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30-35,
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writes:me and my boyfriend have been dating for a year and half, he broke up with me back in september because of fight in december he wanted me back and we got back together. now we have been fight lately and he says that my insecurities are pushing him away. i said i can work on it and he has doubts that we can make it work again so we are on a "break"... is he gonna brake up with me in the end?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (13 July 2010):
On/off relationships never work, and if we're being honest, this guy twice now has been quick to blame you and just run away rather than actually talk about it and sort it out. This guy is not ready for a relationship. At all. He doesn't communicate. He just runs away. It's not you who has the problem. It's him. I'd be insecure if my partner just kept running away at the first sniff of an argument. If he can't and won't work it out without just splitting with you, he simply isn't good enough. Don't be fooled by this guy. Don't waste time where you could be with a guy who doesn't run away. Your boyfriend comes across as a guy who'll just continue to run away all the time. What if you get ill and he runs? What if you decide to get married and at the altar, he runs? What if you have kids and he runs? Those are all very possibly with this guy, since he has no real idea about responsibility or care. I think you can better, and I think you deserve better than a man who continually breaks up with the moment he doesn't like it.
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