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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Why does my wife behave like this? I love her!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

20 July 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been married last 30 years, but not happy from my wife just because have the filling that she never loves me from her heart. The reason for that she never smiles, she has never told me once that I love you or never expressed any signs of affections on her face. she acts ... (159 words)

How do you become just friends with someone you are attracted to

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

20 July 2010 (F)

age - How do you become just friends with someone you are attracted to? There is a guy I know who I now is strongly attracted to me as I can tell by his body language but I believe he is in a relationship. I do not want to lost contact with him but dont know what to do to main... (95 words)

Why does he do this to me?? am soo depressed.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

20 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - so my ex came to my house he told me to make him some tea i did. he asked if am dating anyone i said yeah.. he said he regrets getting with me cos i couldn't even kiss and then he showed me a text message from some girl who is in love with him.. then he wanted to kiss ... (188 words)

In need of a few new sex positions!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

20 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Just want some ideas from people who are sexually experienced! Ive been in a great relationship for over ayear now but just want to add a few different things to our sex life. We've done all sorts of foreplay, but when it comes to the actual crunch, its always one of two ... (83 words)

Should I tell her I like her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

20 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, so at i met this girl at camp and fell for her. We became friends, everytime I was near her my heart began to beat faster and I`d get alittle nervous. She left camp for awlie and when she came back I had thous same feelings for a day and then they just went away. I still ... (127 words)

Should I or shouldn't I go out on a date with an old friend? My boyfriend and I are having big problems.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

20 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for over 3 years now. We lived together for 2 of these years, and moved out a couple of months ago, because I wanted to further my education and I couldn't afford living on my own and school. Since then, things have only gone downhill... (219 words)

Penis questions!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

20 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hii people . i wanted to know actually i got a banana shaped pennis?? is it fine and seconndlly i cant undastnd how to put ma peenis into a girl like does peenis heart or smething and secondlly i have a diff pain kinda feeling in the front pink or red portion of ma pennis nt ... (60 words)

What is wrong with me? Is this normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

20 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - "Op Own Title" what is wrong with me like seriously:( i need things like clothes, money, shoes, bags to make me happy:( i think is cos am single cos i never use to be like that..i use to be soo in love but now i cant find a good guy i just want material things to make m... (142 words)

How to figure out the right path after separating with ex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

20 July 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - "OP Own Title" My ex and I broke up several months ago. We were together for several years. It was an awful breakup and she was very hurt and angry. She said that she doesn’t love me anymore and now doesn’t even want to be friends. She wont speak to me anymore. The breakup ... (503 words)

I get so jealous of my boyfriends 3 year old daughter

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5163 days ago

20 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I hope someone can really help me on this one cause I'm lost... I met a wonderful guy 6 months ago. He is everything i have ever wanted and more, and I know I am lucky to have him...problem is he has two children from his last relationship. Girl is 3 boy is 6. I have no ... (615 words)

How to raise my girlfriends self-esteem?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

20 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - "OP Own Title" My girlfriend and I have been dating for 5 years and have a 2 year old son and we are both 19. I was recently kicked out of my house and I am now living with my girlfriend, her parents and our son. Ever since I have moved in, about 2 months ago, she started ... (105 words)

I'm not sure what to do or how to please my boyfriend any suggestions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

20 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Alright, my boyfriend and I are quite far into our relationship after two months and I'm not sure what to do or how to please him as my other relationships were on the slow side (this is my first adult one). Last Sunday he came round my house and we did a bit of touchy-feelin... (204 words)

Cheated and now confused

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

20 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - "OP Own Title"I cheated on my boyfriend of 5 years with my best friend who I've known for more than 9 years. It only happened once and alcohol was involved, but I still feel awful about it. Before this incident we had never slept together and while talking the night of the ... (172 words)

Freckles

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

20 July 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - "OP Own Title" Hi! I have to much freckles! I just want some off not all. I'm filipino-mexicano, I'm just saying, if that changes anything:)... so tell me your remedies that work for you please! ... (36 words)

Should I ask my boyfriend if he talked to his family about wanting to marry me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5158 days ago

20 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi My boyfriend is Egyptian muslim (31 years old) and I am white Christian (26 years). I am going to convert to Islam by my own choice soon. We have been together for just over a year. He is currently on a family holiday with his parents and siblings. He recently me... (121 words)

I am friends with my ex boyfriend girlfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

20 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I am friends with my ex boyfriend's girlfriend and we talk regularly. I have their home phone number and her cellphone number. My ex has three days off a week and I respect her that I am not to call while he is there. I have not nor do I want to. On Sunday I work... (165 words)

Help! I feel as if my husband doesn't love me enough...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

20 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I feel as if my husband doesn't love me enough. It has been a while since we have been intimate and cuddly. He never starts kissing me unless I do. He never embrace me unless I ask for it or I open my arms. I know he loves me but I don't think it's enough. I run doi... (295 words)

