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writes:I have had problems with my ex boyfriend for 2 years now. He said that wants to try and work things out with me, but as soon i do something wrong he says 'i was going to ask if you wanted to get back together but im reconsidering it now'. i told him that i feel it will work if we get back together and build on our relationship - he disagrees and says he doesn't want to jump straight back into it... although its been a while and im getting fed up of not knowing where i stand. Things are going wrong as i struggle to believe he has commitment to a relationship with me and i get really frustrated. he has always got close with other girls if we're going through a rough patch. im starting to feel he only likes my attention when we're getting on ok. he can sleep with me and see me but doesn't seem to want anymore.He's recently got a job 2 1/2 hours away and has moved there. i thought the best idea was to tell him he needs to start off fresh as i didnt feel that he felt the same anymore, but we should still be friends. he didnt like that idea and said we shouldnt talk anymore, so i don't know what i should do?i next said to him if he hasnt made up his mind about wanting to be with me i doubt he ever will.i don't want to lose him but i cant go on like this anymore.
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (12 January 2010):
 Cut him out. He's isn't capable of being there for you in this point in his life. Give him some time to himself and for you to think things over then if you want to stay in contact then start talking to him a little bit at a time, don't rush into anything.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (11 January 2010):
I will give you the best it of advice about this. Cut contact, move on. He's not interested enough, and you're wasting your time.
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