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writes:How do I impress girls at school. I can't seem to talk to them I get extremely nervous. Reply to this Question
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (13 July 2010):
 Nervousness will fade, but the most important thing is to practice... the more you put yourself in situations where you have to talk to girls, the better you'll get. Don't stay home and watch TV, go out with friends, maybe strike up a friendship with a girl who you aren't nervous around... that will do wonders for making you realize that girls aren't aliens, they can be just as nervous and human as you.
Best of luck :)
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reader, Kit-Kat  +, writes (13 July 2010):
Act confident! :)
you must think that girls are crazy sometimes and we think boys are from another planet sometimes but here is the things we like boys for
Look at a girl you like, wait until she returns your gaze, hold it for a couple of seconds then look away. it gives the impression you like her
Be really nice to her, by asking about herself. ask questions so she knows your interested and when she asks you about yourself, dont talk about yourself too much. but sound like your confident about yourself but dont over-do it because you can come across as arrogant.
but it also depends on the girl you like. is she isnt a very confident girl, or a girl who hasnt been out with a lot of people, she likes the guy to be shy and sweet for her. helping her out at school or at a club would be a great way to start talking to her, and you can help her out and compliment her if she is good at something
if you notice she has a new haircut or new make-up say to her that it makes her look really pretty.
your probably nervous about approaching her because girls usually travel together. try to talk to her in class, at her locker or ask to walk her to her next class. girls really like that. if you act too nervous then she will feel nervous herself and you two wont get anywhere, but if she is a nice girl she wont tell lots of people about your nerves, but when you are talking to her, show some nerves because this will flatter her and encourage her to talk.
i hope this all makes sense to you good luck :)
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reader, jodie-alice-x +, writes (13 July 2010):
 There is no need to be nervous, they are probably just as nervous as you, if not then more nervous.
You just need to build up your self esteem and look at the things that you have and can offer to a girl, but with no confidence a girl won't see what you won't show her.
And I'm not doubting for a second that you're a lovely lad, I think you are already just for being so honest about your problem.
Personally, I think you just need to pluck up some confidence and see where the future takes you, and I really hope it's somewhere nice for you.
All the best of luck.
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