I thought I was his girlfriend? Why did he do this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

20 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been talking to this guy for 5 months now. We used to text every day, he used to be really nice and romantic with me. we started having sex, and he is the best i ever had. he started calling me his gf for a while but as a joke. after a while, i realized that other gi... (232 words)

Pregnant... and my boyfriend left me...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

20 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - So I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years and I found out about 3 months ago that I am pregnant, and now he is leaving me... What can I say to make him stay, why is he leaving now and not 3 months ago... Help!! Thanks guys... ... (49 words)

Is it normal for someone so young?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

20 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, let's get right to the point. I'm 14 years old, and I really believe I'm in love. I've read things like, "how to tell you're in love!" or, "are you REALLY in love?" They of course list things like, "Do you think about him/her every waking moment?" and etc. I answer yes to ... (140 words)

I don't know her nor anything about her but I DETEST her.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

20 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and this guy broke up in march i'm still not over him - we were together over a year, he was seeing other girls whilst he was with me i found out, i then ended it. I still think about him every day, and i'm starting to think maybe i fell in love. i can't forget him its just ... (253 words)

Crazy little thing called love!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5265 days ago

20 July 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - A woman 12 years your husbands junior posts a comment on myspace you find disturbing enough that you ask your husband to take down his page which he does. She wrote "you're alone and so am i.. and no engagement is going to change that.. let's get together and party one last ... (189 words)

Shady goings on...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

20 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I feel like my boyfriend is my soulmate. When we are on good terms we tell each other that we feel so complete with each other. But we argue all the time, my boyfriend is the type of guy that will bring stuff back up just to keep the arguement going. I must admit that I have ... (202 words)

How do I learn to relax? My boyfriend says I need to relax.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

20 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Recently my bf and i had definite plans to hang out the following day. I asked if we were still on and he said he had to go look at cars etc but would call me when hes done - see how he feels/if i want to hang out (hes in the process of tryin to find a car/place - he lives ... (328 words)

Is it wrong for me to want her so badly?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

20 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - So this girl I like a lot said we are just friends and that is alright with me but I keep thinking I made a mistake by telling her I like her. My other friends say I am wasting my time and I don't feel that way at all. every time I talk to her I feel like I could conquer the ... (118 words)

Did HE put this picture on Facebook???

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

20 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi, everyone need some help if yall wouldnt mind taking the time, please, and thanks. so yesterday my soon to-be husband comes home from work, we're laying on the bed talking and im checking my facebook on my phone and there was a photo downloaded to his profile from his phone ... (134 words)

My man makes me sick!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

20 July 2010 (F) age - Is this very common, that a man in his forties becomes uninterested in sex and wife. Or does it always depends on the situation? Can a man be totally cold with his wife but get really horny in a new relationship? Is it ok, to be roommates and stay together when there is no... (202 words)

Why did he not text me back? Was he jealous?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

20 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello everyone One thing thats been on my mind since last nite I was sleeping with this guy and 4 weeks ago he called it all off, anyway we do still talk and get on ok through txt last nite when i was taking, a mate hope who lives near him and text him asking if he... (240 words)

I want to be more than his mid life crisis...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

20 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm not sure what to do. I am very seriously considering getting involved with a much older man. He is in his mid-40s and I am turning 18 in the fall. Obviously we have to wait to see each other; we are currently just talking online. The age thing freaks most people out, but I ... (352 words)

I cheated, now I'm heartbroken and filled with guilt. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

20 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm not sure what I should do....I cheated on my fiance with a co-worker. We are supposed to get married in 6 months. While he's the one who has cheated in past relationships (not ours that I know of), I am the one who screwed up now. I am confused for several reasons. I feel ... (368 words)

His love making is getting rougher, it makes me feel like a sex object.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

20 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - When me and my boyfriend first got together nearly a year ago it was perfect. he was romantic, attentative and amazing. the sex was well balanced, sometimes we would have healthy rough sex and try lots of things, as well as other times making love. gradually over the months ... (140 words)

Was it really all my fault...?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5268 days ago

20 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. My name is Shelby, and I'm in desperate need of help. See, my boyfriend and I were together for 10 months and 18 days, but about 3:30 on the 18th day, right when me and my friends went into the Mall that I've been dying to go to for months, he texted me and broke up with ... (362 words)

Why is he acting so distant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

20 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Here's the story: I confessed my love for this guy and he told me he felt the same. He didn't make any first move so I asked him out first. And it went okay. Eventually we went out a second time but it was always me, making the first moves like holding hands/kissing et... (349 words)

What to do... I like my brother's best friend...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5267 days ago

20 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 13 and I like my brother's best friend he's 15. I just found out that he likes me the same way but doesn't want anyone to know. Then he told me that he just broke up with his gf. Wut should i do??? ... (44 words)

