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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I have a bigger crush on him -- was I too emotional?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

6 July 2010 (F) - Well i have been at this company for a few years..i always thought this one guy was good looking and had a good personality as well..just genuinly friendly it seems and very good at work--remains focused and motivated..he is pretty popular in the office as well..does get ... (1265 words)

Found out my ex is still into me -- should I stop talking to her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5281 days ago

6 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been going out with my girlfriend for a while now, and recently I've started talking to one of my ex's, we're still like really good friends but i don't really talk to her cause my girlfriend gets jealous but we just started one night, then we started talking more and more ... (113 words)

My wife made out with a girl seven years ago and never told me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5281 days ago

6 July 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I need some advice on a situation I have with my wife. We have been married 5 years, together 8 years, and have a 3 year old daughter. My brother-in-law (her brother) just got divorced. Rumor has it that his ex-wife has (and had) a new boyfriend. To make a long story short... (452 words)

Got something from the chat that I don't get from my b/f

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5282 days ago

6 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I’ve been with my boyfriend for 3 years I love him dearly and he does to, he doesn’t show me a lot of attention, most of the time its xbox, football or sex, we never just sit and chat or he never makes me feel special or loved or like he wants me etc. I decided the other day to ... (203 words)

Relationship with a married man who doesn't leave his wife

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5281 days ago

6 July 2010 (F)

age - I met a man online. He is still married, but she has moved out of the home. They run a business together and to date they still draw from the same money pot. I have told him from the beginning that my values want a legal separation and/or divorce, but he continues to say 'its ... (89 words)

Why is she lying? I don't understand why she'd do that

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

6 July 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Ok I am 40years old and I ran into an old friend who is 43. We had not seen each other in 20yrs. So we started dating and all was well. Flowers every week took her on a little vac and we would go out 2 eat 5 days a week all on my $ she then ask me that we not date others I ... (178 words)

Respect For Herself Gone - What Can I Do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5282 days ago

6 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, hey guys. I've got a little problem with my best friend of 12 years. Alright, she's 16 (along with me) and in her freshmen year at high school, she got together with this guy. Now, at first, I didn't think much of this guy. He was dull, a little boring, totally unorigin... (250 words)

How should a parent Criticize there adult kids?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5282 days ago

6 July 2010 (F)

age - I am a mother with several children one child is adopted and is now an adult. My child is bipolar and we get along better now but there are times after we have been together for several hours or a few days I find myself criticizing her to the point that she will say to me has ... (344 words)

My Girlfriend wants to break up with me because she can't get over the fact I've slept with other people?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

6 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - How can I prevent it ending over something I have no control over!? She resents that I had a past life, where admittedly I slept around with many women I could just for kicks and for self esteem. I changed. Meeting her and starting to go out with her was the point where I re... (292 words)

I think my father is cheating on my mother

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

6 July 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - hey Well for the past two or three years I've been having this sort of feeling that my father has been cheating on my mother. Almost every single night he stays out till three in the morning. and I even caught him lying about who he was talking to on the phone. i know th... (81 words)

Did he just use me to get promoted?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

6 July 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I became friends with a co-worker whom I later developed a crush on. I admitted my crush to him bad thing is we are both married(his wife also works in our offices where we work). So that is bad in it self. After revealing my crush I found out the feeling was mutual. That was ... (327 words)

Friend is being distant should I tell her my true feelings?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5281 days ago

6 July 2010 (M)

age - My female friend is in an unhappy marriage and has wanted to leave it but has now decided to work at it again for a few months. I am also in an unhappy marriage and want out. Recently we have become closer when she confided her marriage problems with me and I also shared mine ... (143 words)

I'm 23 and I have no friends. What can I do to change that?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

6 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Most people my age have friends. A couple of good friends and shopbuddies, people they go out with and facebook people. I have pretty much none. I used to have a close friend (we knew eachother since we were 7) but we grew apart over time and because we became very diff... (464 words)

I want a relationship for more than 2 weeks

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

6 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - im a 16 year old girl and i need some advice. i consider myself to be friendly and cute. ive had lots of boyfriends before, but none have lasted longer than a few weeks. about half of my boyfriends have dumped me for one of their ex's, or has cheated on me. im starting to think... (92 words)

Hard to move on from a fling!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5272 days ago

6 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - im finding it hard to move on from a fling, who is very rude and disrespectful towards me. he ignored my txts and my calls tells me to f***off. but when he wants something he calls me and expects me to drop what im doing to see him. im emotionally attached to him and he knows ... (57 words)

Implant and pregnancy

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5281 days ago

6 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, i turned 16 at the end of march this year and had the implant placed in the begining of April. Me and my bf have been together since i was 14 and he was 16, yeah he's nearly 19. Our parents are happy with us having sex as they know and we know we love each other. ... (116 words)

Why is my sister going after this emotionally unavailable man?

