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writes:ok im thinking about telling my best friend of the past 13 or 14 years that im in love with him and have been for the past 3 years, well maybe not the three years part cuz when we were still in high school we told each other who we liked, and for the last two years of school i told him "no one", but anyways. i have no idea how to tell him how i feel, i dont want to make our friendship wired cuz i tresure our friendship too much, im a vary shy, keep to myself kind of person, there are only two people in the world that i trust to tell everything to (almost) and thats him and my other best friend i met the day before i met him (aka his cousin) and she knows how a feel about him. the ironic thing about it is about 9 years ago his aunt and cousin use to bug him and i and said we liked each other cuz we spent everyday, almost every waking hour together, well i always said it was cuz i was hanging with his cousin and his aunt was babysitting him and we didnt want to leave him to play with the toddlers, so, what im asking is how can i tell him im in love with him and not scare him or make things awkward between us? he truly is too important to me to scare him away
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reader, tmariee  +, writes (24 July 2010):
maybe you should spend more time with him but like more relastionship type things? and see how he reacts. for instance a romantic candle light dinner homemade and a little cute movie on the couch just the two of you to see how he handles it and if he reacts in a good way then don't hold back but if he does then u know hes not interested(: cuz yalls friendship is the most important thing right?(: hope this helps
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2010): i think u should know that does he like anyone you or someone different..
well im with my best friend :) but i was lucky about that he loves me 2 so just be careful, you dont want to lose your bestie right =)
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