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36-40,
anonymous
writes:so me and my fiance have 2 kids. we just bought a house. but i am so unhappy. i cant stop thinking of my ex bf. i think about him everyday and every night before i go to sleep. i dream about him. i am absoloutly miserable with my current boyfriend i been with him for 5 years. all we do is fight. we barley make love. and we barley talk to eachother. only thing is he moved 3000 miles away to be with me. so am i stuck with him forever? do we work it out? i am not in love with him at all...it sux
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2010): This isn't just about you. You have two kids that you brought into this world and they deserve a happy home life with two loving parents who love each other.You need to both get to counseling to work on your communication skills, my bet is that you have some very bad relationship habits which are attraction killers and destroy love. Learn to change those patterns and you many just be feeling great about yourselves again.If after therapy and counseling things are still not going to work out, then seperate and file for child support, set up a court ordered visitation plan and spend your life shuttling the kids back and forth and for being stuck living in the same town until the kids are 18 to share custody.
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