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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is it a "cop out" to cheat on someone and then not tell them what you did?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

26 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Posters Own Title: I've heard so often "I can't tell them I cheated on them b/c it would really hurt them." That seems so hypocritical to me. If this person was so concerned about "hurting" their partner, they probably wouldn't have cheated in the first place; correct? Does anyo... (107 words)

Has any one here had breast implants?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

26 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I was just wondering if any women here have had breast implants, and if so, do you have any regrets? I've been thinking of getting breast implants for a long time now, I've never been happy with mine. I am aged 24 and a small 32b cup, I would like to go up one size to a c cup. ... (125 words)

I have just seen a picture of a naked girl on his email....i don't know what to do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

26 July 2010 (?) age 30-35 - hey guys im so angry right now with my sweetheart, my love and only one boyfriend. i just seen a naked pic of a girl on his email address (deleted) and i dont know what action to take. plz help... (40 words)

Afraid to french kiss...! Help

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

26 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - well my bf tried asked me if he could kiss me and i said yes, i thought that was a normal kiss, not french, or tongue, when i went to kiss him i unexpectedly got some tongue, and i backed away immediately, it was really awkward, but i dont really know how to kiss and it scared ... (79 words)

She is sending out such mixed signals.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5248 days ago

26 July 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I have known a woman for going on 12 months now. We met via online dating. Everything was going great she was even talking engagement. But latley over the past month she suddenly says she doesnt know how she feels anymore she says she loves me dearly but doenst know if j... (125 words)

Do I need to worry about my boyfriends girl-mate?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

26 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I've been with my bf 5 months now and I know that isnt too long but I really feel strongly about him and things have been pretty perfect until very recently. He was staying over with me the other night when his friend called him up at 450am so he got up to answer it. As I... (217 words)

Why do I hate to have an orgasm?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

26 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - This is strange, can someone tell me why I don't like to have an orgasm? I enjoy sex enough, but hate to have an orgasm. It honestly does not feel good to me at all. My guy doesn't understand at all and thinks he is not satisfying me because he doesn't think it's possible to ... (59 words)

Do I wait for this guy? Is it worth it?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

26 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys! Right, here's the deal, met these group of friends a while a go, and one of them i had a bit of a thing with, but well it wasnt really anything, i wasnt attracted to him, it was just one of them things you go with, well that's passed now. The problem is, ive really f... (270 words)

I don't want to regret having his baby when he can't support us now.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

26 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi i just turned 28. i have two children that i love dearly an i been with the father of my kids for seven years. im the only one workin an has been for the last two years. my boy frend is a great father to his childrn, witch he has three, my 2 and an older child from a nother ... (240 words)

Problems with girlfriend, she puts her friends first all the time!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

26 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I really don't know if my problem is unique or not. Probably not but yet, i haven't seen any couples with stuff like this. So anyway, my girlfriend is really a great girl, i love her, i'm prepared to do anythin for her, we've been together for around a year. Everythings been ... (838 words)

Where and how should I meet up with the older man I'm falling for?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5177 days ago

26 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. I'm a 17 year old girl from the uk. I have been online dating since o was 16 because I felt like no one who actually knew me would ever want to get with me. I lost my virginity at 15 to a boy who was 19 and I haven't had sex since. About a year ago I met a man and we began... (206 words)

At 6 months, shouldn't he know if he loves my by now? Or am I rushing things?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

26 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok i need help! A bit of history is that my childrens father was a serial cheat throughout our 10 year long relationship, this ended 2 years ago. I t took me a while but i am now over it and feel really ready to move on. I dated a couple of guys previously but didnt get feel... (359 words)

What happened to the loving man I married?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

26 July 2010 (F)

age - My husband swears he is not having an affair, so why does he get defensive and over react to everything I say.? He also avoids making love, and recently has stopped even giving me a 'cuddle' when I ask for one.When I try to talk seriously to him about how insecure this makes me ... (78 words)

Up until a few months ago, he never mentioned money! I don't know how to react to the change!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

26 July 2010 (?) age 41-50 - (first of all I'm 19 not 26) My bf of 2 years never ever mentioned money or cost in front of me. Always he tells me "do you want something" and he buys me stuff and all and I always tell him to stop because he is spending to much money and he would always reply "I don't want ... (266 words)

For the guys... what differentiates between a one-night-stand girl and a keeper?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

26 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - This ones for the guys... what makes a girl decent for a one night stand? what makes a woman ideal for a relationship? What kind of girls would you consider only good for one night? i'm talking looks and personality. And why do you think that if a girl is dressed a certai... (85 words)

What do I do about the towel/tampons?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

26 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, this is entirely embarrassing for me so please don't laugh or leave a patronizing message. I'm 15 and have recently gotten with my boyfriend, we're fine and comfortable - everything that I expect from him. But even the best trust stops at periods. I'm supposed t... (145 words)

