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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Do I love him or am I just settling?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5273 days ago

15 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - So here is my story, I am 26 years old and my boyfriend of two years is 38. I am well educated, as are all my friends. My boyfriend , however, is a complete opposite. He never went to college and he has a really bad job that doesn't pay anything. However, he is a great ... (140 words)

Is it right that he leaves me hanging like this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5273 days ago

15 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My long distance boyfriend and I meet over the internet to talk. We had a huge row about a week ago, and we didn't talk for about a week. Then yesterday we got to talk again and things were fine. I had my hopes up that things were going better between us. Because of the time ... (225 words)

How to be myself again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5273 days ago

15 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Today I did something that I didn't want to do. I broke up with my girlfriend. We aren't officially broken up though. We just got into a really bad argument and so she didn't want any major decisions being made while we are emotional. I broke up with her because I don't know ... (319 words)

What to do? I'm in love with my best friend's brother!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5273 days ago

15 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I am SOOO crazily in love with my best friend's brother he's smart, cute, kind, funny and loves to talk to me! Plus-he's totally single! However I'm too shy to talk to him partly because he's a year and a bit older than me and because of what my friend might think. Plus we ... (118 words)

Questions on birth control...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5273 days ago

15 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi , these questions are probably fairly simple to answer but I just thought I'd get some absolute answers , thanks =) My first question is basically my boyfriend and I use condoms every time we have sex , I'm also on the pill. Is this a really realible way of birth control... (138 words)

Why the sudden change???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5273 days ago

15 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend suddenly changed today. Everything was great last night when we were hanging out and I had done nothing that could upset him but this morning he stopped touching me, seeking me out or anything and he seems down or distant with me when I talk to him. I asked him if ... (128 words)

Dr. sent me home to rest I was very ill but b/f went out and left me alone and didn't even check up on me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5273 days ago

15 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I just want some opinions on whether I have the right to be annoyed with my boyfriend or whether I am being a typical girl and overreacting. Ive been with my partner for almost 3 years and we live together and are both in our mid twenties. The other day I was submitted to... (226 words)

Should I go to a place I hate for a girl I like not even knowing if she'll be there???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5273 days ago

15 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok so in camp we are going on a field trip to a place I hate, but the girl I like might go but I don`t know if she is becasue I can`t ask her becasue she left camp and as far as I know is coming back. If I go and she goes we might get to spend time together but thats not ... (126 words)

Losing control...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5272 days ago

15 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Right okay I think my friend needs help! She fancies her teacher (who is about 32) and she is only 15 :S don't get me wrong, he's a really nice guy but she thinks it's turning into love! It's just the way he talks to her and his sence of humour and how he is always looking out ... (112 words)

My wife has just given up on us

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5269 days ago

15 July 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife of 9 years (partner of 11 years)said she is emotionally numb after our last fight. We have 2 children boy and girl 7 and 5. We have had our fare share of fights but always seemed very much together. Our sex life was ok. She never had much drive but we maintain... (253 words)

Is my boyfriend hiding something?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5272 days ago

15 July 2010 (?) age 36-40 - I have my boyfriend's e-mail password because I helped him apply for jobs. He gets Facebook notifications of messages and wall posts sent to him to his e-mail. Today he mentioned that because he gave me access to his e-mail, he changed his Facebook settings so that I wouldn't ... (175 words)

Is he really willling to wait for sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5273 days ago

15 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating a guy for a month now. We fancied each other before he had the courage to ask me out. I have spent weekends with him and we seem to get on. Within a fortnight, he asked me to be his girlfriend. He has just asked me to meet some of his family, as his parents ... (138 words)

Please help me cope after my breakup...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5273 days ago

15 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I need help :( Recently, my boyfriend finished with me.. We've been with each other for 14 month. I thought i would be able to get my head around it all and move on, but i cant. I love him and i think it will be hard trying to move on, after everything we've been through.... (72 words)

My best friend's bf kissed me plus, what should I do now??

