man..... Her boyfriend lives approx 3-4 hours away from her (depending on how bad the traffic is) ... (334 words)

How can I reduce how wet I get during sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

2 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, so I get extremely wet while having sex, almost to the point where I can't feel the pleasure anymore. My boyfriend tells me that I get too wet, but we continue to have sex anyways. Is there anything I can do to not get so wet?... (47 words)

Never got together, married now but still care, any hope for us??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

2 July 2010 (?) age 41-50 - Sorry this is so long but please bear with me. Some of the back story is very important for the question. Ok. My problem is I still have a thing for this guy after 7 years! I met him when we were both in the Army. We weren't close friends but we hung out with the same group. ... (793 words)

Husband won't stop chatting with another woman.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4256 days ago

2 July 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - This was my question in April 2009 My husband has a job that is very boring and he is allowed to chat on his cell phone. A month ago he complained that I don't talk to him enough so he has to talk to "Rebecca". At the time, a month ago, we established the fact that he and... (667 words)

Worried I may be sick from oral sex.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

2 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I just had sex for the first time. Im 18 and it was with a really good friend of mine. I had oral sex with him and were both STD free i checked before i even went near him, and i did swallow. We used protection for intercourse, but he did not even ejaculate inside of me p... (103 words)

Got a big crush on him, now what??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5081 days ago

2 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i am 18 years old and i have beeen crushing on this guy i known since i was little . But my feelings for him have got strong for him over this last year. i dont know what to do ? ut i dont know if he feels the same ... (50 words)

Scared to say I love you!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

2 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear cupid, I have this boyfriend we have been going out for about a 20 days we are both 14..i love him so so much but we havent told each other that we loved each other...i am to worried if i say it first in case he doesnt say it back to me? why wont he say it? and does he ... (67 words)

Poll: How many times in a row do you men orgasm?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5245 days ago

2 July 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - A poll for the men: How many times in a row have you been able to have sex, orgasmed, and continued to have sex without going limp for more than a few seconds or maybe a minute? Can be any kind of sex, but not masturbation. Doesn't matter how long between orgasms. I've he... (142 words)

I want to tell my cousin about the feelings I have for him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

2 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My cousin and I are both 16 and we always have a lot of fun together. But, 2 years ago i started getting sexual feelings for him. I would like to tell him but i am not sure how he would react. We dont see eatch other much (mabey about once a year) but when ever i do see him i ... (115 words)

I'm worried about my masturbation!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

2 July 2010 (M) age 30-35 - Hey im a 17 year old boy. The problem is i can’t stop masturbating. Evry second of the day i wannna masturbate and im worried it’s not normal. Please help! [Mod note to poster: CAPS off please.]... (37 words)

I need help with hair removal advice!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5255 days ago

2 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Can you use conditioner as a replacement shaving cream for your genital area? And does hair removal cream actually burn you or/and make you bleed? Im 15 and im not quite sure what to do. Do i just shave downwards, or upwards, and what happens if you have a few little hairs ... (83 words)

I want to tell my mother that I'm going to start transitioning to being a male.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

2 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - for a good part of my life i have felt like i was really a guy but never told anyone. now i want to start going to therapy and maybe transitioning from "female" to male. the main problem is my mother, who i know wont understand or approve of this. how do i tell her about how im ... (71 words)

Should I ask out my best friend's brother?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

2 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok so I have the same problem I am in love with my best friends brother and I, a I don't know if I should ask him out or not cause I don't want it to ruin my relashionship with him or his sister. B If I do ask the boy out I don't know how to and C I don't want him to not like ... (102 words)

Is this as a sign that he's not as nice as he seems?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

2 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So, yesterday my boyfriend and I were playing around and things got rough and he ended up on top of me demading me to make out with him. I was saying no and telling him to get off and he just kept me pinned down until my friend came back in the room. I guess my question is ... (75 words)

Can my parents really press charges?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

2 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so im 16 and recently lost my virginity to a 20 year old and am now pregnant! well my parents dont approve and said that they were goin to press charges for statutory rape! but in arkansas the legal age of consent is 15 so can they really press charges? plz help... (53 words)