Casual sex... does it bother you?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

20 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok I have a quick question. I'm still a virgin and the main reason is because: 1 my brother accidentally got a chick knocked up in college and so I've always been afraid of getting someone pregnant and then be stuck raising a kid that a don't want, and 2 I'm afraid of catching ... (133 words)

Who is in the wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

20 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ello! I am new here, but my question has been in my life for over a decade. See, my mom had this friend, which I will call her Kanine, and she has a son, which I will call Ahola. They have been in my life over a decade and I just can't stand them! When I first met Ahola,... (1084 words)

The condom!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

20 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I are going on two years together. We've been arguing a lot lately so the past weekend I didnt hear from him nor did I see him. He keeps a condom in his wallet, its been there for months, thats our emergency condom because we have some at the house but just ... (185 words)

We're seeing one another but he still logs on to the dating website.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5268 days ago

20 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have met a guy on a dating website who I really like. We get on really well, and he seems very smitten with me. We have loads in common, and he treats me like a princess, pays for everything (even when I offer to pay), etc. All fine so far, but one thing is concerning me ... (430 words)

Is it that I'm gay???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5268 days ago

20 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I’ve searched through so many sites, trying to find some help and advice so I’m hopeful that somebody can help me here? I’m in my early 20's, average looking, and have never slept with a guy. I’ve had previous boyfriends, but could never take the step of sleeping with th... (249 words)

My mom hates the age gap...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

20 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, so I'm in love with a nineteen year old.. I'm 15.. he is the best thing that has ever happened to me and my mother completely disapproves.. I can't go on with her prodding me to break up with him. He is very nice, and smart, and absolutley perfect. He is very well ... (73 words)

I don't want to lose him as a friend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5268 days ago

20 July 2010 (?) age 30-35 - Well I'm a little lost.. I don't know what to do with my ex boyfriend, I really like him ever since 2/3 years already we were an off and On relationship but now that he has left to another state we have tried having a long distance relationship but it didn't last... Now I have ... (221 words)

How can I handle my dad being such a jerk?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5167 days ago

20 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - hi, my parents fight a lot. My dad has a drinking problem and my mom has a crazy work schedule. When shes not home, i find myself making the meals and cleaning up after him. My dad treats us like crap. i cant remember a day without any of us fighting. Or even giving my mom a ... (289 words)

How can I gain closure from a love that could have been?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5268 days ago

20 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I need some advice on how I should go about gaining closure. I need to fully get over this guy from my past and the regret along with the "what-ifs" are driving me crazy. The thoughts of him are not a constant thing but it does happen once in a while, even at times when it ... (717 words)

So lonely after our breakup...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

20 July 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I am so lonely. My partner and I broke up in April 2009 after 10 years together. Amicable, we had grown apart, partly because of our age gap (she was 11 years older). After a few months of finding myself again, as opposed to being half of a couple, I was ready to start ... (185 words)

Is this a sign that he's cheating?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

20 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am living with my baby father recently i saw a condom in his bag which is different from the type we used i was wondering if it is a sign of cheating.... (33 words)

What do I do about low "volume"?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

20 July 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm 41, healthy, and very sexually active lately. I was in a long term relationship where sex was like once a week and I'd maybe masturbate once or twice in between. I always came a fair amount... at least 8-10ml or more. Now I'm in a relationship with a horn dog who wants it ... (263 words)

I'm in love with an "easy lay!!!"

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

20 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm in a relationship with a woman that I think I love. Recently I spoke with someone that happened to go to college with her, and it came out that she was... not what was known as a chaste girl, let's say. Now I don't have a problem with a woman having a sexual past, but... (185 words)

Help! How can I get him out of my heart?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

20 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - How can I rid myself of this feelings . My ex an I have a 3wk old baby we broke up the last months into my pregnancy due to the lack of love for me. He came back I don't even know why, he was there when the baby was born unfortunetly not how I wanted he was texting while I was ... (199 words)

How should I cope with first time sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5268 days ago

20 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello My Lovely's!! , I really love my boyfriend and he's the first ever guy i feel completely comfortable around, we are both virgins and have been talking about sex for a while now. I really want him to be my first and we have a very serious relationship. We would definte... (95 words)

Engaged for 8 years, how do I tell him I want out?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

20 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my partner for 14 years. We have been engaged for 8 years and lived together for 7 years. Over the last 6-8 months my feelings for him have changed - I no longer love him! I don't have any conversation with him and I don't want him near me! I am soooo ... (74 words)

12 years together with 2 kids and he STILL won't marry me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

20 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 12 years. We have two children together (9 and 4 years old). I feel that getting married is very important but my boyfriend always has an excuse as to why it is not feasible. I am getting tired of waiting though and I feel that if he ... (117 words)

I fancy this lad but I'm trying not to get caught. Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5164 days ago

20 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm liking this lad who comes over to see his grandma who lives next door. He is 18 and im 15, i dont know if this is illigal but i really like him and he really likes me. But ever since he came over his grandma (My mam's best friend) is really suspicious about us and we can't ... (70 words)

I don't want to keep him a secret...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5266 days ago

20 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I am 13 nearly 14 and i have had a boyfriend for a few months now... but i havnt told my family not even my mum because i have an older sister and her and her boyfriend take the mick... what do i do... please help x ... (47 words)

She said we are "just friends..."