Do I i.m. him or ask him to hang out? What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

26 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I went to Panera and thought this kid Alex was hot, so I left him my number and he never called so I called him a week later and he explained how he had a girlfriend and he said to visit him and then I went to and a worker told me his last name without me asking. So I found him ... (324 words)

How do I get guys to look at me as more than just a one night stand?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

26 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so I'm a 18 years old girl, I consider myself as a okay looking girl but I do have a serious problem that just makes my self-esteem really low. I never had a boyfriend. Guys just aren't interested in me (except as a sexual object or something when I'm wearing sexy outfits) ... (277 words)

Why is he acting stupid and naive?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

26 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I don't get it. My boyfriend of two and a half years ended our relationship for silly reasons that are his to blame also. He said that I never did enough romantic events for him, I was to independent and didn't ask him to do everything for me, not that I would ask because he ... (442 words)

Can anyone tell me my legal consumer rights please?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

26 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I ordered a phone from T Mobile to upgrade my handset. I was told over the phone that I could try if for 7 days, if I dont like it that there was no obligation and I could just return it. I received the mobile and didnt like it so I called them to advise I wanted to return it. ... (207 words)

23 and always single...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

26 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Well, I have a problem. I am always the single girl. I've always been the single girl, always. Save for a few dates, I've never had luck with men. And I don't see that changing. Truth is, I've got an odd look to me that you either love or hate. I love it, and I hear from some... (272 words)

Jealous boyfriend...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

26 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - im in a weird position right now my ex still loves me, and is telling my boyfriend to break up with me cause he is dead jealous... he said if he doesent his gonna hurt my boyfriend.. and me and my boyfriend LOVE eatch other.. i dnt know what to do.. HELP!!! :( ... (53 words)

Can a person really continue on in a healthy relationship after they've cheated on someone?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

26 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Can a person really continue on in a healthy relationship after they've cheated on someone? Is it really possible to cheat on someone while in a long-term relationship, and later become engaged to them and marry, and have a healthy marriage? Is it possible if the cheater neve... (109 words)

I don't know what to do about staying with the cousin that I barely know...we were both abused by his late father...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

26 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok guys heres my problem . earlia on in the year i was sexually abused by my uncle . this led to months of depression and even a spell in hospital - as i couldnt deal with the aftermath of what he had done . well it turns out there have been other victims in the family .... (160 words)

How do I deal with my crazy neighbor?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

26 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - why is he (my neighbour) a complete psycho ok guys heres my story . i have a nasty neighbour who shouts abuse and like intimidates , bad mouths me and my family . it all began before i was born . basically he was rascist towards are indian neighbour and my farther stuc... (312 words)

Help Me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

26 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I like this guy. And to my knolledge we are dating. He is 17 and a virgin. im 16 and i am not. Ive dated him befor in middle school then he moved to Rome. He is back and i think we are together. Everytime we hang out its like he is the one. but when he is around his friends its ... (164 words)

Risk of diseases from anal sex

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

26 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey guys, whats the risk of diseases of doing anal sex? by the way im (13). My boyfriend (16) wants vagina sex but im not ready so we do anal and i want to know what risks there are of doing it? Im also really horney all he time and he wants me to have sex with him most da... (73 words)

He said we can't be together because we argue too much

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

26 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I been together for almost 3 years .But lately we have been arguing. For me the argument wasn't a big deal because it was a little argument.When he called me he told me that we can't be together because we argue alot but he told me he loved me to death.Do ... (94 words)

Ready to throw in the towel!!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

26 July 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I have known my girlfriend for 15yrs, we have been in a relationship for 6yrs. this month I asked the big question and bought her an engagement ring. My co worker family owns a jewelry store so i bought a second hand ring that has been appraised for 5k,(.69carat). she was so ... (173 words)

I'm falling for a guy who has a girlfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

26 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am single and have been for a long time (apart from a couple of very short and unsatisfying relationships). I hadn't fallen in love for three years until I met this guy recently at a party. As soon as we saw each other it was basically like love at first sight and we talked ... (224 words)

I love my fiance and her children but I just don't think this is going to work!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

26 July 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, This will probably be a long letter so forgive me in advance. My fiance and I have been together for 11 years. (with a 6 month breakup some 7-8 years ago) and have 2 children together that I love more than anything. For quite some time though I have been un... (792 words)

My boyfriend pays a lot of attention to our roommate!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

26 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I live together with two other roommates. Whenever the female roommate is around, he gets excited because she is usually at her boyfriend's house. He always tries going by her room to initiate conversation with her. Also, if it is just the three of us hanging ... (279 words)