Any advice on how to pry myself from this unhealthy stressfull relationship!!??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5255 days ago

2 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I met this guy 3years ago. Everything was great of course in the beginning. We had a son together 6 months into our relationship we have been together every since. However during our 3 year relationship he has cheated plenty of times and so have I. I actually had a physical ... (177 words)

Is it a loser thing to go on vacation with your parents at 30?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

2 July 2010 (?) age 41-50 - Hey aunts! I'll be 30 in a few months. I have bf, a house of my own and a great job. My parents asked me to go on a 10 day trip together- on them! I said hell yeah! After all, it's a free vacation, right! And I love them. Then I thought... is it a loser thing to go on vacation ... (71 words)

Sexually inexperienced male in desperate search of answers and ideas!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

2 July 2010 (M)

age - I am extremely inexperienced at having sex. It has been a long time since I have and that was very few. I am very small down there anyway and that doesn't help my self esteem. The few times that I have found myself in a situation for an opportunity with a female I just don't do ... (553 words)

She's very homophobic, can she really have feelings for me or am I imagining it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5245 days ago

2 July 2010 (?)

- I'm an openly bisexual girl and have a crush on a girl at work... and I could do with some advice. I'm not really looking for a relationship at the moment anyway as i've been going through a pretty tough time so the most I want is a bit of fun perhaphs. We are complete opp... (384 words)

He does the whole "its not you, it's me" thing!

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2 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is away for two months. He has been questioning our relationship a couple times since he's been gone. He does the whole "its not you, it's me" thing and claims that since he's been gone, he's just had time to think about things. I've done nothing but be loyal, de... (243 words)

I think it's a mans duty to be the breadwinner!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

2 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't only date men who have a good bank account, personality is what matters most to me. I don't depend on men to buy me things, I work and make my own money. BUT is it wrong for me to think that it's a mans duty to look after his women. I want to marry someone who I think ... (172 words)

I really like this boy but I don't think he likes me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5239 days ago

2 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I really like thiss boy called Charles. But it seems orqward. Everytime he fancyies me he is really nice we always hold hands have our funny moments, i have been with him before for 6 weeks untill we broke up last year and we have been friends ever since. Im 15 and he is 13 ... (174 words)

Finally got the courage to admit my feelings and he's not replying. What shall I do next?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5255 days ago

2 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey ive wrote on here before but can't remember when i posted my last questions so here basically what happened. Me and this guy had been friends for some time, we never really spoke much then a groupo of 4 of us(me him and a couple) started going out. He was always really ... (601 words)

My ex says he'll hurt the new guy! And how do I kiss the new guy with his lip piercings?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

2 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - theres a guy i really like, but my ex is still in love with me. ive moved on, and i love this new guy, hes so caring and sweet and we get on really well, lots of people have said were perfect for each other and think we'll get together really soon. but my ex is threatening to ... (151 words)

What did he mean "I'm gonna give up soon" in his text to this girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5248 days ago

2 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - So I have been with my boyfriend for 8 years, I was 17 when we first got together. We have cheated on each other in the past but have got past it and made what I thought was a stronger bond. He was in the shower and I decided to have a go with his new phone, and was looking at ... (222 words)

Could oral sex make a pregnancy test positive?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5252 days ago

2 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Just a little help needed. Today my girlfriend took a home pregnancy test with pregnancy stick and it came positive. She had symbols of pregnancy such as constant precum leakage from vagina and cramps in legs and tummy from last 15 days. It all started the day after a fully ... (237 words)

Why won't he unblock me from facebook

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

2 July 2010 (F) age 36-40 - Why won't he unblock me from facebook? He started to flirt really obviously in class, so much so that people in class noticed. Initially he thought I was the party type, like he is. I dress the act, and act the role. However, I'm really a nerd. I sent him a msg through f... (275 words)

He said he is too busy to contact me, and I wait for days and weeks! Yet he updates his facebook daily!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

2 July 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello everyone I desperately need your advice cos I am feeling terribly hurt. My Bf and I were on online relationships for 3 years and for a reason that i loved him i am willing to wait til things settled and we can get married as we planned. Two years ago he lost his job and ... (703 words)

How long after the first date does a guy call when you already made plans for a second date?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

2 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a pretty simple question. I met a guy I've been talking to online two days ago and things went VERY well, I thought we connected very well and he said he thought so too and during our first date we planned on a second date, which is happening next week. However, h... (153 words)

I'm 17 and kissed my 25 year old manager!