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

20 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - well about 5 months ago I met this girl Natalie, she was everything I ever wanted and she knew it. I probably made a mistake telling her that I like her and she thought it was cute. I talk to her almost every day and have asked her out a few times but she is always busy with ... (759 words)

What do you do to maintain a relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5168 days ago

20 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - What do you do to maintain a relationship? To make sure the feeling doesn't fade and keep it interesting? What both parties should do? What should I do, on my part? What are the secrets to you relationship? And what if, he's working miles away and you don't get to meet him very ... (58 words)

Usually friends just drift apart but these girls seem to want revenge of some sort. How do I find peace and move on with my life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

20 July 2010 (?) age 41-50 - I feel stupid and way too old to be writing about this, but I need to clear my head and get some outside perspectives on this situation. I have ex-friends from childhood with whom I used to be very close with. Over time, I realized they always had to one-up me, make fun of me, ... (311 words)

I moved a long distance to be with my fiance and now he's addicted to porn

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5216 days ago

20 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - HI, I have a problem with my Fiance. I moved to the other side of the country to be with him as he was a passionate loving man. When i moved down her suddenly went off sex with me, and to cust the story short, i dicovered he has a porn addiction, which he strongly denies. I ... (249 words)

I want this friend of mine to make the first move what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

20 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - [Mod Note Poster the title you suggested was already taken] Hey I need some help, you see I have this friend who is a boy and I have known him since I was 4/5 and I want to move a bit further on with him, but I want him to make the first move. I am not afraid of him I just ... (86 words)

"I don't understand"

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

20 July 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - "OP Own Title" I was talking with a man online and getting to know him for about a year. I then found out that he never told anyone about me but claimed to do so with me. What does this mean? [Mod note- changed a word for clarity]... (51 words)

My wife is haveing affair with another men I forgive her once and she started it again plz tell me what to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

20 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - "OP Own Title" my wife is having affair! we had relationship throught phone and net for 3 years after that we agree to go for marriage life she was living in canada and i was in afghanistan sometimes when i was talking to her on the phone she was with boys and she says that ... (786 words)

Did I sound like a pervert for asking?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5265 days ago

20 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey Agony Aunts/Uncles... I feel like I've lost some innocence in myself. I was making out with my gf the other day and I started to tickle her chest. I got the signal that I was crossing the line. So I stopped and we continued to make out. A day or so later we were making o... (137 words)

I lost the love of my life to WoW and we're still in the relationship

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

20 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - "OP Own Title" Hello, I'd like to start off by saying that I am not an anti-gaming activist. I do not hate video games. To an extent, I am a gamer. I have a soft spot for the older Sega Genesis and Super Nintendo games and occasionally FPS and the Sims. However, I recognize ... (1046 words)

Should I believe him or not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

20 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I found text messages on my husband-to-be's phone implying he cheated on me. He denied it of course. That someone used his phone at work even though one text message is at 12:15am and he's never at work later than 10:30 at the latest. We are getting married in September. I ... (136 words)

How do I get out of the hole I've dug for myself?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

20 July 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I was depressed for a good part of the last 12 months due to a rocky relationship and another woman who tried to get me to leave with her. I made bad decisions and escalated everything. There was no affair, but I was very, very tempted and very depressed about the whole ... (371 words)

Are married women basically all disloyal, cheaters at heart, ready to do whatever it takes for male attention?

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

20 July 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Why do so many married women cheat? I don't know if this is just a function of where I live (Southern California), but it seems like the majority of women I know well have cheated at some point on their husbands. These range from a few women who cheat regularly, to those who ... (472 words)

Is it normal that my boyfriend does not hug or kiss me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5229 days ago

20 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - is it normal that my boyfriend does not hug or kiss me? We have been together for 4 months and he has requested for blow jobs which i did. No actual sex is involved yet though he had asked. But he doesnt kiss me at all. He only kissed me once on the cheek on valentines day. ... (111 words)

I was so understanding for the 8 months while he was away, but as soon as I got drunk and had a fight he wont stand by me!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

20 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfreind and i have been together for 1 year 2 months. 8 of those months he had been away from me, from October to June. We wrote letters almost daily and called once a week. The letters were so sweet and he made it seem like I was the one for him. I stuck by his side the ... (506 words)