Her parents want us to take a test to see if we had sex

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

26 July 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - MOD NOTE: All signs point to the fact that the poster cannot be 33. okay i had sex with this girl and her parents kinda know so now they want us to go take a test to see if we did and i never cum in her would they still find out?... (53 words)

I wanted to break up with him, but he did it and now I feel terrible!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

26 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Today me and my boyfriend split up. We had been together for 6 months. I have been thinking of ending it for a while as I have been really unhappy as he never tries to contact me and never went out of his way and never wanted to be together and only wanted to be together to be ... (369 words)

I feel like I should get beaten up to feel better!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5262 days ago

26 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - this will sound crazy and its sounds like I have problems I know I do, so some info on this is I want to fight someone really bad because of this girl. she drives me so crazy in a good way and we are just friends but I have made her feel bad and confused and overwhelmed, she ... (254 words)

So many lies and cheating going on! Is it even worth it to stay with her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

26 July 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife keeps filling me in about things she has done in her past as we go along in our marriage. Each time she hits me with something it is shocking to me and I do not know how to react, and then she throws a fit saying she can't trust me with the information. She has done so ... (791 words)

All her guys are friends and its hard for me to trust her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

26 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid, I am having very weird feelings towards my current girlfriend. She is out of the province and I can't help but think that she is going to cheat on me. I have been cheated on 5 times with my ex. So I can't trust anyone anymore. It bothers me because she is the girl ... (103 words)

How to people meet their partners if not in work or education?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

26 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - How to people meet their partners if not in work or education? I'm 22 and I have got one more year left in university. I do not want to rest my hopes of finding "the one" on my last year at university, moreover I'm doing a dergee which is considered male dominated and from pas... (138 words)

He's 3 steps ahead of me emotionally, how do I get to where he is?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

26 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Alright, so there is this PERFECT guy who likes me. I met him online and we went out on a date and he seems too good to be true. Personality wise. He opened doors for me, paid for the entire date, actually listens to what I say. He seems to actually like me. I'm used to... (190 words)

Married with feelings for another man...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

26 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Help....I'm married but have feelings for another guy....we used to be friends awhile back....he was there for me when my husband told me he wanted a divorce....but a month later I decided to give my marriage a 2nd try...now he has been avoiding me since.....but I know I have ... (75 words)

Should I revamp his ex-fiance's engagement ring?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

26 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been talking about getting engaged for the past few months and he has a simply gorgeous ring that his ex fiancee wore about 5 years ago. He says he wants to sell it and buy me a new ring but I really do love this ring. I'm considering suggesting that he ... (75 words)

What positions work to make sex last longer?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

26 July 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - how can i make sex with my husband for long ? what can i do to make him stay longer in sex not to finish soon as i want to enjoy? which styles will make us do sex for longer time,and how to make him need me all the time what will drive man crazy? as i want to be loved all the ... (77 words)

I want to attract my husband by sex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

26 July 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Can any body help me to make my husband keep an eye on me,as i want to attract him by sex but i dont know which way when we do sex he tells me that my sex drives him crazy i am the best in sex he loves my sex if so then why dont he feel like making sex he stays for more than 3 ... (90 words)

I feel like my photos are TOO good, and end up feeling self-conscious when attractive guys talk to me on my online dating profile. Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

26 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Four months after leaving my ex for cheating on me, I decided I'd go ahead and sign up with eHarmony, or try the online dating thing. There are several guys whom I've hit it off with, in addition to 3-5 requests for communication each week, many of these guys seeming to be ... (397 words)

He asked me out but doesn't act like he likes me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5262 days ago

26 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey...... this guy asked me out, i really like him but he doesnt act like he likes me even though all his frends say he really likes me alot!!! i dont know what 2 do i like him soooo much Please help... (49 words)

We didn't do anything so how could I be pregnant?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

26 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I come from a christian family and so does my boyfriend. We didn't have sex though. We both decided not to do anything that would ruin our stands as Christians. But I think I'm pregnant now.. One night I was spending the the weekend with him and his family. I sneaked down to ... (205 words)

I don't want to hurt my boyfriend or put a strain on our relationship, but I just wish he would understand that my grandmother does need me too

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

26 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My grandfather recently died, and now my handicapped, 88 year old grandmother is home by herself. She is of sound mind, and can take care of herself, but she does have a number of health problems that are managed by medicine. Both my grandparents kids died (my mother died ... (341 words)

B/f found out I slept with his friend while we were broken up, says its my responsibility to make him feel better!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

26 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I broke up with my boyfriend in January, we still loved each other very much, but we couldn't stop arguing and things just weren't working. When I broke up with him he got incredibly angry and cut off all contact with me. I didn't think I would ever hear from him again. Whil... (187 words)

Do you ever really forget your first love..

