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writes:I have been in a relationship with girl who lives in a different city we meet like three times. Most the time we would talk on phone.Last year we had break and then had patch up after three months. Now after six months, she suddenly came up tell me that she needed space from me forever…it was so abrupt that left me stunned. She was always said that she had the feeling I would be never able to give her financial stability since I was having odd job. Would anyone like to tell me that why did she dump …there is possibility that she might had found another guy which could have sounded better option for her than me? Reply to this Question
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (14 July 2010):
 Maybe she didn't find someone else but apparently she does find that you can't keep her as she wishes. Well, you can't change that, and if you could you shouldn't.
The simple advice is "move on". I know this is difficult. But you can do it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2010): Maybe she has found somebody else...if I were you, I wouldn't stay in contact with her nor would I allow her to contact me. How you start is how you finish (if not corrected).
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2010): Did you ask her if she found anyone else? I think the financial stability is a lame excuse.you are not her sponsor. women can earn money too. it sounds like the long distance thing was not working for her. maybe she felt insecure. did you have plans for the future to actually be together meaning one of you leaving your hometown? It'll be fair for her to give you an honest reason it is better to know for sure if she met someone else. it is unfair to keep you wandering. as it would be harder for you to put closure on the relationship and move on. maybe you should speak to her and tell her to be honest so you can move on.thats only fair.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2010): Don't take it so personally or try to figure out her reasons, which are for the most part just excuses and not the real truth.
The truth of the matter is you didn't have much of a relationship to begin with because of limited in person contact. Long distance and Digital media relationships do not work. Try to avoid them in the future and find a nice girl to date in your own community.
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