Am I just too sensitive to the touch?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

20 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone! First off: I'd like to say thank you for all the help with my other questions. I really appreciate it and they've helped a lot. Secondly: I just had my first... Erm, "long" kiss - if you will - with my boyfriend. It was incredible. In fact, I think it was a little... (160 words)

He cheated and we were going to give it another go, but he wants space to figure out why he did it, now I am wondering if I really should forgive him for this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5268 days ago

20 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - This might be long, so thanks for anyone that takes the time. A few months ago my boyfriend of three years and I broke up. He cheated on me, but ended up coming to me and telling me. We talked it out and we decided to try and work on the relationship. We were happy for about a ... (459 words)

Why am I so hung up on not being her first kiss? Is it just the distance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

20 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok so my first kiss was with my girlfriend almost 6 months ago. I started dating her the during the school year I mean and it is now the summertime. I am obviously a virgin as is my girlfriend. I had never done anything with any girls except "booty grind" with some girls at ... (309 words)

Did I damage the friendship? Did I do the right thing? Was I creepy?

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20 July 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I have a relationship with a woman that started as a flirtation, then because of me being unavailable at the time, it turned into a close friendship. We talked about it and agreed to "just be friends" because neither of us wanted an affair. Now, a year and a half later, a lo... (580 words)

How likely is it I am pregnant, and how soon should I take a test?

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20 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I was just wondering if anyone could tell me how likely it is that i might be pregnant, and how soon i should take a test Ok well over last night and yesterday morning me and my boyfriend have had sex many times and he has ejaculated inside me 3 times, as we are trying ... (164 words)

Is it normal to feel this guilty?

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20 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Lately, I haven't been able to get over my guilt. My boyfriend and I are very much in love. He is the most wonderful, understanding, and loving partner I could ask for, but he's so wonderful that I feel guilty for being unable to measure up. Lately, I've been feeling gui... (315 words)

How can I bring back my interest in sex?

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20 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi there, I am currently in a very serious relationship with my fiance who i have been seeing for 6 years. We have a little girl of 2 years. Lately, within the last 6 months i have had no desire to want sex (at all). I had the mirena coil put in last year as a last option as... (189 words)

Is there any way for me to make it taste better when she goes down on me?

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20 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I've been with my girlfriend 9 months and she will not let me cum during oral - the slightest taste of pre-cum and she makes me put something on. It really annoys me as I regularly spend 30 plus minutes going down on her before sex, as she loves an orgasm before sex. Me ... (149 words)

How much could looks affect you being able to get a date?

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20 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I dont want this to come across vain or wrong as this is not my intention nor what I am like. But I need to figure this out so I will word it the best I can. I am a successful fashion model - soceity regards me as being "attractive". I do not perceive myself to be beautiful or ... (786 words)

Is my boyfriend not interested?

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20 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Is my boyfriend not interested? We met three weeks ago for a date and weve been going out for only three weeks. He called me every day that one and a half weeks then he works because hes a roofer. Well now he doesn't call every day which i don't care about. The only problem is ... (273 words)

My morning sickness is lasting all day! Help!

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20 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am about 10 weeks pregnant and morning sickness seems to be a bother any time of the day. I had a prescription for pregnancy nausea pills from the doctor, but it is $50 for 30 little pills. Which only last about 10 days. When I have them to take I am fine but if I dont ... (172 words)

What is true love?

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20 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear aunt agony What IS true love? Does sex determine whether you love someone?... (17 words)

He says he doesn't want to impose himself on me hence why he hardly initiates dates, why is this?

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20 July 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi all, I have been dating a lovely man for the last couple of months. He has treated me well, and we have a lovely time when we are together., We have been on holiday together 9 at his suggestion) ,been to lovely restaurants and he has done everything he can to make me feel ... (166 words)

Every girl seems to like the boy I like! How do I express my feelings to him?

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20 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Aunt Agony, I really like this boy who is older than me by a year. But I don't know how to express my feeling to him! Every girl likes him! ... (41 words)

Productive ways to deal with flakey people...

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20 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - This is a recurring problem in my life: flakey friends, partners, ex'es. I get really upset and angry when this happens, because of a history of friends letting me down at the worst possible time. I realise now at 25 I have to confront this anxiety. How do I respond to peopl... (126 words)

A question about birth control...

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20 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi! This is probably a little long , but I just am a little worried Basically I'm taking the combined birth control pill and have been doing so for roughly two months. This is largely because my periods were VERY irregular (a three or four month gap between my periods wer... (359 words)

I just cannot stay away from him, he is the best I ever had and is very well endowed!!

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20 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so me and my ex-bf are still having sex!! We broke up in 2002 and we still have sex on the REGULAR I mean 3 or more times a week! Problem is me and him both are in relationship with other people now, but we both still love each other a lot and every time we try 2 break it ... (96 words)

Is this guy just stringing me along?