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6 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi Lucille, I have come across this man who is dating my sister. He behaves very good to me but is emotionally unaviialble. He admits not being serious about any women and also that marriage is not needed to get physical with a women. he is into a profession where he gets hi... (281 words)

I left my husband, but now the guy I had feelings for won't see me.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

6 July 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm married (now separated). While still with my husband, I met a guy online who I knew years ago. We flirted with each other off and on for months. We didn't meet up because of my marriage. We still flirted and fantasized about being together. I felt guilty about it but ... (322 words)

My partner of 8 years just moved away.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

6 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My off/on partner for the last 8 yrs has just moved far away and I am really depressed, I don't know what to do, can't stop crying. He wanted to try to stay together but I knew it wouldn't work and was only him needing security before he went. But now it's happened I am so ... (78 words)

How do I start a relationship with my cousin?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

6 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a cute cousin, I think she's sending messages. She likes to get close to me when we watch movies, she always dancing really hot when I visit and always likes to share what she does with her boyfriends( how they kiss etc...). Think I can at least get a little relatinship ... (54 words)

Scared I'm no longer a virgin!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5281 days ago

6 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - well i need help. i am so scared that i am not a virgin, because my boyfriend and i decided to play around and i want to know if am still a virgin if he fingered me... (37 words)

Is if fair that my sister would invite new roommates without consulting me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

6 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - This is a sibling relationship I have a problem about. I live with my sister overseas, she is a single mom with 2 kids from different men, I am single. Well, we agreed to live together with all household expenses cut into half. Even for the house rental, we pay 50/50. My ... (373 words)

Opinions on what constitutes cheating?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5279 days ago

6 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend has a close female friend who he used to like. I'm wondering what are people's opinions on what would be classified as cheating( apart from kissing and having sex)? Thank you... (34 words)

Should I date older guys or stay single until highschool?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

6 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - hi i'm really good at getting people together. i talk to the guy i talk to the girl and bam their together. i even have to get people together on my little brothers video games. im pretty popular and i guess kinda attractive, (i have self asteem problems), but mostly all t... (219 words)

Would you (as a guy) turn a girl away over something like this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

6 July 2010 (?) age 30-35 - Bonjour, I just wanted guys opinions because even though I know it's normal, as in it's not unhealthy, I don't like it. On my left side I have always had one long inner labia. I feel like it will freak guys out and/or get in the way!! Argh I hate it! Would you ever turn a girl ... (126 words)

Is he just wanting to be friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5282 days ago

6 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I need some advice I am so confused I met a guy online I would always send him a message and everytime I went out he was there and would always stare at me last year I went out he was there next thing I know he made a move on me we hooked up and he did drink now he is in a ... (207 words)

Another girl's boyfriend is turning my head from my own boyfriend...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

6 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Im in a relationship but cant stop thinking about someone else! Ok so Ive been in a relationship for 8 months, its quite serious, and i believed he was 'the one' although now we are over the 'honemmon period' i can see cracks. he's very negative and we have alot of oposing ... (183 words)

Are his feelings fading after a week?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5282 days ago

6 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i am 13 and have a bf, i'v only been with him for about a week and we are really close. But i feel like already his feelings for me are fading and im scared that he doesnt like me anymore and im not sure what to do. Please help? x... (51 words)

How can I deal with my mum so life is easier?

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6 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My mum really upsets me and stresses me out. She seems to have a go at me all the time. Like today, she started shouting at me, because I knocked on the door few times, because I though she didn't hear me. And then I asked her to stop shouting, she threatened me that sh... (208 words)

How can I win back my boyfriend and best friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

6 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i need help i love my ex boyfriend so much he broke up with me because he couldn face me after he went to someone elses party instead of mine we were going out for a very long time im going nuts with you the thoughts of him and it hurts so so much i been told time heals ... (128 words)

How can I improve my self-image?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

6 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a seventeen year old girl, 5'4'' and 118 pounds. I generally wear sizes 0-2, or x-small-small, in a variety of clothing brands, so I KNOW I'm not fat or anything, even though I often feel like I am. There has never been a time in my life when I have ever liked my body. I... (250 words)

Should I ask him straight up if he's interested?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5282 days ago

6 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so i've been texting a guy for the past 3 months, and still haven't had time to hang out- But, we've really gotten to know eachother. We've talked about every imaginable topic and still no sure sign of whether he's into me or not. The thing is, he's very shy, never had a ... (188 words)

He said he was clean but why am I having these symptoms?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

