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Do other people know if someone has had sex the night before?

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Question - (13 July 2010) 5 Answers - (Newest, 16 July 2010)
A male Nigeria age 41-50, *ruce lee writes:

I don't want to disgust anyone with this question, but I want to know what goes on inside other people's heads.

My question is...Do people wonder if they see someone walking down the street whether or not that person had sex the night before?

Can people tell somehow? Is there a way of reading someone's mind?

I don't want to feel embarassed in any way if I am holding hands with a woman, and people give me funny looks. I don't like people being able to read my mind. And I don't like people sticking there nose in other people's business.

Also, do women talk about it with their friends? Or are most things kept quiet?

Once, I was at a cafe. And some complete stranger have me a strange smile. And I wondered if she knew that I had had it off with someone a few nights before. I felt uncomfortable.

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A female reader, Oregongrl1 United States +, writes (16 July 2010):

Maybe she thought you was cute! and as far as someone reading your mind! i think they read your expressions. and when you see someone who is in a good mood! or smiling hell maybe they hit the lottery? and as far as someone sticking their nose in my business it just doesn't happen.

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A male reader, bruce lee Nigeria +, writes (16 July 2010):

bruce lee is verified as being by the original poster of the question

bruce lee agony auntThanks for your answers. I do worry a lot that there are people out there who can read my mind. It is a scarey thing when you worry that someone is inside your head. Take care and enjoy the day.

I hope women don't give out names of people when they talk about sex.

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A female reader, chigirl Norway +, writes (13 July 2010):

chigirl agony auntWomen do talk. So be careful who you mess around with, you might want to stick to those you know you can trust to keep it private. Second, no there is no way people can tell if you had sex the night before, or even at all, just by looking at you.

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A female reader, Lotsalove. United States +, writes (13 July 2010):

Lotsalove. agony auntFor starters yes women do talk. If you have a girlfriend and you are intimate together, its like 90% she is going to talk about it to her girl friends, thats just how us women are. But secondly people dont know if you have had sex the night before etc, unless maybe your walking down the street with a smile from ear to ear. Maybe that complete stranger thought you were attractive? And shooting you a smile to show it?

Nobody can read your mind. Your simply paranoid.

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A female reader, aphexinfinite United Kingdom +, writes (13 July 2010):

aphexinfinite agony auntits highly unlikely that they could know whether you had sex or not seems like you have a little case of paranoia going on.. who cares what other people think if you are happy with your women what do they matter . some women do talk but the chances of the women they told telling someone else is very unlikely unless they have no life and talk about others sex lives. i do believe if they gain knoweledge they may share but no names usually will be given lol. women do talk but their not all out their..you need a confidence boost! good luck aphex

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