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

26 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I met mine almost 3 years ago, we were together for a year and a half, and yeah things went quite badly towards the end, he changed and what not. But it's been almost 2 years since we broke up and I still think about him every single day, I still want to see his name on my e... (90 words)

I want to know how to ask her about how she feels about this guy and not ruin the great friendship we have

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

26 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok so here's the story I about 1 or two months ago I met this girl at church. We started talking and we have become really goood friends. She knows about my life and I know about hers. I really like her nd I'm starting to have fellings for her but she told me she had a ... (133 words)

Improving my husband's sex drive?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

26 July 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid, Hello, this is a question about my relationship with my husband. How can we improve my husband's sex drive? We have been together for nine years and married for seven. The first two years of dating were fun and sex was great. It was strange though after we ... (321 words)

Paranoid about losing my g/f and now she has broken things off!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

26 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi guys, my name is James, where do I start? ok, so I have this issue, I have no idea where it comes from, basically I am not sure if it is low self esteem, low confidence, insecure, but I need help and I need help now, I am hoping someone can advise on where I can go for help, ... (295 words)

Sexual emails to ex could come back and hit me in the face

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

26 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok here my prob i sent some sexual emails to my ex boyfriend now he might use them against me by showing them to my parents etc which also can be used in court. reason why im saying in court because i'm pregant and he doesnt want to pay money towards his kid how do i stop hi... (140 words)

Girlfriend is secretive and stops me meeting her family

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

26 July 2010 (M)

age - I recently split up with a girfriend who is middle aged, divorced and has two grown up children. She had a 20 year marriage after which she seems to have had numerous brief affairs. We met and got on very well, including sex. But after a while I noticed she was secretive, c... (416 words)

Brother's illness really depressing me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

26 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - The reason i'm writing on 'Dear cupid' is because i feel like i need to talk things through with people who don't necessarily know me because all i do is cry when i talk about it with friends. So here goes... Last month my brother Jake was diagnosed with bipolar disorder... (274 words)

How do I introduce someone to the kinkier side of sex???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

26 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been in an intensely sexual relationship for 4 years... unfortunately things didn't work out and we parted. I have a new (lovely) man... seems slightly inexperienced in the bedroom, and certainly never practised any kinky stuff like I have done... how do I approach ... (67 words)

I tell little white lies to my guy and now there's no trust

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

26 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay,lets say i been tellin white lies to my fella for a while now. nothin serious,mostly related to the opposite sex. without goin 2 deep,we split up most times he thinks he finds out,he doesnt knowe,just thinks he has cos jealous people tell him cos they want him. my fella ... (178 words)

Is my partner correct to want me to ask for his permission to answer the phone late at night?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

26 July 2010 (F)

age - 22.15hrs I was having a talk with my partner about an important matter to us both. My mobile phone rang in the room next door, and he got up first to fetch it and brought it to me for me to answer which I did. It was a short message from a friend. After hanging up, I explained ... (119 words)

Wife's weight is becoming an issue...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

26 July 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I'm having a hard time figuring out what, if anything, to do or say about the situation with my wife and her weight. We're in our mid to late 30s. When we met about 5 years ago, we were well-matched. Both around the same height (I'm 5'9", she's 5'8"), and we both were nor... (770 words)

I feel like his sex doll! How do I talk to him about this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

26 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, I need your help please, I have been with my bf 4 months ago but I know him for a long time, I ve lost my virginity with him last year and we are having sex now after we came back together but the problem is that he doesn't care about me when we have sex, he only thinks ... (95 words)

Is this married man attracted to me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

26 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello everybody. There's the thing. I have recently started going to this new Café/Restaurant near my house and the male owner who is higly attractive started paying me some attention. He is married and has a kid, and I live with my boyfriend.The thing is he stares at me ... (143 words)

Does she like me or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

26 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok I'm 22 was in a four year relationship and broke it off due to trust issues in past. Well I started talking to this girl I known for about 4 years I told her I liked her and she said she did too. we have been talking for 2 months and I really like her we started holding ... (248 words)

Do I have a good penis length?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

26 July 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Do you think 6.75 non bone pressed is decent penis size? I increased the length with stretches (used to be 6. Here's the thing, do you think that's long enough or should I make it even bigger. I ask women for this question.... (49 words)

Did my friend say something to my boyfriend to make him change his mind about me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

26 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - A few weeks ago my friend shane told me that he fancied me and then last monday he asked me out. he told my friends that he loved me and everything and when we were together we were always hugging in a romantic way. but a few girls started to get a bit jealous and i was ... (234 words)

We have onlý been married for 9 months and I feel like we already need to seek help!