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5183 days ago

15 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My bestfriend and I were supposed to hangout. It was gonna be her and her boyfriend me and my friend Brent. Her boyfriend was driving us. Both Brent and my bff had to cancel to do something else so me and her bf decided to just go hang at the mall together. We hung out for ... (106 words)

He has problems, borrows my money, has fits of anger, is this worth it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5273 days ago

15 July 2010 (F)

age - Wondering if my boyfriend is going to be worth all the trouble he is causing. He's been in jail because his xwife lied, in court, about him sexually abusing his kids. He's had addictions up until a few years ago which have also gotten him in trouble with the law, and made it ... (257 words)

I lied about my age to my bf, should I come clean?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5273 days ago

15 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - when me and current flame started talking, i never thought things would get as serious as they have, and i deffinitely did not think they would last past a week or two. he was 2 years older than me and very very mature so i was worried since i was younger he would lose ... (153 words)

Why do my gf's stories change over time, is she hiding more??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5273 days ago

15 July 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I am having issues with my GF of 10 months gradually revealing things to me that are a bit worrisome. She has gradually increased the extent of stories about her romantic and sexual past. Guys that she once said she never touched, suddenly became guys she made out with and ... (221 words)

How do I get my bf to be more protective of me??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5273 days ago

15 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear cupid, I really want my boyfriend to be protective over me.. I know it sounds stupid but I really want him to be the protective type, He doesnt really stick up for me much like when other boys try to hug me he doesnt really care too much , but how do I get him to stick up... (71 words)

Only been with bf six months, have clymadia, how do I tell him??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5273 days ago

15 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi ive been with my boyfriend for 6 months now, i recently had a smear test done ive had urine tests before and nothing showed at all but now I have clymedia and i have no idea on how im going to tell this to him, i have no idea where i got it from! ive only been with him but ... (96 words)

Should I feed neighbor's baby, I am lactating??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5265 days ago

15 July 2010 (?) age 36-40 - hello reaers i am lactating, so my neighbours left their baby to me to look after for 4 hours,bcos they were going for a movie, she told me to feed if needed, my neighbour knew i am producing milk, i would like to know whether i can feed my breas milk or not. next time. i ... (111 words)

On again, off again bf needs time, hanging with new girl, what do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5273 days ago

15 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so i met this guy almost two years ago, and we have been off and on, and im usually the one that breaks up with him, but he says he loves me and he acts like he does, but 2 weeks ago i broke up with him cause he was going to a new school, and he had new friends that never ... (209 words)

He calls me fat and a bitch, stress over money and other things, any suggestions to peace??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5273 days ago

15 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 26 years old and I have been married for 2 years now and have been together with my husband for almost 4 years now. We have had plenty of split up and make ups. I have a 6 year old son from a previous marriage and my husband and I have a 5 month old together. I have gained ... (677 words)

I thought we had a deep love, now he's gone, think he'll come back??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5273 days ago

15 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello Everyone, i would like to ask your opinions even though i already have my idea of this whole. A week ago i broke up with my boyfriend of 7 months. I know it was not a long time, but we were friends, very close friends before, so we knew each others characters and we... (713 words)

No intercourse, regular period, but could I be pregnant

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5246 days ago

15 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Nearly two months ago, me and this guy were fooling around...he fingered me and there was a chance he could have had sperm on his hand. So, I went to get the morning after pill within 24 hours, no problems. My period came a few days early due to it but was completely normal. My ... (87 words)

How do I get my friend back after this??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5273 days ago

15 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - So I have a female friend who I've known for 3 or 4 years and who got engaged about a year and a half ago. When I first met her I had a huge crush on her, but as she was always unavailable I pretty much accepted just being her friend simply because we got along so well. We ... (533 words)

Will he go back to this other woman???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5273 days ago

15 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and i met when we were 15 and 16, we had our first child than and a year later we married. through most of our marriage i seeked out attention from other men, so in turn lead my husband to not trust me. About 1 year and a half ago i left him because i thought ... (294 words)

Does my man fancy me at all???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5272 days ago

15 July 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Does he really fancy me? Hi! My fella is a typical man of few words - and doesn't like to show his "emotional" side! - I have often wondered if he really fancies me at all. Anyway - today I asked him what attracts him to me - thinking he would say something like because... (157 words)

Was I wrong to have sex with him so soon?

