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Advice on lasting longer

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Question - (13 July 2010) 6 Answers - (Newest, 18 July 2010)
A male United States age 51-59, anonymous writes:

"OP Own Title" What are some ways to help last longer before ejaculating? I have been with my girlfriend for 1 year and the last few months I have been cumming in less than five minutes. I used to be able to go for alot longer. Wondering if anyone had any devices (cock rings, etc.) or tricks that work. I have no problem maintaining an erection, however.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (18 July 2010):

If you want to last longer masturbate when you think intercourse will happen before it happens, you will ejaculate but it will take alot of work.

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A male reader, Odds United States +, writes (14 July 2010):

Odds agony auntTrain yourself to take longer when masturbating. Deliberately take as long as possible.

When you're with your girlfriend, don't be afraid to slow down, or even pull out and go back to foreplay.

If you do finish too quickly, remember that you can still finish her night off with your fingers.

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A female reader, loraemoon United Kingdom +, writes (13 July 2010):

loraemoon agony auntwell firstly good it looks like she really does turn you on and you enjoy, but its obviously something that concerns you, my advice is either to masurbate not long before sex that way you will last longer, if its a hard on factor then a cock ring will really help,

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2010):

sometimes if I go without sex for more than a day or two, I usually finish rather quickly. The only other advice I have is to add more foreplay to get her to finish quicker.

Also, if you feel that you are getting close, stop yourself. Go back to foreplay, use your hands to keep her going, give yourself a little break, then go back. Also, try nice slow long movements as opposed to quick deep thrusts.

Lastly, let her be on top. More intense for her and a little less for you but that should help. :)

No experience with any other tools...sorry.

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A female reader, Megan Deetes United Kingdom +, writes (13 July 2010):

Megan Deetes agony auntIt can help for some people to masturbate more frequently and for longer to practice thinking about other things and delay ejaculation. To avoid ejaculation during intercourse, you could slow down your penetration, or initiate in foreplay during intervals in sex.

Training yourself to think about something else, nearing climax is probably the best way to avoid premature ejaculation, however if this too difficult, try taking regular intervals during sex to pleasure your partner,

Good luck,

Megan

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2010):

If it feels like you wanna cum, stop and squeeze underneath the head. You can always go for plan B - finish, wash up and start again, you might last longer the second time :)

NightFairy

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