6 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - sorry to be graphic but i want the most accurate answers i can get. ok, so i went to see(we live 5 hours apart) my new bf who i have been with for 2 months, and he has had a bit of a history with girls(im the 8th girl hes slept with) and he has picked up an infection or two a... (269 words)

Any thoughts on what I am?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

6 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 17, male, i've been going out with this girl for about 9 months now, and we're are having sex. its great. Getting to my point, as much as i enjoy to look at her naked, i think i'm weird, and worry about what i like. For instance, i watch lesbian porn because i d... (393 words)

How can I get the thoughts of her breastfeeding out of my head??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

6 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - i have a maid servant living in my house with her family. she has recently given birth to a baby girl. now it so happens that she is a buxom. i used to have fantasies about her sometimes. anyways, a few days ago, i went to her room to tell her something. and as i entered, i ... (103 words)

I want to know how my best friend's husband feels about me. What should I do?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

6 July 2010 (?) age 36-40 - I am currently married, and only have been for six months. My husband is loving and supportive, and we treat each other very well. Although we have a strong emotional relationship, I have never been interested in him sexually [we have sex, it's just not "hot" to me, and I used ... (421 words)

I can't stop thinking about him, whats wrong with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

6 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I was going out with this guy for a few weeks in January and I really loved him.One day though,he started ignoring me for no reason,so I went on his bebo page.When I looked at his friends,the first person was a girl with an arrow pointing to her that said "I love you".He ... (124 words)

Am I being a bad daughter for worrying about money?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5282 days ago

6 July 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello! My problem is this..I will be taking a vacation very soon with my husband and three kids. My mother is young and has invited herself to come with us on our vacation. She is not very well economically. Eventhough she will pay for her plane ticket she expects to stay ... (116 words)

Can I get in trouble at work for what I post on FB?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

6 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Need some advice and have been on internet but can't find any info. I basically need to know if your manager is on maternity leave can she get you in trouble? I have acess to my facebook and usually update my status on breaks etc.. Now I didn't realise but a woman I h... (128 words)

How can I move on? I'm scared of being alone!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

6 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfried dumped me 2 weeks ago after an 18 month relationship because he says he doesn't love me. I am completely heart broken and don't know what to do with myself. Its affecting my behaviour in I can't seem to function properly and its constantly on my mind and and i'm ... (353 words)

I'm not getting the attention I used to, and its making me feel really down!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5282 days ago

6 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, when i used to go out i was the one that always have boys attention and always had boys asking me 2 meet up with them. but recently this doesnt happen, it really making me feel down as i feel as if im ugly and not attractive. what can i do 2 cheer myself up?? ... (56 words)

I'm 19 and he's 38... Is he too old for me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

6 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 19 and turn 20 in a weeks time. I am very mature for my age and always referred to as "an old head on young shoulders" and have also got on better with people older than myself. However, i have met (and fallen for) a man who is 38, turning 39 this year. We get on ... (111 words)

Is this guy cheating BEFORE we have a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

6 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey,me and this boy have been on about starting a realtionship, but have found out hes getting really friendly with this girl. the other nite he said "im going bed talk 2 u 2morrow " the next day i found out he went out with this girl. i have asked him about this and he said ... (107 words)

Could there be a problem in our relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

6 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I see eachother only on weekends and for the past 15 months we have had sex 2 to 3 times a week. The past weekend a long one at that he was packing and moving but also had plenty of down time for the fourth and he was too tired. His usual schedule is working ... (131 words)

I was happily married, until I found out he cheated!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

6 July 2010 (F) age 51-59 - ive been with my husband 19 years married for 13 with 2 children 16 and 14 but recently found out he slept with another woman 16 years ago a couple of times and he may have fathered a child im in pieces what do i do i love this guy to pieces... (52 words)

Should I stay in London now that things seem to be getting better?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

6 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - am a 43 year old female, childless and single - and not unhappy. I came to London 3 years ago. I had been struggling to find enough freelance work as a designer in Munich, Germany and it seemed there were more opportunities for me in London. So far so good...the first 18 ... (529 words)

Is it really bad to act like a lunatic in front of a possible enemy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5282 days ago

6 July 2010 (F)

age - I fell out big time with my partner’s sister almost the first time I met her. She is friends with his ex wife and there was a lot of turmoil in the divorce. The things she said could be described as ill advised if feeling kind, or mischeivious if not so kind, because they ... (268 words)

Would it be crossing the line to request an STD test?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

6 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi people, just a quick question, my partner just revealled he had unprotected sex with a few women before he met me 3 yrs ago. I asked if hes clean but he just said i think so. Everything seems to be ok with him downstairs but i just wondered if i should ask him to go an... (80 words)

How can we improve the communication in our relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5282 days ago