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15 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i am in a relationship with a guy from last 3-4 months but i knew him from last 4 years. we were in a relationship some 4 years back but then it was just a childhood fling types. now we indulged in a serious and committed long distance relationship he comes to meet me. once i ... (149 words)

If he never felt that way... what difference does it make when I tell him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5273 days ago

15 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Should i feel bad for this? I recently told my mate how i felt about him, id felt that way for a while and i always kinda knew he knew anyway because people had said stuff to him. I always thought he liked me to from his previous actions but turns out he didnt and he said he ... (218 words)

True love but what to do???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5272 days ago

15 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - good evening, i've been in love for a long time, there's this girl who was really close to our family, then we became good friends since for a long time, then i moved to an other country, and we kinda don't have a lot of contact, but since 6 years i have not seen her but my ... (145 words)

Is he lying when he says he no longer loves me...?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5273 days ago

15 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my ex boyfriend dated for almost two years. We broke up officially four months ago, but really just lost contact about two months ago. He moved out of his house and into a house with a friend who I'm not too fond of because I don't think he's good for him. Since the ... (797 words)

My mormon crush...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5273 days ago

15 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - My crush is a mormon and he is very shy... (both of us are 13).. I like him because he is a straight A student and he is really nice and athletic. I guess my question is does he like me or does he want to wait.... I sometimes talk to him because he hangs out with most of my ... (150 words)

The spark is gone...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5273 days ago

15 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I broke up with my girlfriend of a year and few months about 2 weeks ago because there was just too much dumb fighting and stress but a few days later i decided to give it another try. Yesterday i ended it again because i just didnt feel any spark anymore. whenever i talk to ... (96 words)

How do I show him he is the love of my life?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5273 days ago

15 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I been with my boyfriend for over a year now but sometimes I feel like he doesn't know how much i really truely love him. I gave up modeling jobs, and a chance to compete in miss teen USA, but most of all i gave up my virginity all up for him. I was saving that for marriage. ... (144 words)

Should I feel guilty for kissing him???

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15 July 2010 (F) age 30-35 - I have a tall, brunette, muscular, strong, cute, sweet, nice and extremely attractive friend. he has a girlfriend but after 9 months they broke up, my friend and i began to hang out like friends but in the first date he kissed me and i kissed him back all was so cool but in ... (179 words)

What should I do if my partner is lying to me about guys she is seeing when I am not around?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5272 days ago

15 July 2010 (M)

age - What should I do if my partner is lying to me about guys she is seeing when I am not around? I am either at work or in the evenings she will stay out late some nights. We know each other very well and have spoken about this but with no solution. She becomes angry if I ask ... (181 words)

Once the attraction leaves...???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5273 days ago

15 July 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Can you still love your partner if you're not attracted to them sexually any more?... (15 words)

Why does my girlfriend suddenly want a break?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5273 days ago

15 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, my girlfriend and I are currently on a break. A bit of background, we've been together 1 year 2 months and we had a very very happy relationship together. She's told me before that I'm the one for her and I feel the same way too, and honestly, we've talked about ... (492 words)

She stopped texting...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5273 days ago

15 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - i need help cause my head is bugging right now. to start off. i met this girl at my friends birthday. we knew each other at that moment. we connected a lot. after that event i got her number from my friend. we started texting the next day ( texting is very usual here ). she ... (284 words)

Can I put sperm inside me and get pregnant that way after we have sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5273 days ago

15 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - if my husband cums on my stomch can i use my fingure to but the sperm inside me will i be able to get preagan if i do it that way?... (31 words)

Awkward dating situation, I don't know what to do

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5271 days ago

15 July 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I have a complicated story. I met this girl about couple of months ago and I found out she was so cute. I took her to a nice French restaurant, we went to a nice jazz club and to a live music show. All things were going so well. She once travel oversea and the first thing ... (398 words)

I slept with his brother years ago and now my b/f can't get past it!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5272 days ago

15 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for over a year. We have our rough times but love each other very much. We live in a small town, where we both grew up, and know each other's families. Years before I met/began dating him, I met his older brother through friends. We ... (337 words)

Although I fancy him... his best friend fancies me!!!?? What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5273 days ago

15 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - here goes can anyone help? iv recently realized im falling in love with one of my friends. he is 6 years older than me and i know its quite a bit ,but we have so much in common and we both love being in each others company but im not sure if he feels the same way as me, he f... (112 words)

How will I cope???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5273 days ago

15 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I was in a relationship for 8 years with the father of my 2 kids. he said we must break up, cause he had a new girlfriend. We broke up 2 years back and it was hard for me. its been two years since we broke up, but i dont find a great man 4 me. i am over him, but everything ... (114 words)

Patience is a virtue???

