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writes:i am 14 and i get these urges to do sexual things with guys. i feel like i d8 a lot of guys. but i think im just looking for the right person 2 do it with. i will get 2 the point where i feel ready 2 do sexual stuff but then i kinda chicken out and dump the guy i was d8ing. am i not ready or am i just picky? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 September 2010): It's okay to have these urges at 14, but you're WAY too young to do anything sexually. I had the same feelings when I was younger, but I waited until I was 18, and I'm happy I did. You're not emotionally mature enough to deal with any consiquences that will follow, even if you think you are, so just wait.
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reader, cheerwhore23 +, writes (13 July 2010):
Just because u have sexual urges doesn't mean u have to like have sex or anything..just do little things like makeout then work your way up..if your not ready for that then u should just wait til your older..people mature differently
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reader, LilPixie  +, writes (13 July 2010):
 I think it shows that 1. you're not ready and 2. you know that the guy is not the right person to lose it to.
It's completely normal to have sexual urges at your age but 14 is really young to have sex, not to mention that it's illegal.
There is a reason why you have to be a certain age to be allowed to have sex. Not only will your body not be ready to have sex at that age but there are a lot of responsibilites that come with having sex. Even if you use the pill or condoms or any other form of contraception there is still a chance of getting pregnant. Although a lot of young teenage mum's have done a great job at raising their child, a 14 year old will not usually be able to raise a baby. It's a lot to take on, financially and emotionally. And a lot of parents will end looking after their children's babies. And some will be taken away by social services.
Wait till you're a couple of years older and have a boyfriend that you trust and know that he's the right person to lose it too.
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