6 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 months. We love eachother very much. We are young, and planning to get engaged in a few months. We both always wanted a long engagement. We are planning to be engaged for about 4 or 5 years. We know what we want. Somedays are great, ... (219 words)

How can I get my life back? His strange behavior still worries me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5282 days ago

6 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I can't get over the love of my life. It may sound weird but we never actually went out together but hes been my life for the past 2 and a half years! I have wrote up before asking for your advice about his behaviour, i wont write it out all again and bore you but he basically ... (972 words)

Questions for female to male transsexuals!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

6 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey, I'm very curious about female to male transsexualism... so I have a few quesitions........ 1. If I were to have sex with an tfm transsexual, would I be able to tell he was born female? 2. Can a ftm transsexual ejaculate anything? 3. How bad is the scarring? ... (101 words)

Should I continue to keep my nose out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

6 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am really good friends with an ex boyfriend from long ago. He and his current girlfriend have been together for nearly 2 years and, as much as I like her as a person, I really dislike the way she treats him. He works 12 hour shifts while she sits at home playing computer ... (396 words)

Super defensive husband!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

6 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband is super defensive. Everything i say he has a defensive retort or a way to bat back at me it could be a comment i have made such as "have you anything planned for dinner tonight" and the reply i get will be "i have not thought about dinner, i have not had chance, i ... (452 words)

Custody, bad ex and crazy new girlfriend... Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5275 days ago

6 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, so I have some concerns regarding custody and visitation. As of now my daughter is about to turn three and her father is most likely going to be taking me to court. The past three years he has had very little to do with her, and when he has seen her he makes her ... (316 words)

I don't feel like I am getting the respect I should from him or am I making too much out of this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

6 July 2010 (F)

age - Hi I would like your opinion please on these comments my boyfried keeps making to me. To be quite honest I am starting to feel like he has a very low opinion of me at times and I'm wondering if I should tackle him about this. Here are some of the things he has been saying. ... (186 words)

He walked out promising to get in touch the next evening but I haven't heard from him.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

6 July 2010 (F)

age - I have been with my man for 6 months , he moved in a few weeks ago, to keep it short, he was doing a job for my boss, which they argued about, he walked out on me the same evening, promising to talk the next day, he didnt and since then i have had one text saying he will get in ... (101 words)

Help!!! How to make this work???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

6 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I'm Alex, and I'm an 18 year old gay male and for the past two years have been seeing Jason, who is 21 and lives about 3-4 hours away from me. We have been on and off these two years, and now I'm about to move to go to college and fortunately for both of us, the ... (457 words)

How can I help my ex partner who still wants a relationship get over his awkwardness?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

6 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 15 and for about 3 months I was dating an 18 year old. Everything was perfect, until he had a warning from the police stating our relationship was illegal. Since we have agreed to be good friends until I'm 16 in about a month when we will decide whether to continue the ... (116 words)

I love you...??????

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

6 July 2010 (M)

age - I say I love you to a woman who is 20 years younger than me, and she says I love you to me too. Now every time I say I love you to her, she just smiles. Does she really mean it when she says I love you to me? We are both married.... (54 words)

Why has these flutters stopped?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

6 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi All I'm slightly a bit worried and wondered if you think this is normal and could you give me some advice. I'm 18 weeks pregnant with my first, for weeks i felt small little flutters every day, but for the past 5 days there has been no flutters, is this normal? and shou... (90 words)

A flirty boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

6 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I get really jealous when my boyfriend flirts with other girls. I don't know how to make him stop doing it, since he denies that he even does that. Says, he doesn't even like the girls he flirts with. I don't know whether to believe him or what, but it really hurts when he does ... (64 words)

When do I move on and get over this guy? I can't get closure

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5277 days ago

6 July 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi all, I recently started dating a new man. He is nice, kind and considerate. I have just come back from holiday with him. We stayed with his family, and it was very intense as they were all scrutinising me, and I felt hugely under pressure. Anyway, to cut a long story sho... (767 words)

Keep chasing... or what???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

6 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My ex and I broke up half a year ago, a lot of crap went down in example, I asked her to go to prom with me she needed to think about it. I thought I was getting played and stuff so I said screw it, I told this girl who wanted to go with me sure lets go. Next day she finds out ... (475 words)

My boyfriend has been chatting secretly to a girl, help!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

6 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend of 10 months is very private about his emails and facebook, which is fine.... until I went on one of his friends facebook pages this morning and saw she had written "she would like to hop in the shower with a certain person". my boyfriend "liked" the status update ... (125 words)

Bashful boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

6 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey i am 17 years old and still a virgin, i have been with a few guys and always felt pressured for sex, i have recently gotten a boyfriend and he first had sex when he was 13.. he told me he wouldn't pressure me for sex but he looks all sad when i say no.. how do i let him ... (72 words)