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2 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 17 years old, 18 in one month,and my manager is just 25. I have worked for him for 6 months and never thought anything would come of it but just recently a few people from work went out for drinks (a few too many) and me and my manager ended up kissing! No one from the ... (97 words)

Crap...Our first fight... How do I handle this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5252 days ago

2 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't really like having my heart on my sleeve because I don't want to be vulnerable...my guy doesn't mind expressing himself at all...we had our first fight this morning and this shocked me because we usually get along so well. Relatives came over and spontaneously asked me ... (204 words)

I was upset and got mean to my ex, how do I make up for it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5255 days ago

2 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i had a really bad day on sunday with my exboyfriend we we kinda talking to each other and that but i rang him up to talk to him face to face about our relationship and he said i not at home so pretty much get lost i was angry then because during the week he was all nice to me ... (257 words)

Threesome!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

2 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my partner for 9 years and the sex is great were both up for anything really , but recently a friend of mine had a threesome two girls one man , I know my partner would love it and I definitly would ,but i cant help thinking would i be happy watchin another ... (85 words)

Tilted penis with spots on!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

2 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hiiezzz, Im 19 years old and so worried about my sex life. the problem is when my dick is erect, it tilts so much to the right side, and remains on the right. i fear if i would be able to have sex ever. also there are some spots on my penis, that comes a little out of sk... (79 words)

I'm wondering if my ex has contact with his ex

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

2 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Will my ex continue to mess around with his ex now that i have discovered his games and he has lost our relationship and his kids? I recently started to become very uncomfortable with my partners contact with his ex. They have a grownup son and he would often use this as his ... (218 words)

I want to be able to go through a day without thinking of him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

2 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a huuge crush on my guy friend....he has nooo ideaa....I can't tell him and never will He has a gf or am not sure if she really is..it sux when I see a comment that he posts on her FB page...it becomes like my worst day ever when I see that....specially that he told ... (170 words)

I like him, he likes me, how to make the next step?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

2 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello. I'm confused and would like some help. I've recently grown close to a guy who was in school with me. I really fancy him and there's a lot of signs that he may feel the same way about me. The trouble is we rarely talk to each other in person. We've become closer th... (173 words)

He doesn't work and is bossed around and kept by his parents

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

2 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend of 1 years is wonderful. He loving, romantic, funny, caring, generous etc. The problem is, I can't see myself with him forever, although he makes me happy. This is because he is 24 years old and still dependednt on his family. He doesn't work and he still liv... (240 words)

How can it be love if they need to be drunk to have sex?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

2 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Is someone really in love with you when the only time they have sex with you is when they are drunk?... (21 words)

Fiance Web Cam (Cheating?)

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

2 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a divorced mother with two young children (2 and 7) and I have been in a two year committed relationship with a great guy. He has been single for ten years and is 41 without kids and I was only single about six months after my divorce when we met and I am 32. After about ... (451 words)

I'm already in too deep... now what?!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5252 days ago

2 July 2010 (?) age 41-50 - I've answered so many questions on this site but I'm afraid I need some help myself, so here goes: I met this guy 3 years ago. He is 9 years older then me. We started to become friends and then when I found out he liked me more then a friend we started going out. At the time... (295 words)

Stories of my wife's past have really hurt me, what can I do to get over this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

2 July 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - i m 37 yrs old male, my wife hurt me by telling her old love story, i feel really pain and i can't forget that, what can i do to over come this?... (33 words)

I cannot forgive my boyfriend for what he did in the past, and now I have met a new man I am worried he will turn out to be a psycho too