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20 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i need help as im really torn up... i met this guy about 2 months ago and he started coming to mine and we text every day.. after about a month i started sleeping with him... when hes here he acts like he likes me its like i can tell and the way he looks at me and stuff and he ... (204 words)

How can I make my mum like him again and see that he's a nice lad?

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20 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I live in a bad area of our town and recently my boyfriend of 4 months got a threat off a random person and then a month and half later got attacked on the canal. it was nothing serious but now my mum doesnt want me seeing him as she says he is an attention seeker and she seems ... (107 words)

My ex refused to be a sperm donor for me, but then we had one last night together and it turns out I'm pregnant! I don't want him to think I tricked him, so how do I tell him about this?

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20 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hey my ex-boyfriend and i were together for years and i ask him for a baby because i knew we were breaking up and that now he was more like a sperm donor i guess and he said no which was fine because at the end of the day we weren't ready or should i say me, so we went for one ... (122 words)

What can I do to make him feel he dosen't need to lie about his porn and masturbation?

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20 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm a gay male 25 been in a gay relationship for the past 6 years, he is also 25. he is addicted to porn and always wants other men he hasn't yet cheated in the flesh. my question i guess is what can i do to make him feel he dosen't need to lie about his porn and masterbation ... (61 words)

He invited an ex round to our house when he knew I was away for the weekend, but he says it was only for the company! I don't know what to believe.....

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20 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend invited someone he had previously had an romantic encounter with around to stay when he knew i was away that weekend. He didn't tell me about it but i found out and presumed it was for more than company on a night in. He said it wasn't but has said contradictory ... (113 words)

Is there anything we can do to push me over the edge?

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20 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my partner for 2.5 years, we lost our virginitys to each other so he is the only person i have had. in the time that we have been together i have never orgasmed apart from when i do it myself though clitoral stimulation. I can get to the point where it feels ... (104 words)

What does anyone think he wants because I am so confused right now!

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20 July 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - i was seeing a man for 2 years, he became a very very good friend to me, we helped each other throu difficult times, he told me he didnt want a relationship just yet, was into his work and enjoying himself. i had no problem with this man, he was always at the end of phone, ... (519 words)

How can I go on top and make it feel good for both of us?

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20 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I not very experienced in sex and dont really know how to go on top and make it feel good for both of us.I cant go that fast either, any tip?... (31 words)

How do I approach her now that she is single again???

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20 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - First of all i would like to tell you i am vey intoxicated! so please dont mind my minimal use of puncuation here is my scenario! i have known this girl for about two months and she has had a BF and her and i were so compadible and spent every day together for about two weeks ... (248 words)

Did he really lose my number???

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20 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I decided to reconnect with some of my old friends and a guy called george and i decided to go out in the summer ... we werent that close but he is really sweet. we spoke on the phone and we started texting every day but then the text got flirty with him asking what i would do ... (188 words)

Why does he masturbate? Dont I satisfy him?

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20 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i am there for my husband whenever he needs me but whenever i burge into the shower his masterbating why and he loves me so much. don't i satisfy him or what? i have never asked him why he does that because i feel he will get angry with me... (50 words)

We have broken up but she still talks to me, what is this?

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20 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - earlier this week my girlfriend broke up with me mostly because of religious beliefs as I was black and she was white, she was suffering a lot from her side and says she doesn't want me back but still talks to me but never mentioned that we were friends or anything so what is ... (70 words)

He's moving on! How do I tell him how I feel?

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20 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - A guy liked me for a year and showed it, but I was quite shy and never really showed it back. Now since the start of this year, he's ignored me and now he doesn't even look at me (even finds a way around talking to me in practical situations) so I'm thinking that he's either ... (201 words)

Fallen for the exchange student living with us, what should I do?

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20 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - so recently we have gotten an exchange student living with us for a year and yes i realy like her, what should i do? i dont want to make a mistake and have awkwardness for a whole year, but i also like her a lot. its crazy because ive only just met her, and it seems surreal ... (73 words)

How can I tell if she loves me too?

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20 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Im in love with a girl sincerely.Im very sweetie. Everyone likes me not because of my beauty but my character, well-Behavior. But I dont know whether she is loving me or not.How can I confirm that she loves me? P.S. She is modesty and religious. ... (47 words)

How can I stop my period cramps? They are becoming unbearable!

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20 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So heres the deal. My past few periods I've been getting very painful INTENSE cramps and I mean INTENSE. I'll have to miss softball/volleyball games, practices just because of my cramps. They've gotten so painful, I've actually cried a couple times cuz it's so unbearable! I'll ... (100 words)

Could I be pregnant?

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20 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I had sex saturday during my ovulation period. I'm on birth control nd my bf used a condom. What are the risks of getting pregnant?... (25 words)

I'm scared to makeout with him because I don't know how!