What is that supposed to mean... his dad decides???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

6 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I was only 24 years old when I got married to a guy who saw me at my uncle's wedding. We got to know each other for only five months then got married, it was too fast I know but he was well off and very very kind. we loved each other like crazy.. taking into consideration that ... (400 words)

I hate it when other guys chat my girlfriend up over Facebook, how do I cope with this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

6 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - first thing my partner is the most beautiful girl ever blond, hair blue eyes she`s such a stunner, but theres one thing i hate OTHER BOYS trying to chat her up over facebook. she has a new friend a MALE friend infact, she has told me about him,she says` there JUST FRIENDS.Hmmm, ... (123 words)

Is he flirting or just being friendly?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

6 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, I have been seeing this guy lately and I'm not sure if he is flirting or just being friendly. He has been asking me questions that you usually ask someone you're interested in. He laughs at funny and not funny things I say. I turn around to look at him, he was a... (130 words)

I have broken it off because I cant take the lies any more, but really I want him to change so we can be together again...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

6 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay so I have been seeing this guy for a year and a half and I do so much for him I give him money and all lately I been asking him to make me his girlfriend, he is talking about he not ready! well everytime I go on his facebook its always something about a girl, when I ask ... (133 words)

I want to get thinner but exercise isnt working!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

6 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm going on a camp in a couple of weeks and i really want to get thinner. excercise doesn't really tend to work for me. any ideas?... (27 words)

Am I just wasting my time with him?

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6 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been dating now for 3 years, its always been really hard for us because I’m dealing with depression and anxiety which I am seeking professional help for. My boyfriend cheated on me 2 months ago with a prostitute after getting drunk at a pub, which he did ... (469 words)

My boyfriend and I are starting to be sexually active, but now despite asking for these things he tells me I shouldnt be like this!

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6 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - well, me and my boyfriend have been going out now for 3 months and we've started to do some stuff.. however the other day i was giving him a hand job and he just pushed me aeway nd said 'no, babe i dont want you to be like this'. im confused like he's done this a few times but ... (98 words)

How do I save my marriage?

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6 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i am married last nov 2009 i met my husband online marriage and we loved each othere he came from usa to me in uae we married but after marriage i noticed things i dont like it on him and it hurt a lot i asked him to stop cause it hurt , he always talk about his xwife a lot ... (144 words)

Are birth-signs a factor in starting a relationship?

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6 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - 1. I loved a girl (two long years ago and she was not very impressed with me and didn't want me to contact her again !). She is a gemini and I'm a virgo. I read a lot about the matching thing in the net etc and all say its the worst match possible ! Is that true? BTW, I'... (351 words)

Why does my ex partner keep behaving this way?

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6 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Why does he keep hurting me? I recently split up with my partner.I suspected he had been cheating on me with his ex,i had reasons for thinking this, he called me paraniod, depressed and jealous. I was hurt that he had not tryed to reassure me. I told him i didnt trust him ... (322 words)

Did this married woman feel something for me too or have I been played?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

6 July 2010 (F)

age - Hi, I am a bi-sexual divorced lady, recently I met a married lady online. Initially this was on the basis of no strings attached sex. We chatted and sent texts to each and over a very short space of time I felt really drawn towards her. This really wasn't meant to happen. ... (246 words)

The man that interviewed me now keeps calling and wont leave me alone, what should I do?

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6 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a big problem!!!! I had this interview and the interviwer was way too flirty. I tried to cut him off and canceled but he doesnt get it and keeps calling what should i do?????... (36 words)

Will it destroy a relationship if I tell a woman that I once was with a prostitute?

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6 July 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I have a friend who is disgusted that I have been with prostitutes before. She cried when i told her about it. And said that if I ever met a nice lady, and I told her, she would run. Is this true? Are most women disgusted with the idea of a guy having been with a prostitut... (177 words)

Just going through the motions

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6 July 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi there! I've never used anything like this for advice, but things have gotten to the point where I'll take it where I can get it. I've been dating the same girl for about 2.5 years now, and we live together. For the past several months I haven't been into the relationsh... (310 words)

Long distance relationship... Calling

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6 July 2010 (?) age 30-35 - Oky how do I start... I'm In a long distance relAtionship and I've known him for so long we have gone out when we lived near each other n braken up for lil stuff but know dat he has left we r trying to c how far we can get togetther. He had told me dat we could work stuff out ... (193 words)

How do you flirt without being obvious?