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

2 July 2010 (?) age 51-59 - I have a live-in boyfriend whom used almost all of the first four years being verbally and emotionally abusive, drove two of my children away, lied constantly, and always carried on outside romances and crushes. He abused my credit to 100k, and always screamed about how my 60k ... (346 words)

Am I going off my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

2 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i think i may be going off my boyfriend. he asked to meet up and i couldn't be bothered and i don't miss him and i normally do. i also had a dream about cheating on him with one of his friends. could i be? ... (45 words)

Why do I always pick the bad guys?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

2 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi there. I have had quite a few unsuccessful dating experiences lately. I finished with my boyfriend in February and met a lovely guy. He was so nice, he told me he hadnt felt this way about anyone for a long time. Then i found out that he lived with his ex girlfriend and said ... (234 words)

I'm supposed to be going away with my so called friends but they treat me like a doormat! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

2 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I would really appreciate some advice on this issue that is making me worry, to the point where i am almost being sick. I am due to go away with a group of friends in 2 weeks time to go to Greece for 2 and a half weeks. The problem is that these friends sort of like to use me a... (278 words)

I'm the only boy in my class that doesn't have a girlfriend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

2 July 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - I'm 15 now but still no girls notice me and talk to me....I feel ashamed of myself for being a only boy in my class that has no Girlfriend...My friends even help me find a girl and we even did a blind date but there was no success I feel like i'm the only guy that will have no ... (125 words)

How do I tell my best friend I am bi?

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2 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - hi i have just recently realized that i am bi but i dont really know how to tell my best friend. can anyone help i feel really bad for not telling her yet but i just dont know how to... (40 words)

He got married to someone else due to pressure from his parents, will he divorce her and come back to me?

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2 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My BF got married under parents pressure but ran towards me in just a month.For 1yr, we are again dating.will he divorce and come permanently? We were in serious relationship for almost 5 yrs. But, he had to get married under parents pressure. I was completely shatt... (154 words)

We've tried everything and I still cant orgasm!

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2 July 2010 (?) age 30-35 - I can't orgasm. Plain and simple. We've tried everything. Oral, intercourse, fingering, vibrators, lube, anal. He even bought the mother of all vibrators. The stupid thing wouldn't go in. I was wet ready to go. So we poured a ton of lube on it. Still couldn't get the freaking... (158 words)

If your hymen is broken by your boyfriend, are you still a virgin?

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2 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - If your hymen is broken by your boyfriend, are you still a virgin? ... (13 words)

How can I help my family to cope with my cousin's cancer?

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2 July 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - HI Aunts and Uncles I've just had a close cousin diagnosed with advanced liver cancer. He is only 46 and we are all pretty devastated about this diagnosis. His father (my uncle) died 3 years ago from complications with his lungs. His death hit the family pretty hard particul... (101 words)

What is your advice for me and my lover in this situation?

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2 July 2010 (M) age 41-50 - iam 26 and my lady is 44. she is married and living with her family, but without any co operation or help from her husband in any thing except in bed..but she dont have her heart in sex with him as she have many negative feelings towards him due to his no co operation in other ... (102 words)

In love with my teacher and need help!

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2 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i'm 14 , how can you tell if your teacher knows that you like them and what are ways to tell if they like you back ?, oh should you ever tell a teacher that you like them ? , i'm leaving the school in about 4 months going to another school should i tell him i like him ... (107 words)

Does this make me a racist?

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2 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - dear cupid, me and my girlfriend were talking and i said asian people (like japanese, chinese) have stupid names/stupid-sounding names. she then called me a racist and was extremely upset and hootin' and hollerin'. i kept on telling her that i'm not a racist towards... (103 words)

Our marriage has not been working for a long time, so would it be wrong for me to induldge in sex with another man?

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2 July 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I am married for 21 years and have two sons aged 21 and 17.I was proposed by my husband 8 years older to me at the age of 16. It is like I grew up with his thoughts as a partner.I cldnt think out of him when considered about marrige, not because I loved him as I didnt ... (349 words)

Should your boyfriend think you are pretty and sexy?