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5271 days ago

15 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I posted my situation on here a couple of weeks ago and received some great replies - thank you for these. But the situation continues so I am posting again with an update in the hope that you all may be able to help me further! A girl started at my work a few months ago a... (515 words)

I feel my life is passing me by... I'm at the end of my tether in this relationship, advice needed!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5273 days ago

15 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm currently at the end of my tether with my relationship with my girlfriend. I'm 25, she's 26. She has two kids, a 9 year old girl and an 18 month year old son, both to different Dads. We've been together for two years now, but in the last few months I've become incredibl... (629 words)

Media teacher crush... Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5273 days ago

15 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok, so I have a crush on my media teacher. He's absolutely gorgeous! I'm 15 and he's 24. So basically he knows I like him, it's a long story why but some people I was friends with found out and told him. It's been really difficult to cope with it now that he knows, I always ... (148 words)

Help! Why don't I want to have sex with my boyfriend any more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5271 days ago

15 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been together almost five years, and we're eighteen. We're both extremely happy and in love, and we know we will be together for a very long time. But fairly recently, I've stopped wanting to have sex with him and I can't imagine why. I love him ... (143 words)

My daughter's lie about her dad raping her broke up our marriage...

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5269 days ago

15 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Please help me on this.... How can you get your family back on track when a lie so big destroyed it. It started on 7/7/09. I've been with this man since I was 18 at that time I had 2 kids and later found out I was pregnant but not from him with my 3 but we raised them as ours. ... (594 words)

12 years and 4 kids.. now how did I go from the wife to the mistress?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5272 days ago

15 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - 12 years and 4 kids.. now how did I go from the wife to the mistress. We broke up 6 months ago due to him cheating with this 20 year female and now as we supposed to be trying to work things out he has moved her in with him. Now we took a step back to see if possible to save ... (125 words)

Is there any way to get my ex to talk to me again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5273 days ago

15 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - so currently i feel like crawling into a hole and never coming out... i feel like i've stuffed everything up and there's no way in hell it's ever going to be fixed. i got dumped, by text and with no explanation by the first guy i've ever actually been able to see myself with.... (521 words)

Should I act on these feelings I had for a man? And how would I approach him to find out if he is gay or bi?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

15 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi can anyone help? I was in the showers at the gym the other day and a quite a athletic guy bit older than me came in and stood right next to me even though there were lots of other spare showers. At first I felt like my space was invaded but then I realised I kinda enjo... (269 words)

What is it she wants? And how do I last the next few weeks before our arranged "date"?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5273 days ago

15 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi there, Basically ill try and keep this brief. Me and my now ex girlfriend were having problems for the last 4 weeks or so and just last week it came to a head, we were in a bar catching up with an old friend when everything blew up. We basically spent an hour out on the smok... (1067 words)

Should I tell him how I feel on him or treat him as a friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

15 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm a male and prefer guys. I got a new manager three months ago. He's a great and polite guy with lovely face. I've got feeling at him but he doesn't know. Although I believe that he only likes girls but I can't stop. One night, I just missed him so much and my tears fell ... (76 words)

Do I love him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5273 days ago

15 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i have boyfriend whose 14. im 13 and ive known him for maybe 3 and a half years. ive always liked him and we havnt had sex or anything. i plan to but not now. i have really strong feelings for him. hes all i think about and i want to say i love him but idk. is it just puppy ... (133 words)

Is sex supposed to hurt every time?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5252 days ago