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6 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Is there any way to make him like me? I see him only at church. We like never talk but he always looks at me.. Is there a way to flirt with him without making it obvious that you are flirting? Thank you!... (46 words)

A month ago he proposed but now I'm thinking it was a mistake to say yes

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6 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, I've been with my boyfriend for about two and a half years. Earlier this year, I was relocated for my job and had to move about 2 hours north of where I lived with my boyfriend. The job is pretty demanding, but I try to visit him once a week. Lately, however, it ... (549 words)

My boyfriend lied about EVERYTHING... but I miss him.

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6 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So... I am 18 years old and I was dating a guy for about 3 years... in the last year of the relationship things started to go downhill. My parents started to not like him and neither did my friends... I felt amazing when I was with him... like his princess. Then a whole bunch ... (279 words)

I haven't dated in a few years because of my anxiety. What can I do to get back into the game?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5192 days ago

6 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello dear Uncles and Aunts. I have many questions for you, but I do apologize for the book I am about to write you. ;-)I'm a twenty year old college student wondering, "WTF is happening to me?!" Once upon a time, in the glorious land of high school, I had my sights set on... (684 words)

My boyfriend thinks his daughter is better than my son!

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6 July 2010 (F)

age - I have been dating a man for 1 1/2 years now. We have become best friends and now have fallen in love. We talk about living together for many reasons, first of all because we love each other and we spend so much time together. Secondly, financially it would help us both out ... (300 words)

Big crush on my husband's brother!

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6 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My situation is really messed up. I am married and I do love my life but I am bored. I have a big crush on my brother in law and I think he feels the same about me. I told him my feelings but he hasn't told me in words whether he feels the same or not; all his body language ... (148 words)

I'm in love but at the same time scared,,

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6 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi! Ok this is going to sound very long but I really need the advice! I'm going to be 20 years old in less than 2 months and I have never had a boyfriend before in my life! Let alone kissed a boy. Everytime I'm crushing on some guy, I think I'm in love with this person and ... (294 words)

False Security In A Facebook Love Letter

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

6 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so there is a guy that I've liked for a while who is about 5 years older than me. I've been crushing on him for over a year now and he has already graduated and is going to a grad school elsewhere. since he is no longer attending the same university i am and is possibly... (393 words)

She's a free spirit and wants to break up to devote herself to studies

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

6 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I live with my beautiful 25 year old girlfriend. We moved in together very rapidly, after only a month of dating to make our rent cheaper and because we are both extremely spontaneous. We live with a mutual friend and our living situation is surprisingly good. We get along ... (353 words)

Should I just delete him out of my life?

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6 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend just broke up with me about a week ago. Should I delete him off facebook? Should I take him out of my life? He says one day he wants to be friends, but all I see is him wanting to be around other girls. He doesn't have a lot of friends and wants to stay friends ... (77 words)

Boyfriend likes me to do things I don't really want to do

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6 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend likes me to do somethings during our alone time that sometimes I just don't particularly like but it's hard for me to say no, especially because I have done it a few times before when he had asked. I love him and don't want to hurt his feelings because I don't like ... (77 words)

I keep going back to him! What do I do?

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6 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and this guy started dating December of 08. We did everything together, we were practically attatched at the hip. He was my world. We had some problems with communicating and everything became too much and we broke up. I didn’t was heartbroken but I did. We tried to be ... (234 words)

Cold Spouse after sex

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6 July 2010 (F)

age - Married almost thirty years, have had our children early. They are all married. Recently, my husband has had a job change, and is trying to reinvent himself. I understand how difficult this is, and it has been going on now for about two years. My question: Lately, after ha... (105 words)

I cheated on her 3 years ago and now she doesn't believe me or trust me

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6 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I have been dating for 4 years now. During our first year of dating o cheated on her now she doesn't believe anything that I say I'm doing when I'm not with her!... (36 words)

Boyfriend is mad at me and I don't know what to do, help??

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6 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend have been fighting for a little while, i'd say a few weeks. he says that i am becoming distant because of my job which is understandable because i work most of the week. but when i don't work i'm always with him. he says i'm also changing because i'm ... (203 words)

Do you know when someone is right for you?

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6 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - How do you know if someone's right for you? Personally the idea of spending the rest of my life with any one person seems impossible, but at the same time, I really like the idea of settling down with someone and having kids. My brother, who knows me better than anyone, says he ... (100 words)

My boyfriend thinks that I was in love with my ex. which I wasn't how to I prove this to him?!

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6 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I really need help. I been a relationship for 2 and a half years lately my current bf has been asking questions about my ex. My ex and I dated for 3 months I broke up with him because he was trying to talk to someone else while being with me and he liked me more then I liked ... (283 words)

I lied to my b/f twice and now he doesn't trust me

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6 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 8 months now. I have lied to him twice out of those eight months. He told me he didnt love me, trust me , or even care about me anymore. He told me i needed to prove to him that i love him, care for him, and that im never going to hurt ... (71 words)

My male friend (also ex) is shutting me out!