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2 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Im not really sure if im being overly sensitive or what but i dont like the image my boyfriend has of me,we been together now almost 2 years, he is always saying he loves me cause pretty girls are bitches. Now thats basically telling me he doesnt think im pretty! Well i have a ... (177 words)

He said he would never play me because I am his perfect girl, but now I havent heard from him in 2 days. What does this all mean?

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2 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So i have been hanging out with this guy for a while, and he is in the army and leaving for deployment in August. We had a strong connection from the start. It seems like he sees me for who i am and cares about me a lot. while he was at his training he seemed to be trying to ... (201 words)

My 44-year-old boyfriend is unmotivated!

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2 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 34 abd my man is 44. We've been together for 3 1/2 years. He has not worked in two years and his mom pays for everything. Am I wasting my time? Can he change? He doesn't listen to anyone and sits around watching documentaries and complaining.... (50 words)

I want to do something really special for my girlfriend's 18th birthday, any ideas?

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2 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - my girlfriend is turning 18 and i want to do something very special she has had it very hard family wise since she was 12 years old and i want to do something for her any ideas?... (37 words)

How can I get her back? Please help!

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2 July 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi everybody, my name is jay. I recently broke up with my gf who I have been with for 2 and a half years and engaged to for about a year. She is a mom of an awsome boy who is now 3, so I have been basically the step dad since he was 6 months old. I practicaly consider him... (341 words)

I am straight and attracted to women, but with this one guy it is different

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2 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 18 years old and I think I'm in love with my friend and he's a guy. His name is Max. But the thing is, I have been a straight guy and even now I'm turned on by women. I am not attracted to any other guy apart from Max and the thought of being with another male is weird and ... (78 words)

Struggling to get over my first break-up.....

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2 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, well i just experienced my first break-up 6 months ago and i am still not over him. He has had a girlfriend since but they broke up about a few weeks ago. We have done stuff together while he had this girlfriend. I want to confront him and ask him if he still likes me but i ... (100 words)

Feeling incredibly lonely and hopeless. Is it naive to hope for head over heels?

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2 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I was with a guy for six months. He pretty aggressively pursued me, sent me love poems via text for weeks after we met when I was living in a different town, and when I moved there in September for school he was at my door the very first night with flowers. He told me he felt ... (596 words)

I really like my girlfriend but I don't get to spend much time with her! How can I make her happy?

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2 July 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Ok people I have a girlfriend and I am crazy over her but I don't really don't spend a lot of time with her cuz my friends want me to hang out with them and she hangs out with her friends and I don't have the guys to ask her put on a date to the movies and she kinda gets sad if ... (78 words)

I need help with girls!

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2 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I've never asked a girl out on a date in my entire life. I've asked a girl to dance two times in my life, the first time when I was thirteen, the second when I was fifteen. I've never been particurally confident, since I've always been a little overweight (recently I've gotten ... (613 words)

I like my best friend's brother!

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2 July 2010 (?) age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I really like my best friends brother and he's really cute and funny and he's like my dream guy but I'm kind of scared to ask him out because he's two years older than me and if we get together and then break up I don't want it to be acward when I go hang out with... (77 words)

We argue and fight, and I'm getting fed up!

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2 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - So im with this guy and we have are good times and bad times and we argue everyday but we never go to bed mad at each other. Well everytime me and him get into an arguement he says its all my fault i dont think, and when he gets REALLY mad at me he calls me stupid. I usually ... (256 words)

I love both my wife and her sister!

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2 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - hai my name is gopal am married with a girl, and she was my friend later we loved each other and got married. but later because of some issues some gap formed and this is mainly because sex. she is a sick often she will become sick so i wont ask her for sex, but she understo... (234 words)

Any advice on what to do in the bedroom on our wedding night? I'm still a virgin and have no idea what to do!

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2 July 2010 (?) age 30-35 - Hey guys, I'm 18, a second year student... and getting married in a week! But lately I've been stressing over something... I'm still a virgin, and I mean text book definition "virgin", and I have no clue what to do when it comes time to head to Tahiti for our honeymoon... I ... (113 words)

We have gone back to being friends but he still acts like my boyfriend and wont let me talk to other guys!