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20 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i have beem dating my boyfriend for over a month now, he kissed and everything, im scared to "hookup" or "makeout" with him, because i dont no how to. can you please help me?... (34 words)

He wants to leave his girlfriend for me but now he has said he wants to wait a bit, what does this mean?

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20 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - The past 3weeks a guy i really been saying he loves me, iv been saying it back. cause i really like him, he says he likes me more then his gf, and he wants to leave her, tonight he told me he wants to wait a bit n get to know me more before he gets with me. please help.... (63 words)

We had sex without a condom, and now I am worried I may have a STD or vaginal infection! Could he be sleeping around behind my back?

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20 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear folks.my problem is kinda embarasing,please hear me out.last wednesday i had sex with my fiance who i see 2 or 3 times a month.ther was no cöndom,i took morning after pill.now for the past 3days i woke up to a VERY BAD smell coming from my between the legs but the ... (114 words)

Is it a bad idea to pursue anything with her because we work together?

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20 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I recently started a job editing for a film production company and there is this girl who I'm working with that I think might like me. I immediately noticed her and I find her very attractive. The other day we were working together and had lots of free time because we had to ... (244 words)

He led me to believe he was someone else and now we are married he has shown his true colours, am I being too harsh or should I get a divorce?

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20 July 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Me and my husband chose to date for a year before getting married, and we did not live together previously. Now we all know with every relationship comes baggage, but Ive been married before, and outside of that, I was in another long 8 year relationship that ended without ... (425 words)

Does he really think I'm not his type? Or is he lying? Or throwing me off?

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20 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm just really confused right now... Okay my friend told me that there was a boy who was just staring at me at this meeting in school, so I didn't think anything of it. But then he asked my other friend if I had a boyfriend, so I thought, he's interested. So I talked to him a ... (169 words)

How can I improve my posture?

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20 July 2010 (?) age 41-50 - i am 5 feet and my husband height 6.2 .;i have a bad habit that i walk with bent shoulder and neck...like old..i want to overcome this...and want to walk straight...sit straight...any body help me...any exercise any suggestion..it also destroy my beauty...already i am complex ... (69 words)

Could this be breast cancer?

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20 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i recently had a lump in my cheast. Usually this indecates breast cancer :(.. i havent seen my doctor yet becacause of my insurance. However the lump has faded and gone away.Looking at information on the internet the lumps from breat cancer dont normally go away. Could ... (58 words)

Why do I keep wanting this intimacy with my ex and why am I not able to break away from her?

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20 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Okay, i seem to have found myself in a bit of a circling depression with my relationships nowdays. I saw a girl from my work who was adorable cute and generally want i wanted for a girl. the relationship went on for 3 months and in that time, she cheated on me, made it into... (471 words)

I'm worried that I may lose him and confused on what I would need to do to keep him

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20 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive been in my relationship for 7 years. Weve had our problems , but as far as i can tell we have been very happy and comfertable. Unfortunatly i suspect hes getting bored with me. We only get to see each other on the weekends since our schedules conflict and were both in ... (213 words)

How can I deal with her stresses in life which mean I don't get as much attention from her as I would like?

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20 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend and I have been together for 1 year off and on. She has a 2 yr old son and is in nursing school and has two jobs. She is usually stressed out a lot and because of this she has broken up with me twice and then later wanted to get back together after one month and ... (310 words)

What could it be that went so wrong for her not to tell me?

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20 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I am going to try to make this short as much as I can I’ve known this 22 year-old girl since she was 16. We’ve always been good friends and I have always had a small crush on her. 3 years ago she moved a few states away with her family, we might go a couple or few mo... (538 words)

Why cant I feel myself orgasm?

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20 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - umm i just recently just lost my virginity about 2 months ago. and i haven't been able to feel my self cum at any time. my boy friend thinkings i dont relax enough. but when i try to relax it doest help much it feel better but i dont feel my self cum. he says i cum a lot and ... (90 words)

My cousin dated the guy I liked once I had moved away, but now we want to give things a try but I am worried about hurting my cousin!

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20 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello guys I really need some good advice,i am in a very complicated situation! So 4 years ago I was 16 I dated this guy but only for a one month(we were very close friends before anything) he was my first love and I really loved him,but for some reasons my family had to mo... (347 words)

How you you like your husband to approach this?

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20 July 2010 (M)

age - Tip for first experience please. I think it's nice and romantic to brush my wife's hair (on her head--for those with perverted mind!). I'm basically looking for something sweet and romantic that I can do daily when we wind down (I have the massage thing down years ago--but d... (272 words)

Why he wont stay hard?

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20 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - when me and my mate are having sex he gets soft after about 3 minutes, wht wont he stay hard?... (20 words)

How can I bring her desire back? I am worried she has gone off me becauase I am no longer the mysterious bad boy!