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26 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Married my husband after 2 1/2 yrs of dating (also dated in Highschool for 1 1/2 yrs). He and I are opposites in every way shape and form. It's starting to get hard to deal with because we have VERY LITTLE in common. I ask him to grocery shop with me, he says no. I ask him ... (253 words)

Am I doing things right after the break up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5262 days ago

26 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend broke up a few days ago. At first I was writing him facebook messages, only 3 saying how I felt and I needed separation. Since that day I havnt been talking to him. I've been trying to get out of the house so I wouldn't think about him because I miss him. I ... (146 words)

I love my boyfriend and our life together, but why should I pay for his friend's mistake?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

26 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend is planning on proposing to me next month. We live together in his house, with his two kids who I love dearly. Here's the problem - his best friend is 31 years old, and just got a DUI and will be losing his license and will have to pay thousands of dollars in fees ... (334 words)

I've learnt my lesson! But now I'm pregnant and don't know which man is the dad

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

26 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok so im pregnant they tell me 8weeks, but i would like to know how do i work it it on wich day did i get pregnant? because i had intercause on different days with 2 different persons! i had the first one on 7 june and second one on 24 june my period is on the 5 but did not get ... (114 words)

My soon to be ex wife wants us to be friends and have sex...but part of me thinks it is wrong. What do you think?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

26 July 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - My soon to be ex wife has very firmly indicated she wants to have sex with me and keep me as her fuck buddy while she is single and has "the need". The irony of this is, she almost never asked for sex during our marriage, and in fact, the lack of intimacy and passion is a big ... (361 words)

We're trying for a baby...what do you think? Could I be pregnant?

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26 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - PLEASE NOTE: i have submitted this question previously but it seems my question was misinterperted by readers as they seem to have made the focus on my age, as i made a mistake by not making it obvious that i am NOT 16-17, i am 20, as this is my sisters account. :) I was... (361 words)

Questions about sex and our marriage....

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26 July 2010 (?) age 41-50 - hi everybody.; 1. tell me what is masterbating? i am 6 years married and have 5 years baby...1 year ago a miscarriage and d.n.c. .;..now we want baby but alas....i always enjoy sex but my husband come soon and cannot have orgasm.;some people says you should not go for pee afte... (108 words)

Do I just sound malcontent in general? What's wrong with me?

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26 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm wondering whether any of you are in my current situation? I don't really discuss this with anyone in my life, because I'm quite embarrassed by it. I'm in my late twenties and for the past nine years, I have worked in offices. I've worked in a variety of roles, so... (1198 words)

Wife wants to leave because of no attraction.

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26 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My wife of 2 years (together for 7) has lost her attraction to me over the course of 2 weeks. I have always done everything for her, been very attentive, the sex is great and i've never done anything to hurt her. She went on an education trip to Japan and when she came back her ... (209 words)

Is my boyfriend's behaviour getting weird?

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26 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Would like to get some opinions on whether my boyfriend's are normal We have been together for 2 months. He only kissed me lightly on the lips ONCE and most of the time he wanted me to neck him and to stroke his penis. There were also times when he will stick his hand into my... (170 words)

Does he really love me?

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26 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i'm in love with this boy and he claims he loves me back but he is the player type and i think he says this to any girl he trying to get with at the moment . ( he's liked me for 3 years ) but still i don't know whether to believe him or not . any advice ?... (60 words)

He wants to go on a break!

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26 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been going out with my boyfriend for over a year. he is 6 years older than me. iam 20. he lives on his own with a housemate while i live with my parents and study full time. this is my final year and because of that, i have a curfew during the week, iam allowed to see ... (428 words)

I'm still married to the man that molested my daughter!

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26 July 2010 (F)

age - I am married now for 33 years. I thought i was the luckiest woman alive! Happy family 3 sons and a daughter and a wonderful husband. A year ago i found out that my husband molested my daughter since she was 3 years old. She is now 25. She is currently busy with her... (472 words)

24 (almost 25) and has never had a boyfriend!

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26 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - ok,I'm a 24 year old female almost 25. I've never had a boyfriend, and I've never had sex. Lately I've been depressed because I feel I have a good personality, and should have found some one by now. I have always been a tom boy. I am obese, but I'm 5'9 so I'm not to the p... (368 words)

I still love her, and sometimes we talk like friends, but she kissed another guy and really hurt me

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26 July 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Okay so, right now I'm devastated because of just one girl, just one girl. It al started around January 28 I was with this friend on facebook and I received a friend request, at first I had no idea who it was, but then I found out she was from my school, one year younger. So I ... (895 words)

My boyfriend deleted his Facebook profile! Was this because or me or because he doesn't use it?

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26 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - This is gonna sound silly but I recently changed my profile status on FB to "in a relationship".. i didnt say who i was in a relationship w/ even though my bf is in my friends list. So today i changed it to him..and it said it was gonna send a confirmation. So i was on facebook ... (247 words)

Still in love with her despite my broken heart.....