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2 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - so, im going to college in the fall and i decided that me and my bf should become friends longer than we did before we jumped into the relationship and so we both agreed. but now he's sort of making me promise that i wont talk to any other guys while im in college. the ... (186 words)

Special night gone wrong.....

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2 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So this past weekend was my one year with my boyfriend and we went and celebrated. Of course I bought this super sexy outfit for him because that night was going to be an extra special night. He had bought a vibrating cock ring and some lubricant to make the night more fun ... (194 words)

I cheated on my unromantic boyfriend and am now struggling to repair things!

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2 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Please dont tell me how I am such a horrible person or anything like that because I know I am and I know its a blessing that things worked out the way they did: I cheated on my boyfriend just shy of our 4th anniversary. First of all I want to say that I love my boyfriend but... (317 words)

How can I tell if she is a lesbian?

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2 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi If lets say I didnt want to ask so straightforward, what else can i notice that she might be a lesbian? Can I tell it by action? What action can I tell that she is a lesbian? ... (43 words)

Questions about a girl......

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2 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I have this curiousity that's also a question I had this day with a girl She is only a friend we were at a amusement park where we both work and we were there this evening and her lead or supervisor were saying Sarah is this your boyfriend with a smile on there face and s... (148 words)

What is going on with him?

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2 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello everyone. I never go online for advice but in this case I need a unbias advice. So I was seeing this most wonderful guy and we got along perfectly, We made me laugh with our intellectual jokes and other inside jokes. We also shared so much with eahcother with our hobbies ... (510 words)

My husband would rather have porn than the real thing!

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2 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My husband and I have been together for almost 4 years now, and we're young he's 21 and ill soon be 21, we have a 14month old daughter and it seems like his interest in me has gone comepletly out the window. I've tried everything I could think of and all he seems to want now is ... (161 words)

Trouble with cousins, need help!

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2 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Yeah yeah, "Its wrong". Dont bother, but I think I love 3 of my cousins and want to get with them. 2 of them are sisters and arent related to me by blood but the other is. I know family relationships are wrong, but I dont think I can help myself. I dont drink around them if ... (223 words)

If there's nothing wrong with being a virgin why do I feel bad?

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2 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm a 22 year old virgin. People keep telling me there's nothing wrong with that, so why is it that I feel like a absolute worthless piece of crap shell of a man right now? :(... (36 words)

I have one child with him and another on the way, but it seems he wants nothing to do with his kids!

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2 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - been having this problem with my baby's father we just broke up about 2 weeks ago but i haven't been seeing him for the past month just 2 days or one day in two weeks at a time. i just decided to leave him for good, what i want from him is for him to be in our daughters l... (167 words)

I am asking if its him or if its me

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2 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I’m sorry I went into a rant.. I hope its not too long. Ive been dating my boyfriend for 4 years and I feel like our relationship is going down the drain. I feel like he doesn’t really care about me, no matter how many times he says he loves me or hugs me or kisses me. But I am ... (244 words)

My husband's lies are troubling me, what is he up to?

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2 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i have doubts.... my husband has lied to me a lot in the last 5 yrs. but the biggest ones just started last yr. he chose to take a job offer that had him leave for 11 months. he did not ask me if i was ok with it. he just signed up and told me he was going. the sad part is i ... (212 words)

As soon as we left camp I regretted not telling her I like her! What should I do now?

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2 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I met this girl at camp and I think I might really like her. I think she might like me too because we have been talking a lot and I wouldn`t call how we talk flirting but other people might. I don`t want to tell her because I might freak her out because this little kid at camp ... (354 words)

My boyfriend doesn't want to have sex with me

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2 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 2 years now. Our sex life has changed drastically. At first we were having sex 2 times a day for about a month and a half and then once a day for about 3 months and then we stopped having sex for a while and then lately for the ... (196 words)

We fight like we are a couple rather than best friends!

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2 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i am 23 years old and i met my best friend about two years ago at the time i had a great group of friends that i had for about 8years.at first my old friends could not stand my new friend and i figured with all of us being girls it was just jelousy, eventually there came a ... (186 words)

Does he really like me?