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6 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I feel like my male friend is shutting me out and it's making me upset. He is also my ex-boyfriend, but we have been broken up for almost two years now. Obviously I had to stop talking to him for almost a year to get over him (he broke up with me, and was really angry with me ... (334 words)

Is this a good gift for a woman I care about but can't be with?

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6 July 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Very soon it will be the birthday of someone who is really special to my heart. The story is extremely complicated so I will cut it short and say that it is almost impossible we'd ever be together, and however we hang out sometimes and I have good reasons to believe that the ... (192 words)

My boyfriend grossed out because I dated guys of another race

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6 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so this is my first time talking to an expert about this. i can't talk to my family because all they ever do to me is yell,yell, and yell some more. also because my family and i aren't close. ok so the help and advice i need is about my relationship with my boyfriend (we're ... (456 words)

How do I deal with the jealousy after a breakup?

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6 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend just broke up with me. He said because he's a bad person, and isn't 100% into the relationship and personally, don't think hes 100% into me. He started running around with other girls. Especially this one girl who is one of his only best friends. He lied to me ... (147 words)

I felt disrespected by what he suggested, and now I'm getting the silent treatment

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6 July 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I an married to a 60 y/o man with ED. I am 44. We have toys and he uses them. We live in a travel trailer. We have this friend and we have been intimate with her like 4 years ago. We were swingers but we got out the lifestyle. We both agreed. To much headache and hassle. She ... (433 words)

Her parents changed their mind about letting me see her

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6 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been dating a 14 year old girl for over 2 months now. She is 3 years younger than me, but her parents claimed to not mind since they are 5 years apart. We talked every night and her father and I talk about Mustangs a lot since we both drive a shelby. We live 4 hours ... (168 words)

How can I get her to be with me instead of her LDR?

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6 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been seeing a girl with a bf for about two weeks now. we hang out everyday nd cuddle, flirt, and kiss. everything was going great until three days ago she said how we have to stay just friends because she feels bad about her cheating. So i told her i wasnt looking for a ... (154 words)

"Infatuated" and "Blinded by Emotion"...what does that mean?

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6 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, my question is...when someone tells you "your infatuated" what exactly does this mean? Also what does it mean when they say "your blinded by emotion"?? Please be descriptive and Thank You So Much !!... (37 words)

Broke up, got back together, but now his parents don't approve

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6 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so on June 20th me and my boyfriend had a break up. I said some very mean things to him out of anger and I have been doing that and treating him like crap. He finally broke up with me and it took him about 2 days after that to realize he wanted me back. We just started to ... (346 words)

I can not squirt!

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6 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi! My problem is no matter how hard I try I can not "squirt". I have been trying for 3 months now, practising, and trying, and doing it diffrent ways. I always use the bathroom before masterbating, and when I do masterbate while messageing my g-spot I get this "having to go ... (126 words)

Do "fat girls" ever get a chance?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5279 days ago

6 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I am 28 years old and been single my entire life. The only excuse that I have is that I am the "fat girl." I have tons of friends I work in a environment where I have to be outgoing and am. I go out almost every weekend. The guys that show interest tell me... (240 words)

I'm can't let go during sex since he hurt me

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6 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Sex with my boyfriend is always good, except there were times he accidentally poked my perineum, causing it to tear. What do you do to prevent that from happening? I talked to him about it and now sex became a little too careful because I can't fully let go. Every time when I ... (86 words)

My boyfriend never wants children but I do

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6 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - So my boyfriend and i have been together nearly a year and have been friends for 8. We recently had a chat about children I'm nearly 26 and he is 22. He comes from quite a large family and seems to have a wonderful bond with his nieces and nephew, he is so relaxed and in ... (223 words)

I'm not experienced at dating and don't understand this guy

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6 July 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I am very inexperienced when it comes to dating. I fell in love with a guy who told me he loved me and was interested in me for several years (we work together and met a few years ago). On the first date he told me I was a woman of his dreams and that he loved me. We have ... (464 words)

He's homeless with children but I'm attracted to him

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6 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - there is this guy I have known him for two years he permanent custody of his two boys who are 4 and 6 he is a decent man as far as being good to his woman but the only problem his he lives off welfare and has been in a homeless shelter with his children for the whole two years ... (141 words)

I just want to know what to think....does he care?

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6 July 2010 (F)

age - This Question is regarding an affair i am having with a married man,no judgements please.This affair has gone on for over 10yrs,we are both in our 60's now all children are grown up and married. What i am trying to work out is does this man have any strong feeling for me or do... (312 words)

How to attract men that are not involved?