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20 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I beg for your help, something is driving me totally insane. I'm dating this chick for 8 months. She is the most beautiful, smart and elegant lady i've ever seen. We go along so great together and our relationship quickly became very serious. She started to like ... (427 words)

How can I get to know my father?

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20 July 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I am 44 years old and my mother just now telling me who my father is. The only thing she knows about him is his first name and what he owned. Before i leave this earth I would love to know my father.... (43 words)

Why hasn't he asked me out if he's actually interested?

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20 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - There's a guy who works at the local gas station I frequent after my job (2nd shift). He's always really nice and chatty. Once, he told me that I am "soooo pretty". Another time, that I am the "prettiest thing", and another time told a customer that he is going to marry me ... (150 words)

Where is this going? Does he care?

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20 July 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - We have been together for nearly 2 years we are both in our forties, I am going through a huge financial crisis now, and barely making a living, my boyfriend has knowledge of this and makes great money. I have never been known to ask for money and infact I am consider myself ... (116 words)

How do you date in this crazy world?

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20 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - How do you actually date in this crazy world, when guys act so alloof and indifferent that all they want is a quick sex(my experience). I was in 7 year relationship, that ended. It was mutual, as we became so indifferent to each other that it made no sence to stay together... (539 words)

How can I get closure over my ongoing crush? Part of me will always wonder what could have been.....

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20 July 2010 (F)

Ladies, orgasms during sex?....

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20 July 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Questions for ladies who have had orgasms during sex....does it intensify your orgasm sensation to have the guy coninue to move during the contractions? what is most intense fast or slow thrusting?... (32 words)

Is there anything I can do to make a relationship out of this or should I just get over her?

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20 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - ok so during this school year i met this girl first semestre that i really liked. But i blew a couple oppurtunities to ask her out and now we dont talk. So then, move on and next semestre i meet this really pretty girl who wasn't single first semestre. I talked to her alot but ... (233 words)

How much longer do I have to feel this way?

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20 July 2010 (?) age 51-59 - You know when you totally all the way fell for, just flat out lost your mind in love with someone, then you lose them? I am still in love with someone I lost one week ago: I can't listen to music or wake up or go to sleep without yearning for him. As a practical matter, it's ... (147 words)

He was the one that cheated on me but now he accuses me of wanting other men, says he doesn't love me and wont let me go anywhere! How can I change the way he is?

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20 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok my husband and i have been together 3 years and have 2 children. About a year after we got together he cheated on me with my best friend. So we got through that now he accuses me of wanting different guys. He tells me all the time he does not love me. He gets mad at me when ... (99 words)

An ex girfriend that I am still in love with, or the new girl who loves ME?

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20 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay so I am currently seeing two different girls. One girl happens to be my ex which i dated for 1.5 years and the other girl is a girl that i work with. I have a lot of feelings for both of them, but my ex is the one that I am always having trouble getting over because we ... (291 words)

Why is my boyfriend acting like this? And what should I do about it?

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20 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - well , Me and my boyfriend have been arguing a lot recently right . . And he has been acting smart to me calling me names and all . . . Weve been going for 3 months and the 1st 2 months were alright going smoothly then he has started being a wanker .. He asked me the other da... (159 words)

Is this as much trouble as it is worth?

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20 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello I have a little bit of a difficult situation here and would like to have some advice as i'm mega confuzed I recently travelled to visit a friend, however her house mate lets call her (D) met up with us in town and we went for drinks and what not.... D started talki... (446 words)

Should I write a letter to my ex's new girlfriend to let her know what a scumbag he is?

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20 July 2010 (F)

age - I want to write a letter to my ex boyfriend's girlfriend telling her what a scumbag he is. I am really sick and tired of my ex boyfriend getting away with talking trash about me behind my back. I really think he is a psychopath, he has no conscience or empathy or remorse... (1590 words)

I have discovered my true feelings for her but now we are apart, should I ask her to wait for me?

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20 July 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been in relationship with this girl, i know beyond doubt that she loves me but i did not love her that much, until I traveled out of my country now i started having the feelings i never had for her, i have discovered that i love her, but we are now apart, if i should i ... (90 words)

What is the most effective way to pursue these girls?

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20 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello everybody, So on Saturday my friends and I went out to a bar. I met a girl (29) and we talked for about 40 mins, danced a bit, and I ended up getting her number. She left shortly after that. Later in the night I also met another girl (22, my age), who I talked ... (263 words)

My husband was having an affair with my best friend who also happens to be my co-worker, how can I maintain a professional relationship with her?

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20 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I recently discovered that my husband was having an affair. We have been married for 21 years and in the course of the affair being revealed I have found a multitude of other lies. There can never be just one! The other woman just happens to have been my best friend and ... (154 words)