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2 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - okay sooo theres this guy i went to school with my junior year and now its summer and im going to be a senior, i was in his class and he barely started talkin the last few weeks of school. We didnt talk much . probably because im a shy girl,,,well i added him on facebook and he ... (357 words)

I want my husband to be excited about having sex with me!

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2 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 36 and have been happily married for nine years (hubby is 41). My husband's low sex drive is an issue - he could go long periods without sex, so I mostly initiate and he complies. He has never given me oral (nor does he want it), he doesn't like it. He is turned off by ... (400 words)

Why does my girlfriend let me know she is thinking about other men?

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2 July 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Why is it that my girlfriend thinks its ok to let me know that she be thinking about other men and I not have a problem with it. ... (28 words)

Have I annoyed her and should I just move on?

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2 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I would like your opinion on this subject...I went out with this girl and then went on a couple of weeks vacation when I came back she decided that she isn't ready for a relationship and want to be friends for now and down know about later to be more or not. Right now i'm ... (104 words)

Is the mess normal?

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2 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so my boyfriend and i decided he will be fingering me in the next few days, i'm really excited but i feel things won't go as planned... i seem to cum at anytime in the day and it worries me. Is that normal?? like why do i do that? and when he is fingering me i don't want ... (96 words)

I can't get over my ex

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2 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend (of almost a year) broke up with me a couple of weeks before we went on holiday stating different universities as 1 of the main reasons. I was really upset but I understood and said I was ok with it. A couple of days before I arrived I received a few texts from... (178 words)

Her unattailability hurts me

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2 July 2010 (F) age 36-40 - I have lived and died so many times for being so devoted to this woman who I doubt I should hang on to any longer. It's not that she hurts me... Her unattainability does. I somehow remain convinced that she still loves me, as she did at one time. But I don't know about now. I ... (241 words)

He kissed my forehead

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2 July 2010 (F)

age - my guy friend-- we have been friends for over a year--i have a crush on him, but can't work up the courage to initiate or make a move. so we hang out a couple times a week, nothing special just home, kitchen, cooking eating, driving around. well he was leaving for work, when he ... (110 words)

He scared me

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2 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so two days ago my boyfriend and I were hanging out at a friends house and things got a little rough between us. It started off sweet and it ended up with him on top of me holding me down and wanting me to make out with him while I said no. I don't know if it was a one ... (90 words)

Could he have feelings for me too?

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2 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been cuddling with my neighbor for a month. no sex, we just spoon,aand i rub my fingers thru his hair and sometimes we make out. i even fall asleep holding his hand. he tried for sex in the beggining, but never pressures me into it... after 2weeks, he started calling me ... (78 words)

Am I being played and about to get hurt or does she really love me?

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2 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I met a girl in a chatroom 2 months ago. After 3 weeks she told me she loved me and I said it back. Everything was great until about 4 weeks ago. I was about to go drive down and actually see her in person, and she backed out. Then she really stopped texting and talking to me ... (279 words)

Is he into me kinda sorta? Or just NOT into me?

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2 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've known this guy for 5 years but only as an aquaintance. For the past year he has been contacting me much more and I would be nice to him but showed no serious interest. Well recently we began talking/flirting more and we hung out at his house a couple times, no dates or ... (258 words)

My libido just died...does anyone have any answers?

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2 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for nearly 5 years now, and we have maintained a healthy sex life. We have yet to actually have intercourse, seeing as we want to wait until we get married (for contraceptive purposes), but we are still able to fulfill each other's needs ... (316 words)

We like the same guy...i said I would back down but I really like him...

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2 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok me and my friend like the same guy and I really like him and she already snogged him ages ago. She says she fancies him so I said I,d back down and let her be. But i really really like him what should I do... (46 words)

I'm 13, but seem to have a "Little Girl's Body"

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2 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Mod Note: Poster's Original Title Ok, so I'm over 13 1/2 years old. And I'm really short. I'm just under 5ft. My dad is very short for a guy. And my mom is average height for a girl. My mom has very large breasts, she has to order them specaily. She says that she started her ... (164 words)