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He doesn't think a long distance relationship will work and I will cheat, but I just want us to try!

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Question - (13 July 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 13 July 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *eisha4knight writes:

Ok so I'm leaving for college in 25 days, and I currently am in a relationship with a guy that I truely care about. I believe that we can make a long distance relationship work. I have no doubt in him being faithful to me and I believe I can stay faithful to him, but he doesn't believe I can do it. He claims that since i'm really attractive its going to be people that try to get with me and eventually I will slip up. I know I won't though... But he feels we should break up and get back together when we aren't so far apart but keep talking like we are together. I think we should try it out and if we grow apart that we just let that happen. I just wanted to get others opinions on the situation... Oh yeah my school is 2 hours from him and out of state

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (13 July 2010):

What he's really saying to you is that he won't be able to do it. It's not you. You've been faithful, and you've given him no reason to distrust you from what you've written here. But I think he's the one who won't be able to do it, and I think he's the one who will cheat and have his way with other girls. I think you need to end it, before you wind up getting really hurt. What he's really saying is that he doesn't think he can do it.

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