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writes:I am a teenager and i was dating this guy i really liked. i met him a year ago and we were friends, we talked and stuff. so a couple months ago he finally asked me out because he trusted i wouldnt cheat on him since we lived a little ways away from each other.so we were dating and he started telling me he really loved me and i felt the same way.. so 2 days ago we broke up cause he didnt want to cheat on me cause there was another girl he liked and he said he had mixed feelings. well he said he really did love me and wanted to be with me but we dont see each that much. he said he doesnt want anything to change between us and he will always love me...He said that even if he gets another girlfriend nothing will change with us, he will still call me babe and baby, tell me how much he loves me, kiss me, hold me and wants me with him... and he said he knos its cheating but he wants to be with me and nothing change. so can you please help me, and tell me and give me some advice on wat to do about all this, please????
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reader, LuvDrunk +, writes (13 July 2010):
I know how you feel I'm about your age and i just started going out with a guy. But when I tell him I love him, i mean as a person, like i love my friends. There's a difference between love and in love.
Everyone wants to be loved but dont let him think that it's ok to do this to you, you can do better. Your gonna want him but he doesnt sound like he's worth the worry.
Say good bye and tell him that if he really did love you, you'd be the only one he'd want....I think he is a little confused about love himself.
Good luck with it....
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (13 July 2010):
 Sweetheart, what advice can we possibly give you- other than telling him to go jump in the lake ?
You guys are so young and are totally forgivable for making such a waste and a parody of important words like "love " and "forever"... but this is not love, this is the syndrome of the kid in the candy store : I'll have a bit of this, no wait, I'll have that instead, uh but this too looks delicious, then I'll have a bit of both , and then this and then that ". He is acting like the child he is : a greedy, spoiled child.
If you really need a boyfriend at your age ( which is debatable ) - choose and accept only a guy that is totally into you and you alone, without ifs and buts.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2010): I know that you love this fella, but you need to have some respect for yourself. He does not love you if he wants to see other people. You will find someone else you really appreciate you. If he loves you he wouldn't want to see other people. You are like a safety net for him, knowing that you will be there when he wants you
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