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writes:Im really confused about myself. Im a girl who has been out with a few guys, and i really enjoyed being with them. Im single right now, and im really close with my friends. when we see some guys at the pool or playing football with no t-shirt on, i feel no attraction or feelings. i dont feel what my friends feel. they keep staring over at them and talking about them, but i wasnt bothered at all. I'm only into dark skinned and dark haired guys, and not into any other types reallywhen i went on holiday, i started to get confused. there were lots of guys that i liked but when i was by the pool there was a girl. i dont know why but i couldnt stop staring at her. i was confused if it was because i was attracted to her or i was looking at her bikini (girls assess what the others are wearing a lot). i kept looking at her legs and her face but unlike when i meet a guy i like, i wasnt fantasising about her or anything. help! im confused!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks guys :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2010): curiousity in even in the opposite sex is perfectly normal - its okay to look at either sexes and i don't think your bisexual, or atleast i don't think you should label yourself as bisexual just yet. Your still young and looking and experimenting is all part of finding out who you are and what you like ... so continue to look if you like it and we all have a type, whether tanned or casper looking guys/girls lol, doesn't mean anything except that you know what you like and you know what you don't. I think you are perfectly normal and heck, i'm not gay and i still find myself staring occasionally at angelina jolie's hot bod *drools* :) Tis okay what you are doing.
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reader, jodie-alice-x +, writes (13 July 2010):
 Darling, you don't have to be attracted to every guy. A lot of the guys my friends mention like 'oh, he is well fit' I will think 'well, no he really is not' but that doesn't instantly make me unattracted to males completely, maybe there is just not a lot to look at right now. I think your just at that funny age where everything looks really big, when it's just a small little thing right now.
And if you weren't attracted to this girl on your holiday then it can't have really meant anything, or you can't have felt anything for her either sexually or romantically.
You have nothing to worry about, it's perfectly normal to have a different taste in boys than your friends.
Keep your eyes peeled, there's always someone fit around the corner.
Best of luck darlin' -Jodie x
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