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26 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My girl had been talk to a guy for the pass 2years and said its just her friend. i dont mind it at all but he texts her and calls her a lot i ask iher if is something going on between them she said no. Until today she told me she has stong feelings for him but dont love him ... (180 words)

I am 17 going on 18 and still haven't had a girlfriend! I am feeling bad, what should I do?

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26 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I am 17 year old guy and i am going to be 18 in 10 months and when i look back i never had a real girlfriend actually first one i had when i was 8 and our relationship lasted just 2 weeks long. Since then i just had dates which were just happening once and i never had more ... (320 words)

Should I be happy or embarrassed by this incident?

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26 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I was playing around on my computer, my window is open (it happens to open right onto our front porch), and all of a sudden my brother is right outside of it; needless to say i was scared all to hell. my dog starts barking, i tell her to shut up, he tells her to shut up and ... (578 words)

Does anyone have any knowledge or experiences with depression, OCD or anxiety disorders?

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26 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I was recently diagnosed to have Anxiety and Depression disorder. Because of my great extent of Depression I was referred to a psychiatrist where she also mentioned something about OCD, which I believe falls under an anxiety disorder. I am currently on medication, however I ... (752 words)

Why do I feel like my husband doesn't want to have sex with me?

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26 July 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - hi, i am over tense as i feel my husband dont like to make sex with me can you please help me understand this? is this because i am not attracted to him? or any other reason? he dont even touch till we have sex nor he feels like touching me nor say sex words why? he says he ... (96 words)

How can I show him my good side?

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26 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - How can you convince someone you're not as they think ? Well i have a problem the father of my baby thinks im dull, boring, that im a bitch that always asks stupid questions and that i never know what to say. Yes im not perfect but im sure im not that bad. I do have a temper, ... (177 words)

She waits for Marriage...And me?

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26 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok. Here's the deal. What I like to think is, "I don't wait for marriage to lose my virginity, I wait for love" I've been dating this girl for a year now. And I brought up sex. She says she wants to wait til marriage and insists on that. It's a good plan or idea and everyth... (120 words)

Help my heart catch up with reality. Please.

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26 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Wow, it's weird to call him my ex. We were together 4.5 years ( just after I turned 18) and I loved him so much. I still do. We broke up in march. 2 days after I found him in bed with someone else. " we were only kissing, no sex..." does not matter. It's cheating all the same. ... (294 words)

My boyfriend wants sex and I don't know what to do?

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26 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend is 16 coming 17 and he asked me to have sex. But it really wasnt sex cause he licked me and fingered me and we did it in a ass. But he asked me to do it in the vagina and i dont know how to say not yet. i dont want it there yet because it might hurt too much! but ... (77 words)

Is it love?

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26 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, I'm hoping someone can shed some light on my current issue. A friend of mine (we'll call him person A) met this person over the internet. They fell in love, and I (person B) was supportive of my friend as I was told of this person he met (Person C). Anyway ... (725 words)

Interracial couples. Black man, white female. What do you think about that?

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26 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - How many people are really against Interracial couples, especially those of which consist of a white female, and a black male. I (hear) many white males became completely unattractive to the woman, or would never want to have anything to do with the female, if he knew she w... (387 words)

Friends or lovers? does he like me as a friend or is it something more?

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26 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey boys I’m gonna try and make this quick but this is the situation: I had this male friend and we were friends for a couple of months…about 5 I wanna say. Then he admitted to liking me but it was long distance all along and he had quite a few issues going on at home and drug ... (376 words)

I've let things go too far with my married former teacher, how can I change things?

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26 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I am currently in a relationship with my teacher from high school, though I am no longer in high school. I am almost 20 years old, and I think I have fallen deeply for this man. I can tell him anything, and we talk for hours about nothing and everything. He is my first and ... (212 words)

Ladies, can you shed some light on what a "special friend" is?

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26 July 2010 (M) age 41-50 - Throughout my life, at any given time, I have my guy friends who I hang out with, friends who are girls who I have casual conversations/flirt/hang out with, and then there is one special girl who I am open with and want a relationship with. The players change, but not the ... (181 words)

How I can get my boyfriend to respect me more?

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26 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys I've been struggling with this for a while.. My boyfriend doesnt respect me. Its hard because I moved in with him a while ago and due to some circumstances I have nowhere else to live. The other day he posted about 9 posters of girls in tiny bikinis with massive boo... (466 words)

Can I get into trouble for dating a 17 year old even if we have no intention of any sex whatsoever?

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26 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone. I'm 20, my gf is 17 and lives in California. I know the age of consent in California is 18, and this is no issue for either of us. We have talked about sex and neither of us want to go there yet, we both understand and respect both the law and each other. Howe... (198 words)

Why would he go on 2 dates with me and have sex with me if he wasnt at least somewhat interested in me?