15 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - im 13 and im not a virgin. ive had sex a couple times. i had anal sex with this guy but it only lasted like 3 min. and it didnt feel good at all. i had sex with this other guy where i was on top but i couldnt get his penis to go in though. is my vagina hole too small to have ... (148 words)

She still loves the father of her child! I love them both but I don't want to be second best....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5273 days ago

15 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi i have been with my gf for a year now and she is my world, she has a little girl of 7 months who i treat as my own. last night when putting the baby to bed i found a bit of paper on the floor and I read it, it was the start of a diary saying how she still loved the b... (116 words)

Why do nice guys end up last?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5273 days ago

15 July 2010 (M) age 36-40 - Hello ladies, I have a really deep question which I'm having trouble getting the answers. I'm currently 26, and I've had over 30 Relationships failed, I never gave up but I keep asking myself why. My friend (who is a gal) says that I'm "Too Nice", lots of people say that. ... (150 words)

Guys, if you tell your friends a girl is gorgeous (even though she is heavier), does it mean you like her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5273 days ago

15 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - there is this one guy, and i've been into him since i moved into town 4 months ago... but he's stereotypically good looking (athletic, blonde hair, blue eyes,...) and i'm generally not the type guys like that go for (pretty but not exactly a size 2)... so i've left my feelings... (647 words)

I use the morning after pill instead of contraception after sex, is this going to affect me in the future?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5273 days ago

15 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear aunts..im in a LRR, but i see my boyfriend 2 or 3 times a month.we dont use a condom.i use morning after pils.my question is: are they not gonna affect me when the time of having babies has arived,like by 'washing away the sperm' ? Do you think i have to use regular ... (87 words)

After 10 years of being lonely I thought I had found the perfect man in my new husband, but now we are having so many problems I don't know what to do anymore...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5273 days ago

15 July 2010 (F)

age - I married a male after my First hubby died. After 10 years of lonely times I found this one having all my desires, least i thought so. First he comes in, changes my home, re-decorated all to his liking. i paid for the re-decorations at my mortgages.2nd into the marriage. He ... (214 words)

I want to make my sex life more exciting, but I don't know how to make it happen!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5273 days ago

15 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Last night we were playing I Have Never at a friend's barbeque. Myself and my boyfriend joined in the game. It was a bit upsetting because, even though I already knew most of my boyfriend's sexual history and experiences, it's never something a girl likes to hear. And I soon ... (509 words)

Should I end it? Or make it last?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5273 days ago

15 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - 3 Year's ago, I met an amazing girl, and after what...a month, we were basicly in love, and through the first year we were on and off, it had to be secret because she didnt want people to know she was gay. Eventully, she finally came out with it, so at this time i thought, why ... (231 words)

I blocked him because it hurt too much to see him moving on with his life, but why has he now blocked me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

15 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - On facebook, i block stuff off so I couldn't see updates about my ex. For the time being, it hurts too much to see him moving on with his life. I recently created an event of me going and clubbing and partying with friends, and i guess he saw it, and i found out he has blocked ... (132 words)

Is squirting is normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5273 days ago

15 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - so i lack of sex with hubby, and i use a dildo. Today i have used my dildo and for the very first time i have had a orgasm squirt, is that normal, is guys attracted to females squirting, where does it come from and what is it. How can you squirt?... (52 words)

How can I deal with this rejection from a girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5157 days ago

15 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - After meticulous assessment of a girl following rejection after asking them out, what can i do to get back on my feet? I feel i've grown a little cold over years, and high school is a very discouraging environment. How do i recognize love in myself or others when its become so ... (60 words)

Why has my period late this month?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5272 days ago

15 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I need some advice as I'm probably stressing over something I have no control over. My period is 4 days late. I'm not pregnant as I'm a virgin. I got all my usual symptoms- hunger, bloating, spotty skin, lower abdomen pain but no bleeding. Now last month , the we... (177 words)

Is he really looking for a job?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5273 days ago

15 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I met this guy about 2 months ago from the day we met we hit it off . The only thing stoping me to let my guard down and move it to the next level is he doesn't have a JOB ! I have ask him why he don't have a job he told me he has been looking and filling out applications but ... (252 words)

His lifestyle is making sex almost non-existant!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5271 days ago

15 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everybody, I am currently traveling Australia. While I was doing 3 months farm work to get my visa extention I met a guy and we fell for each other. We planned to travel together around Australia and set in place a plan. At first the sex was really good, and although we were ... (173 words)

My older lover is very sick, should I marry him?

