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*abygirlteenlove
writes:Hello, I have a problem with one word that teenage girls go through and that's the word UGLY!!! I'm 5'2, brown hair and eyes, I have and average size body and I'm black. But even with that information I'm still called ugly. Everyday I get talked about the way I look, dress, talk, walk,etc. Every where I go I see everyone with someone special in their life and I just want to have some one too. How do I get to be beautiful like these girls I see? Do I need to change my look? Should I lose weight? Should I gain weight? She I dye my hair? What should I do about my feeling of being ugly? Someone please help me.
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reader, babygirlteenlove +, writes (13 July 2010):
babygirlteenlove is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thank u with your help, ill jus try to b more confident in myself then listen to others. This actually did help me thanks
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reader, Jeseh.  +, writes (13 July 2010):
 You need to be confident about yourself for everyone is beutiful in their on way.
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reader, Kit-Kat  +, writes (13 July 2010):
I used to feel like i was ugly and boring and had no idea how to dress. i have a best friend who gets all the attention from guys and she was asked to model for her hairdresser which got published in a magazine.
I wanted a fresh start so i got a completely new hair cut, experimented with make-up and saved up and bought some new clothes that i wouldnt have got the guts to wear before. I was changing myself so I would feel good about myself and it worked, i feel much more confident. I dont get all the attention from guys but i feel good about myself and thats more important.
But dont change completely because thats changing what you are to suit other people, and you would be more unhappy that you have to be someone else for people to like you and accept you. As for having someone special, its better to be with someone you really like even if it takes longer to find someone, than being with someone just for the sake of going out with someone. My advice is look in magazines, the internet for different clothes. youtube has clips of people experimenting with hair and make-up which can give you ideas.
I'm from the UK and there is this man Gok Wan who woman adore. Google him, because he takes the least confident woman and helps them a lot, and gives free tips. You may have someone like that in the states but look for him anyway.
As i said, enhance yourself, make yourself feel better about the way you look, but dont go changing who you are just to fit in. I hope this helps :)
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reader, sara1931 +, writes (13 July 2010):
 Don’t change a thing. When you find the right person, you want them to love you for who you are. If you are happy with the way you look and dress then you just need to be confident and proud. If someone says you are ugly they are just trying to put you down so they can feel better about the way they look. Don’t let the jealousy and criticism of others change how you feel about your self.
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reader, Elydiese +, writes (13 July 2010):
I'm sorry this is how you feel but ctually what you have to do is accept who and what you are people who say you are ugly are worthless scum and only say it because they have no self confidence and take it out on others
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reader, americanchild +, writes (13 July 2010):
'beauty is in the eye of the beholder' you just havent found the right person, whoever is meant to be yours will love you for who YOU are. i never thought i'd get a boyfriend, i'm overweight by a hell of a lot. i'm 12 stone and 5ft 2 and the guy that im with loves me because of me not because of the way i look. everyone is pretty.
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