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26 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have had a huge crush on this guy for the past 2 years. I am unsure if he likes me at all...we went on 2 dates (I asked him) but nothing seemed to come of it. I was at a 4th of July picnic at his house. He was flirting with me and asked me to stay and hang out after ... (269 words)

How do I know if I satisfy my wife?

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26 July 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - How did i know that my wife is satisfied with my penis .what is the activities of a girl when she is satisfied during sex.... (25 words)

My best friend: to date or not to date?

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26 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - So I posted this question but got no answers. So here it is again. Hey y'all. Sorry I haven't been giving advice too much lately, I just haven't been online too much this summer. Anyways, I'm having a little emotional dilemma. My best friend is a woman. Our relationsh... (513 words)

The situation has escalated with my ex so much that it has ended up in court! I never wanted it to be like this.....

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26 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so my ex boyfriend and I of 12 months broke up in march because some girl answered his phone acting like she was having sex with him when I was states away. We stopped talking and I was upset so I ignored him when he tried getting back with me. I met another guy and I have ... (460 words)

I need hope for my date on Tuesday

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26 July 2010 (M)

- Listening to my sister and mom go on about relationships makes any prospect of a fufiling relationship sounds hopeless. I'm feeling down. I hear this soundtrack all the time and it seems everyone is in a bad relationship and it would be foolish to kid yourself otherwise ... (226 words)

My friends, family and kids don't like the man I love and they refuse to get to know him!

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26 July 2010 (F)

age - i am a divorced 50 year old mother of 3....am in love with a man that no one, my kids, my ex or my friends like, even thought they refuse to get to know him. what do i do?... (40 words)

When men say “do what makes you happy” do they really mean it?

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26 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - When men say “do what makes you happy” do they really mean it? For a example - I asked my boyfriends opinion about dying my hair… ‘cos he said he loves my hair, and I wanted to be sure he’d be okay with it. I wasn’t asking his permission, just wanted to know what he thinks… ... (118 words)

Is having sex with him going to ruin our perfect relationship?

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26 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - - dating for months -feel comfortable enough (i've been shirtless in front of him and felt totally comfortable) -he told me he loved me first. and he respects that i want to wait (he's not a virgin, i am) -we had the chance to have sex when my mom was out, but he said he want... (360 words)

Does he really love me or is it because I always help him?

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26 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I'm 23 years old and I have a friend of mine who's 26 years old we've known eatch other for almost a years.He lives in a different country from where i live whenever he got a problem i always be the first person for him to be contacted.The other day he ask... (120 words)

Are there any safe ways to remove unwanted hair at home without expensive tools?

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26 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i have hair on my stomach and my back. having hair in my armpits, legs and you-know where is normal, i know. but it's summer and i want to wear bathing suits and go to the beach and not feel like people can see the hairs. is there any SAFE way to take the hairs off, at home. ... (61 words)

The intimate details of my past partners are hurting my gf

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26 July 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - A few months ago, my girlfriend and i started dating. before this happened, we were friends for almost 2 years. Things are great, for the most part, if it wouldnt be for 2 things. 1- we live 1000 miles away from one another, i just recently was able to go and see her for ... (587 words)

WHY does he flirt and talk dirty? I give him all the sex and love he needs!

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26 July 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I give my husband all the sex and love he needs, but for some reason he always flirts and talks dirty to mutual friends, family members and w/ me all the time. His topics are always about sex, please help me to understand WHY?????... (48 words)

We are either the perfect couple, or we are in a fight leading to a split. Is this normal?

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26 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My relationship seems like its really up and down. We are either the perfect couple, or we have a fight where one of us wants to break up. But the thing is that each time its a new fight, so once we fight we don't fight about that same topic again, it seems to be done. Is ... (95 words)

Would you care if if your boyfriend was circumsized or not?

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26 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, a few weeks ago i had the opportunity to have sex with a girl for the 1st time, but i held out...because I am un-circumcised and was afraid of what she would think because i know most people are circumcised and i know she had been with a couple other people in the past who ... (82 words)

You have to have some rainy days to enjoy the sunny ones?

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26 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello all . Today I had a vision . shall we say . and I want to know if any girls or guys of any age would agree with this . and some would even say this is the way it always happens. Ive always always always said . I have to be physically attracted to a woman to be ... (388 words)

Did I really choose my boyfriend over my best friend? And If so why is that bad?

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26 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Did I really choose my Boyfriend over my best friend? And If so why is that bad? Soo, My Friends (Guys) and My Boyfriend have a very .... Crud sexually sense of humor sometimes. They know how to joke around and so do I. Sometimes we'll be joking around he'll slap my bu... (250 words)

21 year old virgin loser, never been kissed by a sober guy!