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15 July 2010 (?) age 30-35 - I'm a successful, almost 22-year-old woman. The love of my life is 61. Please, no gasping. I met him when I was a child, in passing, when he was only 46, and I a mere seven or so. He quietly watched me grow and change through my childhood. He was always simply there. Not a ... (1599 words)

Small penis makes me feel ashamed...

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15 July 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - hi am in a bit trouble sorry in advance, my penis is about 3 cm in short but in long its about 5 cm,my problem is making love with my wife is ok,but when cumming i cum so less.. And every time my wife disappointed with this...n i feel ashamed of all this, please help,n also i ... (85 words)

Trying to get over him, am I doing it right?

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15 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex was a huge jerk to me, lied, was inconsiderate and never really was into me inn the end. I got so mad about things. And I keep looking up ways to get revenge and what i read the most was to just keep on living my life and seem just ok. I'm planning a clubbing night with ... (121 words)

I just feel like I'm hanging around for him...

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15 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together a year and 3 months. Recently we broke up for two weeks. He came to me begging for forgiveness and said he would change for me and do anything. It has been a while and I haven't seen any change from what he used to be. Before the breaku... (179 words)

Is this really a healthy relationship?

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15 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So, ive written a little before. My boyfriend and i have been together for 1 yr and 4 months. I just am not sexually attracted to him like i used to be. i love him, but i just feel like i can do better. is it normal to feel like ure settling? i dont trust him much, but i love ... (102 words)

I'm a lesbian at 13 and don't know how to come out to my mum

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15 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, I am a lesbian. I am 13, (NOT A PHASE I HAVE LIKED GIRLS SINCE I WAS 7) I am very open about it. err, but, I just don't know how to come out to my mom. I have told her I was bi. But, she didn't believe me, and I have tried telling her I was gay last year, but she... (151 words)

Coped without love so far, but what about the future?

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15 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 16 years old and feel like im missing out on a unique, somewhat important experience. I've tried to avoid ranting about love, but i feel i've exhausted most other things i find interesting over years, and i've finally reached my breaking point.The last time i was enganged ... (161 words)

Stuck in an abusive relationship for the sake of my kids

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15 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid i am in big problem with my marraige, very unhappy and uncomfortable. I have been married for 11 years and have 2 little boys aged 28 months and 14 months old. we have always had our differences and rarely we could agree to a disagree but i think it was only love tha... (414 words)

Should I be worried, or is it just curiosity?

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15 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my eleven year old daughter was looking up quite a bit of pornography and lesbian porn on my laptop. should i be worried or is it just curiosity at eleven? when i was eleven... i was far from thinking about that. kids mature too fast. How should i handle this.. how shoul... (76 words)

What do girls prefer?

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15 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - what does a girl prefer? to be honest, i'm going into college with absolutely no experience with girls. the most i've done is kiss/made out with a girl. i want to go farther, but i'm scared of what a girl may think of my "down under". do girls prefer a guy to shave, trim, or... (65 words)

Tormented by girlfriend's sexual past

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15 July 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - hi guys. i know this has been throughly discussed here before.. i already researched about it and read almost all of the responses to the queries. and honestly it helped a lot. i have a girlfriend now who i love very much. i really adore her and treasure her. i know bits abo... (316 words)

Husband addicted to porn. Wife on the verge of leaving.

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15 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband and I have only been married a month, but porn has been an issue since the start of our relationship. Every time I leave, after I go to bed, or get in the shower, he immediately jumps on porn sites. It blows my mind. I addressed him about it and the only thing it ... (275 words)

After finally convincing my boyfriend to marry me, I'M now the one having second thoughts!

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15 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a woman who likes to live life according to plans. I had my next year all planned out and my heart set on it working out as so. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 6 years. We just graduated from college and I have one year before I go off to another state for ... (246 words)

How do I let my suitors down gently?