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6 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello .... My question is how do you attract a man who is not involved in a relationship? And how do you let one you like but is involved go? We haven't slept together but we've kissed ... I don't want to be the other girl! He keeps approaching me and I try so hard to push him ... (96 words)

Is it better to live on your own or with a friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

6 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi guys, my apologies for this not being a question of love, rather a life matter, but I would really appreciate your advice. I currently live with my sister who just recently got a job and is moving to another country. I now have to decide to either find a place by myself or ... (131 words)

My boyfriend had too much fun without me...

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6 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi aunts. I have a little problem and I don't know where to go at this point. Well as we all know...yesterday was the 4th of July. So me, my boyfriend and a couple of friends and family went to see fireworks and stuff. It was a fun night..fireworks, firecrackers, being at the ... (341 words)

It upsets me that my bestfriend and my boyfriend spend so much time together when I'm away.

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6 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi.I've been living in Arizonia for pretty much this whole summer with my dad. I live in Texas with my mom during the school year though and go to school their. This summer I've started dating this guy and we're pretty close, but i havn't got to spend much time with him because ... (219 words)

Is she using me for a debs ticket?

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6 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok so I've known this girl for about two years but in the last maybe six months, bit longer probably, we've been getting really close, but we've got our debs coming up in September (more or less like the prom in America) and all my mates think she's just using me for a debs ... (345 words)

She likes to dance, I don't, so how can I enjoy clubbing with my friend?

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6 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have mixed feelings about going out clubbing. In a way, i enjoy it, as i love the music, especially in a couple of particular clubs that my friends and i go in, but sometimes, i dont like the crowds, although, sometimes i can tolarate it. I also hate it when men that i dont ... (287 words)

Where do I meet girls?

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6 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey..aunts and uncles, I just move to this area not too long ago. How is it that I can't seem to find anyone to be my partner in crime? I don't want many, i just want one, is that too much to ask? lol. I know that i'm out there and meet females but none seem to be interested... (112 words)

Is this girl serious, joking, is she not into me, or is this some weird teen love?

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6 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello all cupids and readers=)! Thanks for reading my troubles and it does mean alot your willing to give free time to help so thank you for being amazing. Well lets just say im not exactly the doctor of love and at that would be an understatement. So back on topic ha, so ive ... (609 words)

He refused to add me on Facebook, then made everything private, but still texts me!

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6 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - A boy who has asked me out (we have been out once so far)has refused to add me on facebook, and since I sent my request has made everything private. This is odd right? Is he hiding something from me or am I just being paranoid? He still texts me most days so I don't think he is ... (64 words)

Help me with my girlfriend and getting her to talk to me please!

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6 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Could someone please help me with me current situation with my girlfriend!? We've been going out for almost 3 months and everything has been going great! Until now! Recently she has suddenly stopped sending as many messages to me and when she does, they seem to only be one word ... (140 words)

How do I tell him things aren't going to work out?

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6 July 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been divorced for three years. Recently decided to date on line. Was just looking for a friend, but found a really nice guy. Three months after we started dating he found out he needed a bone marrow transplant. I visited him in Florida three times. It's been a year as of ... (131 words)

Does my friend like me more than a friend?

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6 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have this friend who I only really became friends with because of another friend. For the last few weeks I've noticed some things. He always picks on me. He does this to a lot of people, but he does it especially to me. He knows I don't like to have attention to me so he will ... (249 words)

If she'll ever come back...

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6 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - hello thanx for reading this. your advice will surely be appreciated. excuse some of my typing errors. now that my wife found out about my about five minute affair , my life has been hell. i wsa able to hav my position switch so now im home. alot more. i havent seen my ... (433 words)

What does his sperm count mean?

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6 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - me and my partner are both in our mid 20s are trying for a baby but hes been told hes got a border line to low sperm count does this mean we cant have children or do we need to try a bit harder plz plz help ... (48 words)

He cheated on me while I'm pregnant and now the other girl is pregnant too!

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6 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I need help to try and get peace with myself. I'm currently 7 months pregnant from my boyfriend who cheated on me a little over a month ago. This girl he went to meet up with in another town is now saying she's pregnant. He stated that he only did it cause he knew I was hiding ... (202 words)

Falling in Love with the " Other Guy"

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6 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I need help. I have been with my bf for over 4 years. We live together and everything. Our realtionship was perfect untill he cheated on me 6 months ago. I rightfully cheated right back on him and hooked up with some random. I thought I was over it, untill this last weekend I ... (155 words)

Long distance relationship trouble!

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6 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - This is a first and i'm not all that great about talking about my emotions etc so forgive me if this sounds terribly stupid. I've been with my girlfriend for 2 and half years, around a year ago she had to move away because her parents had been relocated for work. we kept up... (482 words)