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26 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi im a 21 year old female virgin (almost 22 soon) i never had a real relationship and i never been on a date... i have madeout with guys but everytime ive been kissed was by my guy friends who were drunk/horny. i imagine that since they were drunk their vision got f-ed up by ... (199 words)

I'm in love wth one of my best friends, but she doesn't feel the same way.

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26 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been tottaly in love with my one of my best friends (female) for quite a while now but i know she dosent feel the same way about me, what should i do ?... (35 words)

Should I tell him I love him back? Or should I wait for him to tell me when he's not drunk?

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26 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Last night my boyfriend and I got home late and pretty drunk after a party (though he'd had more than me). He tends to be a lot more free in expressing his feelings when he's had a few drinks and after talking emphatically for a while about how open, kind and beautiful I am, he ... (188 words)

Love sick? I might be talking about sex with this guy to make him happy and so he wouldn't lose interest!

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26 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I really like this guy and we have talked about having sex but i think i might have just been saying this to make him happy and so he wouldn't decide that im not worth his time. Now he wants to hang out alone and stuff but i keep making up excuses to get out of it. Keep in mind ... (257 words)

Why did she stare at my penis area for so long??

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26 July 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Hey guys and girls, has anybody ever seen a girl completely stare at the location of your penis buldge before?(for at least 10 seconds) What does this mean? Is the girl trying to see the size of my penis through my pants(is that possible?) Its just odd because Ive never ... (56 words)

My marriage and my husband are boring me to pieces, what can I do, give up??

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26 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My God. The boredom I am feeling these days is unrelenting. Well - I have been married to my husband for 2.5 years and we dated for 10 months before that. We were BEST OF FRIENDS and we got along famously. I've had better bedbuddies - but I thought that maybe that would ... (392 words)

He seems confused, he loves me, he doesn't, any suggestions as to why??

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26 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been dating this guy for over a year now and he says he doesn't love me, but the strange thing is he said " i love you" first, so finally I got the courage to ask him why he doesn't love me anymore, and he said it's because we had sex to early! he thinks that's why I'm ... (66 words)

I suspect something happened between her and her stepfather, she denies it, what now?

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26 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - well i have been dating my girlfriend for about a year and 4 months. but i have an issue! i was on the phone with her yesterday and she lives with her grandparents. but she has to go up to her moms house to take care of the dog. and she was taking care of the dog when her step ... (219 words)

Can women determine genital size just by looking at a guy??

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26 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Can women tell if you are well endowed just by looking at you or a part of you? Or what are some things women look at on a guy to try and guess what size a guy is?... (39 words)

We are friends, had sexual encounter, don't want to lose him, suggestions?

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26 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello Dearcupids, I hope you can help me out on this situation! Last night I went on a night out with a very good male friend of mine. We don't see each other very often but chat online daily - I would actually consider him to be one of my best friends. We're close and get on... (974 words)

I had a dream about this married man, who I love, need help with understanding the dream??

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26 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - This question is going to be a short one. I had a dream last night and I dont really understand quite what it means. I was dreaming about this guy that I'm in love with, he is married,in my dream he got divorced. He left his wife after a year of marriage. In real life he doesnt ... (77 words)

I need help with my marriage, too many changes. any suggestions?

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26 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am experiencing some extremely ridiculous conflict with my husband, and am deeply confused by this, perhaps because it is a very odd argument. So, I would appreciate some insight. Thanks in advance. My husband and I have always had a roller coaster of a relationship...w... (378 words)

He's bisexual, but I love him, how do I get over this love?

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26 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am absolutely in love with my best guy friend, but I really can't be. I've had strong feelings for him for about 3 years now and at the beginning of the year I told him how I felt. The problem comes in because I told him that I wanted to lose my virginity to him. He agreed ... (166 words)

How do I walk away from this married man?

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26 July 2010 (F)

age - hey all. am madly in love with a married guy and hate myself but cant walk away. how do i walk away?... (22 words)

I guess he is the one who got away!

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26 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - dear everyone, this is a strange story.. I met my ex-boyfriend through a mutual friend. We were very young. I was 17 and he was 19. We started dating and broke up after a month because.. we were just too young and lived 2 hours away from each other. We always remained g... (488 words)

All I want is to meet somebody! Will I be alone forever?

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26 July 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm 30 years old and a single father. I've been single for four years now. I'm not good looking - some might say I'm ugly and although I'm not fat I don't have a great body. My ex cheated on me then walked out on me and my kids for another man. Since then I've had two short ... (229 words)

What if I'm just the rebound from his ex? And I broke up with my boyfriend for him? Help!

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26 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey Guys. Please read everything and give me advice! Ive been with this guy for about 7 months. We are very much in love. No doubt on that! We lost our virginty to eachother.. But about 2 days before me and him had gotten together he broke up with his ex. Because he moved to... (386 words)