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15 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have two guys in love with me, three who really like me, and five I "talk" to. I'm sleeping with ONE. No matter what I refuse to sleep around. But, here's the thing, I'm hurting the two who claim to love me. They're very nice, I consider them friends but both I dated for New ... (166 words)

Does he sound trustworthy?

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15 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi guys. Please help me!! My boyfriend is in out of town right now. He is Puerto Rican. He went back to his town to visit and he gonna comeback August 10. Last night he told me he gonna go to bar with his uncle and his cousin. He don't come back home until like 1AM.He call... (304 words)

Is my former best friend sincere in her desire to get together with me?

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15 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, im hvaing very mixed feelings about an an old friend that just came back into my life. this isnt about a relationship just a friendship between two girls. So it all started years ago in my freshman year of highschool, me and this new girl hit it off quick, we were always t... (407 words)

I can't have the girl I want without feeling like a dog for leaving

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15 July 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Here is a tough one for you guys. I grew up with a girl who became my foster sister when I was 15 . I have always been in love with her.I told her I loved her when we 16 then again 19 and the last time when we were 24 when she told me she didnt love me and it wouldnt work bec... (266 words)

Any suggestions for overcoming shyness with women?

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15 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - what can i do to gain confidence with girls? as summer goes on i get closer and closer to going to college. one reason im not too thrilled about this is because i have no confidence when it comes to talking to girls. im very shy around everybody, even some of my friends, but ... (179 words)

Is her friend trying to keep her away from me?

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15 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - i met this girl a few weeks ago and she likes me. we have dated and we also talk on the phone, these last couple of weeks she has brought her friend with her when we hang out. It looks like her friend is making decisions for her when me and her are just about to have some ... (146 words)

I like him but I think he smokes pot

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15 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I really like this guy but I think he smokes pot and what if I go back out with him and kiss him some day what should I do?... (29 words)

If I'm lucky my girlfriend and I have sex once a month

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15 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My sex life has been on the decline for the past six months. Me and my girlfriend have been dating for approximately three years, and haven't had anything like this come up. Sure, we fight every so often but we are good at communicating with each other and we work well ... (193 words)

Worried about germs - is this OCD?

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15 July 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - How can I deal with my wife's kissing. Yes I have been bothered by the fact that she has dated at least 5 guys. Thankfully she did not do the dirty deed with them. But I am somewhat of a germ-freak, and whenever I kiss her all I can think about is all those germs from her ex's ... (156 words)

We have never celebrated our wedding anniversary - any ideas on how to start?

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15 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - This day in time people do not take marriage seriously or treasure the moment of being with someone for the rest of our lives. Well I am that old time thinker that love is romatic but the man I have been with for the last 7 years does not think that way. For 7 years we haven... (136 words)

Am I doing the right thing by saying 'enough is enough'?

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15 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i been with my boyfriend for 4years now.. we decided to move in 2gether wen i was 6mnths pregnant and the problem started wen i gave birth. he'd take all the money and gamble it and leave us with nothing for the whole week .. we both dont work so money is very important t... (139 words)

How do I rekindle my boyfriend's love?

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15 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, i need some advice from guys preferably but girls you can help too.. Well im trying to get my current boyfriend to fall for me again. We have a 2wk old baby . We were seperated for almost 2mths towards the end of my pregnancy he tells me he doesnt love me anymore ... (164 words)

After 8 years I still can't get her out of my mind

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15 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I left Hawaii in 6th grade and I seem to leave "the other half of me" back. For 8 yrs now, I've been thinking of the same girl that I liked when I was in 6th grade. Im in college now, (sophmore) and I still think of her. We talk now and then. She means the worl... (317 words)

Should I be her hero?

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15 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - If you could, take a few mins and help me be creative :) normally, i have no problems with girls what so ever. But... this case is different. Ive tried to date her in the past. Once sophomore year. Nearly worked, except best friend was an arsehole to her, so she decid... (362 words)

Is it too late to call off the wedding?

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15 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i'm 28 years old. i think i got myself into a situation. the person i married isn't very loving, very selfish and complains when he actually has to do something for someone that is sick, me. i am so mad at myself for putting myself into this situation. like tonight, for ... (214 words)

Why does he take a long time to reply to my emails?

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15 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I was dating a guy 8 years ago.One day a common friend told me that he graduated from graduate school.So, I wrote him an email to his job account saying congratulations for your graduation, what do you plan to do now. It took him a week to reply and he said what a nice surprise ... (117 words)

What should I say to the girl I like?

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15 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, so i like this girl, but I don`t know how to tell her. I know I should be my self but what should I do, should I tell her when non of her friends are around. Like how should I say it and what should I say. I have a feeling she may like me back but one of her friends said ... (80 words)

I'm 16 and pregnant from a 19 year old. Can he be arrested?

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15 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 16 and possibly pregnant, my boyfriend is 19 can he get arrested for having sex with me? We live in new york state and he has a previous record.... (31 words)

In love with a girl who doesn't love me back.

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15 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - [OP original title] I dated this girl for 3 years, we broke up and dated other people and explored life a little on our own, after nearly 4 years of being apart i still feel the exact same way about her, we have been talking and hooking up alot lately and when we are toge... (100 words)

Unsure about a hookup, how do I handle this?

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15 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello ok this is a long story so thanks for patience! i'm on an apprenticeship at the moment but in a few months i'm returning to university. I have visited through the year and found out this guy who is in my year and is a friend, really fancied me and he had been emailin... (376 words)

It turns me on when he asks me and I don't know why, any clues??

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15 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, well i was wondering do you guys have any clue why it turns me on when my bf tells me to do some thing? I have no clue why it does lol thanks.... (34 words)

After a miscarriage my girlfriend is devastated and drifting away. How do I fix things?

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15 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend have been together for a year now and we just seem to be drifting apart. We found out in April that we were going to be parents and that she was nearly two months gone. We were so happy that we were going to be parents and we couldn't wait to meet him or ... (233 words)

Pregnant again. Can't tell my mom, what do I do?

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15 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok so about 5 months ago i thought i was pregnant (im 15) and i told my mum and she had a massive fight with me. she was so ashamed of me (she told me) and i felt like shit for so long. I promised her i wouldnt have sex till i was old enough and i had sex 3 days ago and ive ... (93 words)

I cheated on him, now I feel I can't trust him, why??

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15 July 2010 (F)

age - why do i feel so insecure and don't trust my husband after i cheated on him and he waited for me and took me back... (25 words)

He has a girlfriend and didn't want to know how I felt, why not?

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15 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Should i feel bad for this? mI recently told my mate how i felt about him, id felt that way for a while and i always kinda knew he knew anyway because people had said stuff to him. I always thought he liked me to from his previous actions but turns out he didnt and he said he ... (191 words)

What is up with guys who chase, capture and vanish??

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15 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm just wondering why guys always seem to be interested in a girl when she is unsure of the whole thing but the second she gives in and begins to fall for him and lets him know that she's falling for him, they run away like little girls? This seems to be happening to me more ... (64 words)

What can I do, she was the love of my life??

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15 July 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I was in a relationship for 8 years with a woman I totally adored but in the last year we grew rather distant from one-another as our jobs and various other circumstances kept us apart for long periods. We were engaged though and she has always been the love of my life, no ... (556 words)

Is she interested in me in spite of the peeing??

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15 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - So I recently went to a small party with some friends and met a girl that I liked. As the party died down and everyone went to bed I found myself in the same bed as this girl, not a big deal because nothing was happening and we just went to sleep. A while later I woke up and ... (294 words)

When she goes away, she gets strange and distant, anybody have a clue??

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15 July 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi all. I've been dating this girl for about a year now. I am 26 she's 18. She lives and goes to school in my town, but her hometown is about 40km away. Problem is this, as long as we are in the same city our relationship is doing just fine but every time she goes to her ... (288 words)

She has issues that make the relationship difficult, keep trying or move on??

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15 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - So my girlfriend has a lot of issues that have always messed with me to a certain degree. I basically know nothing about her personal life ( we have been with each other only for about 4 months), besides the two of us. I know a friend's name, her job, and the town she lives in ... (295 words)